What Matters Most

Daniel Benarroch Guenun

"What Matters Most" is a spiritually driven podcast that explores the most essential questions and challenges of our lives—personal, societal, and global—through a dual lens of physical and spiritual consciousness. Created and hosted by Daniel Benarroch, the show invites listeners on a deep, transformative journey of reflection, inner awakening, and collective responsibility.

Episodes

  1. May 11

    S2E6 | Meron Gribetz — Consciousness, Brain-Computer Interfaces & the Future of Human Cognition

    In this episode of What Matters Most, Daniel sits down with Meron Gribetz, CEO of Inner Cosmos, a pioneering brain-computer interface company developing minimally invasive neurotechnology for treatment-resistant depression. Together, they explore one of the most important questions of our time: can technology help us recover, expand, and elevate consciousness? Meron shares his personal journey from growing up with ADHD in Jerusalem, to studying neuroscience and computer science, to building augmented reality company Meta, and now working at the frontier of psychiatric brain-computer interfaces. The conversation moves between neuroscience, Kabbalah, psychedelics, AI, depression, cognition, the soul, the ego, and the possibility that our future technologies may become tools for deeper presence rather than greater distraction. This is a conversation about the fragile boundary between consciousness and technology — and whether that boundary is something to fear, transcend, or consciously design. This episode is for anyone thinking seriously about the future of consciousness, AI, brain-computer interfaces, spirituality, depression, cognition, and the human soul in the technological age. Relevant links for Meron & Inner Cosmos: Meron Gribetz TED profile / AR talk: https://www.ted.com/speakers/meron_gribetzInner Cosmos Linktree, including Meron LinkedIn and company LinkedIn: https://linktr.ee/innercosmos

    1h 8m
  2. Jan 19

    S2E4 — Rabbi Yehezkel Yosef Abulafia - On Meditation, Prophetic Kabbalah, and Returning to the Soul

    In this episode of What Matters Most, Daniel Benarroch is joined by Rabbi Yehezkel Yosef Abulafia, a Tzfat-based rabbi and meditation teacher carrying the lineage of Rabbi Abraham Abulafia, founder of Prophetic (Meditative) Kabbalah. Together, they explore what it truly means to “do your best” in spiritual life — reframing growth not as perfection, but as continual teshuva: returning to who you truly are. Rabbi Abulafia offers a compassionate vision of Judaism rooted in responsibility without shame, faith without fear, and spirituality grounded in lived, embodied experience. The conversation moves through Jewish meditation, hitbodedut (speaking directly to God), breathwork, intention (kavanah), and the balance between soul and body, masculine and feminine, effort and surrender. Rabbi Abulafia shares the forgotten meditative roots of Judaism, the legacy of prophetic consciousness, and why exile led to the loss of these practices — and how they are returning today. The episode weaves together Kabbalah, trauma-informed spirituality, technology, AI, and redemption, culminating in a short guided meditation that invites listeners into direct inner experience rather than theory alone. Highlights: What “doing your best” really means through teshuva and self-responsibilityGod as an intimate, ever-present relationship — not a distant abstractionHitbodedut as a core Jewish meditative practice- Prophetic Kabbalah and the lineage of Rabbi Abraham AbulafiaWhy Judaism lost its meditative traditions — and how they are returningMasculine and feminine balance, consciousness, and spiritual maturityTechnology, AI, and the next spiritual renaissanceA short guided meditation to ground the conversation experientiallyRabbi Yehezkel Yosef Abulafia is a rabbi, meditation teacher, and spiritual guide based in Tzfat (Safed), Israel. He teaches a grounded, accessible form of Jewish meditation rooted in Prophetic Kabbalah, helping people reconnect to God through breathwork, awareness, prayer, and inner experience. His work focuses on elevating consciousness while remaining firmly anchored in Torah and mitzvot, making deep spiritual practices approachable for modern seekers. Rabbi Abulafia leads meditation groups, retreats, and online teachings, and shares guided meditations and educational content through his community and digital platforms. 👉 Links to his website, community, and channels below- https://linktr.ee/abulafiameditation

    1h 1m
  3. 12/26/2025

    S2E3 - Shmuel Ashkenazi - Why Pleasure Isn’t Enough: The Search for True Meaning

    In this episode, Daniel speaks with Shmuel Ashkenazi, a Kabbalah teacher and therapist who has spent decades exploring how people grow, change, and find meaning. Shmuel explains that while we all start life chasing pleasure and avoiding discomfort, real fulfillment begins when we start asking deeper questions about purpose. He breaks down a practical inner map of the human being — how we define ourselves through our experiences, actions, emotions, and thoughts — and why none of these truly capture who we are. Beneath them all lies our essence, a unique spark each person carries. When we learn to act from that deeper place, life becomes more meaningful and relationships become more genuine. Together, Daniel and Shmuel explore how essence is revealed most clearly in our connections with others: in parenting, marriage, community, and the ways we take responsibility. This conversation makes ancient spiritual wisdom simple and usable, offering tools for living with more alignment, freedom, and joy. Key Highlights Pleasure & suffering as the first gateway to authentic self-knowledge. Meaning emerges when pleasure is no longer enough — when the soul seeks purpose. Kabbalah gives the story of essence: a hidden level of consciousness deeper than intellect, emotion, function, or experience. Identity mistake: “I am my feeling / function / intellect” — all of which constantly change. Essence reveals itself through three lines: pleasure, will, and meaning. The middle line (meaning) is where freedom, responsibility, and mission appear. Relationship is the arena of essence, especially parenting and marriage. Suffering signals misalignment; pleasure signals truth — when understood correctly. Real spiritual growth is practical: if it doesn’t translate into lived experience, it’s not real. Each person has a unique revelation of essence needed by the world — no two are alike.

    1h 33m
  4. 12/11/2025

    S2E2 - Rabbi Jack Cohen - The Meaning of Your Life, on Individuality, Identity & Jewish Destiny

    In this rich, soul-stirring conversation, Daniel sits down with Rabbi Jack Cohen—educator, thinker, and author of Nurture Their Nature—to explore one of the deepest questions a human being can ask: What is the meaning of your life?From personal stories and family roots to Jewish identity, individuality, purpose, and the delicate tension between humility and human responsibility, Rabbi Jack opens a sweeping exploration of meaning.Together, they travel through Torah, Kabbalah, and ancient narratives—especially the misunderstood story of Lot—to reveal how urgency, patience, individuality, and collective destiny shape our modern spiritual lives.This episode is a blend of philosophy, Torah wisdom, contemporary life, and raw human honesty, culminating in a powerful message about the role each one of us plays in moving the world forward. Key Highlights The meaning of life begins with discovering the meaning of your individual life. Identity is “spiritual soil” — your culture, family, and story shape your growth. Competition drives achievement, but it cannot define self-worth or purpose. The Torah’s balance: individuality within community, not one at the expense of the other. Lot as an unexpected model of “messianic urgency” — the drive to act now. Redemption emerges from the tension between humility (Abraham) and urgency (Lot). Judaism’s 3-line model: giving, boundaries, and harmonious balance. The danger of extremes: total individualism or total collectivism both distort truth. Our task: do our part fully, with the humility that we don't orchestrate the whole picture. Parenting insight: each child has a unique nature — nurture their nature. You can find Rabbi Jack's book Nurture Their Nature in Amazon.

    57 min
  5. 12/11/2025

    S2E1 - Free Will, Fate, and the Path to Destiny

    In this solo episode, Daniel Benarroch returns to What Matters Most for the start of Season 2 with one of the most challenging and essential topics in spiritual life: free will. Drawing from classical Jewish sources, Kabbalah, the writings of Rambam and Rabbi Soloveitchik, and even a memorable scene from The Matrix, Daniel explores the deep paradox between free will and determinism. Are our choices truly our own? If God knows everything, what does choosing even mean? And how can these seemingly opposite forces actually work together in our spiritual growth? Daniel offers a compelling framework to understand the difference between fate—what happens to us—and destiny—what we create from those experiences. He explains why responsibility lies at the heart of free will, how choice aligns us with our higher soul, and how every decision, no matter how small, contributes to the collective tikkun of the world. This episode invites listeners into a reflective journey on agency, purpose, and the profound Jewish idea that each of us is a co-creator of reality, moving the world closer to Geula—redemption—one conscious choice at a time. Perfect for anyone interested in spirituality, philosophy, Kabbalah, or navigating life with more intentionality. Takeaways Free will exists alongside determinism, creating a duality.Our choices often involve struggles between desires and higher values.The purpose of creation is to heal and elevate our souls.Time allows us to process choices and experiences gradually.Fate is what happens to us; destiny is how we respond.Responsibility is key in understanding our choices and their impacts.Every decision, no matter how small, can have significant consequences.We are co-creators in our lives, shaping our destinies through choices.The subjective nature of truth in today's world complicates our understanding of free will.Transforming fate into purpose is essential for spiritual growth.

    25 min
  6. 06/13/2025

    Episode #4 Part A with Yedidah Cohen - A Journey of Spiritual Discovery Through Kabbalah

    In this enlightening conversation, Yedidah Cohen shares her profound journey into Kabbalah, exploring the teachings of Rabbi Ashlag and the essence of spirituality. She discusses her personal relationship with the Creator, the transformative power of Kabbalah, and the importance of understanding one's essence. The dialogue emphasizes the love inherent in Kabbalistic teachings and the impact of these teachings on daily life and personal growth. Checkout her work, courses and books at nehorapress.com Here are some key takeaways: Yedidah Cohen has spent over 30 years studying Kabbalah.Her journey began with a quest for a true connection to the Creator.Rabbi Ashlag's teachings made Kabbalah accessible to ordinary people.Kabbalah emphasizes the relationship between the soul and the Creator.Understanding one's essence is a key theme in Kabbalah.The teachings of Kabbalah are filled with love and clarity.Personal transformation is a nonlinear journey, often with ups and downs.Kabbalah helps individuals understand their dual nature of good and bad.The essence of the Torah and the essence of our soul are the same.Kabbalah provides insights that are not available through other means. Finally, as mentioned in the podcast, I am gifting 5 books of Tapestry for the Soul to the first five people who will listen to the whole podcast and will reach out to me on Instagram @BenarrochDaniel

    26 min

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"What Matters Most" is a spiritually driven podcast that explores the most essential questions and challenges of our lives—personal, societal, and global—through a dual lens of physical and spiritual consciousness. Created and hosted by Daniel Benarroch, the show invites listeners on a deep, transformative journey of reflection, inner awakening, and collective responsibility.