Counterfeit Emotions Podcast with Curtis Morley

Curtis Morley
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Break Free from Counterfeit Emotions and Live in Authenticity

  1. Oct 14

    Episode 49 | When Life Changes Overnight: Faith, Caregiving, and Finding Yourself Again | Linsday Kelly

    In this deeply personal and emotional conversation, Lindsay Kelly shares her experience of navigating life after her husband, Reed, was diagnosed with progressive multiple sclerosis (MS) in 2019. At the time, they had six children under the age of 15. As her husband's condition progressed, Lindsay found herself taking on the roles of full-time caregiver, mother, and primary provider while trying to understand the dramatic changes in his behavior and personality. For years, Lindsay struggled with her husband's unpredictable mood swings, emotional outbursts, and memory loss. She often felt misunderstood by others who couldn't see what was happening behind closed doors. When medical professionals eventually connected his behavioral changes to MS, she experienced both relief at finally being believed and overwhelming grief about what the diagnosis meant for her family's future. Faith, family, and the kindness of others became essential sources of strength. Lindsay describes moments when prayer brought her comfort, neighbors unexpectedly helped with everyday tasks, and family members reminded her that she didn't have to face everything alone. Eventually, her husband moved into assisted living, providing Lindsay and her children with much-needed relief from the demands of daily caregiving. The conversation also explores the difficult process of rediscovering her identity. Lindsay reflects on how marriage, caregiving, and years of emotional strain changed her sense of self. Through therapy, she began to recognize that even when hurtful behavior isn't intentional, its impact can still be real. She learned that acknowledging her own suffering doesn't mean she has stopped loving her husband. One of the episode's most memorable lessons comes from a story about an injured hunting dog. The dog's owner initially became frustrated when it stopped following commands, only to discover that it was bleeding and in pain. Lindsay connects this story to human behavior: sometimes what looks like weakness, anger, or failure is actually a sign of unseen suffering. Ultimately, the episode is about learning to see ourselves and others with greater compassion. Lindsay encourages listeners to look beyond appearances, support caregivers without judgment, maintain their individual identities, and act on the instinct to help. Her story illustrates that faith doesn't eliminate hardship, but small acts of kindness and meaningful relationships can make difficult seasons more bearable. CONNECT WITH LINDSAY KELLY Linked In - https://www.linkedin.com/in/lindsaywkelly/  Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/lewkelly06/ TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@lindsaywadmankelly  YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@Lindsaywkelly  Website - https://www.lindsaywkelly.com/  LISTEN/WATCH/SUBSCRIBE TO THE “COUNTERFEIT EMOTIONS” PODCAST: *Apple Podcasts - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/counterfeit-emotions-podcast-with-curtis-morley/id1815869994 *Spotify - https://open.spotify.com/show/0aGzO1BVLAXyGKfb4absPn?si=8c746decf9514fe3  *YouTube Podcasts - https://www.youtube.com/@AuthenticCurtis/podcasts  *Amazon Music Podcasts - https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/05e74308-205e-4416-bc73-8fecd006f528/counterfeit-emotions-podcast-with-curtis-morley  *iHeartRadio Podcasts - https://www.iheart.com/podcast/269-counterfeit-emotions-podca-276824817  CONNECT WITH THE “COUNTERFEIT EMOTIONS” PODCAST *Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/authenticcurtis  *LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/curtismorley/  *YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@AuthenticCurtis  *TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@authenticcurtis  *Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/AuthenticCurtis  *X - https://twitter.com/AuthenticCurtis  *Website - https://www.counterfeitemotions.com/  *Email for general messages - info@counterfeitemotions.com  *Collab with us - info@counterfeitemotions.com  *Book me to speak = speaking@curtismorley.com  *Sponsor Us -  info@counterfeitemotions.com

    Episode 49 | When Life Changes Overnight: Faith, Caregiving, and Finding Yourself Again | Linsday Kelly

  2. Oct 1

    Episode 48 | You Were Never Meant to Fit In  | Ben Kjar

    This episode of the Counterfeit Emotions Podcast features Ben Kjar, whose life story centers on identity, adversity, faith, resilience, and learning to distinguish determination from stubbornness. Curtis Morley frames the conversation around the idea that Kjar’s accomplishments—wrestling success, business, and his film Stand Out—are less important than the person he chose to become through difficult experiences A major metaphor throughout the conversation is the Pool of Bethesda. Kjar describes how, as someone born with Crouzon Syndrome, he once viewed his condition as a curse and waited for something or someone else to change his circumstances. Eventually, he came to see the condition differently—as something that could become a gift—and realized he needed to stop "sitting by the water" and take responsibility for moving forward himself.  The discussion then moves into identity. Kjar explains how easily people can accept identities placed upon them by others. A painful childhood experience in a grocery store caused him to internalize the idea that he didn't belong, until his mother reframed his difference: he wasn't born to fit in; he was born to make a difference and stand out. Another central theme is the relationship between pain and purpose. Kjar suggests that scars and difficult experiences can become something we share with others rather than something we need to hide. Both speakers discuss the idea that faith doesn't necessarily mean being spared from pain; sometimes faith means going through pain while believing that God is present.  The conversation also explores vulnerability as strength, rather than weakness. Kjar describes how his earlier, military-influenced view of leadership emphasized toughness and emotional restraint, but he eventually came to see openness and vulnerability as a genuine leadership strength.  Later, Kjar connects his wrestling experience to his philosophy of life. He talks about "calling your shot"—declaring who you intend to become before the evidence exists. He recalls writing that he would become a three-time state champion before actually achieving it. The final portion of the episode shifts toward surrender, peace, and listening. Kjar describes realizing that he had become addicted to chaos and achievement because they made him feel productive and valuable. He now sees genuine inner peace as a greater accomplishment than money, possessions, or external success. He also describes learning to let God "drive" rather than constantly trying to take control.  Overall, the episode is about moving from victimhood to agency, shame to identity, pain to purpose, control to surrender, and chaos to peace. CONNECT WITH BEN KJAR Linked In - https://www.linkedin.com/in/ben-kjar-91909913/  Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/benkjar/  TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@benkjar?_t=8YSMdnA5Dac&_r=1  YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@benkjar2609  LISTEN/WATCH/SUBSCRIBE TO THE “COUNTERFEIT EMOTIONS” PODCAST: *Apple Podcasts - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/counterfeit-emotions-podcast-with-curtis-morley/id1815869994 *Spotify - https://open.spotify.com/show/0aGzO1BVLAXyGKfb4absPn?si=8c746decf9514fe3  *YouTube Podcasts - https://www.youtube.com/@AuthenticCurtis/podcasts  CONNECT WITH THE “COUNTERFEIT EMOTIONS” PODCAST *Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/authenticcurtis  *LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/curtismorley/  *YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@AuthenticCurtis  *TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@authenticcurtis  *Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/AuthenticCurtis  *X - https://twitter.com/AuthenticCurtis  *Website - https://www.counterfeitemotions.com/  *Email for general messages - info@counterfeitemotions.com  *Collab with us - info@counterfeitemotions.com  *Book me to speak = speaking@curtismorley.com  *Sponsor Us -  info@counterfeitemotions.com

    Episode 48 | You Were Never Meant to Fit In  | Ben Kjar

  3. Sep 14

    Episode 47 | Learn, Earn and Return: Dream Big to Give Big | Clint Pulver

    Curtis Morley sits down with longtime friend and professional speaker Clint Pulver to explore what it means to live with abundance, purpose, gratitude, faith, and ultimately peace. Clint shares the remarkable story of how his dream of becoming a helicopter pilot was seemingly destroyed at age 21 when he was diagnosed with keratoconus and told he would eventually go blind. The experience forced him to abandon his original plan and attend college—something he had never intended to do. At Utah Valley University, he discovered new possibilities and developed the skills and relationships that ultimately helped shape his career as a speaker. Years later, advances in medical treatment and scleral lenses restored his ability to see 20/20, allowing him to fly again. He subsequently began using his passion for aviation to serve others through his Dream Machines foundation, taking children with disabilities and their families flying. That journey becomes the foundation for one of the episode's central ideas: sometimes good things fall apart so better things can fit together. Clint describes the obstacles in his life as roadblocks that forced him to change direction and ultimately trust God's plan rather than his own. His philosophy is to keep moving forward, stay engaged, and allow God to redirect him when necessary. The conversation then turns to the difference between accumulation and abundance. Clint argues that it is perfectly acceptable to dream big, pursue success, enjoy the things that bring you joy, and strive for greatness. The key is understanding why you want those things. His mantra is: "It's not about being the best in the world. It's about being the best for the world." He describes his father's philosophy of "learn, earn, return"—using what you learn and achieve to ultimately give back to others. Clint also discusses the danger of endlessly chasing the next accomplishment. After years of intense work and sacrifice, he reached a point where he could look at what he had accomplished and say, "It is enough." For him, fulfillment comes from balancing three things: passion, purpose, and the ability to provide. Another major theme is the idea that greatness does not have to equal pride. Clint and Curtis discuss how people can mistakenly shrink themselves because they fear appearing boastful. Instead, they suggest allowing greatness to flow through you so it can benefit others. Clint connects this mindset to gratitude, recognizing the people who helped him along his own journey.   CONNECT WITH  Website - https://clintpulver.com/  Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/clintpulver/  LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/clintpulver/  LISTEN/WATCH/SUBSCRIBE TO THE “COUNTERFEIT EMOTIONS” PODCAST: *Apple Podcasts - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/counterfeit-emotions-podcast-with-curtis-morley/id1815869994 *Spotify - https://open.spotify.com/show/0aGzO1BVLAXyGKfb4absPn?si=8c746decf9514fe3  *YouTube Podcasts - https://www.youtube.com/@AuthenticCurtis/podcasts  *Amazon Music Podcasts - https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/05e74308-205e-4416-bc73-8fecd006f528/counterfeit-emotions-podcast-with-curtis-morley  *iHeartRadio Podcasts - https://www.iheart.com/podcast/269-counterfeit-emotions-podca-276824817  CONNECT WITH THE “COUNTERFEIT EMOTIONS” PODCAST *Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/authenticcurtis  *LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/curtismorley/  *YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@AuthenticCurtis  *TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@authenticcurtis  *Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/AuthenticCurtis  *X - https://twitter.com/AuthenticCurtis  *Website - https://www.counterfeitemotions.com/  *Email for general messages - info@counterfeitemotions.com

    Episode 47 | Learn, Earn and Return: Dream Big to Give Big | Clint Pulver

  4. Sep 6

    Episode 46 | Ownership vs. Stewardship: Who Really Owns Your Life? | Liz Hartke

    In this episode, Curtis Morley sits down with leadership coach and entrepreneur Liz Hartke, who has coached thousands of people and has worked alongside leadership giant John Maxwell. The conversation begins with Liz's entrepreneurial upbringing and her evolution from helping business owners scale their companies to helping leaders become the people they are called to be. One of the episode's central ideas is the distinction between ownership and stewardship. Curtis describes ownership as a counterfeit of stewardship: ownership can create a sense that everything is "mine" and must therefore be controlled, while stewardship recognizes that we are responsible for what has been entrusted to us without ultimately possessing it. Liz expands this idea to business, leadership, children, relationships, and life itself. Liz also shares the story of meeting John Maxwell, whom she had studied extensively. What begins as a reluctant trip to an event shortly after the birth of her fourth child turns into a personal meeting with Maxwell, followed by an invitation to work with his organization. Perhaps the biggest lesson she takes from the experience isn't networking or business strategy—it's curiosity and humility. Even at the highest level of leadership, Maxwell continued asking questions and learning from others. The conversation then turns toward calling and purpose. Liz emphasizes that calling isn't necessarily one permanent destination. What God calls someone to do can change with different seasons of life. Her "Clarity Matrix" distinguishes between things that are "easy but heavy" and things that are "hard but light." The easy-but-heavy path represents things we're competent at and can do successfully but that leave us restless or unfulfilled. The hard-but-light path is challenging and uncertain, but it brings a sense of energy, purpose, and alignment. The most emotionally powerful portion of the episode comes when Liz recounts losing her fifth baby during pregnancy and then nearly dying from massive blood loss. After surviving, she describes experiencing an overwhelming clarity: she and her husband decided they would no longer spend their lives on things that weren't aligned with what they believed God was calling them to do. That realization led Liz to make difficult business decisions, including walking away from profitable work and programs that no longer aligned with her values. She describes the process as a daily battle against returning to what was comfortable, convenient, and financially safe. The episode ultimately circles back to peace. Liz describes peace as a compass for determining whether she is in alignment, while Curtis describes it as the one emotion in his framework that cannot be counterfeited. Liz's most profound experience of peace came not when circumstances were easy, but when she surrendered control in the middle of the most difficult circumstances imaginable. CONNECT WITH LIZ HARTKE Website - https://luminaryleadershipco.com/  Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/elizhartke  LISTEN/WATCH/SUBSCRIBE TO THE “COUNTERFEIT EMOTIONS” PODCAST: *Apple Podcasts - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/counterfeit-emotions-podcast-with-curtis-morley/id1815869994 *Spotify - https://open.spotify.com/show/0aGzO1BVLAXyGKfb4absPn?si=8c746decf9514fe3  *YouTube Podcasts - https://www.youtube.com/@AuthenticCurtis/podcasts  CONNECT WITH THE “COUNTERFEIT EMOTIONS” PODCAST *Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/authenticcurtis  *LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/curtismorley/  *YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@AuthenticCurtis  *TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@authenticcurtis  *Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/AuthenticCurtis  *X - https://twitter.com/AuthenticCurtis  *Website - https://www.counterfeitemotions.com/  *Email for general messages - info@counterfeitemotions.com  *Collab with us - info@counterfeitemotions.com  *Book me to speak = speaking@curtismorley.com

    Episode 46 | Ownership vs. Stewardship: Who Really Owns Your Life? | Liz Hartke

  5. Aug 26

    Episode 45 | Becoming Is a Return: Finding Your Way Back to Who You Really Are | Mitch Whiting

    This episode of Counterfeit Emotions features Mitch Whiting and explores a central question: What if becoming your best self isn't about becoming someone new, but returning to who you already are? Mitch shares the story of his transition from a high-achieving corporate career—including his time at Walmart—to a radically different understanding of success, identity, abundance, and peace. A pivotal moment came when a nurse asked him to rate his stress from 1–10. Mitch answered 2, while his wife immediately said 9. That disconnect forced him to confront how disconnected he had become from his own emotional reality. From there, the conversation develops the distinction between gratitude and abundance. Mitch explains that gratitude can become limiting when it is interpreted as "I should be satisfied with what I have." Abundance, by contrast, allows someone to appreciate what they have while remaining open to receiving more. He describes abundance as a state of receiving rather than clinging. A major theme is identity. Mitch challenges the idea that we need to decide who we want to become and then construct that identity. Instead, he argues that identity is something we reveal by removing the suffering, labels, fear, and beliefs that obscure who we already are. He uses Michelangelo's David as a metaphor: the sculpture wasn't created by adding something—it was revealed by removing what wasn't David. The conversation then moves into shame and choice. Mitch argues that words like "should," "have to," "need to," and "must" can reinforce shame because they make us feel as though we have no agency. Replacing them with "I choose to" creates freedom and allows actions to come from love and desire rather than obligation. The episode ultimately reframes success. Rather than measuring success through money, titles, possessions, awards, or achievement, Curtis describes true success as surrender that leads to connection. Mitch expands that idea into becoming who you really are and helping others become who they really are. The final destination of the conversation is peace. Mitch describes peace as being rooted in truth and argues that suffering comes from believing things that aren't true. Moving from false beliefs to truth allows someone to return to a powerful state and ultimately discover who they really are. CONNECT WITH MITCH WHITING *Mitch is offering listeners a free consultation call* *website: http://www.mitchwhiting.com *LinkedIn: http://www.linkedin.com/in/mitchwhiting LISTEN/WATCH/SUBSCRIBE TO THE “COUNTERFEIT EMOTIONS” PODCAST: *Apple Podcasts - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/counterfeit-emotions-podcast-with-curtis-morley/id1815869994 *Spotify - https://open.spotify.com/show/0aGzO1BVLAXyGKfb4absPn?si=8c746decf9514fe3  *YouTube Podcasts - https://www.youtube.com/@AuthenticCurtis/podcasts  *Amazon Music Podcasts - https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/05e74308-205e-4416-bc73-8fecd006f528/counterfeit-emotions-podcast-with-curtis-morley  *iHeartRadio Podcasts - https://www.iheart.com/podcast/269-counterfeit-emotions-podca-276824817  CONNECT WITH THE “COUNTERFEIT EMOTIONS” PODCAST *Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/authenticcurtis  *LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/curtismorley/  *YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@AuthenticCurtis  *TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@authenticcurtis  *Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/AuthenticCurtis  *X - https://twitter.com/AuthenticCurtis  *Website - https://www.counterfeitemotions.com/  *Email for general messages - info@counterfeitemotions.com  *Collab with us - info@counterfeitemotions.com  *Book me to speak = speaking@curtismorley.com  *Sponsor Us -  info@counterfeitemotions.com  WE LOVE MAIL AND CARE PACKAGES!: Email us for the address:  PRODUCTION CREDITS: Recorded at Mindset Content Creation Studios Produced by Tommy Moore Brought to you by Vodcasts by Tommy Moore Presents - https://www.instagram.com/vodcasts_by_tommymoore/

    Episode 45 | Becoming Is a Return: Finding Your Way Back to Who You Really Are | Mitch Whiting

  6. Aug 13

    Episode 44 | Roots, Relationships and Results | Shawn Moon

    In this episode of The Counterfeit Emotions Podcast, Curtis Morley sits down with leadership expert and author Shawn Moon to discuss his upcoming book, Roots, Relationships, and Results. The book grew out of a multi-year research project in which Shawn and his co-authors interviewed more than 100 accomplished leaders, asking them a deceptively simple question: “What would your last leadership lecture be?” The answers revealed a surprisingly consistent pattern. The most important lessons weren't primarily about business tactics, productivity, spreadsheets, or management systems. Instead, they centered on who we become, how we treat people, the relationships we build, the results we create, and the contribution we leave behind. Shawn describes this as a leadership journey from Roots → Relationships → Results → Contribution. The "roots" are about personal authenticity, integrity and how we lead ourselves. Relationships are about seeing, inspiring, trusting and developing other people. Results are about creating sustainable outcomes. And ultimately, leadership becomes about what remains after the title, position and accolades disappear. One of the episode's most compelling ideas is that great leadership is less about seeming successful and more about becoming the kind of person capable of creating meaningful change. Shawn shares stories of leaders who saw potential in people before those people could see it in themselves. That belief and trust often became the catalyst for dramatically changing someone's career and life. The conversation also explores gratitude as a leadership competency, not merely a pleasant personality trait. Shawn describes gratitude as an "interrupter" that can change the trajectory of difficult interactions, while Curtis explains how being specific about why we're grateful makes the practice much more powerful. Another major theme is the hard side of love and leadership. Love isn't simply being nice or avoiding difficult conversations. Sometimes the most loving thing a leader can do is give someone difficult feedback because they see something better in that person than the person's current behavior reflects. Shawn shares a deeply personal example of receiving feedback that exposed a blind spot in his own leadership. The episode ultimately arrives at Curtis's powerful conclusion: “Connection is the goal. Surrender is the path.” For Curtis, the ultimate purpose of leadership, family, personal growth and life is connection—to ourselves, to other people, to love, gratitude and grace. Shawn agrees that authenticity and connection are central to the journey of becoming rather than merely appearing to be successful. CONNECT WITH SHAWN MOON BUY HIS BOOK - https://a.co/d/010kfdss  Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/shawnmoon1/  LISTEN/WATCH/SUBSCRIBE TO THE “COUNTERFEIT EMOTIONS” PODCAST: *Apple Podcasts - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/counterfeit-emotions-podcast-with-curtis-morley/id1815869994 *Spotify - https://open.spotify.com/show/0aGzO1BVLAXyGKfb4absPn?si=8c746decf9514fe3  *YouTube Podcasts - https://www.youtube.com/@AuthenticCurtis/podcasts  *Amazon Music Podcasts - https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/05e74308-205e-4416-bc73-8fecd006f528/counterfeit-emotions-podcast-with-curtis-morley  *iHeartRadio Podcasts - https://www.iheart.com/podcast/269-counterfeit-emotions-podca-276824817  CONNECT WITH THE “COUNTERFEIT EMOTIONS” PODCAST *Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/authenticcurtis  *LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/curtismorley/  *YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@AuthenticCurtis  *TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@authenticcurtis  *Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/AuthenticCurtis  *X - https://twitter.com/AuthenticCurtis  *Website - https://www.counterfeitemotions.com/  *Email for general messages - info@counterfeitemotions.com  *Collab with us - info@counterfeitemotions.com  *Book me to speak = speaking@curtismorley.com  *Sponsor Us -  info@counterfeitemotions.com

    Episode 44 | Roots, Relationships and Results | Shawn Moon

  7. Aug 5

    Becoming Untriggerable: The Power of Distress Tolerance | Martin Palmer | Episode 43

    This episode of Counterfeit Emotions features therapist Martin Palmer, who shares powerful insights on distress tolerance, emotional resilience, and how to become less reactive in everyday life. Drawing from personal experiences (including breath-hold training through free diving), Palmer explains how intentionally embracing discomfort can retrain the brain, reduce emotional overreactions, and lead to greater inner peace. The conversation explores how modern comfort has made people more sensitive to discomfort, and how practices like breath control, fasting, and challenging physical activities can help recalibrate the mind. The hosts also connect neuroscience—particularly the growth of the anterior cingulate cortex (ACC)—to resilience, emphasizing that chosen discomfort leads to mental and emotional growth. The episode ties into the broader theme of “counterfeit vs. authentic emotions,” encouraging listeners to shift from victimhood to empowerment and reinterpret challenges as opportunities for growth. CONNECT WITH MARTIN PALMER Website - https://palisadesmh.com/how-sympathy-tricked-us-into-being-hurt  Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/youneedtherapyif  LISTEN/WATCH/SUBSCRIBE TO THE “COUNTERFEIT EMOTIONS” PODCAST: *Apple Podcasts - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/counterfeit-emotions-podcast-with-curtis-morley/id1815869994 *Spotify - https://open.spotify.com/show/0aGzO1BVLAXyGKfb4absPn?si=8c746decf9514fe3  *YouTube Podcasts - https://www.youtube.com/@AuthenticCurtis/podcasts  *Amazon Music Podcasts - https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/05e74308-205e-4416-bc73-8fecd006f528/counterfeit-emotions-podcast-with-curtis-morley  *iHeartRadio Podcasts - https://www.iheart.com/podcast/269-counterfeit-emotions-podca-276824817  CONNECT WITH THE “COUNTERFEIT EMOTIONS” PODCAST *Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/authenticcurtis  *LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/curtismorley/  *YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@AuthenticCurtis  *TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@authenticcurtis  *Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/AuthenticCurtis  *X - https://twitter.com/AuthenticCurtis  *Website - https://www.counterfeitemotions.com/  *Email for general messages - info@counterfeitemotions.com  *Collab with us - info@counterfeitemotions.com  *Book me to speak = speaking@curtismorley.com  *Sponsor Us -  info@counterfeitemotions.com  WE LOVE MAIL AND CARE PACKAGES!: Email us for the address:  PRODUCTION CREDITS: Recorded at Mindset Content Creation Studios Produced by Tommy Moore Brought to you by Vodcasts by Tommy Moore Presents - https://www.instagram.com/vodcasts_by_tommymoore/

    Becoming Untriggerable: The Power of Distress Tolerance | Martin Palmer | Episode 43

  8. Jul 29

    Episode 42 | Love vs. Lust: The Truth About Porn’s Impact | Amy Burton

    This episode of Counterfeit Emotions features host Curtis Morley and therapist Amy Burton discussing the complex relationship between love, lust, and pornography, and how these forces impact both men and women. A major focus is the rapid rise of pornography use among women, challenging the long-standing belief that it is primarily a male issue. Amy provides a therapist’s perspective on how pornography affects identity, shame, body image, and relationships—especially for women who often feel isolated due to stigma. The conversation emphasizes the importance of removing shame, fostering open dialogue, and helping individuals understand their relationship with explicit material in a healthy, constructive way. They also touch on broader themes of emotional awareness, healing pain without adding suffering, and redefining what real love looks like. Key Themes & Takeaways Love vs. Lust Love is rooted in connection, growth, and selflessness.Lust is often driven by consumption, objectification, and instant gratification.Confusing the two can damage relationships and emotional well-being. Pornography Is Not Just a Male Issue Stats shared: ~91.5% of men and 60.2% of women viewed pornography in the past month.The industry has increasingly targeted women as a growing market.This shift is changing relationship dynamics and personal identity struggles. The Role of Shame Shame is one of the most damaging aspects of pornography use.Women often experience heightened shame due to societal expectations.Removing shame opens the door to healing, honesty, and growth. Unique Impact on Women Women face internal conflict due to societal expectations of purity vs. sexuality.Increased exposure leads to identity confusion (“Which category do I belong to?”).Body image issues are amplified due to constant comparison and objectification. Objectification & Body Image Pornography heavily focuses on the female body.This creates unrealistic standards and self-comparison.Many women struggle with self-worth tied to appearance. Open Conversations Are Critical The question is no longer “if” someone is exposed—but “how are you handling it?”Honest, judgment-free dialogue fosters connection and healing. Pain vs. Misery Pain is inevitable, but suffering (misery) is often added through shame and avoidance.Learning to face pain constructively leads to emotional growth. CONNECT WITH AMY BURTON Website - https://www.aspirecounselingutah.com/  LISTEN/WATCH/SUBSCRIBE TO THE “COUNTERFEIT EMOTIONS” PODCAST: *Apple Podcasts - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/counterfeit-emotions-podcast-with-curtis-morley/id1815869994 *Spotify - https://open.spotify.com/show/0aGzO1BVLAXyGKfb4absPn?si=8c746decf9514fe3  *YouTube Podcasts - https://www.youtube.com/@AuthenticCurtis/podcasts  *Amazon Music Podcasts - https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/05e74308-205e-4416-bc73-8fecd006f528/counterfeit-emotions-podcast-with-curtis-morley  *iHeartRadio Podcasts - https://www.iheart.com/podcast/269-counterfeit-emotions-podca-276824817  CONNECT WITH THE “COUNTERFEIT EMOTIONS” PODCAST *Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/authenticcurtis  *LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/curtismorley/  *YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@AuthenticCurtis  *TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@authenticcurtis  *Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/AuthenticCurtis  *X - https://twitter.com/AuthenticCurtis  *Website - https://www.counterfeitemotions.com/  *Email for general messages - info@counterfeitemotions.com  *Collab with us - info@counterfeitemotions.com  *Book me to speak = speaking@curtismorley.com  *Sponsor Us -  info@counterfeitemotions.com  WE LOVE MAIL AND CARE PACKAGES!: Email us for the address:  PRODUCTION CREDITS: Recorded at Mindset Content Creation Studios Produced by Tommy Moore Brought to you by Vodcasts by Tommy Moore Presents - https://www.instagram.com/vodcasts_by_tommymoore/

    Episode 42 | Love vs. Lust: The Truth About Porn’s Impact | Amy Burton
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