Burn the Map

Shelley McIntyre
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Burn the Map is for people who have left corporate, or are close enough that the date feels real. Host Shelley McIntyre spent decades in corporate strategy before leaving to build something of her own. She knows what it takes to untangle your identity from a title you've outgrown, and what gets easier and harder on the other side. Bi-weekly episodes on the work that comes before the job search: who you are when the role is gone, what got deferred over a long career, and what it looks like to build something that actually fits.

  1. 2d ago

    48: Aren't You Supposed to Be Resting?

    Your job didn't just give you a paycheck. It gave you a reason to show up somewhere at the same time every day, even on the days you couldn't stand it. This episode is about what happens when that structure disappears overnight, and why an open calendar is harder to live in than it sounds. What you'll learn: Why the routine you resented was quietly doing more for you than you realizedWhy losing that structure disorients you the same way it disorients a toddler off their nap scheduleWhy an open-ended to-do list can produce more doomscrolling than an actual work day didWhy you might still feel compelled to justify your time to the people around you, even though no one's askingOne small, sustainable way to build back just enough structure — without turning your recovery into a second jobIf you've ever had an adrenaline spike over a meeting that no longer exists, tune in. Shelley McIntyre works with people who have left corporate (or are close enough that the date feels real) to figure out who they are when the role stops defining them. She spent decades in corporate strategy and technology before leaving to build something of her own. Work with Shelley: Own Your Edge: A 90-minute session for people at or near the exit https://burnthemapcoaching.com/own-your-edge Reinvention Partnership: Five months of one-on-one coaching for people leaving corporate https://burnthemapcoaching.com/work-with-shelley Free Guide: 4 Moves to Get Unstuck https://burnthemapcoaching.com/guide/ Get the weekly newsletter on the identity work below the career question: https://burnthemapcoaching.com/newsletter/ Let's connect: LinkedIn

    48: Aren't You Supposed to Be Resting?

  2. Sep 22

    47: Nobody Knows What You Did

    Your title worked as shorthand for years. Inside the building, everyone knew what it meant. Outside it, that shorthand stops working overnight. This episode is about what's actually left once the title's gone. What you'll learn: Why the status you had at work was never really yours to keepWhat gets lost at the same time as the job: identity, social status, the ability to be understood at a glanceWhy leaving is where the hiding ends, and what that exposure actually feels likeWhat you're afraid of when you can't explain yourself in five words to a strangerWhat actually travels with you once the title doesn't. It isn't what you thinkIf you've caught yourself fumbling an introduction since you left, this one is for you. Shelley McIntyre works with people who have left corporate (or are close enough that the date feels real) to figure out who they are when the role stops defining them. She spent decades in corporate strategy and technology before leaving to build something of her own. Work with Shelley: Own Your Edge: A 90-minute session for people at or near the exit https://burnthemapcoaching.com/own-your-edge Reinvention Partnership: Five months of one-on-one coaching for people leaving corporate https://burnthemapcoaching.com/work-with-shelley Free Guide: 4 Moves to Get Unstuck https://burnthemapcoaching.com/guide/ Get the weekly newsletter on the identity work below the career question: https://burnthemapcoaching.com/newsletter/ Let's connect: LinkedIn

    47: Nobody Knows What You Did

  3. Sep 8

    46: What You Left Off Your Resume

    The resume editing is just the surface. Behind the polished gaps and sabbatical euphemisms is a much longer editing project: one that's been running your personality for years. This episode is about what that cost, and what's still in there underneath it. What you'll learn: What the things you left off your resume reveal about what corporate asked you to hideHow the adaptive personality develops, and why numbing yourself to moral injury was a rational response to an irrational systemWhy the corporate version of you is made of borrowed traits, not character flawsWhat it actually takes to drop the persona, and why the grief of doing so is realTwo paths forward, and what makes each one a legitimate choiceIf you've looked in the mirror lately and not quite recognized the person looking back, this one is for you. Shelley McIntyre works with people who have left corporate (or are close enough that the date feels real) to figure out who they are when the role stops defining them. She spent decades in corporate strategy and technology before leaving to build something of her own. Work with Shelley: Own Your Edge: A 90-minute session for people at or near the exit https://burnthemapcoaching.com/own-your-edge Reinvention Partnership: Five months of one-on-one coaching for people leaving corporate https://burnthemapcoaching.com/work-with-shelley Free Guide: 4 Moves to Get Unstuck https://burnthemapcoaching.com/guide/ Get the weekly newsletter on the identity work below the career question: https://burnthemapcoaching.com/newsletter/ Let's connect: LinkedIn

    46: What You Left Off Your Resume

  4. Aug 25

    45: Change Is a Magnet

    End of summer tends to concentrate change. Kids leaving, job searches ramping up, early retirement decisions. These feel enormous on the inside and invisible to everyone else. And then other changes start piling in. What you'll learn: Why big internal changes attract more change, and the need for visible proof that something is differentThe difference between additive changes that are overdue and generative, and the ones that feel a little panickedWhy visible changes and good conversations with friends both fall short of the acknowledgment you're looking forWhat you're really seeking when you show up one day with new hair or a taiko drumHow to tell whether an additive change is moving you toward something joyful or away from something painful before you cut your own bangs at 11pmIf you're in the middle of a big transition and other changes keep piling in, this episode will help you make sense of it. Shelley McIntyre works with people who have left corporate (or are close enough that the date feels real) to figure out who they are when the role stops defining them. She spent decades in corporate strategy and technology before leaving to build something of her own. Work with Shelley: Own Your Edge: A 90-minute session for people at or near the exit https://burnthemapcoaching.com/own-your-edge Reinvention Partnership: Five months of one-on-one coaching for people leaving corporate https://burnthemapcoaching.com/work-with-shelley Free Guide: 4 Moves to Get Unstuck https://burnthemapcoaching.com/guide/ Get the weekly newsletter on the identity work below the career question: https://burnthemapcoaching.com/newsletter/ Let's connect: LinkedIn

    45: Change Is a Magnet

  5. Aug 11

    44: Why You're Not Doing the Thing

    Not doing something isn't the same as not wanting it. Most of us live in the murky middle (wanting to leave the job, speak up, follow through) and just not doing it. This episode is about figuring out why. There are two categories of not-doing, and they require completely different responses. What you'll learn: Why the gap between intention and action is sometimes environmental and sometimes something much deeperHow habit stacking works for logistical not-doing — and where it breaks downWhat Bob Kegan and Lisa Lahey's Immunity to Change framework reveals about why you keep doing the opposite of what you say you wantHow to identify the competing commitments and big assumptions that are keeping you exactly where you areWhy your resistance to change is probably more rational than you've been giving it credit forIf you keep saying you want to do something and keep not doing it, tune in. Shelley McIntyre works with people who have left corporate (or are close enough that the date feels real) to figure out who they are when the role stops defining them. She spent decades in corporate strategy and technology before leaving to build something of her own. Work with Shelley: Own Your Edge: A 90-minute session for people at or near the exit https://burnthemapcoaching.com/own-your-edge Reinvention Partnership: Five months of one-on-one coaching for people leaving corporate https://burnthemapcoaching.com/work-with-shelley Free Guide: 4 Moves to Get Unstuck https://burnthemapcoaching.com/guide/ Get the weekly newsletter on the identity work below the career question: https://burnthemapcoaching.com/newsletter/ Let's connect: LinkedIn

    44: Why You're Not Doing the Thing

  6. Jul 28

    43: Did You Do Enough?

    Between layoffs and early retirement packages, a lot of people in midlife are on the other side of a long corporate career, and running an internal audit that isn't returning comfortable results. This episode is about who's actually keeping score, and whether they earned that job. What you'll learn: Why the grief of abandoning a goal you never worked toward is real and has a nameHow the metrics you measured your career against were probably borrowed from someone else without examinationWhat rumination actually costs; not just time, but the present moment itselfWhy the change that matters now is one of orientation, not identityThe one career audit worth running: what you're good at that you actually like doingIf you're on the other side of a long career and the internal verdict is harsher than you expected, this episode is for you. Shelley McIntyre works with people who have left corporate (or are close enough that the date feels real) to figure out who they are when the role stops defining them. She spent decades in corporate strategy and technology before leaving to build something of her own. Work with Shelley: Own Your Edge: A 90-minute session for people at or near the exit https://burnthemapcoaching.com/own-your-edge Reinvention Partnership: Five months of one-on-one coaching for people leaving corporate https://burnthemapcoaching.com/work-with-shelley Free Guide: 4 Moves to Get Unstuck https://burnthemapcoaching.com/guide/ Get the weekly newsletter on the identity work below the career question: https://burnthemapcoaching.com/newsletter/ Let's connect: LinkedIn

    43: Did You Do Enough?

  7. Jul 14

    42: The Snob's Advantage

    When everything feels uncertain (the job, the applications, the new identity you're building), your brain is working overtime on problems with no clear outcome. What it needs is rest that isn't sleep, isn't scrolling, and isn't zoning out. This episode is about finding it in something you're already good at. What you'll learn: Why learning under stress is so cognitively expensive, and what your brain is actually asking for when you reach for TikTok or salt and vinegar chipsWhat happens neurologically when you do something you're skilled at, and why it looks surprisingly similar to genuine restWhy the closer you get to mastery, the further away it seems; that's good newsHow to tell the difference between skill that restores you and skill that pulls your soul out through your throatWhy the thing you're already good at can't be touched by a layoff or a terrible job marketIf you've been a beginner at everything lately and you're running low, this episode is for you. Shelley McIntyre works with people who have left corporate (or are close enough that the date feels real) to figure out who they are when the role stops defining them. She spent decades in corporate strategy and technology before leaving to build something of her own. Work with Shelley: Own Your Edge: A 90-minute session for people at or near the exit https://burnthemapcoaching.com/own-your-edge Reinvention Partnership: Five months of one-on-one coaching for people leaving corporate https://burnthemapcoaching.com/work-with-shelley Free Guide: 4 Moves to Get Unstuck https://burnthemapcoaching.com/guide/ Get the weekly newsletter on the identity work below the career question: https://burnthemapcoaching.com/newsletter/ Let's connect: LinkedIn

    42: The Snob's Advantage

  8. Jun 30

    41: The Wrong Kind of Safe

    243,000 people have already received layoff notices in 2026. This episode isn't for them; it's for the ones who survived and aren't sure how to feel about it. If part of you wanted the package, this one's for you. What you'll learn: Why surviving a layoff you wanted to be included in creates a particular kind of emotional confusion, and why that's harder to name than it soundsHow layoffs fracture work relationships in ways that don't get talked about, and what goes unsaid between people on opposite sides of the cutWhy "you are headcount" is actually useful information, not just a cynical observationWhat a portfolio career looks like in practice, and why it might start with a grocery store flower departmentWhat to do with the window between this layoff and the next one, before it closesIf you're still at your desk after a round of cuts and the relief isn't quite landing, tune in. Shelley McIntyre works with people who have left corporate (or are close enough that the date feels real) to figure out who they are when the role stops defining them. She spent decades in corporate strategy and technology before leaving to build something of her own. Work with Shelley: Own Your Edge: A 90-minute session for people at or near the exit https://burnthemapcoaching.com/own-your-edge Reinvention Partnership: Five months of one-on-one coaching for people leaving corporate https://burnthemapcoaching.com/work-with-shelley Free Guide: 4 Moves to Get Unstuck https://burnthemapcoaching.com/guide/ Get the weekly newsletter on the identity work below the career question: https://burnthemapcoaching.com/newsletter/ Let's connect: LinkedIn

    41: The Wrong Kind of Safe
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Burn the Map is for people who have left corporate, or are close enough that the date feels real. Host Shelley McIntyre spent decades in corporate strategy before leaving to build something of her own. She knows what it takes to untangle your identity from a title you've outgrown, and what gets easier and harder on the other side. Bi-weekly episodes on the work that comes before the job search: who you are when the role is gone, what got deferred over a long career, and what it looks like to build something that actually fits.

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  • Creator
    Shelley McIntyre
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    49
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © 2026 Burn the Map Coaching, LLC
  • Show Website
    Burn the Map

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