Can I Call You?

Studio Friends

Can I Call You? is the group chat that tells it like it is. Founders and friends Emma Bates, Eva Goicochea, and Charlotte Palermino take on real questions from real people—about love, sex, friendship, careers, and the mess in between. No fluff. Just sharp, honest advice from women who’ve seen some things.

Episodes

  1. 08/22/2025

    Money with Friends & Relationships, and a Scarcity Mindset

    This week on Can I Call You? Emma, Charlotte, and Eva get into the money of it all. When you make less money than your friends how do you deal with the awkwardness of making social plans? When you marry your partner is it important to have separate bank accounts? If you have a scarcity mindset around money, how do you get out of it? This episode is brought to you by Squarespace. Check out ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠squarespace.com/canicallyou⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to save 10% off your first purchase of a website or domain using code CANICALLYOU Produced by ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Studio Friends⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

  2. 08/01/2025

    Aging, Attention, and the Vanishing Act

    This week on Can I Call You?, Emma, Charlotte, and Eva get into the emotional math of aging. What is it about turning 30 that makes you realize your parents are aging too? Why do women feel like they disappear with age while men seem to gain relevance? And is that pressure to stay visible real—or just another part of growing up? This episode is brought to you by Squarespace. Check out ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠squarespace.com/canicallyou⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to save 10% off your first purchase of a website or domain using code CANICALLYOU Produced by ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Studio Friends⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

  3. 07/17/2025

    Personas, Parasocials, and the Shame of Fangirling

    This week on Can I Call You?  Emma, Charlotte, and Eva break down the performance of presence. Do you need a public persona to start a company? Is it weird to care about people you only know online (and if you meet them in person in the gym locker room, should you talk to them)? And why is fangirling treated like a punchline—especially when men do it all the time (with jerseys)? This episode is brought to you by Squarespace. Check out ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠squarespace.com/canicallyou⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to save 10% off your first purchase of a website or domain using code CANICALLYOU Produced by ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Studio Friends⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

  4. 07/03/2025

    Babies, Boyfriends, Breakups (With Your Bestie)

    This week on Can I Call You? Emma, Charlotte, and Eva tackle the complicated evolution of friendship. Can you grieve when your best friend becomes a parent? Is it normal to feel abandoned when a friend finds love after years of singlehood? And what does it really mean to quietly quit a friendship? This episode is brought to you by Squarespace. Check out ⁠⁠⁠⁠squarespace.com/canicallyou⁠⁠⁠⁠ to save 10% off your first purchase of a website or domain using code CANICALLYOU Produced by ⁠⁠⁠⁠Studio Friends⁠⁠⁠⁠.

  5. 06/20/2025

    The Kids Decision, Mommy’s Boys, Mother-Daughter Relationships and more

    This week on Can I Call You? Emma, Charlotte, and Eva unpack your questions including: Is it normal for mom’s to be jealous of their daughters? What should you do if you’re in a relationship with a mommy’s boy? How do you decide if you want or don’t want kids? This episode is brought to you by Squarespace. Check out ⁠⁠⁠squarespace.com/canicallyou⁠⁠⁠ to save 10% off your first purchase of a website or domain using code CANICALLYOU Produced by ⁠⁠⁠Studio Friends⁠⁠⁠.

  6. 06/12/2025

    Career Worship, Startup Cults, and Choosing Yourself

    This week on Can I Call You?, we’re asking: Do you have to be obsessed with your job to be good at it? Is it just you, or is your startup giving serious cult energy? And how long is too long to put your career before your personal life? Emma, Charlotte, and Eva unpack the hustle myth, the slippery slope of "we’re all family here," and what it really means to choose yourself—at work, at home, and in the in-between. This episode is brought to you by Squarespace. Check out ⁠⁠squarespace.com/canicallyou⁠⁠ to save 10% off your first purchase of a website or domain using code CANICALLYOU Produced by ⁠⁠Studio Friends⁠⁠.

  7. 06/05/2025

    Tradwives, Pick-Me Girls, and Who Holds the Power

    This week on Can I Call You?, we tackle three big questions: Is it wrong to want a “tradwife” life? What happens when you make more than your partner? And how do you stop being a pick-me girl? Emma, Charlotte, and Eva dive into gender roles, money dynamics, and modern validation—from soft girl fantasies and sprinkle-sprinkle culture to the quiet power of saying, “pick me… but only if I pick you too.” This episode is brought to you by Squarespace. Check out ⁠squarespace.com/canicallyou⁠ to save 10% off your first purchase of a website or domain using code CANICALLYOU Produced by ⁠Studio Friends⁠.

  8. 05/29/2025

    Can I Call You? Porn, Dating the Patriarchy and Life Priorities

    In the debut episode of Can I Call You? the new podcast from Eva Goicochea, Charlotte Palermino and Emma Bates—get to know them as they dive into callers most pressing (and juicy) questions this week: Do you consider watching porn cheating?How do you reconcile your heterosexuality with your hatred of men?To be happy, does marriage matter more than career? Can I Call You? is brought to you by Charlotte Palermino (co-founder of Dieux), Eva Goicochea (founder of Maude) and Emma Bates (co-founder of Diem). We’re 3 founders at different life stages here to answer your personal, professional and sometimes ‘taboo’ questions. No sugarcoating, no clichés, just us dishing out the kind of advice you’d get if you had our emergency line on speed dial. This episode is brought to you by Squarespace. Check out squarespace.com/canicallyou to save 10% off your first purchase of a website or domain using code CANICALLYOU Produced by Studio Friends.

  9. 05/25/2025

    Introducing "Can I Call You?"

    CICY is the group chat that tells it like it is. Founders and friends Emma Bates, Eva Goicochea, and Charlotte Palermino take on real questions from real people—about love, sex, friendship, careers, and the mess in between. No fluff. Just sharp, honest advice from women who’ve seen some things.

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About

Can I Call You? is the group chat that tells it like it is. Founders and friends Emma Bates, Eva Goicochea, and Charlotte Palermino take on real questions from real people—about love, sex, friendship, careers, and the mess in between. No fluff. Just sharp, honest advice from women who’ve seen some things.

Information

  • Creator
    Studio Friends
  • Years Active
    2025
  • Episodes
    9
  • Rating
    Explicit