"To Be And Do" with Philip Amerson

Philip Amerson

Encouraging and cultivating a wider sense of mutuality and joy, the Belonging Exchangei provides resources, education, and times of celebration for congregations and local communities. One expression of this is through festivals and occasions for thoughtful reflection on faith and civic mutuality

  1. 1d ago

    Lessons in Grief A Father’s Story of Faith Amid Tragedy with Tom Heaton

    Episode SummaryIn this deeply moving episode, Philip Amerson welcomes Tom Heaton for a candid and vulnerable conversation on grief, faith, and the abiding power of human connection. Tom Heaton, a pastor, blogger, and humanitarian, shares the tragic experiences of losing both of his sons, Jose and Manny, to acts of violence. The episode explores his responses not just as a father but also as a Christian and a pastor, and what these experiences have taught him about God, prayer, and being present for others during times of unspeakable pain. Listeners are guided into a discussion that goes well beyond personal sorrow and toward a broader conversation on theology, community, and finding hope when faced with life's harshest realities. Three Key Takeaways1. The Transformative Power of PresenceTom Heaton reflects on how, even in the deepest moments of grief, the presence and care of others—friends, colleagues, even unexpected individuals like Detective Trent Stinson—became tangible manifestations of God’s love and comfort (08:02). Rather than theological answers or empty reassurances, it was “God's warm embrace” through community that helped him hold on in his darkest hours. 2. Redefining Prayer and God’s Role in SufferingTom Heaton shares an evolution in his understanding of God and prayer. He rejects the notion of a "puppet master" God who controls every event, emphasizing instead a God who is always present with us, who “cries with us” in pain (12:15). Prayer, for Tom Heaton, becomes less about asking for intervention and more about being present with the divine presence that remains steadfast through suffering and loss. 3. The Importance of Honest and Compassionate TheologyBoth Philip Emerson and Tom Heaton critique "bad theology" that tries to offer quick or simplistic explanations for tragedy, such as suggesting God needed another angel or orchestrates loss for a reason (14:09). Instead, they advocate for a theology centered on compassion, honesty, and the recognition of human agency and freedom—even when it causes pain. Their discussion urges a faith that accompanies, not explains away, grief and brokenness. Resources and Further ReadingFind more of Tom Heaton’s reflections at his blog here.Recommended theologian: Marjorie Suhaki on God’s presence in suffering (15:18). To share your story or find support in grief, connect with us at the Belonging Exchange. Learn MoreTo support or learn about Mission Guatemala, visit missionguatemala.comWant more stories of connection and belonging? Check out past episodes on our blog.ABOUT TOM HEATONTom Heaton is a retired United Methodist pastor who served congregations across Indiana for nearly thirty years and later led mission and justice ministries for the Indiana Conference of the UMC.He is also the founder of Mission Guatemala, a nonprofit ministry serving rural communities in Guatemala through healthcare, education, nutrition, and community development. His years in Guatemala deeply shaped both his faith and the way he understands prayer, suffering, and the presence of God in ordinary life.Tom holds a Bachelor of Science in Communications from the University of Evansville and a Master of Divinity from Christian Theological Seminary. He writes and speaks about faith, prayer, grief, and everyday life with honesty, warmth, and a pastor’s heart.email: tsheaton@icloud.com

    24 min

  2. 5d ago

    Because: Learning from Extended Families: Challenging Traditional Notions in Church Communities

    Episode OverviewThe conversation focused on reflecting upon recent calls by Indiana's governor and lieutenant governor to emphasize the biblical mandate behind the so-called "nuclear family" during the month of June. The discussion challenged the narrow interpretation of family promoted by political and religious leaders, highlighting the broader, more inclusive portrayal of family found in scripture and lived experience. Personal anecdotes, biblical references, and a powerful story about a professor’s encounter with Native American family life were used to question exclusionary definitions and urge listeners to reconsider what it means to be “God’s family.” Three Takeaways1. Questioning the “Biblical Mandate” for the Nuclear FamilyA key theme that emerged was the critique of official attempts to define family strictly as one man, one woman, and children. The discussion explored how this interpretation is not only limiting but also inconsistent with the biblical record itself. Several points were raised, including references to Abraham and Sarah, Moses, and even Jesus, none of whom fit neatly into the so-called traditional nuclear family model 00:59–01:14. The conversation underscored the selective reading of scripture used to justify these narrow definitions and highlighted the exclusion of orphans and widows from such narratives. 2. Learning from Broader Family TraditionsOne concept discussed was the experience of a Christian professor who, tasked with teaching about family in the Midwest, encountered Native American forms of family that differed radically from the stereotypical nuclear setup. Rather than insisting on his own definitions, the professor was humble enough to learn from these families, realizing that kinship and support go far beyond traditional images 02:11–02:56. This anecdote illustrated the value of cultural humility and openness to learning about real family dynamics as they are lived by different communities. 3. Expanding Faith Communities’ Definition of FamilyThe discussion explored how many churches proclaim themselves as “family churches,” yet often fail in practice to fully welcome single mothers, orphans, or widows 03:31. A call to action was issued for listeners and faith communities to rethink belonging and kinship within the “Kingdom of God,” encouraging greater inclusivity and empathy. The segment urged that being part of God’s family means embracing everyone, not just those who fit a prescribed mold. Final ReflectionListeners are encouraged to move beyond received notions about who constitutes a family and to embrace diverse, inclusive forms of kinship, learning from both scripture and the lived experiences of others 03:54.

    5 min

  3. Jun 5

    Mission Guatemala’s Story: Partnership, Health, and Lasting Change with Tom Heaton

    Episode OverviewIn this episode, Phil Amerson sits down with Tom Heaton, founder of Mission Guatemala and longtime leader in missions and justice ministries in Indiana and beyond. Together, they explore Tom Heaton journey from local church challenges to creating a nonprofit making a tangible difference in rural Guatemala. The conversation touches on the organization’s origins, ongoing projects, guiding principles, and the power of genuine partnership. Three Key Takeaways1. Turning Frustration into ActionTom Heaton described how Mission Guatemala was born out of frustration with misplaced priorities in the local church—including a moment when complaints about scuff marks on a floor sharply contrasted with the realities he’d seen abroad, such as children without shoes. This perspective shift led Tom Heaton to embrace responsibility and move from “someone should do something” to actively being that someone. His experiences adopting children from Guatemala and witnessing need firsthand drove him to launch Mission Guatemala 05:31. 2. The Power of Partnerships and Community-Led SolutionsA recurring theme is that meaningful aid comes from partnership, not paternalism. Tom Heaton emphasized that Mission Guatemala does not impose solutions but listens to local communities and works alongside them. Projects, whether a medical clinic, computer classroom, or sanitation facilities, succeed because locals contribute “sweat equity.” This approach ensures both effectiveness and community pride, as seen in a story where parents, having helped dig a septic hole, took extra ownership in school bathroom maintenance 14:19. 3. Holistic Impact: Healthcare, Education, and NutritionMission Guatemala’s work focuses on three priorities: health, education, and nutrition. Services range from a respectful medical clinic and pharmacy to running computer classes for middle schoolers (filling a governmental gap) and partnering with groups such as the Matteal Institute to provide high-nutrition food for infants and young children. The goal is sustainability and long-term change through local engagement, collaboration, and addressing real needs identified by Guatemalans 08:04 10:12. Learn MoreTo support or learn about Mission Guatemala, visit missionguatemala.comWant more stories of connection and belonging? Check out past episodes on our blog.ABOUT TOM HEATONTom Heaton is a retired United Methodist pastor who served congregations across Indiana for nearly thirty years and later led mission and justice ministries for the Indiana Conference of the UMC.He is also the founder of Mission Guatemala, a nonprofit ministry serving rural communities in Guatemala through healthcare, education, nutrition, and community development. His years in Guatemala deeply shaped both his faith and the way he understands prayer, suffering, and the presence of God in ordinary life.Tom holds a Bachelor of Science in Communications from the University of Evansville and a Master of Divinity from Christian Theological Seminary. He writes and speaks about faith, prayer, grief, and everyday life with honesty, warmth, and a pastor’s heart.email: tsheaton@icloud.com

    18 min

  4. Jun 1

    Because: Understanding Scripture: Exploring the Meaning Beyond the Words

    "Because of Scriptures"Episode SummaryIn this reflective episode, Speaker A (Phil Emerson) invites listeners to reconsider how they approach scriptures—not as a rigid rule book or quick-fix spiritual guide, but as a diverse library meant to be wrestled with thoughtfully. Sharing both personal insights and common misinterpretations, Speaker A encourages daily reading and deeper engagement, using the Gospel of John as a starting point. The episode offers wisdom on how context and careful reading can transform our understanding, especially as it relates to faith and everyday life. Three Takeaways1. Scriptures Are a Diverse Library, Not a RulebookSpeaker A explains at 00:33 that scriptures were never meant to be used as a legalistic checklist or a collection of instant remedies. Instead, they are a rich library, containing poetry, history, songs, sermons, prophecy, and even apocalyptic literature filled with symbols. This diversity, according to Speaker A, demands that readers recognize the variety of genres if they are to truly understand what is being communicated. 2. Context Matters—Beware of Misusing ScriptureThe episode offers vivid examples of scriptures being misinterpreted, such as the idea that "turning the other cheek" is about retribution rather than forgiveness and restraint (01:29). Another common misreading is the phrase "the rain falls on the just and unjust." Speaker A clarifies at 02:34 that, in its original context, rain in the Middle East was seen as a blessing, not a hardship—thus the saying actually expresses the overflowing generosity of good things to all, not indifferent misfortune. 3. Engagement and Reflection Are EssentialSpeaker A encourages listeners at 03:00 to read the scriptures regularly—suggesting even just a chapter a day—and to struggle with the text rather than seek instant answers. Citing the story of Jesus turning water into wine from the second chapter of John, Speaker A lets listeners know that the text continues to offer deep lessons about faith if one is willing to engage thoughtfully. The key is not speed, but reflection and openness. Episode ChallengeCheck out the second chapter of the Gospel of John. Sit with the text, reflect on its meaning, and prepare to revisit these insights in a future episode.

    5 min

  5. May 29

    Rethinking Success: Education, Ethics, and the Future of America

    Episode OverviewIn this reflective episode of To Be and Do, Phil Amerson confronts the current moral and civic climate of America, with a focus on the shifting purpose of higher education, the role of public service, and the increasing divides in political and community life. Using recent political candidates and legislative trends as a springboard, the conversation explores what it means to foster both individual and collective character the episode highlights the urgent need for renewed civic engagement and moral consideration in public life. Three Key Takeaways1. The Changing Role of Higher EducationPhil Amerson critiques a recent Indiana Senate bill requiring public colleges to terminate programs leading to “low income earnings,” pointing out the growing trend of tying education solely to economic outcomes. He observes that this represents “a hunger in our society for something different than we've been experiencing recently” as education’s traditional focus on moral and civic development gives way to purely financial concerns 01:23. According to Speaker B, measuring education only by earning potential strips away essential elements of personal and civic growth. 2. The Erosion of Civic and Moral FormationThe episode warns of the dangers when economic concerns trump moral and ethical development. Speaker B laments the loss of educational experiences designed to foster character and community involvement, noting, “What does it profit a school... to gain the whole world and lose the soul of moral development?” 03:13. The host ties this erosion directly to broader concerns, from college culture focused on “bar crawls” to legislative choices, that prioritize profit or immediate gratification over deeper, long-term well-being and societal contribution 03:44. 3. A Call for Genuine Moral LeadershipReflecting on political candidates James Talarico and Adam Hamilton, Phil Amerson stresses the importance of leaders who champion civic pride and moral fiber. Citing the biblical principle of Matthew 25, he asks listeners to consider how we treat "the poor, the immigrant, and the stranger" 05:54, insisting that public service should prioritize compassion, justice, and integrity. Phil Amerson closes with a plea for leaders—not just politicians but also artists, teachers, and community members—who are willing to dream big and work selflessly for the greater good 07:14. Listen & SubscribeCatch this and all episodes of To Be and Do on your favorite podcast platform. Stay engaged and keep the conversation about moral and civic renewal alive!

    9 min

  6. May 25

    Because: Discovering Faith Beyond the Institution: Embracing God’s Work Outside Church Walls

    Episode SummaryIn this reflective "Because" episode, Phil Amerson shares insights on faith, the evolving role of religious institutions, and how communities can rediscover a deeper sense of purpose by looking beyond organizational boundaries. Drawing from an encounter with theologian Willie James Jennings, Phil Amerson encourages listeners to notice the abundance of "unused gospel" and the opportunities for divine-human connection present all around, not just within the walls of institutional churches. Three Key Takeaways1. Faith Outlasts InstitutionsPhil Amerson points out that religious institutions are inherently fragile and not the sole stewards of faith. Over 2,000 years, Christianity has flourished and adapted, often moving beyond the confines of any single institution. The reminder here is that while institutions may struggle, the enduring nature of faith continues wherever people gather in its spirit—even outside the structures we often feel compelled to defend 00:13, 00:36. 2. Viewing from the Outside InReflecting on the words of Willie James Jennings, Phil Amerson suggests that revitalization comes when institutions choose to see themselves not only from the inside but also from the "outside in." By asking what God is already doing in the world around the institution, members discovered "the newness of God's mercy" and fresh opportunities to serve and grow their communities. This shift in perspective allowed them to connect more deeply with their surroundings, going beyond anxiety about their own survival 01:01, 01:11. 3. Embracing the "Unused Gospel" in Daily LifeA powerful idea from the episode is the notion of "unused gospel"—the untapped potential for divine encounter that exists all around us. Phil Amerson encourages listeners to listen for the "music of faith" beyond traditional settings and to engage actively with their broader communities. By reaching out, wishing others well, and recognizing God’s work beyond organizational rituals, individuals can rediscover the essentials of faith in everyday relationships 01:47, 02:07. Final ThoughtPhil Amerson closes with a call to action: “Go out and meet someone today, wish them well, and learn that God is at work beyond our small stories and rituals.” This episode invites all to embrace a broader, more vibrant sense of spiritual community.

    3 min

  7. May 22

    Empowerment, Belonging, and Meaning: The Surprising Growth in Faith Communities

    To Be and Do PodcastEpisode OverviewIn this episode, Phil Amerson reflects on new research from the Hartford Institute for Religion Research regarding recent trends in American religious life. The episode explores the nuanced realities behind church attendance numbers, the influence and limitations of megachurch culture, and the often-overlooked power of small congregational acts. Amerson recounts personal experiences from pastoral work, sharing stories that reveal how renewal happens not just through numbers, but in the everyday acts of community, faith, and grace. The episode ends with a moving meditation on the concept of grace, drawing from the writings of Frederick Buechner. Three Key Takeaways1. Religious Involvement is Experiencing Modest Growth—But Not a Traditional RevivalRecent research from the Hartford Institute for Religion Research indicates a shift in religious engagement after decades of decline. Where average church attendance had dropped dramatically—from 135 in 2000 to just 45 during the COVID pandemic—it is now climbing back above 65 (01:19). Though some claim these numbers mark a religious revival, Amerson emphasizes a more nuanced picture: the increase is real, but modest and often concentrated in certain areas, especially within megachurches. 2. Megachurches Aren’t the Only Places Where Renewal HappensWhile researchers like Scott Tooma and high-profile pastors like Adam Hamilton focus on megachurch growth as the vector for the future of American religion, Speaker A challenges this perspective. The episode argues that small, local congregations—both urban and rural—play a crucial role in community life and spiritual vitality (04:49). These smaller communities offer meaning, belonging, and empowerment in ways that aren’t always reflected in attendance statistics. 3. Grace and Renewal Are Found in Small Acts and RelationshipsDrawing on personal experiences at Broadway United Methodist Church, Amerson recounts stories of individuals whose quiet faith and generosity became the backbone of vibrant congregational life (07:20). By highlighting the unseen power centers within small gatherings—such as a handful of women meeting for healing and Bible study—the episode illustrates that genuine renewal is about joy, restoration, and the rediscovery of shared purpose, not just numerical growth. The episode’s closing passages center on the profound and unearned nature of grace (12:21), encouraging listeners to recognize and accept the abundance already present in their lives. Listen and subscribe for thoughtful discussions on meaning, purpose, and the everyday ways we shape our shared life.

    15 min

  8. May 18

    Because: Finding the Music of Faith Beyond the Instrument of Church

    In this reflective and thought-provoking "Because" episode of To Be and Do, Phil Amerson guides listeners through a contemplation of faith, community, and the essential distinction between form and substance in religious life. Opening with Sam's evocative lines about coffee and time, the mood is set for a discussion grounded in both the everyday and the transcendent. Phil Amerson, discusses the often-overlooked difference between focusing on religious structures—like congregations or denominations—and the deeper “music” these institutions are intended to embody. Rather than becoming preoccupied with perfecting the earthly instruments, Speaker B encourages listeners to rediscover the spiritual essence pulsating beneath the surface of ritual and organization. A central theme is the tendency of faith communities to search for a “perfect formula”—a guarantees path to success or holiness. Speaker B references Geraldo Marti’s insight, suggesting that continually striving for perfection in form can lead to missing the true purpose: tuning in to the spiritual “music” that both inspires and sustains faith. Anecdotes of denominational meetings, where participants are asked to share prescribed “glory sightings,” serve to illustrate how even sincere efforts can sometimes fall short—feeling contrived or artificially limited in their scope. Instead, Speaker B proposes a more abundant, everyday recognition of the divine, echoing Elizabeth Barrett Browning’s lines: “Earth’s crammed with heaven, and every common bush afire with God. But only he who sees takes off his shoes—the rest sit round and pluck blackberries.” The episode closes with Sam's warm, melodic refrain, returning us to the world of daily ritual—a cup of love, laughter, and connection, signifying the perpetual opportunity to encounter the sacred in our ordinary routines. Key TakeawaysPrioritize Essence Over Form: Speaker B emphasizes the importance of valuing the spiritual “music” over merely perfecting the religious “instrument” 00:17.Beware of Formulaic Faith: The search for perfect formulas can distract from encountering genuine spirituality and the living presence of the divine 00:35.Recognize Divine Abundance: Limiting glory to rare, contrived moments diminishes the awareness that every moment and encounter is charged with the sacred 01:19.Practice Everyday Awareness: Through poetic reference and personal experience, Amerson invites listeners to cultivate a daily attentiveness—to see, listen, and respond to the constant presence of grace all around 02:11. This episode invites all to stop “plucking blackberries” and instead, to look for the glory ever-present in the mundane, rediscovering faith not as an instrument to fix, but as a song to live.

    3 min
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