Flex Forward

Nic Espanet

FLEX Forward is a powerful podcast showcasing stories of resilience, reinvention, and rise. Hosted by Nic Espanet, each episode delves into the inspiring journeys of professionals who have overcome obstacles, made bold career pivots, and discovered new paths to personal and financial growth. With a theme of Growth. Grit. Gains., FLEX Forward highlights the determination and adaptability that drive success. Whether it’s bouncing back from setbacks, reinventing one’s path, or climbing to new heights, these conversations prove that every story of struggle and triumph has the power to motivate others. Tune in for real, raw, and relatable stories that will push you to flex forward in your own life.

  1. 4d ago

    Lead Yourself First: The Secret to Better Leadership with Marc Hildebrand

    What if the key to becoming a better leader isn't about leading others, but learning to lead yourself first? In this episode of The Flex Forward Podcast, host Nic Espanet welcomes Marc Hildebrand, a retired LAPD sergeant turned self-leadership coach, for a conversation about personal growth, family, mindset, and finding success without losing sight of what matters most. After spending 20 years with the Los Angeles Police Department, Marc made a major career change. At one point, he was 100 pounds overweight and struggling to give his family the time and attention they deserved. He decided to make a change, transforming his health, his priorities, and eventually his career. Today, through Modern Leadership Coaching, Marc helps people learn to lead themselves through stress, setbacks, and life's everyday challenges. Nic and Marc explore how the stories we tell ourselves shape our actions, why failure can be one of our greatest teachers, and how shifting our focus can help us move forward instead of staying stuck. They also discuss why real success isn't just about building a career or making more money. It's about being present for the people who matter most. In this episode, you'll discover: How Marc went from LAPD sergeant to leadership coach. What losing 100 pounds taught him about personal growth. Why self-leadership is the foundation of leading others. How negative thought loops can keep us stuck. Why failure and discomfort are important parts of growth. How to balance professional success with family priorities. Why Marc is helping develop more coaches to create a lasting impact. About Marc Hildebrand Marc Hildebrand is a former LAPD sergeant with 20 years of service and the founder of Modern Leadership Coaching. As a self-leadership coach, he helps people develop the mindset and skills to show up as their best, even when life gets difficult. Marc is also a husband, father, and co-host of the Modern Leadership Coaching Podcast with his wife. Connect with Marc and learn more about his coaching programs at https://modernleadership.us.

    Lead Yourself First: The Secret to Better Leadership with Marc Hildebrand
  2. Nov 4

    Why Thinking Differently Is Your Biggest Advantage with Ben Gaddis

    What if your biggest opportunity comes from saying yes to something you don't know how to do yet? In this episode of The Flex Forward Podcast with Nic Espanet, Nic sits down with Ben Gaddis, founder of Super Step Capital and author of Embracing Irrationality, to talk about taking chances, building successful businesses, learning from mistakes, and why thinking differently can help you get ahead. Ben shares his journey from leading T3, one of the country's largest independent digital agencies, to selling the business in 2019 and eventually launching Super Step Capital, a private equity firm that partners with IT services companies. He explains how his experience as a business owner shaped his approach to investing and why understanding people, company culture, and everyday business challenges matters just as much as understanding the numbers. Nic and Ben also explore the growing impact of artificial intelligence. Ben believes AI offers an incredible opportunity for people who are willing to learn, adapt, and challenge the way things have always been done. One of the most memorable stories comes from Ben's early career, when he volunteered to lead a mobile marketing project for American Airlines despite knowing very little about the field. That decision helped shape his future and taught him an important lesson: you don't have to know everything before you get started. Throughout the conversation, Ben shares practical insights about leadership, innovation, investing, and recognizing when it's better to work with someone who has more expertise. About Ben Gaddis Ben Gaddis is the founder of Super Step Capital, a private equity firm focused on partnering with IT services and digital services businesses. Before launching Super Step Capital, Ben led T3, a digital agency that worked with major brands including 7-Eleven, Pizza Hut, and UPS. He is also the author of Embracing Irrationality, a book about challenging traditional thinking and creating meaningful change.

    Why Thinking Differently Is Your Biggest Advantage with Ben Gaddis
  3. Nov 3

    Kim Hegwood: Why Smart Business Owners Never Stop Learning

    What does it take to build a successful business while helping families protect what matters most? In this episode of The Flex Forward Podcast, host Nic Espanet sits down with Kim Hegwood, an attorney with 29 years of experience and owner of Your Legacy Legal Care, to discuss business growth, the importance of planning, and the lessons she's learned along the way. Kim shares how she reached her first million in business without a formal business plan, marketing strategy, or budget. That experience helped her realize the importance of understanding her finances, seeking mentorship, and continuing to learn as a business owner. She also discusses how her personal experiences as a caregiver and navigating difficult family legal matters shaped her approach to estate planning and elder law. Today, her practice focuses on helping families prepare for the unexpected, protect their loved ones, and make difficult transitions easier. In this episode, you'll discover: How Kim went from litigation attorney to building a growing estate planning and elder law practice. Why understanding your business finances is essential, even when you're already successful. How business coaching, mentorship, and mastermind groups can support long-term growth. Why estate planning and trusts are important tools for protecting your family's future. How Kim's firm helps seniors and their families navigate aging, caregiving, and major life transitions. Why continuing to learn and adapt is important for every entrepreneur.

    Kim Hegwood: Why Smart Business Owners Never Stop Learning
  4. Oct 29

    Protecting What Matters: Cybersecurity, Family & Financial Freedom with Wayne Sallee

    What does it take to protect the systems that keep our world running while also building a great life outside of work? In this episode of The Flex Forward Podcast, host Nic Espanet sits down with Wayne Sallee, Senior Technical Manager at Octave, to talk about cybersecurity, career growth, investing, and family. Wayne shares how an unexpected change in his family life led him away from pursuing a PhD and into a career in industrial technology. Today, he helps lead engineering services across North and South America, working to protect the control systems used in industries like oil and gas, manufacturing, and chemical processing. Wayne explains the difference between traditional IT cybersecurity and operational technology (OT) cybersecurity. He also shares why protecting industrial systems is so important, how his team helps companies understand their risks, and why new technology like AI must be used with care. The conversation also turns personal as Wayne talks about working with his wife on their family's investments, exploring new sources of income, and making time for what matters most. As a father of three boys, Wayne believes that creating lasting family memories is more valuable than buying more things. He also shares why mentorship and helping others are important parts of his life. Whether you're interested in technology, growing your career, building financial freedom, or finding a better balance between work and family, this conversation offers something to think about. Meet Wayne Sallee Wayne Sallee is a Senior Technical Manager at Octave, where he leads engineering services focused on automation and cybersecurity for industrial control systems across North and South America. With a background in science and engineering, Wayne brings technical knowledge and a passion for helping others learn and grow. Wayne is also a husband, father of three, and an advocate for mentorship, financial planning, and meaningful family experiences.

    Protecting What Matters: Cybersecurity, Family & Financial Freedom with Wayne Sallee
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FLEX Forward is a powerful podcast showcasing stories of resilience, reinvention, and rise. Hosted by Nic Espanet, each episode delves into the inspiring journeys of professionals who have overcome obstacles, made bold career pivots, and discovered new paths to personal and financial growth. With a theme of Growth. Grit. Gains., FLEX Forward highlights the determination and adaptability that drive success. Whether it’s bouncing back from setbacks, reinventing one’s path, or climbing to new heights, these conversations prove that every story of struggle and triumph has the power to motivate others. Tune in for real, raw, and relatable stories that will push you to flex forward in your own life.