A Bit Of Chaos

Mel and Nee

A Bit of Chaos is the safe space where two best friends in their 30s unpack the beautiful mess of life. From careers and heartbreak to healing, love, self-discovery, and everything in between, nothing is off limits. We’re keeping it real, raw, and just a bit chaotic. Life doesn’t come with a manual, but we’re figuring it out one unfiltered conversation at a time. Tap in, laugh with us, cry with us, and grow with us because chaos might be the vibe, but healing is the goal.

Episodes

  1. Feb 10

    Episode 1: New Season, Same Chaos

    In this engaging conversation, Nee and Mel discuss their experiences with winter weather, including preparations for snowstorms and the challenges of power outages. They delve into their reading habits, particularly focusing on hood romance novels and binge-watching Netflix shows. The duo explores the complexities of adult friendships, communication styles, and the dynamics of social gatherings. They also reflect on the allure and challenges of city life, share their thoughts on music and personal connections, and discuss personal growth through struggles and the influence of astrology on life transitions.

    44 min

  2. 08/05/2025

    Episode 11: Textured, Targeted & in Chaos

    In this episode, Mel and Nee catch up on life, sharing stories about stormy childhood memories, NYC concert chaos, and the unique energy of festivals. They dive into conversations about racial identity, hair journeys, and the power of community, all while keeping it light, honest, and relatable.

    54 min

  3. 07/29/2025

    Episode 10: The Chaos of Cleanliness & Closure

    In this vibrant episode, Nee and Mel dive into summer updates, plot-twisting movies, and relatable hygiene and self-care routines. They swap stories on flying while tall, dating drama from social media, and the healing journey after breakups. With laughs and life lessons, this episode blends fun, reflection, and all things pop culture.

    1h 7m

  4. 07/15/2025

    Episode 9: The Cost of Chaos: Adulting, Anxiety & All the In-Betweens

    In this episode of A Bit of Chaos, Mel and Nee get real about the chaotic realities of adulthood. From the pressure to “have it all together” to the financial burdens nobody warned us about, they unpack the stress, societal expectations, and the emotional toll of everyday life. The conversation flows through sugar daddies, mental health, and the unspoken struggles of living authentically. They also reflect on childhood, creativity, and how early experiences shape who we become. This one’s full of laughter, reflection, and a whole lot of chaos—in the best way. Stream us on Spotify & YouTube – @abitofchaospodcast!

    34 min

  5. 07/08/2025

    Episode 8:Solo Trips & Streaming Chaos

    Mel and Nee return from a break to unpack solo travel, student loans, messy relationships, and their love-hate relationship with reality TV, all with their signature dose of chaos.

    1h 26m

  6. 06/17/2025

    Episode 7: When Chaos Hits Home

    Mel and Nee dive into an honest conversation about navigating emotions, family dynamics, mental health, and growing up. From postpartum struggles to political awareness and nostalgic music moments, this episode blends vulnerability with laughter and real talk.

    1h 36m

  7. 06/10/2025

    Episode 6: No Blueprint, Just Chaos

    Nee and Mel dive into the ups and downs of navigating life, touching on self-discovery, emotional growth, relationships, and healing. From financial lessons to spiritual insights, they share personal stories about therapy, mentorship, parenting, and the importance of accountability. A candid, reflective conversation on growth, connection, and purpose.

    1h 11m

  8. 06/03/2025

    Episode 5: Cut Waters and Chaos

    Nee and Mel dive into everything from sex ed and societal struggles to career pivots and chaotic nights in D.C. With humor and honesty, they share personal stories, reflect on adulthood, friendship, and growth—all while navigating life’s highs, lows, and Metro rides.

    54 min

  9. 05/27/2025

    Episode 4: We Came For The Music, Stayed For The Chaos

    Nee and Mel take you on a ride through their wildest concert and festival memories—from first shows to unexpected celebrity run-ins, drinks, edibles, and everything in between. What starts as a music convo quickly spirals into real talk about dating, therapy, childhood trauma, and personal growth. It’s chaotic, it’s honest, and it’s the kind of heart-to-heart only best friends can have.

    1h 19m

  10. 05/21/2025

    Episode 3: Judging Books By Their Chaos

    In this episode, Nee and Mel dive into the transformative power of reading, sharing how books—from self-help to historical fiction—have shaped their lives. They discuss themes of privilege, inclusion, healing, and personal growth, while also exploring their love for Black romance, cowboys, and young adult fiction. With plenty of laughs and honest reflections, they highlight the joy of reading and the beautiful chaos of their friendship.

    48 min

  11. 05/13/2025

    Episode 2: Healing in the Chaos

    Sometimes healing doesn’t look peaceful—it looks like ugly cries, hard truths, and letting go of people we thought we’d never lose. In this episode, we’re getting raw about the messy moments that pushed us toward growth, the exes that taught us lessons, and what choosing healing really looks like day by day. Tap in for laughs, real talk, and the chaos that led to clarity.

    58 min

  12. 05/06/2025

    Episode 1: This Is Only The Beginning

    In our very first episode of A Bit of Chaos, we’re giving you a front-row seat to who we are, where we’re from, and why we started this podcast. From a little heartbreak to a lot of laughs, we’re keeping it real as we open up about our roots and our dreams. Manifesting live shows, big energy, and even bigger conversations — welcome to the start of something chaotic, honest, and full of heart.

    43 min
  • 12 Episodes

About

A Bit of Chaos is the safe space where two best friends in their 30s unpack the beautiful mess of life. From careers and heartbreak to healing, love, self-discovery, and everything in between, nothing is off limits. We’re keeping it real, raw, and just a bit chaotic. Life doesn’t come with a manual, but we’re figuring it out one unfiltered conversation at a time. Tap in, laugh with us, cry with us, and grow with us because chaos might be the vibe, but healing is the goal.

Information

  • Creator
    Mel and Nee
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    12
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Mel and Nee
  • Show Website
    A Bit Of Chaos