Today. we talk about regrets—specifically, the kinds of regrets homeowners have after a renovation or new home build—and why having some level of imperfection is inevitable. We start by setting expectations. There is no such thing as a perfect project, and believing that a renovation will magically make life perfect only sets people up for disappointment. Design and construction happen in the real world, which is messy, imperfect, and constantly changing. Giving yourself grace from the beginning is essential. We explain that most regrets are avoidable if you have the right team, a thoughtful process, and clear communication. One of the biggest regrets we hear again and again is not doing enough at once. Many homeowners try to phase projects, only to wish later that they had just “ripped the band-aid off.” Construction never gets cheaper, and partially finished homes often feel awkward, both to live in and eventually to sell. If you’re going to do it, do it—or don’t start at all. Another common regret comes from making decisions just to “check a box,” whether for resale value or because it’s what people think they’re supposed to do. We talk about examples like double vanities, formal dining rooms, or specific layouts that don’t actually match how people live. When design choices aren’t aligned with real daily habits, regret often follows. The same goes for getting hung up on price per square foot instead of focusing on what spaces actually matter. We also warn against chasing trends, especially those driven by social media. By the time a project is built, today’s trends are already outdated. Designing around micro-trends—or flashy technology that quickly becomes obsolete—often leads to regret. Timeless design principles, on the other hand, are based on how people move, gather, and live, and those fundamentals don’t change. We stress the importance of designing not just for your life today, but for future phases as well—kids growing up, changing family dynamics, and aging in place. Another major theme is trust: trust in your architect, designer, and builder, and trust in the process. Even with 3D renderings and walkthroughs, there will always be elements you can’t fully visualize ahead of time. Finally, we emphasize speaking up. Nearly every past guest has said their biggest regret was not voicing concerns during the process. It’s never too late to ask questions or revisit decisions—until the project is over and you’ve moved in. Strong communication, a good team, and clear goals make it possible to finish a project feeling proud instead of regretful. Renovation is a roller coaster, but with the right support, it can still be joyful. (00:00) Welcome & What This Episode Is About (01:20) Letting Go of “Perfect” Expectations (02:50) The #1 Regret: Not Doing Enough at Once (05:15) Checking Boxes vs. How You Really Live (06:55) Big Decisions vs. Small, Fixable Ones (08:55) Social Media, Trends, and Timeless Design (10:55) Designing for Future Life Stages (12:30) Technology Regrets & Obsolescence (14:05) Limits of Renderings and 3D Visuals (15:25) Speak Up or Regret It Later (17:00) Regrets About the Construction Process (18:45) Fewer Regrets with the Right Team (19:47) Final Thoughts & Listener Invitation Have questions? Want to be on our show? Email us! admin@htsspodcast.com Learn about our hosts: Marilyn: Runcible Studios: https://runciblestudios.com SherI: Springhouse Architects: https://springhousearchitects.com Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
