How much is too much to share on social media? What does it really mean to protect someone you love? In Episode 39 of Milfshake, hosts Goldi and Cori welcome special guest Shanita Joy for a deeply personal and layered conversation about privacy, protection, and what it really means to guard the things you love. The episode opens with recent Brandy headlines from a segment of It Is What It Is, sparking a discussion of men who kiss and tell, which naturally flows into how much of your past, including your body count, you should share with a partner, and whether shame shapes those conversations. The ladies explore what you share with the public on social media, what you filter even with your closest friends, and how much access your friends should have to your partner. The back half of the episode gets more intimate as the hosts reflect on what it looks like to protect your relationship, what protection means as a woman, physically, emotionally, financially, and intentionally, and closes with a vulnerable conversation about priorities, self-care, and making sure you and your partner are both poured into so you can show up for each other. About Today’s Guest Shanita Joy is a mother, wife, registered nurse, doula, and board-certified lactation consultant who has built her life and career around holding women through some of their most tender moments. With credentials spanning birth, breastfeeding, postpartum, and newborn care, and a philosophy anchored in Choosing Joy®, she brings clinical expertise and real-life warmth to every family she serves. Key Points from this Episode 0:00 [Welcome to Milfshake!] Meet today’s hosts, Goldi and Cori, with special guest, Shanita Joy! 0:30 [The Spill] A recent episode of It Is What It Is, and recent Brandy headlines bring up the discussion on how the ladies feel about men who kiss and tell. 6:15 [The Body Count] The ladies unpack how much of your relationship history you should share with a partner and whether shame influences those conversations. 10:35 [Privately Public] The moms discuss how they navigate social media transparency while intentionally keeping parts of their lives out of the public eye. 14:48 [A Friend Filter] The hosts explore how much of your private life you share with friends, the power of pouring into your circle, and having different friends for different needs. 23:44 [Friends & Partners] The ladies debate how much access your friends should have to your partner and what that says about trust on both sides. 27:15 [Protecting Your Relationship] The conversation leads to a reflection on what it looks like to protect your relationship through privacy, authenticity, and clear communication. 34:07 [A Woman’s Safety] The conversation shifts to what real protection feels like for a woman: emotional, physical, financial, and the intentional effort to create space for vulnerability. 43:58 [Prioritizing Your Partner] The ladies close out with an honest discussion on where your partner falls in your list of priorities and why taking care of yourself first makes you better for them. Join the Milfshake Mafia: 🥤 Join the Milfshake Mafia on Patreon: http://patreon.com/MilfshakePodcast 🥤 Watch more on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@MilfshakePodcast 🥤 Follow us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/milfshakepodcast 🥤Connect with us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/MilfshakePodcast/ 🥤 Follow us on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@milfshakepodcast 🥤 Connect with Milfshake on Threads: https://www.threads.com/@milfshakepodcast 🥤 Get it all on Linktree: https://linktr.ee/milfshakepodcast 🔊 Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/75xH9DlycSRPFikfDcVJmP?si=0f4c7747e3c6492a 🔊 Listen on Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/milfshake-podcast/id1818428289 ☎️ Leave Us a Voicemail: (646) 926-0067 ✉️ For Business Inquiries, email: rose@photobombshell.media 🥂Thank You to Our Spirits Partner! 🥂 This episode of Milfshake is proudly sponsored by PLUSH Vodka!
