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Hosted by mother-daughter duo Jacqueline & Lauren, this is your reminder that you matter, while we navigate a world where we do too. Because we're all human, and that's enough. You can expect conversations about healing from generational trauma (as two people living it), recovering from burnout and people pleasing, navigating imposter syndrome, privilege and perspective shifts. Sometimes we laugh until we cry, and by laugh we mean cackle. Sometimes we cry until we laugh. Sometimes we go deep, sometimes we’re ridiculous. But every episode is rooted in one truth: you matter.

  1. May 19

    The French Retreat Episode 🇫🇷🍷

    This week’s episode is coming to you from home because honestly… life has been LIFING. But we needed to sit down and talk about something important: Mum went to France for a women’s business retreat… and came back different. What started as “oh my god I can’t believe I’m doing this” turned into a week of: ✨ nervous system work ✨ uncomfortable growth ✨ women supporting women without competition ✨ ice plunges ✨ and the very emotional realisation that maybe you do belong in the room after all We talk about imposter syndrome, self leadership, eldest daughter energy, being seen by other women, and what happens when you stop trying to prove yourself long enough to actually listen to yourself. Also Lauren continues her mission of emotionally processing things by immediately making jokes. If you’ve ever: struggled to take up space felt “too much” or “not enough” found yourself constantly caring for everyone else first or wondered who you are underneath survival mode… this one will be worth a listen. And honestly, we think more people deserve spaces where they feel celebrated instead of evaluated. Come have a listen 🤍

    40 min

  2. May 12

    Emotional Exhaustion, Burnout & The Mental Load

    You know that weird kind of tired where sleeping doesn’t even touch it? Yeah. That. This week’s episode is about capacity, the real kind. Not colour-coded planners. Not “have you tried batching your tasks?” nonsense. We mean actual human capacity. Emotional. Physical. Mental. The invisible battery pack nobody talks about until it’s flashing red and you’re crying because someone asked what’s for tea. We talk about what happens when you become the person who holds everything together by default. The one who remembers birthdays, notices moods, keeps the peace, absorbs tension, replies to the school email, books the appointment, buys the toothpaste, and somehow still says “I’m fine” on autopilot. Even when you’re absolutely knackered. There’s a really honest conversation in this one about the stuff we don’t always admit out loud:✨ why lying on the sofa doom scrolling isn’t actually rest (even though your body technically stopped moving)✨ how stress, hormones, burnout and emotional load quietly shrink your capacity over time✨ why receiving help can feel oddly exposing, sometimes even unsafe✨ and the tiny, unglamorous things that slowly start bringing you back to yourself again If your body has been trying to send you a notification - “I cannot keep living at this pace forever,” we think this conversation is worth listening to  We’re Lauren and Jacqueline — a mother-daughter duo having real conversations about emotional health, nervous systems, burnout, self-compassion, identity, and what it actually looks like to know you matter outside of Instagram quote graphics and wellness buzzwords. New episodes every week. And if you know someone who’s always “doing great!” while visibly carrying the weight of several small countries on their back… send this to them. They probably need it more than they realise.

    48 min

  3. May 5

    Why You Feel Overwhelmed or Shut Down (Your Nervous System Explained)

    Ever feel completely overwhelmed… then suddenly flat, numb, or like you just can’t care anymore? That’s your nervous system! In this episode, we’re talking about the Window of Tolerance, the space where you feel steady, clear, and able to cope… and what happens when you’re pushed outside of it. Because most of us are either: • Up and out — anxious, wired, overthinking everything • Down and in — shut down, disconnected, “what’s the point” Yeah this is familiar to us too! We share real moments of what this actually feels like in our lives, from overwhelm hitting mid-walk on a beach to the pull of shutdown, and why your capacity for stress isn’t random. We also get into: • Why your past and environment shape how wide your “window” is • How pressure, stress, and even privilege play into your nervous system • Simple ways to bring yourself back when you feel out of control (yes, actual things you can try straight away) This is one of those episodes that helps you understand yourself a little more… and hopefully judge yourself a little less. We’re Lauren and Jacqueline, a mother-daughter duo exploring emotional health, nervous systems, and what it really means to know you matter. If this resonates, follow the podcast and share it with someone who’s been feeling a bit all over the place lately.

    38 min

  4. Apr 28

    Why You Don’t Trust Yourself (And How to Start Listening Again)

    There’s a voice underneath all the ‘stuff’ in our brains.  Most people can’t hear it anymore. In this episode, we’re talking about the quiet voice.The one that gets drowned out by “shoulds”, expectations, and everything you were taught growing up. Finish your plate. Go to school even if you feel awful. Do it this way. Use the blue pen. It starts small. Then one day you realise… you don’t actually trust yourself. We get into: • Why your inner voice got quieter over time • The patterns running underneath your decisions (hello “I’m not OK”) • What your inner critic actually feels like in your body • And how to start hearing yourself again without forcing it This is a sit-there-for-a-second kind of episode. The kind where something clicks and you can’t unsee it. We’re Lauren and Jacqueline, mother and daughter, building a business and a life around one belief: you matter. If this makes sense we’d love to invite you to follow the podcast and send it to someone who’s been second-guessing themselves lately The Blondes

    44 min

  5. Apr 21

    What Happens When You’re Always “The Strong One”?

    You know the one… the person everyone relies on. The one who copes with everything and keeps it all together. But what happens when being “the strong one” stops feeling like something useful… and starts feeling like something else? In this episode, Lauren and Jacqueline — a mother-daughter duo who have both lived this in very different ways — unpack the patterns that sit underneath that identity. From over functioning and people pleasing… to staying quiet, achieving, controlling, and quietly withdrawing… we explore what it really means to be “the strong one”, and why so many of us don’t know who we are without it. This is a conversation rooted in lived experience, nervous system work, and the kind of honesty that comes from doing this work side by side — as a family, and in the work we do with others. If you’ve ever felt like the one who has to hold it all together, we’d love to invite you to have a listen, and if you’re feeling heard, or even like you have thoughts you want to share - leave us a comment or find us on Instagram  If this resonates and you’d like support exploring this more deeply, you can work with Jacqueline 1:1 here: https://link.expertspace.io/widget/bookings/complimentary-45-minute-session

    46 min

  6. Apr 14

    Are you a workaholic?

    Let’s be honest, we thought we were pretty good at boundaries. And then we actually looked at our behaviour. Between taking our notebooks to dinner, working on holiday and putting our phones on “do not disturb” at 10pm… and calling that enough we realised we might be missing something… In this conversation we go deeper than “just set better boundaries” because it really isn’t that simple. We talk about: Why boundaries aren’t rules or punishments… they’re information about what you need to feel safe The subtle ways work can become tied to your sense of worth What happens when you don’t know how to switch off, even when you want to How anger can actually point you towards where a boundary has been crossed  And the difference between personal responsibility and the very real systems we’re living inside And to be honest for the rest, you’ll just have to listen! We’d love to hear from you, if you listen and it gets you thinking, or if you listen and disagree! All feedback and thoughts are welcome.  Simply head over to one of our Instagrams or drop a comment right here.  Can’t wait to hear from you. The Blondes

    38 min

  7. Apr 7

    Why You Stop After Doing Something Brave (It’s Not Procrastination)

    Have you ever done something really brave… and then immediately shut down? Like, you put yourself out there, it actually works and then suddenly you can’t move? This week Lauren shares exactly that. She offered free character artwork to authors (to stretch the muscle, see what would happen) expected a few responses…and got hundreds. And the moment she chose who to work with, she stopped, she couldn’t create, she couldn't even start. She was completely frozen. So in this episode we get into what’s actually going on in that moment, because it’s not laziness. We talk about: • Why procrastination is often fear, not avoidance • The voice that says “you have to do this” and “you’re not good enough” at the same time • What happens in your brain after you do something brave • How Lauren broke the block by simply acknowledging the thoughts instead of fighting them • And why asking “can we make this more fun?” might be more powerful than forcing yourself through it This is a real-time, messy, honest look at what it feels like to hit a wall… right after momentum. If you’ve ever thought “why can’t I just get on with it?” this one might change how you see yourself.

    40 min

  8. Mar 31

    4 Years in Business: How It Started vs What We Actually Built)

    This episode is a bit of a “how did we get here?” moment… Because somehow — somehow — we are 4 years into this business. And it all started in a cabin. With a hot tub. While Lauren was pregnant and throwing up every five minutes. Naturally. In this one we’re chatting about where it all began, what we thought we were building… and what it’s actually become. We get into: ✨ The original idea (a retreat with coaching, art, journaling… and honestly still a vibe) 🎨 What’s shifting for us right now halfway through the Unlocking course 🧠 The “inner circus” — aka the voices in your head, your saboteurs, and who’s actually running the show 💪 Why most people stop at insight (the 20%) and never build the mental muscle (the 80%) 👗 Jacqueline casually deciding she might just… make her own clothes now?? 🎭 Lauren painting again daily after years of feeling blocked 🌍 And a slightly unhinged story about travelling to Milan with no money, no phone, and just ✨vibes✨ It’s reflective, a bit chaotic, a bit emotional, and very “we didn’t plan this but here we are.” And also… we might finally be ready to bring that original retreat idea to life 👀 So if you’ve ever had an idea that wouldn’t leave you alone, or you’re in the messy middle of building something that doesn’t look how you expected… come and sit with us for this one. Big love, The Blondes 💛

    37 min
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Hosted by mother-daughter duo Jacqueline & Lauren, this is your reminder that you matter, while we navigate a world where we do too. Because we're all human, and that's enough. You can expect conversations about healing from generational trauma (as two people living it), recovering from burnout and people pleasing, navigating imposter syndrome, privilege and perspective shifts. Sometimes we laugh until we cry, and by laugh we mean cackle. Sometimes we cry until we laugh. Sometimes we go deep, sometimes we’re ridiculous. But every episode is rooted in one truth: you matter.

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