Basically Unbothered

Unfiltered. Unapologetic. Unbothered.

Basically Unbothered Unfiltered. Unapologetic. Unbothered. A podcast that serves side-eye, soft chaos, and sharp takes on pop culture, life, and everything in between. blakegabrielle.substack.com

  1. Unbothered and Creating My Own Path

    6d ago

    Unbothered and Creating My Own Path

    Basically Unbothered: Books, Black Fantasy, Celebrity Boundaries & Building a Life That Fits You This week, Gabi is joined by entrepreneur and Agency 811 founder Myra for a conversation that starts with books and somehow ends up unpacking creativity, entrepreneurship, celebrity culture, and what it means to build a life on your own terms. The pair dive into Black fantasy literature, the importance of representation in storytelling, the challenges of writing and publishing books, and why Gabi personally curates every title that enters her indie bookstore. They also discuss Harry Potter's lasting impact, the realities of indie publishing, and the difference between creating for passion versus creating for profit. Later, they tackle the week's pop culture headlines, including Pete Davidson's parenting controversy, Ashley Tisdale's former mom group drama, Queen Latifah's thoughts on privacy, and why society feels entitled to celebrities' personal lives. The episode closes with an inspiring conversation about entrepreneurship, multiple streams of income, authenticity in marketing, and why you don't have to limit yourself to one dream, one career, or one version of yourself opics Include: Black fantasy and diverse storytelling Writing, publishing, and indie bookstores Harry Potter and the power of worldbuilding Pete Davidson and modern parenting debates Ashley Tisdale's mom group controversy Queen Latifah on privacy and fame Entrepreneurship and side hustles Building a personal brand authentically Why your life can have more than one chapter This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit blakegabrielle.substack.com/subscribe

    1h 37m
  2. Recapped: Hayden Panettiere, Hot Takes & Hard Truths

    Jun 1

    Recapped: Hayden Panettiere, Hot Takes & Hard Truths

    Healing Isn’t Linear, and Neither Is This Week’s Recap This week on Basically Unbothered Recapped, I’m sharing a little bit of where I’ve been emotionally as I continue processing trauma and preparing to tell a story I’ve carried for a very long time. Alongside life updates, we talk about the launch of The Creatives, upcoming bookstore events, and the realities of trying to build creative dreams while navigating real life. Of course, we also get into: ✨ The rumored return of the Cheetah Girls ✨ Ariana Grande’s newest music ✨ Updates from The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives ✨ Why the internet’s obsession with criticizing Taylor Frankie Paul continues to spark conversations about accountability, healing, and public perception ✨ My latest Criminal Minds and The Rookie binge updates The heart of this episode centers around Hayden Panettiere’s powerful conversation with Jay Shetty, which sparked a deeper discussion about trauma, addiction, motherhood, family expectations, and what it means to finally tell your truth. Sometimes healing looks like therapy. Sometimes it looks like magnesium supplements and reality TV. And sometimes it looks like realizing you’re allowed to take up space with your own story. This week’s episode is equal parts vulnerable, chaotic, reflective, and unapologetically unbothered. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit blakegabrielle.substack.com/subscribe

    59 min
  3. Unbothered and Refusing to Be an Athena

    May 27

    Unbothered and Refusing to Be an Athena

    This week on Basically Unbothered, we got into one of those conversations that somehow starts in one place and then suddenly you’re talking about grief, women’s health, mental health, AI, survival, societal pressure, and all the things people usually try to tiptoe around. And honestly? I love conversations like that because they remind me how human we all actually are underneath all the noise. I sat down with Kayla Branstetter to talk about the inspiration behind Don’t Be an Athena, the importance of women’s stories, and the reality that so many women are expected to carry impossible emotional weight while still showing up for everybody else. Kayla shares the inspiration behind her book Don’t Be an Athena, which focuses on amplifying women’s stories across different backgrounds and experiences. We talked about the way society often expects women to be endlessly strong, endlessly selfless, endlessly resilient, while rarely giving them room to simply be human. We also get into: * The realities of women’s reproductive healthcare * Mental health and societal expectations * The ethics of AI and technology * Celebrity culture and emotional disconnection * Community support and survival * Why empathy feels so rare right now * The importance of telling stories that reflect real women’s lives There’s a moment in the episode where we discuss how legislation impacts real women’s lives, and honestly, that conversation stayed with me long after recording ended. So much of this episode is about remembering the humanity behind the headlines, statistics, and debates people casually throw around online. It’s emotional. It’s thoughtful. It’s occasionally chaotic in the most human way possible. And at the center of it all is the reminder that women deserve to exist outside of impossible expectations. You can connect with Kayla here: * Kayla Branstetter on Instagram * Kayla Branstetter on LinkedIn And check out Don’t Be an Athena. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit blakegabrielle.substack.com/subscribe

    1h 43m
  4. Recapped: Breadcrumbs, Bad Twists & Bucharest

    May 25

    Recapped: Breadcrumbs, Bad Twists & Bucharest

    On this episode of Basically Unbothered Recaps, Blake takes listeners through the chaotic aftermath of a writers retreat that promised creativity and delivered… gluten-free disappointment, questionable planning, and emotional whiplash. From overpriced workshops and identity discourse gone sideways to being kicked out of a group chat after speaking up, this episode is equal parts hilarious, frustrating, and painfully honest. Then the pop culture spiral begins: fake AI music drops, Cat’s Eye controversy, Huda’s new single, Drake’s contract escape plan, Ariana Grande updates, and finally a deep dive into the psychological thriller Unforgettable starring Rosario Dawson and Katherine Heigl. Blake breaks down why the movie almost works, where the thriller breadcrumbs fail, and why some twists collapse like a folding chair at a family reunion. It’s messy, funny, sharp, and deeply “what the hell was THAT?” energy from start to finish. Watch Unforgettable here. Read the Katseye article here. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit blakegabrielle.substack.com/subscribe

    56 min
  5. Unbothered by Playing it Small

    May 20

    Unbothered by Playing it Small

    What happens when mindset meets momentum? In Episode 53 of Basically Unbothered, Gabi sits down with entrepreneur and founder of LogisticsSales.com, Daman, for a conversation about building success without losing yourself in the process. Together, they unpack the realities of entrepreneurship, the power of community, and why imagination might be one of the most underrated tools for growth. From overcoming fear and self-doubt to navigating social media illusions and learning how to trust your own vision, this episode dives deep into what it really takes to create a meaningful life and career. Gabi and Daman explore: Why momentum matters more than perfection Breaking free from “the matrix” mindset around work and success Building supportive communities that actually help people grow The role of sacrifice, discipline, and adaptability in entrepreneurship Social media’s impact on our perception of success Why imagination and belief are essential at every age This episode is equal parts motivational, reflective, and real. If you’ve been feeling stuck, uninspired, or unsure about your next move, consider this your reminder to keep going. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit blakegabrielle.substack.com/subscribe

    1h 27m

  6. May 18

    Recapped: Criminal Minds & Modern Exhaustion

    This week on Basically Unbothered Recapped, Gabi dives into everything from the upcoming A Simply Different Worldspinoff to the complicated state of Black representation in media, celebrity controversies, and the emotional weight behind societal expectations. From nostalgic TV conversations to deeper reflections on boundaries, burnout, toxic cycles, and healing, this episode balances pop culture commentary with real-life vulnerability. Gabi also breaks down episodes from Criminal Minds Season 5, explores how media portrays abuse and recovery, and questions the pressure society places on productivity, perfection, and survival. Through conversations about Black women in entertainment, social media drama, and emotional resilience, this episode asks one major question: How do we get better as a society? Topics include: The A Simply Different World spinoff Black TV and wholesome representation Celebrity and influencer controversies Toxic relationships and CPTSD Mental health, rest, and burnout Boundaries and emotional healing Criminal Minds Season 5 reflections Social media culture and accountability This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit blakegabrielle.substack.com/subscribe

    56 min
  7. Unbothered by Their Definition of Success

    May 13

    Unbothered by Their Definition of Success

    In this episode of Basically Unbothered, Coach Lee and Gabi dive into the realities of balancing work, mental health, self-care, and personal growth in today’s world. From rising costs of living and political conversations to productivity coaching and authentic self-discovery, the two explore what it really means to build a life that works for you. They discuss boundaries, burnout, Black women’s voices in society, celebrity culture, perseverance, and the importance of trusting your own pace instead of forcing yourself into hustle culture. Packed with honest reflections, humor, and practical insight, this episode is a reminder that success doesn’t have to come at the cost of your peace. Resources Coach Lee’s Website The Devil Wears Prada Movie South Carolina State Protest This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit blakegabrielle.substack.com/subscribe

    1h 31m
  8. Recapped: Criminal Minds and Coping Mechanisms

    May 11

    Recapped: Criminal Minds and Coping Mechanisms

    This week on Basically Unbothered Recapped, Gabi catches listeners up on her whirlwind schedule, recent personal milestones, and the balancing act between ambition and burnout. From a successful vendor event and prepping for an upcoming writer’s retreat to thoughts on Met Gala fashion and binge-watching Criminal Minds season 5, this episode blends pop culture commentary with honest life reflections. She also opens up about officially ending her chapter with the Navy Reserves, getting a new piercing, and learning patience during a season of self-discovery and change. It’s a candid conversation about growth, exhaustion, creativity, and finding moments of joy in the middle of chaos. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit blakegabrielle.substack.com/subscribe

    48 min
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Basically Unbothered Unfiltered. Unapologetic. Unbothered. A podcast that serves side-eye, soft chaos, and sharp takes on pop culture, life, and everything in between. blakegabrielle.substack.com

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  • Creator
    Unfiltered. Unapologetic. Unbothered.
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    57
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Blake Gabrielle
  • Show Website
    Basically Unbothered