Most of us have a friend we've slowly let drift, and the longer we wait, the more awkward it feels to reach out. Discover why the fix is simpler than you think, and how to make the first move. A lot of us have a friend we used to be close to, and we can't quite remember when we stopped calling. Life sped up. New responsibilities came in. Somewhere in there the calls got rarer, then stopped, and neither of you meant for it to happen. Then one day their name crosses your mind, you realize how long it's been, and a wave of embarrassment hits. Right behind the thought of reaching out comes the excuse: it's been too long, they've probably forgotten all about it, they might not even want to hear from me. This episode opens with Pak Yan and Joe Chan, boyhood friends in Hong Kong who lost touch after Joe's family moved to America in 1962. Thirty-eight years passed. Pak never let go of the friendship, so he searched Joe's name, found one hundred and eight strangers, and started dialing down the list, leaving one voicemail after another. Scripture speaks straight to the drift. Solomon wrote in Proverbs 27:10, "Do not forsake your own friend or your father's friend... Better is a neighbor nearby than a brother far away." Solomon is talking about more than betrayal. He means the slow forsaking that happens by neglect, when a good friendship dies because nobody tended it. Friendships need active tending, or they fade, and nobody sends you a reminder that it's been eight months since you talked. So drop the story you've been telling yourself about how your friend must feel. You can't know for sure. They may be waiting for your call, or feeling the same guilt you are, each of you waiting for the other to go first. Go first anyway. The way through the awkwardness is a text that says, "I've been thinking about you, and I'm sorry it's been so long." Most of the time, that one message reopens the door. Bart shares his own version of this, a friend he keeps meaning to call while the awkwardness keeps building. Pak's story ended well: on his 104th call, Joe called back, and it felt like they picked up right where they left off. Now they meet every week, two old friends who almost lost each other to nothing more than time. BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU'LL DISCOVER: Why good friendships fade through simple neglect, with no one meaning for it to happenWhat Proverbs 27:10 says about tending your friendships instead of forsaking themThe one simple text that gets you past the awkwardness and reopens the door You are not too late. Send the text, own the silence, and let God warm up a friendship that only drifted because life got busy. Share This Episode: https://www.dailydevotionsforbusylives.com/317 Need Prayer? Leave me a voicemail: https://www.dailydevotionsforbusylives.com/voicemail Want to keep these devotions coming? Please consider supporting this podcast. https://www.dailydevotionsforbusylives.com/support/ Rate and Review https://www.dailydevotionsforbusylives.com/reviews/new/ Connect with Bart Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/dailydevotionsforbusylives Website: https://www.dailydevotionsforbusylives.com Feeling spiritually drained? Start here. Download your free copy of my eBook Making Time for Jesus here: https://www.dailydevotionsforbusylives.com/subscribe.