The RTWV Podcast

Boluwatife Victoria Abiodun
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The RTWV Podcast is where faith and real life meet in honest conversation. Coach Vikkie — relationship counsellor, marriage and family therapist, and founder of RTWV Academy — brings the Word to the questions about singleness, marriage, identity, discernment, and the Holy Spirit that your group chat is already asking. No performance, no easy answers — just truth, grace, and the kind of company that makes the hard seasons easier to walk through. New episodes every Wednesday.

  1. Jul 29

    How Do You Actually Hear God About A Person

    How do you actually hear God about a person? Not in theory. Not in a sermon. In real life, when you like him, when you’re hoping, when your feelings are already loud. In this episode, Coach Vikkie goes into the Word to give you a biblical framework for hearing from God in the context of a relationship — the three lanes scripture gives us, why emotional involvement changes what you hear, and a practical tool for creating enough stillness to hear what God is actually saying versus what you want to hear. This is one of the most important discernment conversations we’ll have in this series. IN THIS EPISODE: 00:00 — Cold Open: The question nobody answers honestly 00:45 — Introduction 02:30 — Why hearing God about a person is genuinely difficult 05:00 — Filter 1: The Word — the first and non-negotiable test 06:30 — Filter 2: The witness of the Spirit — what it actually feels like 07:30 — Filter 3: Wise counsel — and why defensiveness is data 09:00 — The conditions required to hear clearly 10:00 — The 30-day still practice 11:30 — Esther’s story: peace that moved with her emotions 13:30 — Closing prayer 14:30 — Outro hearing from God, Christian discernment, how to know God’s will, relationship decisions, Christian dating, Holy Spirit discernment, Coach Vikkie, RTWV Podcast

    How Do You Actually Hear God About A Person

  2. Jul 8

    Nobody Tells You About How Lonely High Standards Can Feel

    The quiet 11pm loneliness of holding the line — and how to know if your standard is wisdom or fear. Watching everyone else move on can make you question your own standards. This episode breaks down the real difference between wisdom and fear, shares a story about a standard that needed clarifying instead of lowering, and makes peace with the cost of holding the line. 0:00 — Cold open 0:45 — Intro 2:00 — The loneliness nobody names 4:30 — Wisdom vs. fear 8:30 — A real story: Adaeze 11:30 — The cost that's worth paying 13:30 — Closing prayer 14:30 — Outro #TheRTWVPodcast #CoachVikkie #KnowYourWorth #ChristianDating #StandardsNotSettling

    Nobody Tells You About How Lonely High Standards Can Feel

  3. Jul 1

    I’m Tired Of Waiting & I don’t Know What Else To Do

    A real message Coach Vikkie received this week, word for word — and the honest episode it became. Tired of waiting doesn't mean your faith is failing. This episode sits in the exhaustion first, then walks through what to actually do with it: building a real life now, protecting your peace from comparison, and telling God the truth about how tired you really are. 0:00 — Cold open 0:45 — Intro 2:00 — Tired doesn't mean faithless 5:00 — What's actually underneath the tiredness 9:30 — A real story: Funmi 12:00 — What I won't promise you 13:30 — Closing prayer 14:30 — Outro #TheRTWVPodcast #CoachVikkie #WaitingSeason #ChristianSingles #FaithAndPatience #christianmarriagepodcast #menrelationshipspodcast #spiritualdatingpodcast #relationshipadvicepodcast #couplespodcasttopics #couplesppdcast

    I’m Tired Of Waiting & I don’t Know What Else To Do

  4. Jun 24

    Why Am I Still Single?

    “Wait on God” isn't the only honest answer to this question — and today Coach Vikkie gives you the rest of it. If you've asked yourself why you're still single more times than you'd admit out loud, this episode goes past the Sunday school answer into the patterns, the grief, and the fear that often hide underneath the question. Real talk, no shame, with a story and a prayer to take with you. 0:00 — Cold open 0:45 — Intro 2:00 — The answer we've all been given 4:00 — The answers we don't talk about 8:30 — A real story: Bose 11:00 — What to actually do with this 13:30 — Closing prayer 14:30 — Outro #TheRTWVPodcast #CoachVikkie #ChristianSingles #StillSingle #RelationshipClarity

    Why Am I Still Single?

  5. Apr 1

    The Truth About Sex in Christian Relationships

    Sex is often reduced to a physical act, but in Christian relationships, it carries emotional and spiritual weight. In this episode, we have an honest and balanced conversation about sex, boundaries, and God’s design for intimacy. We explore why sex is not just physical, why it is reserved for marriage, how it affects emotional attachment, and how to navigate desire with wisdom and self-control. This is not a message of shame, but a message of clarity, growth, and alignment. 00:00 – Intro: Why this conversation matters 03:20 – Misunderstanding sex in Christian relationships 07:10 – Sex is not just physical 11:30 – God’s design for sex within marriage 15:40 – Emotional and spiritual attachment 19:20 – The danger of early intimacy 23:10 – Self-control and discipline 26:40 – The importance of boundaries 30:10 – Grace, growth, and moving forward

    The Truth About Sex in Christian Relationships

  6. Mar 12

    Why Are So Many Good Men/Women Still Single?

    Why are so many genuinely good men and women still single? In this episode, we explore the deeper reasons behind modern singleness. This conversation challenges the assumption that being single automatically means something is wrong. We talk about intentional dating, emotional healing, compatibility, timing, and how modern dating culture affects meaningful relationships. This episode will help you understand why singleness is not always a delay or failure, but sometimes a reflection of wisdom, growth, and discernment. 00:00 – Intro: The question many people ask quietly 03:20 – Why singleness is often misunderstood 07:40 – Being intentional versus rushing relationships 11:10 – Why alignment is harder than people think 15:00 – Healing before commitment 19:30 – How modern dating culture complicates relationships 23:40 – Standards versus unrealistic expectations 27:50 – The role of timing in relationships 31:10 – Closing thoughts

    Why Are So Many Good Men/Women Still Single?

  7. Jan 20

    Are We Rushing Relationships Too Much?

    We live in a generation that rushes everything — including love. People meet today, commit tomorrow, and start planning futures they barely understand. We rush titles, intimacy, emotional attachment, and decisions that are meant to shape our lives for years. In this episode, Are We Rushing Relationships Too Much?, we slow things down and ask the hard but necessary questions. Not to judge, not to shame — but to bring clarity. This conversation explores: ​ Why modern relationships feel rushed and pressured​ How fear of loneliness pushes people into premature commitment​ What gets skipped when love moves too fast​ The difference between intention and urgency​ Why healthy love does not panic or pressure If you have ever felt like love was moving faster than your peace, this episode will help you pause, reflect, and choose wisely.

    Are We Rushing Relationships Too Much?

  8. Jan 13

    What Nobody Told Us About Love

    Love is one of the most desired experiences in life — yet one of the least understood. Growing up, we were taught how to want love, how to dream about it, and how to chase it. But nobody taught us how love actually works, how it exposes wounds, how it demands maturity, or how it requires responsibility beyond feelings. In this episode, What Nobody Told Us About Love, we have an honest, eye-opening conversation about the truths many people only learn after heartbreak. This episode explores: • Why love does not automatically heal you • How love exposes unhealed wounds and patterns • The difference between emotional attraction and healthy love • Why love should bring peace, not confusion • How to approach love differently in 2026 This is not a romantic fantasy episode. It is a clarity episode. A healing episode. A wisdom episode for anyone entering a new year with questions about love. If you want to love better, choose better, and stop repeating painful patterns, this conversation is for you.

    What Nobody Told Us About Love
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The RTWV Podcast is where faith and real life meet in honest conversation. Coach Vikkie — relationship counsellor, marriage and family therapist, and founder of RTWV Academy — brings the Word to the questions about singleness, marriage, identity, discernment, and the Holy Spirit that your group chat is already asking. No performance, no easy answers — just truth, grace, and the kind of company that makes the hard seasons easier to walk through. New episodes every Wednesday.

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  • Creator
    Boluwatife Victoria Abiodun
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    24
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © Boluwatife Victoria Abiodun
  • Show Website
    The RTWV Podcast

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