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Real conversations for people healing, growing, building their lives and becoming who they truly want to be. its_that_girlpearls explores self-worth, self-identity, relationships, friendships, confidence, purpose, ambition, boundaries, life lessons and the messy reality of figuring things out along the way. Expect honest stories, meaningful reflections and conversations that make you think, feel seen and dream bigger. You don’t need to have life figured out to start becoming. This is your space to reflect, evolve, know your worth and keep creating a life that feels true to you.

  1. Jul 28

    Stop Confusing Kindness with Weakness

    Having a kind heart is a beautiful thing—but what happens when people mistake your kindness for weakness? In this episode of Its That Girl Pearls Podcast, we’re talking about the importance of setting healthy boundaries, recognising when your kindness is being taken for granted, and understanding that protecting your peace doesn’t make you selfish. We’ll explore what healthy relationships should look like, why mutual respect matters, and how to stop pouring into people who only value you when it’s convenient. If you’ve ever struggled with people-pleasing, over-giving or feeling emotionally drained because others kept taking without giving back, this episode is for you. Follow the podcast, like, comment, leave a rating, and share this episode with someone who needs the reminder that kindness should always be appreciated—not exploited.

  2. Jul 28

    Stop Normalising Being Used, Manipulated and Taken for Granted

    Have you ever felt like your kindness was mistaken for weakness? Like you kept giving, showing up and caring, only to be taken for granted in return? In this episode, we’re having an honest conversation about what it feels like to be used, manipulated and emotionally drained by people who fail to appreciate your value. Whether it happens in friendships, romantic relationships, family, the workplace or even online communities, no one deserves to feel like they’re only important when they’re useful. We’ll talk about recognising unhealthy patterns, protecting your peace, setting boundaries and remembering that your worth is never determined by the way someone else chooses to treat you. If you’ve ever struggled to walk away from people who kept hurting you, this episode is for you. 🎙️ Don’t forget to follow the podcast, share this episode with someone who needs to hear it, and leave a rating if it resonates with you.

  3. Jun 22

    The Truth About Career Growth, Money, & Feeling Behind

    Have you ever looked around and felt like everyone else has their life figured out except you? Everyone seems to be getting promoted, landing jobs, buying homes, travelling, building businesses, getting brand deals, and reaching milestones while you’re still trying to figure out your next step. In this episode, we’re having a real conversation about the pressure of modern life, career struggles, financial independence, job hunting, making money, and the emotional impact of feeling behind. We’ll discuss why so many people are silently struggling despite appearing successful online, why building wealth isn’t as easy as social media makes it seem, and why rejection doesn’t mean you’re failing. We’ll also talk about the reality of living in the UK during a challenging economic climate, the rising cost of living, the difficulties many people face when searching for jobs, and the pressure young adults feel to have everything figured out by a certain age. If you’ve been questioning your progress, feeling frustrated with your journey, or wondering when your breakthrough will come, this episode is for you. You are not behind. You are not failing. And your story is still being written. Join the conversation and let’s talk about the things more people should be honest about.

  4. Jun 22

    Life Got Hard, So I Took a Break: Feeling Behind, Starting Again & Finding My Way Back

    Welcome back to Episode 20 of its_that_girlpearls Podcast. It’s been a while. I took a step back from podcasting to focus on myself, my mental well-being, and the realities of life that don’t always make it onto social media. Sometimes life gets overwhelming. Sometimes you’re trying to balance your goals, your finances, your career, your relationships, your responsibilities, and your personal growth all at the same time. And sometimes, despite your best efforts, things don’t go according to plan. In this episode, I’m opening up about what it feels like to take a break when life gets difficult, navigating seasons of uncertainty, feeling behind in life, and learning how to start again when things haven’t worked out the way you hoped they would. We’ll also talk about the pressure of comparing ourselves to others, the challenges of building a career, trying to become financially independent, and the reality that growth isn’t always visible. If you’ve ever felt stuck, discouraged, lost, exhausted, or like everyone else is moving ahead while you’re trying to figure things out, this conversation is for you. This is not a perfect success story. It’s an honest conversation about showing up anyway. Welcome back to the podcast. I’m so glad you’re here. 🤍

  5. Jan 1

    Stop Auditioning for Love

    In this episode of itsthatgirlpearls podcast I’m talking about something many of us do without realizing it: auditioning for love. That pattern of over-explaining yourself, over-giving, and trying to “prove” your value to people who keep giving you the bare minimum. Whether it’s in friendships or relationships, auditioning for love can look like always being the one to check in, always being the one to forgive, always being the one to keep things going—until you’re exhausted and emotionally drained. I share my reflections on why real love and real friendship should not feel like a competition, confusion, or a constant fight for attention. You shouldn’t have to beg for consistency. You shouldn’t have to shrink your needs to keep someone around. And you definitely shouldn’t have to sacrifice your self-respect just to be chosen. This episode is a reminder that you can be kind, soft, and genuine… while still having standards. We talk about choosing mutual energy, watching patterns instead of words, slowing down access, setting boundaries without guilt, and learning how to walk away from anything that keeps you auditioning. Because the right people won’t need you to perform—they will meet you halfway with respect, clarity, and effort. If you’ve ever felt taken for granted, unseen, or like you’re “too much” for wanting basic care, this one is for you. Keep your love—just stop giving it to people who don’t know how to value it.

  6. Jan 1

    The Desperation to Be Queen — What It Taught Me About Respect and Peace

    In this short reflection inspired by Campus Queen: The Desperation to Be Queen, I talk about the illusion of fame, the hunger for validation, and why peace will always be more valuable than popularity. If you’ve ever been taken for granted in friendships or relationships, this is your reminder: keep your love, but change your access. Real people earn your trust with consistency, respect, and patience.

  7. 09/19/2025

    Outgrowing People Without Feeling Guilty

    Sometimes the hardest part of growing is realizing that not everyone can come with you. In this episode of its_that_girlpearlspodcast, we’re talking about outgrowing friendships and relationships — and how to do it without carrying unnecessary guilt. We’ve all had those connections that just… don’t feel the same anymore. The inside jokes stop landing, the conversations feel forced, and deep down, you know the relationship has run its course. But then the guilt creeps in. Am I a bad friend? Am I selfish? Do I owe them more? This episode is here to remind you that outgrowing someone isn’t cruel — it’s a sign that you’re evolving. I share how to recognize when it’s time to let go, how to walk away gracefully without drama, and how to honor the memories while still prioritizing your growth. If you’ve ever felt guilty for pulling back from a friendship or relationship that no longer aligns with who you are, this one’s for you. 🎧 Listen now on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Amazon Music, Overcast, and more. 💌 Don’t forget to rate, comment, like, repost, and share this episode so it can reach someone who needs this reminder right now!

  8. 09/19/2025

    Ghosted, But Make It Character Development

    Getting ghosted hurts — but what if it’s actually a glow-up moment in disguise? 💅🏾 In this quick episode, we talk about how to turn ghosting into character development, stop blaming yourself, and come out even stronger (and hotter). Whether you’ve been ghosted once or 10 times (no judgment 😅), this is your sign to stop chasing, start glowing, and move on like the main character you are.

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Real conversations for people healing, growing, building their lives and becoming who they truly want to be. its_that_girlpearls explores self-worth, self-identity, relationships, friendships, confidence, purpose, ambition, boundaries, life lessons and the messy reality of figuring things out along the way. Expect honest stories, meaningful reflections and conversations that make you think, feel seen and dream bigger. You don’t need to have life figured out to start becoming. This is your space to reflect, evolve, know your worth and keep creating a life that feels true to you.

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  • Creator
    its_that_girlpearls
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    23
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    Clean
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