How Round Is Your Roti Podcast

Priya Mohal

Host Priya Mohal invites South Asian women to discuss a range of taboo topics, challenge stigmas, and work towards creating positive change within the community for women. priyamohalcoaching.substack.com

  1. Blending Cultures in Marriage: A Journey of Identity and Growth

    May 21

    Blending Cultures in Marriage: A Journey of Identity and Growth

    I wish I listened to a talk like this before I got married! My guest today Harri Dhokia has had her ups and downs in life, but what is clear from this episode is that she grew stronger and now has a very different outlook on life. In today’s multicultural world, South Asian women often face the challenge of blending cultures in cross-cultural marriages. Harri Dhokia, founder of Unleash the Wolf Within, shares her journey of merging her Gujarati roots with her Punjabi in-laws. Her story offers practical advice for maintaining authenticity while fostering harmony, something that can be very tricky to do. Harri’s marriage in 2020, just before the pandemic, brought unique challenges. The sudden loss of her mother-in-law and the lockdown tested her resilience. Moving to a new environment and navigating language differences added complexity. Harri emphasises the importance of staying true to oneself. She celebrates her Gujarati traditions while respecting her in-laws’ practices. Her advice: set boundaries that honour your beliefs and communicate openly. Maintaining personal identity is crucial. Harri’s decision to keep her maiden name underscores her self-empowerment. She encourages women to prioritise self-care and challenge traditional gender roles. Just because we are married, it shouldn’t wipe away the identity we have built up for ourselves. Times have shifted and by embracing authenticity, women can transform potential conflicts into growth opportunities. I hope you enjoy this episode as much as I did. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit priyamohalcoaching.substack.com

    33 min
  2. Understanding PMDD, A Severe Menstrual Condition

    Apr 23

    Understanding PMDD, A Severe Menstrual Condition

    Are you aware of PMDD? As a menstruating person, this was unfortunately not a topic I knew much about, but after seeing Dimple, a mental health pharamcist share some posts online about her lived experience, I wanted to speak with her about this condition to raise awareness. In this candid conversation, we both agree that periods and anything to do with them were not widely shared in South Asian households, so what happens when someone is experiencing symptoms such as fatigue, brain fog, irritability and suicidal ideation every month? Dimple explains what PMDD is, how it differs from PMS, and what steps you can take to get a diagnosis. We also discuss the impact it has on her daily life, including adjustments that support her at work and how she has to plan around her PMDD with her husband. I’m grateful to Dimple for sharing her experience, as we know periods and women’s suffering in general are not always taken seriously by the South Asian community or even doctors, as Dimple experienced. By understanding PMDD and raising awareness, we can break stigma, support each other, and promote better health for women. If you’re experiencing symptoms, don’t hesitate to seek help—you deserve understanding and relief. Below are some resources you may wish to look into, as mentioned on the episode. Resources International Association for Premenstrual Disorders (IAPMD Hope: A Guide to PMDD for Partners & Caregivers Follow Dimple Khatiri on Socials LinkedIN Instagram - thepmddpharmacist Chapters 00:00 Understanding PMDD: A Deep Dive 04:08 Personal Journey: From Dismissal to Diagnosis 06:43 Life After Diagnosis: Acceptance and Empowerment 08:54 Building Community: Finding Support 12:03 Navigating Relationships: Family and Work Dynamics 14:50 Breaking Stigmas: Cultural Conversations 19:10 Myths and Misconceptions: PMDD vs PMS 22:07 Next Steps: Seeking Help and Support This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit priyamohalcoaching.substack.com

    26 min
  3. The Journey to Divorce: Sonia’s Story

    Mar 26

    The Journey to Divorce: Sonia’s Story

    This candid chat with Sonia Gupta highlights the pressure and guilt women face to stay in unhappy marriages, plus the financial implications of leaving, which we don’t often think about at the start of marriages. It may be unromantic, but perhaps we should? Sonia saw her divorce as a new beginning for herself and something to celebrate, which then went viral when the papers called it a divorce party! However, the journey to Sonia’s divorce was not easy or simple; she spent years advocating for it, wanting the support of her parents and working to ensure she could support herself and her two sons. During this time, Sonia felt immense pressure from her family to maintain her marriage: “My mom said, ‘Maybe you should stay home and make roti,’” Sonia shared, echoing the common expectation that women prioritise their roles as wives and mothers over their own happiness, but Sonia chose divorce and put her happiness first, something many women have been discouraged from doing. She now hears regularly from women going through divorce and supports them through the process, because she knows how lonely and isolating it can be, but her advice is not always to go through with it. Listen to the full story to hear about Sonia’s journey. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Sonia’s Journey 01:48 Cultural Expectations and Personal Struggles 05:26 The Battle for Independence 08:44 Celebrating Freedom: The Divorce Party 12:04 Navigating Parental Expectations 13:28 The Impact of the Divorce Party 18:09 Empowering Women Through Shared Stories 21:37 Cultural Pressures and Financial Independence 24:16 Supporting Women in Transition 28:56 The Importance of Open Conversations 33:50 Looking Ahead: The Upcoming Book Launch About Sonia Relationship and Divorce Mentor and Coach... Redefining Self-Worth in South Asian Relationships. Find out more here: www.itsasoniathing.com https://www.instagram.com/_itsasoniathing_?igsh=c2xha3RsbDhjcG5w https://www.facebook.com/share/1Avue15JdP/ This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit priyamohalcoaching.substack.com

    35 min
  4. Overcoming Blocks: A Journey to Self-Discovery

    Mar 4

    Overcoming Blocks: A Journey to Self-Discovery

    At some point in life, some people may step back from their everyday routines and wonder why things haven’t gone as they planned or why they still aren’t happy. In this episode, I speak to Sarita Babber, who shares her story of self-discovery and how she uses mindset techniques to break through barriers that she never knew were there for most of her life, caught in patterns shaped by childhood conditioning and cultural expectations. As the eldest daughter in her family, she saw and experienced situations differently from her siblings, and this impacted her throughout life. Sarita’s journey from unconscious living to conscious alignment highlights a common challenge: “Your inner world shapes your outer world, and if there’s misalignment between your thoughts, emotions, and energy, life can feel like a constant struggle.” This awakening prompted her to learn more and become an Alignment coach, knowing that more people can benefit from these techniques, just as she has. Sarita discusses the importance of aligning one’s mind, body, and energy to overcome blocks and achieve personal growth. She emphasises the significance of self-reflection, journaling, and various techniques such as Ho’oponopono and affirmations in fostering emotional healing. The conversation also touches on the challenges faced by South Asian women and the need for self-care and community support. Sarita offers practical advice for those feeling stuck and highlights the transformative power of mindset and energy alignment. A useful and interesting conversation, I hope you enjoy it too! Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Alignment Coaching 02:57 Identifying and Overcoming Blocks 05:44 The Journey of Self-Reflection 08:56 Techniques for Healing and Alignment 11:41 Daily Practices for Self-Care 14:25 Transforming Mindset and Energy 17:18 The Importance of Self-Care for Women 20:10 Creating a Supportive Environment 23:07 The Role of Affirmations and Visualisation 26:02 Building a Community for Growth 29:21 Empowering Future Generations 32:12 Conclusion and Final Thoughts About Sarita She is a certified NLP and Transformational Life Coach and brings her life experience to help people realise that it’s not all mindset, but also energy and emotions that we don’t know how to process. These get stuck in our physical body and cause problems, keeping us stuck in various parts of life. Sarita focuses on healing through ho’oponopono, EFT and meditation, NLP to help align with your best version so you are able to manage your energy, emotions and mindset and manifest the life you want to live. https://www.youtube.com/@awakenyourselftoday The Alignment Blueprint Optin Page https://www.instagram.com/awakenyourselftoday/ This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit priyamohalcoaching.substack.com

    38 min
  5. Unlocking Longevity: Lifestyle Medicine for South Asian Women

    Jan 21

    Unlocking Longevity: Lifestyle Medicine for South Asian Women

    In this episode, I speak with Dr Deepal Amin, a GP and transformational coach, about the importance of lifestyle medicine and its role in promoting longevity, especially for South Asian women. It’s common to hear that we put our health on the back burner because of so many other competing priorities, but without our health, we wouldn’t get very far. I believe the tide is turning, and women are looking for ways to focus on their health in a way that does not only rely on medication but lifestyle changes. During this conversation, we went deep into many aspects of health where Deepal is personally working to make a difference. We discuss the rising prevalence of chronic diseases, the significance of personalised health interventions, and the holistic approach of lifestyle medicine, encompassing physical, mental, and social well-being. In fact, healthy relationships are also good for health! Deepal shares her personal journey into this field, the unique health risks faced by South Asian women, and the importance of prioritising health amidst busy lives. Our conversation also touches on proactive health measures and advanced diagnostics that can help individuals take charge of their health. There’s a lot here to think of when it comes to health, but Deepal’s advice is that having balance is important, take one area at a time, and focus on what you can do. If you’re interested in Deepal’s services, please do get in touch with her: Website: www.livlifelong.com Email: info@livlifelong.com LinkedIn Offer Free 20-minute discovery call.Essential Insight 360 Assessment for £99 (normally worth £180) - includes detailed pre-assessment questionnaire, 1 hour assessment and a comprehensive report. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Lifestyle and Longevity Coaching 04:47 Understanding Lifestyle Medicine 07:51 Deepa’s Personal Journey into Lifestyle Medicine 14:22 The Importance of Health for South Asian Women 19:49 Midlife Reset Program for Women 24:44 Prioritising Health in a Busy Life 33:55 Proactive Health and Diagnostics This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit priyamohalcoaching.substack.com

    43 min
  6. Rediscovering Style: Jas Chana on Fashion and Confidence

    11/14/2025

    Rediscovering Style: Jas Chana on Fashion and Confidence

    I’m thrilled to share insights from our latest episode of How Round Is Your Roti? where I had the pleasure of chatting with the fabulous Jas Chana. Jas is not just a personal stylist but a beacon of confidence for women looking to rediscover their style. Growing up in a traditional Asian family, Jas was surrounded by vibrant fabrics and the hum of a sewing machine, thanks to her seamstress mother. This early exposure ignited her passion for fashion, leading her to become a style and confidence coach. In our conversation, Jas shared how fashion is more than just clothes—it’s about feeling good and expressing oneself authentically. Listen to hear about: * Her passion for fashion and how her parents supported her choices in this field. * Using sewing as a link to our heritages —our mothers and grandmothers before us —who could design and create clothes. * The common issues Jas sees with her clients and her style tips. * The pressure of following fashion trends and how to avoid them if they’re not for you. * Our views on sustainability in fashion. * Having a separate Asian wardrobe and how to manage this (because mine is often out of control!). This episode is a must-listen for anyone looking to elevate their style and confidence. Jas’s insights are not only practical but also inspiring. I took a lot from her straightforward approach to looking good and feeling even better. Chapters 00:00 Journey into Fashion: A Personal Story 07:49 Understanding Personal Style and Client Needs 15:53 The Importance of Wardrobe Editing 24:01 Fashion vs. Personal Style: Finding Your Identity 29:46 Sustainability in Fashion: A Conscious Approach About Jas Jas Chana is a personal stylist and style confidence coach who helps busy, professional women rediscover their personal style and learn to dress their curves with confidence. Based in Essex and London, Jas works closely with her clients to help them look stylish, feel put-together, and embrace their individuality, whether they’re heading to the boardroom or the school run. With over 15 years of experience in the fashion industry, spanning styling, personal shopping, retail, fashion design, and fashion marketing, Jas brings a uniquely well-rounded perspective to every client transformation. Her signature approach combines body-positive styling, practical wardrobe solutions, and mindset-focused guidance to transform the way women see themselves, starting from the outside in. Instagram @jaschanastylist Pinterest https://uk.pinterest.com/jaschanastylist/ Linkedin https://www.linkedin.com/in/jas-chana-stylist/ This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit priyamohalcoaching.substack.com

    32 min
  7. Creating Support for Parents in Crisis

    10/31/2025

    Creating Support for Parents in Crisis

    Being a parent is hard at the best of times, but when your child is going through a mental health crisis, it can be hard not to blame yourself. In this episode, I had the pleasure of speaking with Hansa Raja, the inspiring founder of a charity in Sussex that supports parents and carers of children struggling with mental health issues. She shared how her personal experiences led her to create a safe space for parents to connect and support each other, emphasising that no parent should feel alone. Hansa’s charity, Holding Space, has supported over 1,500 parents in Sussex, offering one-to-one support, workshops, and webinars. Her story is a powerful reminder of the importance of community and peer support, especially when navigating the complexities of parenting a child with mental health challenges. We discussed the societal pressures parents face and the need for non-judgmental spaces where they can share their experiences without fear of blame. Our conversation also touched on the broader implications for workplace culture, highlighting the need for organisations to support parents and carers. Hansa’s passion for creating inclusive environments where parents can thrive both at home and work is truly commendable. I speak with many women who decide to do something themselves when they see a lack of support in the community or workplace. I hope this conversation inspires others to do what they believe in. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Hansa Raja and Her Journey 02:53 The Birth of Holding Space: Supporting Parents 05:42 Navigating Workplace Challenges for Parents 08:57 Creating Safe Spaces in Work Environments 11:42 The Evolution of Parenting and Support Systems 14:29 Encouraging Open Conversations About Mental Health 17:19 Empowering Women in the Workplace 20:38 Conclusion and Future Aspirations Connect with Hansa LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/hansa-raja/ Website: https://www.holdingspace.org.uk/ This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit priyamohalcoaching.substack.com

    21 min
  8. The Science of Breathwork and Healing

    10/16/2025

    The Science of Breathwork and Healing

    Hi everyone, I recently had the pleasure of sitting down with Ananya, a South Asian breathwork and meditation facilitator, on my podcast. Ananya’s journey from a scientific background to becoming a breathwork advocate is both inspiring and enlightening, and I wanted to share some key insights from our conversation. Ananya’s story begins with her childhood exposure to breathwork through her grandparents, who were deeply involved in Kriya Yoga and meditation. Despite this early introduction, it wasn’t until her twenties, during a period of personal loss, that Ananya truly embraced breathwork. She found solace in these practices, which helped her navigate grief and later, pregnancy loss. One of the most fascinating aspects of our conversation was Ananya’s explanation of the science behind breathwork. She highlighted how breathwork can activate the parasympathetic nervous system, reducing stress and promoting relaxation. This physiological response can have profound effects on our mental and physical well-being, from lowering heart rates to improving symptoms of chronic conditions like IBS and PTSD. Ananya’s scientific background adds a layer of credibility to her advocacy, bridging the gap between traditional practices and modern science. As a novice to breathwork myself, I was curious about how to incorporate these practices into daily life. Ananya shared practical tips, emphasising that even a few minutes of focused breathing can make a difference. Techniques like box breathing or simply extending the exhalation can be done discreetly, even in a busy workplace. This accessibility makes breathwork a valuable tool for anyone looking to manage stress and anxiety. Our conversation also touched on the cultural aspects of breathwork and healing, particularly within the South Asian community. Ananya spoke candidly about the challenges of discussing grief and loss, which are often stigmatised topics. Her openness about her own experiences with pregnancy loss and her efforts to debunk myths surrounding it are both brave and necessary. By sharing her story, Ananya hopes to create a supportive space for others to explore their own healing journeys. In closing, Ananya offered resources for those interested in starting their breathwork practice. She provides free audios and guides designed to help individuals feel more grounded and confident. Her passion for breathwork is evident, and her dedication to helping others navigate their own paths to healing is truly commendable. I left our conversation feeling inspired to explore breathwork further, both for myself and with my daughters. It’s a reminder that healing is a personal journey, and having tools like breathwork can be incredibly empowering. If you’re curious about breathwork or looking for ways to manage stress, I encourage you to give it a try. Links to her resources are below. About Ananya Ananya is a South Asian breathwork and meditation facilitator with a PhD in reproductive biology. She offers trauma-informed breathwork workshops, coaching, and resources both for individuals and in the workplace, to prevent stress and anxiety but also now—particularly for those navigating miscarriage and pregnancy after loss. Website: ananyaampersand.com Instagram: @ananyaampersand Gentle breathwork to ground you through grief and healing Free miscarriage audio meditation bundle and breathwork guide: https://ananyaampersand.myflodesk.com/freemiscarriageaudiobundle Breathe to feel grounded and confident Free breathwork and meditation guide: https://ananyaampersand.myflodesk.com/breathworkguide This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit priyamohalcoaching.substack.com

    30 min

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Host Priya Mohal invites South Asian women to discuss a range of taboo topics, challenge stigmas, and work towards creating positive change within the community for women. priyamohalcoaching.substack.com