The Nicola Graham Podcast

Nicola Graham
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Real conversations around Mindset, Fitness, Motherhood and everything in between

  1. 3h ago

    This Is Your Permission Slip To Enjoy Your Present-Moment Health

    Your Permission Slip to Enjoy Summer: Be Present, Ditch “Being Good” and Live Now In this episode of The Fit and Unfiltered Podcast, I share a reminder that there’s a version of you 30 years from now who would give anything to be in your body, your health and this exact stage of life, so the only moment that matters is now. I talk about how many women need a “permission slip” to show up, wear the clothes, be confident and stop waiting for a scale number before enjoying life, especially over the next six weeks of the summer holidays. I explain how the stressful cycle of weekend overindulgence followed by Monday under-eating, caffeine and evening overeating keeps women stuck, and that “being good” isn’t deprivation, it’s normal self-care. Using client stories and my own postpartum identity shifts, I focus on mindset, self-worth, nervous system regulation and living fully now. So take a listen, and let's keep you Thriving throughout Summer. If you found this episode valuable and wanted to hear more from The Nicola Graham Podcast, make sure to like, subscribe and share. PS. I have been nominated for: Best Fitness Podcast ➡️ Nicola Graham Podcast Best Fitness Influencer ➡️ Nicola Graham All votes and support are highly appreciated 🤍 https://www.britishfitnessaward.com/bfa26nominations Looking for further support? This is how You Can Work With Me... Join my free online community 'Thriving Women' https://nicolagrahamfitness.com/thrivingwomen Check out my group online coaching membership 'Thrive Lifestyle' https://nicolagrahamfitness.com/thrivelifestyle If you're interested in 1-1 coaching, drop me a DM via my Instagram www.instagram.com/nicolagrahamfitness And if you want to get in touch? Send me an email via nicolagrahampodcast@gmail.com 00:00 Future You Reminder 00:32 Summer Presence Focus 02:22 Permission Slip Mindset 03:48 Client Story Wake Up 06:15 Identity After Motherhood 09:33 Dress Confidently Now 11:25 Break The Diet Cycle 16:27 Poolside Breakthrough 22:15 Stop Waiting Start Living 24:01 Nervous System Reset 25:34 Choose Change Today 26:11 Share And Wrap Up 27:09 Awards Voting Outro

    This Is Your Permission Slip To Enjoy Your Present-Moment Health

  2. Jul 15

    How to Adapt Your Fitness Routine To Thrive Throughout Summer

    How to Adapt Your Fitness Routine for Summer (Without Falling Off the Wagon) | Fit & Unfiltered On this week's episode of The Fit and Unfiltered Podcast, I am talking you through the ways that you can adapt your routine for summer when kids are off and social events increase. Looking at how results are driven by habits, not seasons. Key points include dropping FOMO, setting fewer summer non-negotiables (2–3), keeping general movement/steps high, prioritising protein with convenient options, planning nutrition around events and choosing one indulgent occasion, and managing expectations. Staying consistent with strength training (even shorter sessions, focusing on compound lifts) rather than relying on frequent HIIT, and letting go of guilt and self-sabotage by getting back on track after indulgence. So take a listen, and let's keep you Thriving throughout Summer. PS. I have been nominated for: Best Fitness Podcast ➡️ Nicola Graham Podcast Best Fitness Influencer ➡️ Nicola Graham All votes and support are highly appreciated 🤍 If you found this episode valuable and wanted to hear more from The Nicola Graham Podcast, make sure to like, subscribe and share. Looking for further support? This is how You Can Work With Me... Join my free online community 'Thriving Women' https://nicolagrahamfitness.com/thrivingwomen Check out my group online coaching membership 'Thrive Lifestyle' https://nicolagrahamfitness.com/thrivelifestyle If you're interested in 1-1 coaching, drop me a DM via my Instagram www.instagram.com/nicolagrahamfitness And if you want to get in touch? Send me an email via nicolagrahampodcast@gmail.com 00:00 Welcome and Summer Focus 01:28 YouTube and Content Struggles 02:48 Awards Voting Request 04:35 Time to Thrive Coaching 05:45 Summer Holidays Reality Check 08:28 Beat FOMO and Stay Aligned 11:33 Summer Non Negotiables 12:57 Steps and Weekly Targets 14:04 Protein Made Easy 18:13 Social Events and Expectations 20:14 Control Nutrition and Bounce Back 22:52 Stress Eating and Self Sabotage 25:49 Keep Strength Training 28:58 Drop the Guilt Cycle 32:28 Lifestyle Mindset and Wrap Up

    How to Adapt Your Fitness Routine To Thrive Throughout Summer

  3. Jul 9

    The 5 Simple Systems Every Woman Needs to Get in Shape and Stay There for a Thriving Life

    In this episode, I unpack what it really means to “enjoy the journey” in fitness, especially during summer when it’s easy to become fixated on a goal weight, and I explain that the real transformation is the identity shift you build through consistent habits. I also share reflections from a recent Ibiza trip, including how being more present helped me feel renewed and how I approached alcohol and balance without guilt. Outlining simple, sustainable systems to help you feel better and make progress: daily movement, clear food standards with an 80/20 approach, focusing on consistency rather than obsessing over the scales, and protecting sleep as a non-negotiable for energy and recovery. Ending the episode by encouraging you to stay in your own lane, keep things basic, and join my Thriving Women coaching if you want help implementing these systems. PS. I have been nominated for: Best Fitness Podcast ➡️ Nicola Graham Podcast Best Fitness Influencer ➡️ Nicola Graham All votes and support are highly appreciated 🤍 If you found this episode valuable and wanted to hear more from The Nicola Graham Podcast, make sure to like, subscribe and share. Looking for further support? This is how You Can Work With Me... Join my free online community 'Thriving Women' https://nicolagrahamfitness.com/thrivingwomen Check out my group online coaching membership 'Thrive Lifestyle' https://nicolagrahamfitness.com/thrivelifestyle If you're interested in 1-1 coaching, drop me a DM via my Instagram www.instagram.com/nicolagrahamfitness And if you want to get in touch? Send me an email via nicolagrahampodcast@gmail.com 00:00 Enjoy The Process 01:33 Ibiza Trip Recap 04:37 Alcohol Boundaries 09:50 Summer Crunch Time 11:51 Why Simple Works 13:20 System One Movement 16:29 System Two Food Standards 25:05 Track Consistency 26:55 Minimum Sleep Standard 30:08 Wrap Up And Invite

    The 5 Simple Systems Every Woman Needs to Get in Shape and Stay There for a Thriving Life

  4. Jul 1

    6 Mindset Shifts To Help You To Find Freedom and Embrace Summer

    Summer Mindset Shift: Ditch the Diet Mentality & Choose Freedom On this week's episode of The Fit and Unfiltered Podcast, I am sharing a summer mindset reframe. Encouraging you ladies to move out of the constant diet/“fell off the wagon” mentality and step into a lifestyle built on freedom, self-trust, and adaptability. Outlining a simple maintenance-calorie estimate (about 14 calories per pound with steps and strength training), promotes an 80/20 whole-foods approach, and showing you how you can embrace your body and enjoy summer without missing out. I have been nominated for: Best Fitness Podcast ➡️ Nicola Graham Podcast Best Fitness Influencer ➡️ Nicola Graham All votes and support are highly appreciated 🤍 If you found this episode valuable and wanted to hear more from The Nicola Graham Podcast, make sure to like, subscribe and share. Looking for further support? This is how You Can Work With Me... Join my free online community 'Thriving Women' https://nicolagrahamfitness.com/thrivingwomen Check out my group online coaching membership 'Thrive Lifestyle' https://nicolagrahamfitness.com/thrivelifestyle If you're interested in 1-1 coaching, drop me a DM via my Instagram www.instagram.com/nicolagrahamfitness And if you want to get in touch? Send me an email via nicolagrahampodcast@gmail.com 00:00 Summer Mindset Shift 01:24 Schedule Change Updates 02:50 Awards Shortlist News 03:52 Freedom Over Dieting 07:56 Pool Party Confidence Story 11:49 Heat Bloat and Overwhelm 19:35 No Wagon Just Lifestyle 22:06 Adapt Goals Without FOMO 24:40 Reset Tools and Screen Time 28:48 Rest Recovery Like Athletes 31:58 Maintenance Calories Basics 35:06 Whole Foods Summer Strategy 42:23 Embrace Imperfections Freedom 46:52 Final Wrap and Share

    6 Mindset Shifts To Help You To Find Freedom and Embrace Summer

  5. Jun 25

    12 Months of Thriving and Consistency: The Fit and Unfiltered Podcast Turns One

    In this anniversary episode, I am marking one full year of The Fit and Unfiltered Podcast Reflecting on what showing up consistently (through self-doubt, imperfect conditions and fluctuating motivation) has taught me about health, fitness and any long-term goal. I share the “penny drop” moment of being shortlisted for Best Podcast at the British Fitness Awards and thanks listeners who voted, while explaining why the show focuses on honest, unfiltered conversations for women (often 35+). I compare unrealistic online “polished” standards to body and fat-loss comparisons, warning against quick fixes, and emphasising embracing the hard work now to make life easier later. Also highlighting how client interviews resonate most, discusses commitment, sustainable habits, consistency over perfection, hormonal and environmental challenges (including a UK heatwave), and the role of community, coaching, discipline and self-trust in thriving. Especially in your 40s. Listen to Emmas episode here 🎙️ From Client to Inspiration: Balancing Life, Fitness, and Family with Emma Edwards https://open.spotify.com/episode/6QXFE6PsJdRCqonPcPRlBj?si=lljBUa0sTlmFeLb7LLxFDA If you found this episode valuable and wanted to hear more from The Nicola Graham Podcast, make sure to like, subscribe and share. Looking for further support? This is how You Can Work With Me... Join my free online community 'Thriving Women' https://nicolagrahamfitness.com/thrivingwomen Check out my group online coaching membership 'Thrive Lifestyle' https://nicolagrahamfitness.com/thrivelifestyle If you're interested in 1-1 coaching, drop me a DM via my Instagram www.instagram.com/nicolagrahamfitness And if you want to get in touch? Send me an email via nicolagrahampodcast@gmail.com 00:00 One Year Milestone 02:42 Why Unfiltered Matters 05:26 Podcast Lessons For Fitness 07:22 Comparison And Quick Fixes 12:56 Stories Over Hacks 18:00 Go All In Sooner 21:54 Hormones Heat And Consistency 29:48 Discipline Builds Self Trust 37:02 Consistency Over Perfection 43:52 Thriving In Your 40s 48:13 Thanks Vote And Next Steps

    12 Months of Thriving and Consistency: The Fit and Unfiltered Podcast Turns One

  6. Jun 21

    Giving Yourself Permission to Remove Overwhelm: 6 Strategies to Regain Control

    Overwhelm, Hormones & the Dopamine Trap: Practical Ways to Feel Like You Again (Especially in Your 40s) In this episode of The Nicola Graham Podcast, I talk about overwhelm. How it can feel like a revolving door for women and often ramps up around our menstrual cycle, especially in our 40s as hormones shift and serotonin drops. I share a personal example of feeling unexpectedly low after a brilliant weekend (and a terrible night’s sleep), and why being constantly “switched on” via notifications, social media, emails and endless life admin can make everything worse. I explain the difference between observing low mood versus attaching a story to it, and how quick dopamine hits (scrolling, wine, chocolate) can keep us stuck in self-sabotage. Covering practical tools: write a personal morning mantra (even using ChatGPT), close down mental “tabs,” practise letting worries go, set boundaries like no phone in bed, audit what you consume online, and use iPhone/social-blocking tools. Plus a reminder to prioritise walks, goals, presence and self-care when you feel frumpy or overwhelmed. If you found this episode valuable and wanted to hear more from The Nicola Graham Podcast, make sure to like, subscribe and share. Looking for further support? This is how You Can Work With Me... Join my free online community 'Thriving Women' https://nicolagrahamfitness.com/thrivingwomen Check out my group online coaching membership 'Thrive Lifestyle' https://nicolagrahamfitness.com/thrivelifestyle If you're interested in 1-1 coaching, drop me a DM via my Instagram www.instagram.com/nicolagrahamfitness And if you want to get in touch? Send me an email via nicolagrahampodcast@gmail.com 00:00 Gym Intro and Overwhelm 01:27 Why It Feels Worse Now 02:28 Low Mood Is Normal 03:11 Birthday Party Sleep Crash 04:37 Always On Notifications 06:54 Cycle Hormones and Stories 07:58 Observe Dont Attach 09:01 Dopamine Traps Scrolling 11:26 Morning Mantra Reset 13:52 Close Mental Tabs 15:14 Let It Go Practice 17:01 Audit Social Media Intake 18:42 Block Apps and Barriers 20:04 Care Plan When Low 21:44 Unfollow Mute Cleanse 23:18 Final Wrap Up

    Giving Yourself Permission to Remove Overwhelm: 6 Strategies to Regain Control

  7. Jun 18

    Take Back Your Weekends: How to Sustain Your Progress and Thrive 365

    Weekend Progress Without Perfection: Structure, Standards & Presence | The Nicola Graham Podcast On this Thursday episode of The Nicola Graham Podcast I am addressing women who stay on track Monday to Friday but feel their progress slips at weekends, because it’s not just a discipline issue but a mindset-and-ecosystem one. I am sharing a personal story from my husband’s 40th birthday party, inspired by my five-year-old’s “main character” comment, reflecting on confidence, being present, and not needing alcohol. Using a client check-in, I highlight how perfectionism and all-or-nothing thinking can erase recognition of real progress (fat loss, better training, less drinking, more family presence). Encouraging you to define what you want weekends to feel like, build lighter weekend structure, set simple standards (like protein-first meals), choose a few habits to protect, identify weak spots, and plan ahead. I also talk about restaurant calorie discrepancies and calorie banking pitfalls, emphasising clarity over autopilot so weekends support both life and goals. If you found this episode valuable and wanted to hear more from The Nicola Graham Podcast, make sure to like, subscribe and share. Looking for further support? This is how You Can Work With Me... Join my free online community 'Thriving Women' https://nicolagrahamfitness.com/thrivingwomen Check out my group online coaching membership 'Thrive Lifestyle' https://nicolagrahamfitness.com/thrivelifestyle If you're interested in 1-1 coaching, drop me a DM via my Instagram www.instagram.com/nicolagrahamfitness And if you want to get in touch? Send me an email via nicolagrahampodcast@gmail.com 00:00 Weekend Struggle Setup 01:04 Main Character Party Story 03:25 Confidence Without Alcohol 06:28 Client Check In Reality Check 11:16 Perfectionism vs Thriving 15:33 Define Your Ideal Weekend 16:50 Presence Self Worth Mindset 19:51 Weekday Burnout Weekend Spiral 22:19 Nervous System and Daily Joy 24:10 Weekend Structure Not Rigid 24:42 Weekend Standards Flexibility 26:15 Three Weekend Nonnegotiables 27:44 Spot Weak Spots Plan 30:58 Eating Out Calorie Reality 32:47 Calorie Banking Pitfalls 35:18 Advocate For Better Choices 39:16 Mindset Guilt Comparison 45:14 Clarity Over Autopilot 47:26 Final Weekend Challenge

    Take Back Your Weekends: How to Sustain Your Progress and Thrive 365

  8. Jun 14

    Are You Really in a Calorie Deficit? This Is Your 5 Point Checklist For Sustainable Progress

    Are You Really in a Calorie Deficit? 5 Reasons Fat Loss Stalls (and How to Fix It) In this episode of The Nicola Graham Podcast, I’m digging into the most common reason women feel like they’re “doing everything right” but not seeing fat loss: the gap between what you think you’re eating and what you’re actually eating. I explain why spiralling into drastic calorie cuts backfires, and I walk you through a simple audit to check whether your calorie deficit is disappearing through untracked extras (like oils, sauces and kids’ leftovers), inaccurate portion estimates, higher weekend calories, inconsistent activity/steps, or not eating enough protein. I also share why reducing mindless snacking matters, how to use tracking as data (not a pass/fail), and why small, sustainable tweaks beat overhauls. If you’re nailing the basics, it may simply be time and patience, plus staying in your own lane. If you found this episode valuable and wanted to hear more from The Nicola Graham Podcast, make sure to like, subscribe and share. Looking for further support? This is how You Can Work With Me... Join my free online community 'Thriving Women' https://nicolagrahamfitness.com/thrivingwomen Check out my group online coaching membership 'Thrive Lifestyle' https://nicolagrahamfitness.com/thrivelifestyle If you're interested in 1-1 coaching, drop me a DM via my Instagram www.instagram.com/nicolagrahamfitness And if you want to get in touch? Send me an email via nicolagrahampodcast@gmail.com 00:00 Calorie Deficit Reality 00:22 Why Results Stall 02:42 Deficit Basics Explained 03:51 Audit Your Intake 04:25 Track Every Bite 06:39 Stop Mindless Snacking 08:19 Portion Size Accuracy 09:35 Weekend Calorie Trap 11:04 Steps And Activity Check 12:38 Protein For Fat Loss 16:08 Use Data Not Guilt 17:54 Pick One Change 18:41 Patience And Progress 19:26 Challenge Invite And Wrap

    Are You Really in a Calorie Deficit? This Is Your 5 Point Checklist For Sustainable Progress
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