The Essence Of It All

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Nothing’s off limits—from faith and work to love, friendships, and bridezilla moments. I’m Essence—and this is The Essence of It All. Sip something good and stay awhile.

Episodes

  1. 12/05/2025

    Mean Girl Vendors

    On this episode of The Essence of It All, I’m unpacking the day vendors decided the most efficient workflow was… physically relocating me themselves. We’re talking disrespect, delusion, and why teamwork matters, because if you have to physically move me out of your way, baby… the workflow is broken. Tap in for laughs, lessons, and the blueprint on how to keep your professionalism intact when folks forget their home training

    24 min

  2. 10/10/2025

    Who Is JoyEss? ft. Dabber Fires Questions

    Dabber flips the script and puts me in the hot seat! I share who JoyEss is, our ideal clients, and wedding tips to protect your peace and actually enjoy your big day — plus a little couples banter, of course. Sip of the Day: Dutch Bros ☕️ Watch of the Week: The Originals 🖤 💌 Questions or topic ideas? Email ess.joyessocc@gmail.com

    26 min

  3. 09/11/2025

    All Things JoyEss with Dabber

    In this episode, Dabber joins me for a deep dive into All Things JoyEss. We talk about how I first got started, my very first event, getting help when entering the industry, the role of self-awareness, building client trust, and navigating the challenge of family taking us seriously as entrepreneurs. I also share my appreciation for photographers who shoot true-to-skin tone—especially as a Black woman in an industry where representation isn’t always prioritized. Shoutout to Tawni Hooper and Megan Trinidad for capturing it beautifully. Sip of the Day: Trader Joe’s Pressed Apple Juice 🍎 Watch of the Week: The Better Sister 📺

    1h 20m

  4. 09/03/2025

    When They’re Not Happy For You

    Brides, this one’s for you 💍✨ Getting engaged is such a beautiful moment, but sometimes the haters, the opinions, and the negativity show up fast. In this episode, we’re talking about how to keep your joy, set boundaries, and protect your peace. 🧊 Sip of the Day: Water with extra ice (stay hydrated babes) 📺 Watch of the Week: The Summer I Turned Pretty

    18 min

  5. 08/27/2025

    If They Wanted To… Would They?

    Part two with Dabber is live! 🎙️ We’re breaking down sapiosexual attraction, why people really get bored, the infamous “if they wanted to, they would,” and what expectations should look like. ✨ Sip of the Day: Spiked Dragon Fruit Lemonade 📺 Current Watch: The Summer I Turned Pretty It’s giving late-night vibes + unfiltered honesty. Tap in wherever you listen to podcasts

    59 min

  6. 08/18/2025

    The Roster

    Episode Description: In this episode of The Essence of It All, I sit down with Dabber for some unfiltered hot takes on dating. From whether we should date for who someone is right now versus their potential, to debating if “if they wanted to, they would” is toxic or the truest advice out there — nothing is off the table. We’re breaking down what it really means to build and sustain a relationship, even when it challenges the way we’ve been taught to think about love. 🎶 Intro song by @miraclenowhip Catch Dabber on TikTok for more of his perspective: Bring It To The Table Follow along: 📸 Instagram: @joyess.occ | @a_dose_of_joyess.occ | @withjoy.ess

    1h 5m

  7. 07/12/2025

    Everything & Nothing w/ Eryn

    This week, I’m joined by the one and only ErBear (@erynm._) for a laugh-filled, heartwarming sister chat. Over a Dub Shot over ice, we talk all things: moving out of state for college, the realities of being the oldest child, our musical theater takes, and of course—matcha everything. It’s a full-on sister sesh with banter, backstory, and big feels. Plus, our Watch of the Week is Sons of Anarchy, and yes… we have thoughts. Tune in for the chaos, the caffeine, and the connection. ⸻ Follow us for more: 💫 @withjoy.ess 👯‍♀️ @erynm._

    47 min

  8. 06/29/2025

    Advice We’re Not Taking

    Ever take advice from people you wouldn’t trade places with in that area of your life? Same. In this episode, I’m joined by my babe Dabber as we unpack why we do it, how we check ourselves, and what it looks like to protect who we let speak into our lives while staying teachable. We’re also chatting about Animal Kingdom (thanks Dabber 😅) and our Sip of the Day. @withjoy.ess | @joyess.occ | @a_dose_of_joyess.occ

    51 min

  9. 06/18/2025

    The Power of Choosing You

    In this debut episode of The Essence of It All, I’m pulling back the curtain on the lessons that reshaped my 20s—through heartbreak, healing, faith, and finally learning how to say no. I’m sharing how my relationship with Jesus transformed not just how I move in the world, but how I see myself. This isn’t just an introduction—it’s a love letter to every woman who’s tired of performing and ready to grow on purpose. We’re talking boundaries, burnout, becoming, and the sacred shift that happens when you stop trying to be chosen—and start choosing you. So grab your sip, press play, and let’s get into The Essence of It All. @joyess.occ @a_dose_of_joyess.occ @withjoy.ess www.joyessocc.com Intro: Get It Up x Miracle @miraclenowhip

    21 min
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Nothing’s off limits—from faith and work to love, friendships, and bridezilla moments. I’m Essence—and this is The Essence of It All. Sip something good and stay awhile.

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    Ess.WithJoy
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  • Episodes
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