What Are We Even Talking About Podcast

King Christopher & Sir PJ
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Our mission is to create a welcoming, open-minded community where everyone feels empowered to share and grow. We believe in embracing diversity, and we’re committed to fostering a safe space that respects and celebrates all experiences, identities, and backgrounds. Here, we encourage exploration and new perspectives on relationships, self-healing from childhood traumas, musical expression, and the stories that shape us. Together, we’ll share laughs, reflect deeply, and recognize the small and big things we’re grateful for, building connections that are both meaningful and transformative. Let’s learn from each other, support each other, and grow together.

  1. 5d ago

    Turning 46, Clearly: Libra Edition

    Something hits different when you say “46” out loud and actually mean it. We start with the real stuff: missing a week, moving through sadness and depression, and how money stress and grief can knock your schedule off track. From there we talk about what it’s like to witness public entitlement up close, why privacy matters, and how “leading with love” is more than a cute line when life is heavy. Then we ask a question that might change how you handle relationships: is it growth, or did you just get better at leaving? We get into boundaries, blocking, discomfort, and the difference between protecting yourself and avoiding the vulnerability it takes to build something lasting. If you’ve been calling every hard moment “peace,” this one will make you pause. The heart of the conversation is “46 and Becoming,” a three-act birthday interview that goes deep on self-worth, people pleasing, and reclaiming your voice. If this resonates, share it with a friend, subscribe, and leave a review so more people can find the show. What are you giving yourself permission to be this year?

  2. Oct 10

    Life After 40: Libra Edition

    Your birthday passes and suddenly it’s quiet. No more candles, no more “happy birthday” texts, just you and the life you’re building. We sit in that moment and ask the question that can either set you free or expose you: is it growth, or did we just stop apologising? We stay Libra season honest while we talk boundaries, accountability, and the difference between protecting your peace and dodging responsibility. We get into therapy truths, the nonchalant era, and why saying “I’m not responsible for your feelings” can be wisdom or a weapon depending on how you use it. Then we zoom out to the real 40-plus conversations people avoid: money pressure, career politics, and what it feels like to realise adulthood has no final level and nobody actually has it all figured out. We also keep it human about ageing. Bodies change, sleep gets weird, energy shifts, and dating can feel like a puzzle with missing pieces. We talk about being too old for lies and games, retiring from people pleasing, accepting that some friendships end, and learning when to leave the room without burning the whole building down. If any of this hits home, subscribe, share this with a friend who needs it, and leave a review so more people can find the show. What’s one change you want to make now that your birthday is over?

  3. Oct 4

    Dear Libra, Empty Your Cart And Let Them Go

    We wrestle with birthdays, aging, and that quiet fear of wanting to be celebrated while trying not to be let down. We land on self-trust and how healing looks like backing our own choices without turning into harsher, more judgmental versions of ourselves.  • Libra season check-in and why birthdays can feel complicated  • Growth versus judgment and how self-awareness can kill compassion  • Self-trust as “someone you can depend on” in real life  • Talking ourselves out of intuition and ignoring obvious red flags  • Rebuilding confidence after a painful choice and why we look for proof  • Learning from mistakes versus punishing ourselves and repeating patterns  • Why people stay in unhealthy relationships and fear doing life alone  • Choosing ourselves without needing validation and standing by the leap  Share the episode with a friend. Please feel free to comment on our social medias. We love to hear from you. Send DMs, send emails, touch in with us, and let you let us know what you're thinking about the episodes because your voice matters in this conversation.

  4. Sep 23

    The Audacity Of Libra Season

    Something shifts when you realise you’re not “over it” you’re just tired. We start by getting uncomfortably honest about intimacy and boundaries: what it means to not want sex, to still want touch, and to stop treating your body like it’s part of a trade. If you’ve ever felt pressured to perform desire, or had someone take your “no” as rejection, this opening hits close to home.  From there we zoom out into the bigger question we can’t stop asking ourselves: is it growth, or did we just get tired? We talk about burnout that disguises itself as wisdom, dreams that start to feel heavy, and what happens when ADHD, stress, and life responsibilities drain your motivation. We share a personal example from the podcasting journey and push ourselves and you to tell the truth: did you outgrow it, or do you just need a minute to regroup?  Then Libra season arrives with full audacity. “Dear Libra” turns into a pep talk about celebrating yourself, trusting your intuition, and refusing to dim your light. We get into what we feel the universe owes us, why peace and abundance are not too much to ask for, and we play our “same sign, different kind of crazy” games plus a confessional that is funny, petty, and painfully relatable. Listen, laugh, and then tell us what you’re claiming for yourself this season. If you enjoyed the energy, subscribe, share with a friend, and leave a review.

  5. Sep 17

    Are You Having Fun On Purpose?

    You can hear the switch flip when we stop trying to be polished and start being honest. Christopher and Sir PJ open with a chaotic recording reset, then land on a question that cuts deeper than it sounds: is it real growth, or are we just tired of choosing the same pain in different bodies? We get into dating patterns and emotional health, including why “chemistry” can be a trap when you’re used to chaos, and why character, consistency, and peace start to matter more as you mature. From there, we zoom out to identity and self-acceptance, from embracing what makes you different to the way code switching can show up in something as small as how you use your voice in public. Then we chase something a lot of adults forget to prioritize: fun. We talk being outside, nude beaches, Fortnite, making adult friendships when you work from home, and using tools like Meetup and Eventbrite to stop waiting on other people to create your life. We also reflect on grief, community, comfort shows, and why “doom scrolling” can become planning when you turn inspiration into a real mood board and real goals. If you’re trying to build more joy, more whimsy, and more peace without losing yourself in the process, press play. Subscribe, share this with a friend who needs a push to have fun again, and leave a review so more people can find us.

  6. Sep 14

    How Much Of You Was Your Choice?

    Some conversations start silly and then swerve into something that feels uncomfortably true. We begin with jokes and quick banter, then we land in real life: rough weeks, working with kids, budgeting stress, a month off therapy that was not planned, and what it means to keep going when your mental health is doing “funky” things and you can still name every pattern. From there, we introduce a question that becomes the spine of the episode: “Is it growth or did I just get tired?” We talk about boundaries, choosing not to respond, and why peace can look the same whether it comes from healing or from being completely over it. We also get into the hard work of communication, emotional regulation, and the moments where you realise the “old you” is still present, just better managed. Then we go deeper into identity and self-concept: how family stories can reshape the way you see yourself, what we believe about who we are at our core, what we are still trying to accept, and when we finally start choosing ourselves over other people’s expectations. We unpack criticism that keeps showing up, compliments that don’t land, body image, voice insecurity, and how internalised shame can make you second-guess what you sound like in the world. We also challenge the difference between truth and projection, especially when feedback comes from someone close. We close with honesty about what the “strong friend” hides, why asking for help can feel impossible, and a final question we want you to sit with all week. If this hit home, subscribe, share the episode with a friend who needs it, and leave a review so more people can find the conversation.

  7. Jul 24

    Season 2 Teaser: Is It Personal Growth Or Pure Exhaustion

    We’re finally back on the microphones, and we’re not pretending the gap was just “busy schedules”. Life started lifing: motivation dropped, depression crept in, money got tight, and creativity felt forced instead of meaningful. So this return is a reset, not a relaunch, the kind where we say the quiet parts out loud and start building Season Two with more freedom and less pressure to be perfect. To kick off the season, we introduce a new recurring segment: “Is It Growth Or Did We Just Get Tired?” We break down how the same behavior can be healing or exhaustion depending on what’s underneath it, and why that distinction matters for mental health, communication, dating, and overall wellness.  Tap in, subscribe, and share this with a friend, then tell us: what’s one boundary you’re done negotiating?

  8. 10/22/2025

    Celebrating the End of Libra Season & the Season One Wrap-up

    We thought it was only right that we end season one on the last day of LIBRA Season, which just so happens to be PJ's Birthday!!! We sit back reflect on the show and also make wishes for us individually, collectively and as well as what we want for you all out there! We will return in 2026! Stay Tuned and find out then, WHAT ARE WE EVEN TALKING ABOUT?

    Celebrating the End of Libra Season & the Season One Wrap-up
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Our mission is to create a welcoming, open-minded community where everyone feels empowered to share and grow. We believe in embracing diversity, and we’re committed to fostering a safe space that respects and celebrates all experiences, identities, and backgrounds. Here, we encourage exploration and new perspectives on relationships, self-healing from childhood traumas, musical expression, and the stories that shape us. Together, we’ll share laughs, reflect deeply, and recognize the small and big things we’re grateful for, building connections that are both meaningful and transformative. Let’s learn from each other, support each other, and grow together.

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