Not That Girl Anymore

Dawn Bouillion
  • 5.0 (10)
  • Mental Health

A podcast for women reclaiming their voice, their worth, and their story. This is a space for women on their healing journey, because they know they aren't that girl anymore. Each episode, we'll sit down with women who walked through fire and found their way back to themselves. You'll hear raw, powerful stories, not just of pain, but of rising. We believe women. We amplify their voices. We hold space for the truth. This isn't just a podcast. It's a movement, a sisterhood rooted in healing, wholeness, and radical bravery. Here, your voice matters, your story matters, and your dreams matter too. Subscribe now to Not That Girl Anymore, a show on the Liminal Network.

  1. 3d ago

    Good Girls Don't Protect Themselves

    What happens when girls are taught that being “good” means being nice, forgiving, selfless, obedient, and endlessly understanding—even when something inside them is screaming that they aren’t safe? In this deeply personal episode of Not That Girl Anymore, Dawn explores how women can be conditioned to override their instinct for self-preservation. From religion and purity culture to marriage, sexuality, and motherhood, she examines how these messages can lead to self-abandonment—and create fertile ground for narcissistic abuse and coercive control. This is a conversation about boundaries, anger, consent, sexuality, and learning to trust yourself again. Because healing isn't only about recognizing the person who hurt you. It's about recognizing yourself again—your instincts, your body, your voice, your boundaries, your no, and your yes. Maybe healing isn't becoming a different woman. Maybe it's remembering the woman you were before you learned to abandon yourself. embraceyourbrave.org

  2. Sep 9

    Death of a Pastor’s Wife: Religious Trauma & Narcissistic Abuse

    In this raw and deeply personal episode, Dawn is joined by Meg and Misha for a powerful conversation sparked by the documentary Death of a Pastor’s Wife. What begins as a discussion about the story quickly becomes something much bigger: an exploration of religious trauma, narcissistic abuse, purity culture, coercive control, and what can happen when women are taught to sacrifice their own identity, instincts, and safety in the name of being a “good wife” or “good Christian.” Misha, a trauma-informed coach and somatic healing practitioner specializing in narcissistic abuse, brings both professional insight and her own experience growing up in evangelical culture. Meg shares an intensely personal perspective on life as a pastor’s wife, the loss of identity she experienced, and the difficult process of recognizing and unlearning beliefs that shaped not only her relationships, but also what her children learned about relationships and womanhood. Together, they examine how spiritual authority can be weaponized, why abuse can become normalized inside religious communities, how shame and submission can silence women, and why leaving an abusive environment doesn't automatically undo years of conditioning. This conversation gets emotional because these aren't simply stories from a documentary. For many women, this is real life. Dawn, Meg, and Misha remind listeners that recognizing abuse, reclaiming your identity, and questioning what you've been taught can be part of finding your way back to yourself. Content Warning: This episode contains candid discussion of religious trauma, narcissistic and emotional abuse, sexual coercion, domestic violence, mental health, and other potentially triggering experiences.

  3. Sep 2

    What is Narcissistic Abuse?

    What is narcissistic abuse—and how do you know if it’s happening to you? In this episode, Dawn goes back to the basics to explain what narcissistic abuse actually looks and feels like. Narcissistic abuse isn’t simply dealing with someone who is selfish, difficult, or hurtful. It is a pattern of emotional and psychological abuse that can slowly undermine your ability to trust your own reality, feelings, boundaries, and instincts. Dawn breaks down common narcissistic abuse tactics including gaslighting, blame shifting, DARVO (Deny, Attack, Reverse Victim and Offender), projection, triangulation, silent treatment, coercive control, intimidation, isolation, and emotional manipulation. But recognizing narcissistic abuse isn’t always about knowing the terminology. Sometimes the biggest clues are found in how the relationship makes you feel. Do you constantly question yourself? Do you replay conversations wondering what really happened? Do you walk on eggshells or monitor someone else’s moods? Are you afraid of what will happen when you disagree, say no, or set a boundary? Do apologies actually lead to changed behavior? Do you feel more like yourself in this relationship—or have you slowly disappeared? Dawn also explores why leaving an emotionally or narcissistically abusive relationship can be incredibly complicated, especially when love, children, finances, fear, isolation, religious conditioning, custody concerns, and cycles of pain and connection are involved. You do not have to prove that someone is a narcissist before taking seriously what is happening to you. Start by paying attention to the patterns—and listening to yourself. ✨ RECLAIMING YOU Reclaiming You is a group for women healing from narcissistic and emotional abuse, as well as women who are still trying to understand what they have experienced. Together, women learn about gaslighting, DARVO, projection, triangulation, coercive control, boundaries, nervous system responses, and—most importantly—how to begin trusting themselves again. 📍 In Person: Mondays, 6:00–7:30 PM in Lafayette, Louisiana 💻 Online: Wednesdays, 6:00–7:30 PM Central Time You don’t have to have everything figured out before you come. Your experience matters. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. And you matter. Maybe reclaiming yourself begins right here. Because remember: You’re Not That Girl Anymore. Reclaiming You Group #NarcissisticAbuse #EmotionalAbuse #Gaslighting #DARVO #CoerciveControl #NarcissisticRelationship #NarcissisticAbuseRecovery #EmotionalAbuseRecovery #ToxicRelationships #HealingFromAbuse #TraumaRecovery #ReclaimYourself

  4. Aug 26

    Healing Trauma with EMDR: Reclaiming Your Power After Emotional Abuse

    What happens when you stop looking at your past only through the lens of what happened to you and begin recognizing the strength that was inside you all along? In this raw and deeply personal conversation, Dawn and Meg continue exploring Meg’s journey of healing from emotional abuse, manipulation, complex PTSD, and painful relationship and family dynamics. Meg shares how EMDR therapy is helping her process traumatic memories differently—including one breakthrough that completely changed the way she viewed one of the most painful experiences of her previous marriage. They talk openly about PTSD nightmares, trauma responses, emotional abuse, gaslighting, family boundaries, religious and church trauma, self-betrayal, and what it means to finally trust yourself again. Meg also reflects on the enormous difference between the woman she was months ago and the woman she is becoming now—a woman learning that healing isn't simply about “taking her power back.” Sometimes it's realizing the power was there the entire time. This episode explores: EMDR therapy and trauma recoveryComplex PTSD and recurring nightmaresHealing after emotional and psychological abuseRecognizing manipulation and gaslightingSetting boundaries with difficult family membersReligious and church traumaReleasing shame and self-blameRebuilding self-trust after abusive relationshipsRecognizing trauma responses in everyday lifeMoving from survival mode into actually livingRediscovering your voice, identity, and personal power If you’ve ever wondered who you might become when you stop living according to everyone else’s expectations, this conversation is a powerful reminder: healing can change not only how you see your past—but how you choose to live your future.

  5. Aug 19

    Religious Trauma, Narcissistic Abuse & Deconstruction: Seminary Wives to Divorced AF (And FREE) Part 2

    In Part 2 of this deeply personal conversation, Meg picks up exactly where Part 1 left off: “And so I moved to the beach.” But leaving was only the beginning.Meg opens up about what it looks like to rebuild your life after abusive relationships, religious trauma, and years of being taught to put everyone else before yourself. She shares what she is learning about self-love, freedom, boundaries, and giving herself permission to create a life that actually feels like her own. The conversation goes deeper as Meg discusses her experience with EMDR therapy and how it is helping her reprocess painful experiences from her past—including her complicated relationship with her father. She shares the powerful realization that changed the way she saw their relationship: she could stop trying to fix someone who continued to choose himself and finally say, “And I choose me.” Dawn and Meg explore the difficult process of unlearning shame, releasing the need for approval, rebuilding self-worth, and recognizing that choosing yourself isn't the same as being selfish. They also talk about motherhood, the impact of healing on Meg's relationship with her children, and what it means to create joy and new memories after survival. This is the second half of Meg's story—not simply about leaving an abusive relationship, but about what comes after: healing from emotional and religious trauma, breaking old patterns, learning to trust yourself, and discovering who you are when you stop living for everyone else's expectations. And for the women listening who are afraid of what choosing themselves might cost, Meg leaves them with a message she fought hard to learn: “Baby, the well is deep, and go love yourself.” Part 2 is about freedom, healing, and finally becoming Not That Girl Anymore.

  6. Aug 12

    Religious Trauma, Narcissistic Abuse & Deconstruction: Seminary Wives to Divorced AF (And FREE)

    n Part 1 of this powerful conversation, Dawn sits down with her longtime friend Meg to unpack a story that began years ago in seminary—and eventually forced Meg to question everything she had been taught about marriage, faith, womanhood, and herself. Meg opens up about life inside an abusive marriage, the religious expectations that kept her trying to make it work, and what happened when she finally turned to church leadership for help. What followed was a painful reckoning with the systems, beliefs, and messages that had taught her to stay quiet, endure more, and put herself last. Together, Dawn and Meg explore purity culture, spiritual authority, shame, control, and the complicated process of realizing that choosing yourself doesn't make you selfish—it may be the very thing that saves you. This is a story about what happens when the life you were told to build begins to fall apart—and you finally start asking whether you're willing to keep being that girl anymore. embraceyourbrave.org

  7. Aug 5

    Who Taught You Not To Trust Yourself

    Have you ever stopped to ask yourself: Who taught you not to trust yourself? In this powerful episode of Not That Girl Anymore, trauma therapist and coach Dawn Bouillon explores one of the deepest wounds many survivors carry—the loss of self-trust. Whether you've experienced narcissistic abuse, emotional abuse, religious trauma, childhood trauma, gaslighting, or codependency, healing often begins by reconnecting with the voice you've learned to ignore. Instead of asking, "What's wrong with me?" Dawn invites you to ask a different question: "Where did I lose myself?" In this episode, you'll discover: Why self-doubt is often learned—not inherited.How narcissistic abuse and gaslighting deepen existing wounds.The connection between codependency and self-abandonment.Why people-pleasing is a survival strategy, not a personality flaw.How religious trauma and childhood conditioning can disconnect you from your intuition.Practical insights for rebuilding self-trust and reconnecting with your authentic self. If you've ever questioned your instincts, struggled with boundaries, or wondered why unhealthy relationships keep repeating, this conversation offers compassion, clarity, and hope for your healing journey. 💙 If this episode resonated with you, please: 👍 Like this video 💬 Share your thoughts in the comments 📤 Send it to someone who needs to hear it 🔔 Subscribe for more conversations about trauma recovery, emotional healing, narcissistic abuse recovery, and reclaiming your life. Dawn Bouillion: Website IG @embraceyourbrave #NarcissisticAbuse #EmotionalAbuse #TraumaHealing #Gaslighting #Codependency #ReligiousTrauma #PeoplePleasing #SelfTrust #HealingJourney #ComplexTrauma #InnerHealing #MentalHealth #Recovery #TraumaRecovery #NotThatGirlAnymore

  8. Jul 29

    The Wrong Question: Are Therapists Breaking Up Families?

    Are therapists really encouraging people to cut off their families—or are we asking the wrong question? In this thought-provoking episode of Not That Girl Anymore, trauma therapist Dylan Bunion explores the growing debate around family estrangement and therapy. Rather than asking whether therapists are breaking families apart, Dylan challenges us to consider a deeper question: Why are so many people entering therapy carrying wounds from the people who were supposed to love and protect them? Drawing from years of clinical experience, Dylan explains what actually happens in the therapy room. Clients rarely seek permission to leave their families. Instead, they ask heartbreaking questions like, "Am I the problem?" "Why do I always feel guilty?" and "How much more of myself do I have to lose to keep this relationship?" This compassionate conversation explores the difference between healthy boundaries and self-abandonment, why accountability is essential for reconciliation, and how healing begins by reconnecting with yourself. In this episode, you'll learn: Why family estrangement usually comes after years of trying to repair the relationship.What therapists actually do—and don't do.The difference between forgiveness, reconciliation, and self-abandonment.Why healthy boundaries are often misunderstood.How trauma disconnects people from themselves—and how healing helps them come home again. Healing isn't about breaking families apart. It's about helping people stop breaking themselves apart just to keep everyone else comfortable.

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A podcast for women reclaiming their voice, their worth, and their story. This is a space for women on their healing journey, because they know they aren't that girl anymore. Each episode, we'll sit down with women who walked through fire and found their way back to themselves. You'll hear raw, powerful stories, not just of pain, but of rising. We believe women. We amplify their voices. We hold space for the truth. This isn't just a podcast. It's a movement, a sisterhood rooted in healing, wholeness, and radical bravery. Here, your voice matters, your story matters, and your dreams matter too. Subscribe now to Not That Girl Anymore, a show on the Liminal Network.

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  • Creator
    Dawn Bouillion
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    61
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © @ Not That Girl Anymore
  • Show Website
    Not That Girl Anymore

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