Mind the Gap with Sherry | Culture and Psychology

Shuxuan (Sherry)

Mitagap is a podcast hosted by Sherry — a Chinese mom and psychology graduate reflecting on life between cultures. Through personal stories and cultural insights, she explores the “gaps” we navigate — between East and West, emotion and achievement, freedom and discipline. For Mandarin content, check out our sister show: 睡前不讲故事.

Episodes

  1. 07/17/2025

    We Don’t Say Hi, and We Don’t Say I Love You: Emotion and Culture in Everyday Life

    Why do some people say “I love you” every day, while others express love through quiet actions and simple care? In this episode of mindagap, I reflects on two everyday moments with her American neighbor that opened up deeper questions about emotion, parenting, and cultural norms. From greeting strangers in the park to bedtime rituals at home, we explore how different cultures shape what we feel, what we express, and what we value in connection. 🎧 In this episode: Why saying hi to strangers feels friendly in one culture and awkward in another The emotional ideals behind different parenting styles Quiet love vs. verbal affection How cross-cultural parents are learning to navigate both worlds This is a gentle story about the feelings we show, the ones we hold back, and the spaces in between.

  2. 07/09/2025

    How We Define a “Good Childhood”

    In this first episode, Shuxuan (Sherry) reflects on thecultural differences she notices between the U.S. and East Asia when it comes to parenting, education, and the value of fun. Drawing from her personal experiences as a mother and psychology graduate, she explores why American schools seem obsessed with celebration, why East Asian kids carry heavier academic loads, and what it really means when we say “kids deserve to be happy.” Along the way, she introduces the psychological concept of ego depletion and touches on the stereotype of the model minority, raising a bigger question: Are we raising whole people—or just busy ones? In this episode:– School events, birthday parties, and the “morality of fun”– What 礼尚往来(reciprocal gift-giving) means for parents– How academic pressure shapes East Asian childhoods– The psychology behind stress, rest, and ego depletion– What the model minority stereotype hides– One challenge both cultures now share: screen time– A quiet call to narrow the gap

  3. 06/30/2025

    Introducing Mitagap – A Podcast by Sherry

    Mitagap is a podcast about navigating the space in-between — between East and West, tradition and change, emotion and achievement.

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Mitagap is a podcast hosted by Sherry — a Chinese mom and psychology graduate reflecting on life between cultures. Through personal stories and cultural insights, she explores the “gaps” we navigate — between East and West, emotion and achievement, freedom and discipline. For Mandarin content, check out our sister show: 睡前不讲故事.

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