The Socially Awkward Podcast | Strategic Marketing for the Hospitality Industry

🎥Calvin Tilokee

Socially Awkward is the hotel marketing podcast for owners, GMs, and hospitality leaders who want marketing that actually drives business. Hosted by Calvin, the show brings together real hotel operations experience, revenue strategy, branding, social media, influencer marketing, and the ideas helping hotels stand out in a crowded market.  Each episode features practical conversations on what works in hospitality marketing, how to connect marketing to ROI, and how hotels can turn attention into bookings. If you’re looking for sharper strategy, better storytelling, and smarter hotel marketing, you’re in the right place. 

  1. Oct 22 ·  Video

    How to Use AI That Works Without Losing Your Brand Voice | Ep. 20

    Hospitality marketers learn where AI belongs and where human specificity must stay, with Calvin Tilokee of Revpar Media. Calvin shares his 500-hotel sameness test and the story of a laundry room post that became a select service Orlando client's top performer for six months. He draws a clear line between polishing a photo and fabricating one. You leave with a concrete pre-publish checklist and a framework for using AI on research, repurposing, and competitive scans without losing the details that make your brand recognizable. LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/calvintilokee/ Website: https://www.revparblems.com/ Company: https://www.revparmedia.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/revparblems/ Podcast (MarketScale): https://marketscale.com/industries/the-socially-awkward-podcast/origin-of-revpar-media-calvin-tilokee-socially-awkward-podcast/ Resource (Hospitality Daily): https://podcast.hospitalitydaily.com/guests/calvin-tilokee/ Resource (herTelier feature): https://www.hertelier.com/post/ally-of-the-month-calvin-tilokee-revpar-media Resource (hCareers feature): https://www.hcareers.com/article/career-advice/social-media-influencer-calvin-tilokee-on-bringing-together-hospitality-professionals #HospitalityMarketing #HotelMarketing #AIContentMarketing #HospitalityContentStrategy #RevparMedia Chapters: 00:00:00 - Coming up... 00:00:32 - Why AI is making hotel brands sound identical 00:03:12 - How to use AI for captions without losing your brand voice 00:07:31 - The simple test every hotel marketer should run before posting 00:08:06 - Where AI genuinely makes your marketing team better 00:09:52 - The Bigfoot convention story and what it reveals about hidden demand 00:12:29 - How to repurpose existing hotel footage into authentic content 00:14:53 - Why your hotel has more content than you think 00:18:02 - How a laundry room became a top-performing post for six months 00:19:23 - What agencies owe clients about AI-generated work 00:21:11 - The pre-publish checklist for keeping AI content on-brand 00:23:28 - Why authentic content will only become more valuable as AI spreads 00:27:26 - How one raw New York City reel outperformed polished content Thanks for tuning in to Socially Awkward, the hospitality marketing podcast where hotel operations meet modern marketing strategy. Hosted by Calvin, each episode features real conversations on hotel marketing, revenue, branding, social media, influencer strategy, and what actually drives results for hospitality brands. 📅 Book a 30-minute call with Calvin: https://itl.ink/revparbookacall 🌐 Learn more about Revpar Media: https://itl.ink/revparlearnmore 📩 Connect with Revpar Media: https://itl.ink/revparcontact 📲 Follow Revpar Media: LinkedIn: https://itl.ink/revparLinkedIn Instagram: https://itl.ink/revparIG YouTube: https://itl.ink/revparYT Facebook: https://itl.ink/revparFB 🎙️ New episodes every 2nd and 4th Thursday at 6:00 AM EST on YouTube, Apple Podcasts, and Spotify. Produced by APodcastGeek https://itl.ink/APodcastGeek Thanks for tuning in to Socially Awkward, the hospitality marketing podcast where hotel operations meet modern marketing strategy. Hosted by Calvin, each episode features real conversations on hotel marketing, revenue, branding, social media, influencer strategy, and what actually drives results for hospitality brands. 📅 Book a 30-minute call with Calvin 🌐 Learn more about Revpar Media 📩 Connect with Revpar Media 📲 Follow Revpar Media: LinkedIn Instagram YouTube Facebook 🎙️ New episodes every 2nd and 4th Thursday at 6:00 AM EST on YouTube, Apple Podcasts, and Spotify. Produced by APodcastGeek

    How to Use AI That Works Without Losing Your Brand Voice | Ep. 20
  2. Sep 24 ·  Video

    The Best of Socially Awkward: 5 Hospitality Marketing Pros | Ep. 18

    Hospitality marketing best-of: Calvin Tilokee replays the strongest Socially Awkward moments on standing out, direct bookings and moving up. Susan Barry of Hive Marketing explains why no traveler books on thread count. Alex Husner and Annie Holcombe compare hotel and vacation rental marketing, Calvin Stovall walks through his ICONIC framework, and Dury Kim of InnVentures admits moving up takes politicking. You'll leave with a reason to make content that looks different from your comp set and a plan for turning OTA guests into direct bookers. A round of hotel pickup lines with Susan Barry closes it out. Thanks for tuning in to Socially Awkward, the hospitality marketing podcast where hotel operations meet modern marketing strategy. Hosted by Calvin, each episode features real conversations on hotel marketing, revenue, branding, social media, influencer strategy, and what actually drives results for hospitality brands. 📅 Book a 30-minute call with Calvin 🌐 Learn more about Revpar Media 📩 Connect with Revpar Media 📲 Follow Revpar Media: LinkedIn Instagram YouTube Facebook 🎙️ New episodes every 2nd and 4th Thursday at 6:00 AM EST on YouTube, Apple Podcasts, and Spotify.  #HospitalityMarketing #HotelMarketing #DirectBookings #HospitalityCareers #SociallyAwkward Thanks for tuning in to Socially Awkward, the hospitality marketing podcast where hotel operations meet modern marketing strategy. Hosted by Calvin, each episode features real conversations on hotel marketing, revenue, branding, social media, influencer strategy, and what actually drives results for hospitality brands. 📅 Book a 30-minute call with Calvin 🌐 Learn more about Revpar Media 📩 Connect with Revpar Media 📲 Follow Revpar Media: LinkedIn Instagram YouTube Facebook 🎙️ New episodes every 2nd and 4th Thursday at 6:00 AM EST on YouTube, Apple Podcasts, and Spotify. Produced by APodcastGeek

    The Best of Socially Awkward: 5 Hospitality Marketing Pros | Ep. 18
  3. Aug 27 ·  Video

    The Hidden Cost of Ignoring Hotel Social Media Channels Today | Ep. 16

    Calvin Tilokee, hospitality marketer and former hotel revenue management professional, explains why hotels need to stop treating social media as a posting task and start building it as a strategic channel for visibility, trust, and demand. He breaks down the warning signs of a checkbox approach, from generic content and unclear goals to weak measurement and social teams disconnected from revenue, sales, and operations. Calvin explores why “social media didn’t drive bookings” is often the wrong diagnosis, showing how strategy, content quality, budget, measurement, the booking path, and unrealistic expectations can all affect performance. He also explains which metrics matter beyond likes and followers, how competitors build an advantage through consistency, and why even modest-budget hotels can win by understanding their guests, creating focused content pillars, and connecting content to real business needs. For hotel owners, GMs, and commercial leaders planning to invest more seriously in social media, Calvin lays out a practical first 90 days covering diagnosis, positioning, content foundations, execution, reporting, and learning. The goal is a repeatable system aligned with commercial priorities that builds stronger positioning, better creative, and measurable momentum over time. Thanks for tuning in to Socially Awkward, the hospitality marketing podcast where hotel operations meet modern marketing strategy. Hosted by Calvin, each episode features real conversations on hotel marketing, revenue, branding, social media, influencer strategy, and what actually drives results for hospitality brands. 📅 Book a 30-minute call with Calvin 🌐 Learn more about Revpar Media 📩 Connect with Revpar Media 📲 Follow Revpar Media: LinkedIn Instagram YouTube Facebook 🎙️ New episodes every 2nd and 4th Thursday at 6:00 AM EST on YouTube, Apple Podcasts, and Spotify. Produced by APodcastGeek

    The Hidden Cost of Ignoring Hotel Social Media Channels Today | Ep. 16
  4. Aug 13 ·  Video

    The Biggest Social Media Mistake Hotels Keep Making | Ep. 15

    Hotels often decide social media “doesn’t work” after testing the weakest possible version of it, and Calvin Tilokee argues that the real problem is rarely the channel itself, but the lack of strategy, investment, ownership, and connection to commercial goals. Calvin breaks down why simply paying someone to post is not the same as hotel social media marketing, from reactive content and unclear audiences to broken booking paths and underfunded creative. He also explains how hotel leaders planning for 2027 can connect social media strategy to demand periods, corporate travel, local events, packages, revenue priorities, and the questions guests are asking before they book. For hotel owners, GMs, revenue leaders, and hospitality marketers, the bigger lesson is that social media should not operate as a separate creative task or an expensive feed to maintain. When content strategy is built around what the property needs to sell, who it needs to reach, and what will make that audience more confident about booking, social becomes part of the hotel’s demand strategy rather than another box to tick. Connect with Calvin: LinkedIn RevPar Media Instagram Thanks for tuning in to Socially Awkward, the hospitality marketing podcast where hotel operations meet modern marketing strategy. Hosted by Calvin, each episode features real conversations on hotel marketing, revenue, branding, social media, influencer strategy, and what actually drives results for hospitality brands. 📅 Book a 30-minute call with Calvin 🌐 Learn more about Revpar Media 📩 Connect with Revpar Media 📲 Follow Revpar Media: LinkedIn Instagram YouTube Facebook 🎙️ New episodes every 2nd and 4th Thursday at 6:00 AM EST on YouTube, Apple Podcasts, and Spotify. Produced by APodcastGeek

    The Biggest Social Media Mistake Hotels Keep Making | Ep. 15
  5. Jul 23 ·  Video

    Why Hotel Social Media Fails (You're Selling the Wrong Thing!) | Ep. 14

    Hotel social media strategy for owners and GMs who want content that actually drives bookings starts with one question: why does this feature matter to my guest right now? Calvin Tilokee, host and founder at Revpar Media, built his approach around a simple truth that most hotel marketers miss — guests do not book a bed, they book the reason that bed solves a specific problem in their trip. He turned a laundry room post into a top performer at an Orlando hotel near Disney, grew a stagnant NYC account from 200 followers in a year to 300 in two weeks through a single data-driven influencer partnership, and shows commercial leaders how to find the unspoken guest question hiding inside every ordinary feature. Calvin walks through two specific non-luxury hotel case studies in this episode. For a historic New York City property, Revpar Media stopped promoting rooms and instead built content around proximity to landmarks: 20 minutes on foot to Times Square, Madison Square Garden directly across the street, and Penn Station 10 minutes away. That framework targeted first-time visitors to the city, the majority of the property's actual audience. For the Orlando branded hotel, a short laundry room tour, featuring on-property machines comparable to home units, gave family travelers headed to Disney the confidence that spills and dirty clothes were a solved problem, not a trip stressor. The audit Calvin recommends takes minutes inside Facebook Business Manager: pull your audience by country, city, age range, and gender before you decide on tone, format, or content partners. Knowing your breakdown tells you which influencer profile to approach, what activities your guests will actually care about, and whether your current feed is talking past the people already following you. Authentic staff stories, real service moments, and user-generated content tagged during guest stays fill that gap far more reliably than stock footage or AI-generated images, because today's travelers have been cross-checking polished brand pages against review sites long enough to spot the difference immediately. Connect with Calvin Tilokee: LinkedIn Instagram Thanks for tuning in to Socially Awkward, the hospitality marketing podcast where hotel operations meet modern marketing strategy. Hosted by Calvin, each episode features real conversations on hotel marketing, revenue, branding, social media, influencer strategy, and what actually drives results for hospitality brands. 📅 Book a 30-minute call with Calvin 🌐 Learn more about Revpar Media 📩 Connect with Revpar Media 📲 Follow Revpar Media: LinkedIn Instagram YouTube Facebook 🎙️ New episodes every 2nd and 4th Thursday at 6:00 AM EST on YouTube, Apple Podcasts, and Spotify. Produced by APodcastGeek

    Why Hotel Social Media Fails (You're Selling the Wrong Thing!) | Ep. 14
  6. Jul 9 ·  Video

    What Most Hotel Leaders Get Wrong About Commercial Strategy ft. Dury Kim | Ep. 13

    Commercial strategy in hospitality only works when revenue, sales, marketing, distribution, and operations stop protecting departmental agendas and start operating from one shared goal. Dury Kim, SVP of Commercial Strategy and 2025 HSMAI New York City Revenue and Distribution Executive of the Year, defines the modern commercial role as something much bigger than pricing, forecasting, and inventory control. Her argument is that everyone in a hotel organization is a revenue generator and revenue thinker, even if each department owns a different part of the outcome. When revenue management is focused only on the top line, sales is focused only on group goals, marketing is working from a separate playbook, and operations is left to manage the fallout, the result is not strategy. It is friction. Dury’s framework reframes commercial strategy as a cohesive operating model: align the team on the main goal, make sure the right people are talking to each other, and give departments enough context to make decisions that support the property or portfolio as a whole. Dury’s career path gives that framework practical weight. She started as an intern, worked through revenue management, took a role that required a three-hour commute each way, and eventually became SVP Commercial. The career lesson she draws is not generic “work hard” advice; it is about recognizing when an imperfect opportunity is still the right leap. She credits mentorship as one of the biggest forces behind her growth, especially leaders who shared knowledge instead of protecting it. That shaped her own leadership philosophy: train people as if they may one day take your seat, build a bench strong enough to support the broader organization, and treat giving back as part of the job rather than an extra. The strongest operating advice in the episode comes from how Dury connects listening, strategy, and executive presence. Top commercial teams are not just made up of smart people; they are made up of smart people who can listen to understand, communicate across silos, defend their strategy with logic, and stay flexible when the market changes. Her executive-career advice is equally direct: earning a seat at the table requires visibility, continuous growth, and the willingness to go beyond “that’s not my job.” Calvin connects that to marketing yourself like a brand placement: decision-makers need to know who you are before the opportunity opens. For hospitality leaders trying to move from department-level execution into commercial leadership, Dury’s message is clear: become the person who helps the whole company move forward, not just the person who manages one lane well. Connect with Dury: LinkedIn InnVentures Thanks for tuning in to Socially Awkward, the hospitality marketing podcast where hotel operations meet modern marketing strategy. Hosted by Calvin, each episode features real conversations on hotel marketing, revenue, branding, social media, influencer strategy, and what actually drives results for hospitality brands. 📅 Book a 30-minute call with Calvin 🌐 Learn more about Revpar Media 📩 Connect with Revpar Media 📲 Follow Revpar Media: LinkedIn Instagram YouTube Facebook 🎙️ New episodes every 2nd and 4th Thursday at 6:00 AM EST on YouTube, Apple Podcasts, and Spotify. Produced by APodcastGeek

    What Most Hotel Leaders Get Wrong About Commercial Strategy ft. Dury Kim | Ep. 13

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Socially Awkward is the hotel marketing podcast for owners, GMs, and hospitality leaders who want marketing that actually drives business. Hosted by Calvin, the show brings together real hotel operations experience, revenue strategy, branding, social media, influencer marketing, and the ideas helping hotels stand out in a crowded market.  Each episode features practical conversations on what works in hospitality marketing, how to connect marketing to ROI, and how hotels can turn attention into bookings. If you’re looking for sharper strategy, better storytelling, and smarter hotel marketing, you’re in the right place.