Beyond The Corporate Mask: Embodied Leadership, DEI, Well-being

Doors Open - Institute for Corporate Sociology

Tired of having to act like someone you’re not at work? Beyond the Corporate Mask helps you lead without leaving parts of yourself behind. Through real stories and practical tools, we explore the unspoken rules shaping leadership, DEI, and well-being. From the team at Doors Open – Institute for Corporate Sociology, it’s time for a new way of working: the embodied way.

Episodes

  1. 18h ago

    Aflevering 3: Jouw shaping story (en hoe die je vormt)

    Waarom maakt de één zich klein terwijl de ander juist harder gaat praten?  Waarom reageer jij op spanning op jouw manier?  In deze aflevering van Beyond the Corporate Mask duiken Suzanne Mau-Asam en co-host Emma in het onderdeel biografie van het BBC-framework: Biologie, Biografie en Context.  Want onze automatische reacties ontstaan niet zomaar. Ze worden gevormd door de ervaringen die we hebben meegemaakt.  Suzanne deelt een persoonlijk verhaal over gepest worden op de middelbare school en hoe die ervaring jarenlang invloed had op haar zelfvertrouwen, zichtbaarheid, gedrag en zelfs de manier waarop zij haar lichaam gebruikte.  Samen onderzoeken we hoe jouw zogenaamde shaping story terug te zien is in je maskers, je gedrag én je lichaam.  In deze aflevering ontdek je:  Wat een shaping story is en waarom die belangrijker is dan alleen je "persoonlijkheid"   Hoe gezin, school, cultuur en belangrijke levensgebeurtenissen jouw automatische reacties vormen   Waarom gedrag dat je nu belemmert ooit een slimme manier was om jezelf veilig te houden   Waarom je lichaam jouw geschiedenis letterlijk zichtbaar maakt   Hoe jouw shaping story zichtbaar wordt in de manier waarop je beweegt, zit en ruimte inneemt   Hoe perfectionisme, pleasen, boosheid of jezelf klein maken kunnen ontstaan   Waarom cognitief begrijpen vaak niet genoeg is om gedrag te veranderen   Reflectievragen om jouw eigen shaping story te onderzoeken  Misschien denk je soms:  Zo ben ik nu eenmaal.  Maar wat als jouw gedrag ooit een slimme manier was om jezelf veilig te houden?    Resources & tools:  Reflectieoefening: onderzoek jouw shaping story   Centering oefening (voor meer lichaamsbewustzijn tijdens reflectie):  https://youtu.be/znmRKSb2dGY    Pak pen en papier. Sta eens stil bij de volgende vragen:  Hoe ging jouw gezin om met emoties, conflict of succes?   Welke boodschappen hoorde je vaak als kind?   Wanneer voelde jij je veilig, gezien of juist niet?   Welke situaties uit je verleden hebben jou gevormd?   En: Welke uitspraken of boodschappen uit je jeugd hoor je vandaag nog steeds in je hoofd?  Let tijdens het schrijven ook op je lichaam.  Maak je jezelf kleiner? Span je iets aan? Ga je sneller schrijven? Of juist langzamer?  Soms vertelt je lichaam het verhaal eerder dan je hoofd dat doet.  Meer ontdekken?  Suzanne’s boek over de 8 maskers en embodied leadership is binnenkort verkrijgbaar in de boekhandels.  👉 Pre-order het boek hier: https://www.doors-open.nl/product/embodied-leadership-boek-pre-order/

    24 min

  2. Jun 17

    Aflevering 2: Je automatische reacties (en waar ze vandaan komen)

    Waarom reageer je soms sneller dan je zelf begrijpt?  Waarom klap je dicht, ga je pleasen of word je juist heel direct?  In deze tweede aflevering van Beyond the Corporate Mask duiken corporate socioloog Suzanne Mau-Asam en co-host Emma dieper in op de biologische kant van maskers.  Want veel van onze reacties ontstaan niet bewust. Ze beginnen in ons zenuwstelsel.  Samen onderzoeken we hoe automatische beschermingsreacties ontstaan, waarom situaties op werk zo’n sterke impact kunnen hebben en hoe je lichaam vaak al reageert voordat je hoofd begrijpt wat er gebeurt.  In deze aflevering ontdek je:  Hoe je autonome zenuwstelsel continu scant op veiligheid   Waarom gezien worden en erbij horen fundamentele biologische behoeften zijn   Waarom sociale afwijzing letterlijk pijn doet in je systeem   Het verschil tussen verbinden, vechten, vluchten, aanpassen en bevriezen   Waarom je lichaam altijd sneller reageert dan je denken   Hoe automatische beschermingsreacties uiteindelijk maskers kunnen worden   Welke lichamelijke signalen vaak voorafgaan aan automatisch gedrag   Een praktische oefening om jouw eigen reactiepatronen te onderzoeken  Misschien denk je achteraf vaak:  Waarom reageerde ik zo?  Deze aflevering helpt je begrijpen dat die reacties niet zomaar “gedrag” zijn, maar beschermingsmechanismen van je lichaam.  Resources & tools:  Centering oefening (direct toepasbaar tijdens werk of dagelijks leven): https://youtu.be/znmRKSb2dGY  Denk aan een situatie die spanning bij je oproept. Misschien een onverwacht gesprek met je manager. Een vergadering waarin je je moet uitspreken. Of een moment waarop je kritiek verwacht.  Center jezelf eerst. Voel daarna: wat gebeurt er in je lichaam?  Span je je kaken aan?  Ga je naar voren leunen?  Word je stil?  Wil je meteen iets oplossen?  Hoe eerder je deze signalen leert herkennen, hoe meer keuzevrijheid je krijgt in hoe je reageert.  Meer ontdekken?  Suzanne’s boek over de 8 maskers en embodied leadership is binnenkort verkrijgbaar in de boekhandels.  👉 Pre-order het boek hier: https://www.doors-open.nl/product/embodied-leadership-boek-pre-order/

    27 min

  3. May 6

    Aflevering 1: Het masker dat je draagt (en waarom)

    Meer ontdekken?  Suzanne’s boek over de 8 maskers en embodied leadership is binnenkort verkrijgbaar in de boekhandels.  👉 Pre-order het boek hier: https://www.doors-open.nl/product/embodied-leadership-boek-pre-order/     Aan de buitenkant leek alles te kloppen. Maar vanbinnen voelde ze zich steeds minder zichzelf.  In deze eerste aflevering van Beyond the Corporate Mask deelt corporate socioloog Suzanne Mau-Asam een persoonlijk verhaal over de start van haar carrière in een corporate omgeving en hoe ze zich aanpaste om erbij te horen.  Wat begon als een manier om zich veilig te voelen, groeide uit tot een patroon: een masker.  Samen met co-host Emma verkennen we wat dat masker eigenlijk is, waarom we het allemaal dragen en wat het je kost als je dit op lange termijn blijft doen.  In deze aflevering ontdek je:  Wat het ‘corporate masker’ is en hoe het ontstaat   Waarom iedereen maskers draagt (en waarom dat niet per se slecht is)   Hoe maskers je energie, authenticiteit en verbinding beïnvloeden   Het BBC framework: Biologie, Biografie en Context als basis van je gedrag   Hoe je lichaam (en je zenuwstelsel) een belangrijke rol speelt in je automatische reacties   Een praktische oefening om meer keuzevrijheid te ervaren in hoe je reageert   Misschien is het masker je ooit komen beschermen.  Maar wat gebeurt er als je vergeet dat je het draagt?  Resources & tools:  Centering oefening (direct toepasbaar tijdens werk of dagelijks leven): https://youtu.be/znmRKSb2dGY     Meer ontdekken?  Suzanne’s boek over de 8 maskers en embodied leadership is binnenkort verkrijgbaar in de boekhandels.  👉 Pre-order het boek hier: https://www.doors-open.nl/product/embodied-leadership-boek-pre-order/     Volg ons op LinkedIn en Instagram voor meer inzichten en oefeningen   Luister naar de volgende aflevering van Beyond the Corporate Mask

    34 min

  4. 10/15/2025

    8. Beyond the Critic - a personal story of embodied leadership

    In this episode of Beyond the Corporate Mask, Suzanne sits down with Nadine, a learning and development advisor who shares her personal story of growing up with a relentless inner critic, and learning to make peace with it through embodied leadership. From being bullied at school to pushing herself to prove her worth at work, Nadine’s story reveals how the inner critic can take over our bodies, not just our thoughts. Together, she and Suzanne explore what happens when self-doubt becomes a habit, and how somatic tools can help us move from pressure to presence. You’ll hear: How early experiences shape the voice of the inner critic The link between striving, overachieving, and self-criticism What it feels like when the inner critic takes over your body (tight chest, shallow breath, frozen posture) Why you can’t think your way out of it, and what helps instead Simple, body-based practices to quiet the noise and reconnect with yourself Resources & Tools Mentioned: Centering: A grounding practice that helps you return to calm and presence by noticing your breath, posture, and gravity. The White Space Visualization: A way to create inner distance from harsh self-talk and find clarity. Eye Stretch: A short somatic practice that relaxes the vagus nerve and helps your nervous system settle. Advice from our guest: “The critic never fully disappears. But when I meet it with curiosity, instead of trying to silence it, it loses its power. I can breathe again.” – Nadine Links: 🎧 Listen to all episodes of Beyond the Corporate Mask 🌿 Learn more about embodied leadership 🎧 Related episode: 7. Taming the Inner Critic - how embodied work changes your relationship with self-doubt

    37 min

  5. 09/17/2025

    7. Taming the Inner Critic - how embodied work changes your relationship with self-doubt

    “You’re not ready. Don’t speak up. They’ll think you’re not good enough.” That voice? That’s your inner critic. The relentless whisper that second-guesses your ideas, rewrites your sentences, and makes you shrink before you even open your mouth. In this episode of Beyond the Corporate Mask, Emma and Suzanne explore where the critic comes from, how it shows up in your thoughts, body, and voice, and what you can do to meet it differently. Instead of fighting it, you’ll learn how to recognise it, calm your nervous system, and choose another voice. You’ll hear: Why the inner critic develops in childhood, and why double standards make it louder for certain groups of people. The disguises the critic takes: the Perfectionist, the Doubter, the Harsh Motivator, the Shame Whisperer. How the critic speaks through your body: tight jaw, racing heart, shrinking posture. Why arguing with the critic doesn’t work, and what to do instead. Simple, body-based practices to soften the critic’s grip in the moment. Resources & Tools Mentioned: Spot the entry line - notice phrases like “Sorry, but…” and drop the apology. Name it to tame it - locate the tension in your body and say it out loud (“My chest feels tight”). Show compassion - instead of fighting, thank the critic for trying to protect you. Centering practice - feet on the floor, lengthen your spine, open your posture, breathe toward the sensation. Try This: The next time the critic shows up, pause. Where in your body do you feel it? Is it in your jaw, chest, stomach, shoulders? Place your hand there, breathe slowly, and whisper to yourself: Thanks for looking out for me. I’ve got this. Links: Learn more about Doors Open - Institute for Corporate Sociology Follow us on Instagram / LinkedIn for more on embodied leadership Beyond the Corporate Mask is a podcast by Doors Open - Institute for Corporate Sociology.

    21 min

  6. 09/03/2025

    6. Unseen Pressure - how impostor feelings show up in your body

    “Any second now, they’ll find out I don’t belong here.” The smile on your face looks convincing. You’ve prepared. You’ve earned your seat. But inside, your body tells a different story: clenched jaw, shallow breath, tense shoulders. That creeping fear of being exposed. In this episode of Beyond the Corporate Mask, Emma and Suzanne explore impostor feelings not just as thoughts in your head, but as patterns deeply wired into your body. From freezing in front of senior leaders, to over-preparing until exhaustion, we unpack how the impostor voice shows up in your body, and how to work with it instead of against it.   You’ll hear: Why impostor syndrome isn’t only “in your head” How environments like competition, jargon, and exclusion amplify impostor feelings The body’s survival responses (freeze, shrink, overcompensate) and how to notice them Simple practices to calm your nervous system when impostor feelings rise Why embracing a beginner’s mindset and experimenting with imperfection can shift the cycle We also share personal stories of moments when impostor syndrome hit hard, and how embodied practices helped us move from collapse into presence. This is an episode about learning to stay with yourself, even when the voice of doubt whispers the loudest. Resources & Tools Mentioned: Somatic practices – Calming the nervous system and opening space in the body Beginner’s mindset – Claiming both what you know and what you’re here to learn Experimenting with imperfection – Training your body to survive “good enough” Embodied leadership retreat – Practicing presence, boundaries, and belonging in community Try This: Next time impostor feelings rise, pause and scan your body. Where do you feel it? Is it in your jaw, chest, stomach, shoulders? Place a hand there and breathe slowly, telling your body: It’s safe to feel this. Notice what shifts. Links: Learn more about Doors Open - Institute for Corporate Sociology Follow us on Instagram / LinkedIn for more on embodied leadership   Beyond the Corporate Mask is a podcast by Doors Open – Institute for Corporate Sociology.

    31 min

  7. 08/20/2025

    5. Beyond Saying No - the courage to hold your boundaries

    "A boundary isn’t a wall; it’s an act of presence." You finally say no. You draw the line. You set the boundary. But what happens when it’s met with tension, pushback, or even silence? In this episode of Beyond the Corporate Mask, Emma and Suzanne explore what it really takes to hold a boundary after you’ve set it. From freeze responses and people-pleasing to emotional overshadowing and group dynamics, we unpack why staying with your truth, especially under pressure, can be so challenging. You’ll hear: Why systems often resist change when you shift your role What makes holding a boundary harder than setting it How your nervous system might override your good intentions What to do when you’ve ‘lost’ your boundary in the moment How to stay in relationship and stay true to yourself We also share Sarah’s story, a listener who set a boundary at work and was met with guilt-tripping and backlash, and reflect on what we can all learn from it. This is an episode about repair, return, and resilience. Boundaries don’t expire. You can always come back to your centre.   Resources & Tools Mentioned: Emotional Overshadowing – How group dynamics and dominant emotions can drown out your inner voice Relational Boundaries – Staying in contact with yourself and the other person Nervous system responses – Why silence or freeze isn’t failure, it’s your body’s way of protecting you Repairing a boundary – Simple steps to return to your boundary after the moment has passed   Try This: Think of a moment when you didn’t hold your boundary. Pause. Reflect: What was your truth? What did you want to say? Now, write it down, or speak it aloud to yourself. It’s not too late.   Links: Learn more about Doors Open – Institute for Corporate Sociology Follow us on Instagram / LinkedIn for more on embodied leadership Subscribe to Beyond the Corporate Mask on Spotify | Apple Podcasts | Other platforms   Beyond the Corporate Mask is a podcast by Doors Open – Institute for Corporate Sociology. Let’s lead without hiding ourselves.

    21 min

  8. 08/06/2025

    4. The Cost of Saying Yes - why boundaries matter more than ever

    "Every time you say 'yes', you're also saying 'no' to rest, to presence, to yourself." Why is it so hard to say no, especially at work? In this episode of Beyond the Corporate Mask, Emma and Suzanne unpack the hidden costs of always saying 'yes'. From blurred roles and people-pleasing to social pressure and freeze responses, we explore why setting boundaries feels so uncomfortable… and why it matters more than ever. You’ll hear: - Why “being nice” can lead to self-abandonment - What your body knows before your mind catches up - The STAND framework to help you recognise and honour your boundaries - How centring practices can help you speak up, even under pressure Real-life stories of boundary failure, and what we can learn from them Plus, Suzanne shares a vulnerable personal story that highlights how power dynamics and survival responses can keep us silent, even when everything inside says “no.” This episode is a powerful reminder that boundaries are not walls: they’re invitations to real connection. Resources & Tools Mentioned: - STAND Framework (Sensation, Thinking Space, Affect, Narrative, Do I have a voice?) - Centring Practice: Working with length, width, and depth to ground yourself before setting a boundary - Embodied Leadership Retreat – For leaders ready to pause, reconnect with their bodies, and lead with clarity (details below) Try This: Set one small boundary this week. Notice how it feels in your body before, during, and after. Links: - Learn more about the Embodied Leadership Retreat - Follow us on Instagram / LinkedIn for more embodied leadership insights - Subscribe to Beyond the Corporate Mask on Spotify | Apple Podcasts | other podcasting platforms Beyond the Corporate Mask is a podcast by Doors Open – Institute for Corporate Sociology. Let’s lead without hiding ourselves.

    33 min

  9. 07/23/2025

    3. Conditioned Tendencies - why we react the way we do

    You meant to stay calm during the meeting, but you snapped at your colleague, just like it happened last time.  You swore you wouldn’t take on all the extra work again, but you stayed late anyway.    Why does this keep happening?  When we’re under stress or pressure, we fall back on old habits wired into our bodies: reflexes that once helped us get by, even if they don’t serve us anymore.  In this episode, corporate sociologist and embodied leadership expert Suzanne Mau-Asam explores, with learning and development expert Emma ten Veen, the science and stories behind these conditioned tendencies: the automatic reactions we all carry.  These patterns aren’t your flaws. They’re old survival strategies you simply don’t need anymore. And once you see them clearly, you can begin to change them.  This episode covers:  Why your nervous system leads the way (before your brain can catch up)  How your biology, biography, and context shape your reactions  A somatic exercise to help you recognise your conditioned tendencies and start to shift them  Learn more about our embodied leadership programmes on our website.  Follow us for more tools and episodes.

    39 min

  10. 07/16/2025

    2. The Shaping Story - how your past lives in your body

    You meant to speak up. But your voice caught.  You tried to take up space. But your body pulled back.  That’s not just nerves: it’s your shaping story.  In this episode, embodied leadership expert Suzanne Mau-Asam and her colleague, learning & development expert Emma ten Veen, unpack how past experiences, whether from childhood, culture, or early career, leave a deep imprint in the body. These patterns often go unnoticed, but they affect how we work, lead, speak, and relate.  We explore:  - What a shaping story is, and how it shows up in your leadership  - A personal story from Suzanne about invisibility and survival  - The six sources that shape your professional presence  - A guided practice to help you feel what needs to shift    Learn more about our embodied leadership programmes on our website  Follow us for new tools and episodes.

    36 min

  11. 07/09/2025

    1. The Corporate Mask - fitting in and what it costs us

    She did all the ‘right’ things: showing up, speaking up, staying visible.  But something still felt off.  In our first full episode, corporate sociologist Suzanne Mau-Asam shares a deeply personal story about trying to ‘fit in’ by performing a version of leadership that wasn’t entirely hers.  The shift didn’t come from learning more ‘tricks’.  It came from tuning into her body.   Together with colleague and learning & development expert Emma ten Veen, she explores:  The difference between performing leadership and living it  How the body shapes confidence, clarity, and connection  A practice to feel what it’s like to take the mask off—and lead from within  Learn more about our embodied leadership programmes on our website  Follow us on LinkedIn and Instagram for more.

    40 min

  12. Season 1 Trailer

    0. Taking Off the Mask - the start of a different way to lead

    Welcome to Beyond the Corporate Mask.  If you’ve ever walked into a meeting and found yourself adjusting your voice, your posture, or even your personality, this podcast is for you.  Corporate sociologist Suzanne Mau-Asam and learning and development expert Emma ten Veen introduce the heart of the series: embodied leadership. This is authentic leadership that includes your body, your senses, and the very human parts often left out at work.  In this teaser, we explore:  What the ‘corporate mask’ is, and how it shows up  Why presence matters more than performance  What embodied leadership really means (backed by science)  What to expect from the episodes ahead  Learn more about embodied leadership on our website  Follow us on LinkedIn and Instagram for practices, tools, and updates.

    4 min

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Tired of having to act like someone you’re not at work? Beyond the Corporate Mask helps you lead without leaving parts of yourself behind. Through real stories and practical tools, we explore the unspoken rules shaping leadership, DEI, and well-being. From the team at Doors Open – Institute for Corporate Sociology, it’s time for a new way of working: the embodied way.

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