Out and About AF

Gabe Vasquez
  • 5.0 (9)
  • Mental Health
  • Updated Weekly

Out & About AF is an LGBTQIA+ alcohol-free podcast where queer identity meets sober living. Hosted by Gabe, this show shares real stories about sobriety, sober curiosity, dating, mental health, and sober travel. Each episode explores navigating LGBTQ life without alcohol, building social confidence, and finding community beyond drinking culture. Whether you’re sober, sober curious, or exploring an alcohol-free lifestyle, you’re in the right place.

  1. Sobriety, Identity & Community: How Avital Built a Life She Loves Without Alcohol

    4d ago

    Sobriety, Identity & Community: How Avital Built a Life She Loves Without Alcohol

    What does it really look like to rebuild your life without alcohol? In this episode, we sit down with Avital — five years sober and thriving — to talk about her sobriety journey, holistic health, and the power of community. From navigating identity and self-love to organizing sober Pride bar crawls through Zero Proof Crawls, Avital brings warmth, honesty, and real talk about what healing actually feels like. Whether you're sober-curious or deep in your own journey, this one's for you. Resources mentioned: This Naked Mind → https://www.amazon.com/This-Naked-Mind-Control-Alcohol/dp/0399591058Institute of Integrative Nutrition → https://www.integrativenutrition.comZero Proof Crawls → https://www.instagram.com/zeroproofcrawls/

    1h 4m
  2. Unfiltered AF: Summer Sober Survival....Whats In My Ice Chest?

    Jun 4

    Unfiltered AF: Summer Sober Survival....Whats In My Ice Chest?

    Summer can be one of the biggest challenges in sobriety. Between pool parties, vacations, barbecues, concerts, and social events, alcohol seems to be everywhere. In this solo episode, I share some of the lessons I've learned on my own alcohol-free journey and the practical tools that have helped me navigate summer without drinking. We talk about creating a plan before social events, recognizing triggers, setting boundaries, building confidence, and knowing when it's okay to skip an event altogether. I also share why community, accountability, and mindset have been some of the most important factors in maintaining long-term sobriety. Whether you're newly sober, sober curious, or have years alcohol-free, these tips can help you enjoy your summer, protect your peace, and remember that you don't need alcohol to have fun. In this episode:• Navigating summer events alcohol-free• Creating a sobriety toolbox for social situations• Handling triggers and social pressure• Building confidence in your alcohol-free lifestyle• The power of community and accountability Connect with Out and About AF Instagram: @outandaboutaf TikTok: @outandaboutaf Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@OutandAboutAF Website: outandaboutaf.com Sober Motivation Community App: https://www.sobermotivation.com/ If you enjoyed this episode, be sure to follow the podcast and share it with someone who could use a little extra support on their alcohol-free journey.

    26 min
  3. Sober by Choice: How Ditching Alcohol Transformed Steven's Confidence, Fitness, and Social Life

    May 28

    Sober by Choice: How Ditching Alcohol Transformed Steven's Confidence, Fitness, and Social Life

    What if you didn't need a rock bottom to choose sobriety? In this episode, I sit down with Steven Sessoms, who made the decision to give up alcohol — not because he had to, but because he wanted more. More clarity, more confidence, more control over his health and his life. Steven opens up about navigating social pressure in the LGBTQ+ community, how ditching alcohol unlocked a serious fitness transformation, and what it really feels like to show up fully present in every room — no drink in hand. From managing social anxiety to redefining how he sees himself, Steven's story is proof that sobriety isn't about hitting a low point. Sometimes it's simply about choosing a higher standard for yourself. Whether you're sober-curious, already on your journey, or just wondering what life could look like without alcohol, this conversation will challenge the way you think about drinking — and what's possible without it. In this episode: Why you don't need a "problem" to quit drinkingHow sobriety and fitness go hand in handBuilding confidence and navigating social situations alcohol-freeFinding community and self-acceptance along the wayConnect with Steven: Instagram | Facebook

    59 min
  4. Unfiltered AF: Sober, Overwhelmed & Figuring It Out

    May 14

    Unfiltered AF: Sober, Overwhelmed & Figuring It Out

    What does self-care actually look like in sobriety? In this first solo episode, I get real about navigating being overwhelmed, burnout, and the mental health struggles that come with living alcohol-free. From meditation and music to breaking life into manageable buckets, I share the practical strategies that not only replaced what alcohol used to do....but kept him from spiraling completely out. If you're on a sobriety journey, struggling with stress, or just trying to find balance, this one's for you. Topics covered: Sobriety & mental health | Self-care strategies | Overcoming overwhelm & burnout | Mindfulness & meditation | Self-awareness & personal growth Resources mentioned:  Out and About AF 30-Day Alcohol-Free Workbook Instagram | @outandaboutaf

    18 min
  5. From Small Town Kentucky to Self-Acceptance: David's Journey

    Apr 30

    From Small Town Kentucky to Self-Acceptance: David's Journey

    David grew up in a small town in Kentucky — and finding himself meant navigating coming out, alcohol addiction, relapse, and spiritual awakening all at once. In this raw and honest interview, he shares what it really took to embrace his identity, get sober, and build a life worth living. We dig into the role of community (including Dallas Lambda and AA), the 12 Steps, and how spirituality became a lifeline. Whether you're in recovery, questioning your identity, or just looking for a story of real resilience — this one's for you. 📌 Topics: LGBTQ+ journey · Coming out · Sobriety · Addiction & recovery · Alcoholics Anonymous · Spirituality · Personal growth · Small-town life · Resilience

    1h 15m
  6. From Trauma to Triumph: Daniel's Sobriety Journey

    Apr 23

    From Trauma to Triumph: Daniel's Sobriety Journey

    What does it take to truly rebuild yourself from the inside out? In this powerful episode, Daniel opens up about his journey through addiction, trauma, and the long road to sobriety — sharing the raw, honest experiences that shaped who he is today. From the role of relationships and loss to navigating identity, mental health, and spirituality, Daniel's story is a testament to what's possible when we commit to self-awareness and community. Whether you're in recovery, supporting someone who is, or simply seeking a deeper understanding of the human experience, this conversation will leave you with something real. What we cover: • How trauma and early life experiences fuel addiction • The power of community and support systems in recovery • Why self-awareness is the foundation of lasting change • Spirituality and mental health as tools for sobriety • Building a meaningful new life after addiction Resources mentioned: • Alcoholics Anonymous — aa.org • Mental Health America — mhanational.org • LGBTQ+ Recovery Support — lgbtqcenter.org Connect with Out and About AF Instagram Facebook Community Website "Recovery is about rebuilding who you are." — Daniel New episodes every week. Subscribe so you never miss a story that matters.

    1h 1m
  7. Finding Joy in Sobriety: A Journey with Mr. Mocktail

    Apr 16

    Finding Joy in Sobriety: A Journey with Mr. Mocktail

    What if the party could be just as good — without the hangover? In this episode, Gabe sits down with Andy Krumm, aka Mr. Mocktail, the founder of Sober One Six, an event production company creating fun, fabulous, and fully alcohol-free experiences for the LGBTQIA+ community. Andy opens up about what led him to sobriety, how he turned that journey into a movement, and why inclusive sober spaces are changing lives. Whether you're sober-curious, in recovery, or just mocktail-obsessed, this one's for you. 🍹 Find Andy & Out and About AF: Instagram: @MrMocktail / @OutandAboutAFWebsite: outandaboutaf.comSober One Six Events: soberonesix.com

    1h 3m
  8. From Bartender to Entrepreneur: Amanda's Sobriety Journey

    Apr 9

    From Bartender to Entrepreneur: Amanda's Sobriety Journey

    What happens when the life you’re living doesn’t feel good anymore… even if it looks normal from the outside? In this episode, I sat down with Amanda and honestly, this conversation goes deeper than just “quitting drinking.” She shares what it was like working as a bartender, being constantly around alcohol, and how the pandemic really shifted things for her. We talk about that in-between phase too, where you’re not really drinking the same way anymore, but you’re also not fully living sober yet. That part? I think a lot of people don’t talk about enough. Amanda opens up about going on a silent meditation retreat (which is wild in the best way), how that helped her reconnect with herself, and what led her to create her non-alcoholic spirit brand, Tomo no Tomo. We also get into what it actually looks like to build a life that feels aligned, why community matters so much in this journey, and how sobriety can be more than just “not drinking”… it can actually feel freeing. If you’ve been questioning your relationship with alcohol, or just feel like something’s off, I think you’ll really connect with this one. In this episode, we talk about:• Being surrounded by drinking culture and how normal it all feels• How the pandemic changed Amanda’s habits• The silent meditation retreat that shifted everything• Starting a non-alcoholic brand from scratch• The difference between not drinking and actually living sober• Why having the right people around you makes all the difference Connect with Out & About AF:Follow along for real conversations, alcohol-free tips, and communityInstagram: @outandaboutafJoin the community: (add your link)Website: (add your link) About Tomonotomo:Tomo no Tomo is a non-alcoholic spirit focused on connection and being present. It’s for people who still want the experience and ritual of a drink, just without the alcohol.Learn more: (add link) If this episode resonated with you:Follow the podcast, leave a rating, and share it with someone who might need to hear this. It really does help more than you think.

    59 min
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Out & About AF is an LGBTQIA+ alcohol-free podcast where queer identity meets sober living. Hosted by Gabe, this show shares real stories about sobriety, sober curiosity, dating, mental health, and sober travel. Each episode explores navigating LGBTQ life without alcohol, building social confidence, and finding community beyond drinking culture. Whether you’re sober, sober curious, or exploring an alcohol-free lifestyle, you’re in the right place.

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  • Creator
    Gabe Vasquez
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    43
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Gabe Vasquez
  • Show Website
    Out and About AF

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