Finding My Happy

Janet Michelle

“Finding My Happy” is a mental wellness podcast that creates space for healing from the quiet struggle of feeling not enough. Each episode offers real talk, mindset shifts, and practical tools to help you silence self-doubt, challenge limiting beliefs, and build confidence from the inside out. It’s time to rewrite the story and embrace your worth—just as you are.

Episodes

  1. 11/05/2025

    Rejection and Worthiness

    Rejection and Worthiness Episode Summary: Rejection hurts — whether it’s from a relationship, a job, a friendship, or an opportunity you thought was yours. But what if rejection isn’t a reflection of your worth, but a redirection toward something better? In this heartfelt episode of Finding My Happy, Janet unpacks the deep connection between rejection and self-worth. She explores how to heal from the sting of rejection, reframe it as growth, and remember that your value doesn’t decrease when someone else fails to see it. In This Episode, You’ll Learn: How rejection can trigger self-doubt and unworthinessWhy your worth is inherent — not dependent on acceptance or validationHealthy ways to process feelings of rejection without internalizing themHow to turn rejection into reflection and redirectionPractical steps to rebuild confidence and self-trust Episode Affirmation: “Rejection is redirection. I am worthy, valuable, and whole — just as I am.” Wellness Takeaway: Your worth is not negotiable. The people and opportunities meant for you will recognize your light — but you have to see it first. Episode Challenge: Think of a recent rejection that still stings. Write down three things you’ve learned from that experience — and one new door that opened because of it. 🔗 Connect with Janet: Website: www.findingmyhappy.netSocial Media : @findingmyhappy_JMBook: Finding My Happy: Chucking the Deuces to Toxic ThinkingOnline Store: payhip.com/janetmichelle *Workbooks are no longer free.

    Rejection and Worthiness
  2. 11/05/2025

    Abandonment and Relationships

    Episode: Abandonment and Relationships Episode Overview In this episode, I explore how feelings of abandonment whether rooted in childhood experiences, past relationships, or unexpected life events can shape the way we show up in relationships today. We’ll uncover how these wounds can create patterns of fear, insecurity, or over-attachment, and more importantly, discuss healthy ways to acknowledge, heal, and move toward secure connections. Key Points Discussed Understanding AbandonmentWhat abandonment looks like in childhood and adulthood.Emotional and psychological impact of abandonment wounds.Signs of Abandonment Issues in RelationshipsFear of rejection or being left.Overdependence or difficulty trusting partners.Emotional withdrawal or self-sabotage.Healing from Abandonment WoundsAwareness: Noticing triggers and patterns.Inner Work: Building self-worth and practicing self-compassion.Relationships: Communicating needs and creating boundaries.Seeking support through therapy, journaling, or wellness practices.Embracing your VillageShifting from fear-based love to secure, authentic love.Learning to acknowledge your village and the connection that it providesTakeaway Message Abandonment doesn’t define your worth or your ability to build healthy relationships. With self-awareness and healing practices, it’s possible to move from fear and insecurity to connection, peace, and trust. Reflection When was the first time you remember feeling abandoned, and how does that memory shape how you relate to others today?What is one way you can begin to nurture a sense of security within yourself?Resources Mentioned Finding My Happy: Chucking the Deuces to Toxic ThinkingTherapy and support groups for relational healingRelationships and Abandonment Worksheet Guide

    Abandonment and Relationships
  3. 07/29/2025

    Ownership and Release

    🎙️ Finding My Happy Podcast Episode Title: Ownership & Release 📝 Episode Summary: In this heart-centered episode, I dive deep into the emotional labor of carrying what was never meant for us. From family burdens to friendship drama, many of us take ownership of other people’s problems, feelings, and expectations—often at the cost of our peace. I explore: The difference between responsibility and emotional ownershipWhy some of us feel compelled to "fix" or "carry" for othersHow to gently release what no longer serves your emotional well-beingWhat freedom feels like when you return energy to its rightful placeIf you're ready to put down what you were never meant to hold, this episode is your invitation to release and reclaim your joy. 🔑 Key Takeaways: Just because you care doesn’t mean it’s yours to carry.Recognize emotional triggers that lead you to take ownership.Learn how to set compassionate boundaries without guilt.Practice the art of emotional detachment with empathy and love. 🧠 Reflection Questions: What situations or people do I feel overly responsible for?Is this mine to fix, manage, or control—or is it theirs?What do I need to let go of in order to feel emotionally lighter? 🛠️ Challenge of the Week: Write down 3 things you’ve been emotionally carrying that don’t belong to you. Then speak this aloud: “I release what is not mine. I honor my peace over their expectations.” 🧘🏾‍♀️ Affirmation: “I lovingly return what is not mine to carry. I choose peace.” 🔗 Resources Mentioned: Findingmyhappy.netFollow @FindingMyHappy for daily mindset support

    Ownership and Release

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“Finding My Happy” is a mental wellness podcast that creates space for healing from the quiet struggle of feeling not enough. Each episode offers real talk, mindset shifts, and practical tools to help you silence self-doubt, challenge limiting beliefs, and build confidence from the inside out. It’s time to rewrite the story and embrace your worth—just as you are.