She's Probably Talking to Other Guys - (SPTTOG)

Annie of The Banannie Diaries

welcome to she’s probably talking to other guys, the podcast where assumptions, overthinking, and brutal honesty collide. hosted by annie of the banannie diaries, each episode dives into the messy, ridiculous, and all too relatable thoughts we have about life, friendships, dating, and mental health. hit follow to hear what everyone is secretly thinking…sometimes messy, always honest. for behind the scenes chaos and extras, follow @spttogpodcast and remember, your assumptions make an a** out of you, not me.

  1. 1D AGO

    he’s probably trying to figure you out | she’s probably talking to other guys (spttog) | the banannie diaries by annie

    in a previous episode, we broke down what men say… and what women actually hear. this time, we’re flipping it. because let’s be honest, women don’t always say exactly what we mean either. from “i’m fine” to “do whatever you want” to “it’s nothing”…what men hear vs what women actually mean can be two completely different conversations. in this episode, we’re getting into:– the usual meaning behind common phrases women say– why women sometimes communicate indirectly– how men interpret those phrases (and where it goes wrong)– the difference between emotional awareness and expecting someone to read your mind– why clarity might be the thing that changes everything in your relationships this isn’t about blaming one side, it’s about understanding both. because at the end of the day…he’s probably trying to figure you out.

    32 min

  2. MAR 25

    she’s probably the strongest woman in the room | she’s probably talking to other guys (spttog) | the banannie diaries by annie

    she’s probably the strongest woman in the room…and you’d never know what it took to get there. in this episode, becky shares her experience with abuse, the patterns that kept her stuck, and what it actually looks like to rebuild your relationship with yourself after everything. we talk about the s***** assumptions people make like “if you stayed, it wasn’t that bad” or “strong women don’t end up in those situations” and why they couldn’t be further from the truth. this conversation goes into overthinking, people-pleasing, and how those patterns don’t just disappear when you leave. we get into the difference between intuition and fear, what self-trust actually looks like in everyday life, and how healing isn’t about becoming a completely new person, it’s about finally feeling safe being yourself. this one is honest, emotional, and necessary. if this resonates, you’re not alone. connect with becky: becky louise smith – post abuse empowerment coach @beckylouisesmith coaching@beckylouisesmith.com _______ if you or someone you know is experiencing abuse, you’re not alone. here are some resources that offer support: national domestic violence hotline: call or text: 1-800-799-7233 or text start to 88788 - chat: thehotline.org love is respect: loveisrespect.org - call: 1-866-331-9474 or text loveis to 22522 emergency support: if you are in immediate danger, call 911 resources and contact information are accurate at the time of this recording but may change. please verify details online if needed. this episode shares personal experiences and is not professional advice. please reach out to a qualified professional or support service if you need help.

    1 hr

  3. MAR 18

    she’s probably reading between the lines | she’s probably talking to other guys (spttog) | the banannie diaries by annie

    ever notice how men have their own language? after enough dating, situationships, and late-night group chat debriefs, you start to realize something: certain phrases almost always mean the same thing. in this episode of she’s probably talking to other guys, we’re decoding the most common phrases men say and what they actually mean. from the classic “i’m just really busy” to “i’m not ready for a relationship,” we break down why these statements can be confusing, what’s genuine, and how patterns reveal intentions more than words ever could. if you’ve ever found yourself thinking, “wait…does he really mean that?” this episode is your ultimate translation guide. what you’ll learn in this episode: the real meaning behind phrases like “i’m bad at texting,” “let’s just see where things go,” and “you deserve someone better”how to distinguish between genuine reasons and soft excusespatterns that show interest versus disinteresthow to protect your energy and avoid overthinkingwhy consistency matters more than words we also touch on the fact that communication misunderstandings aren’t just a men thing, women have their own phrases that get misinterpreted too. and yes, the reverse episode might be coming soon…translating women’s language for men. listen now and get clarity on dating language. subscribe to she’s probably talking to other guys for more episodes on dating, relationships, overthinking, and decoding mixed signals. ____________ #shesprobablytalkingtootherguys #datingadvice #overthinking #relationships #mixedsignals #datingtips #communicationmatters #datingclarity #relationshipadvice #datingpatterns she’s probably reading between the lines, common phrases men say, decoding dating language, dating advice podcast, overthinking in dating, mixed signals in relationships, relationship communication, understanding men, she’s probably talking to other guys podcast, dating clarity tips

    34 min

  4. MAR 11 ·  BONUS

    she’s probably 30, thriving, and still ignoring your texts | she’s probably talking to other guys (spttog) | the banannie diaries by Annie | video version

    dating in your 30s is chaotic, hilarious, and unapologetically selective. in this episode of she’s probably talking to other guys (spttog), we dive deep into the reality of adult dating…moving from the chaos of red flags and uncertainty to knowing exactly what we want in a relationship. we explore: why knowing what you want changes everything, and why settling for “potential” is no longer an option how patterns, consistency, and communication matter more than chemistry alone the power of boundaries and the freedom that comes from saying “not my thing” without guilt understanding yourself, what you’re willing to compromise on, and what parts of your life are non-negotiable how dating in your 30s isn’t about lowering standards, it’s about being unapologetic about what matters and letting go of what doesn’t this episode is for anyone navigating the pressures, expectations, and realities of dating after 30. it’s messy, empowering, and full of insights that will help you approach love and relationships on your own terms. 🎧 listen here on spotify, as well as on, apple podcasts, iheartradio, or amazon music 🎥 watch the video episode on spotify and youtube 📱 follow @spttogpodcast for behind-the-scenes clips, updates, and extra insights dating in your 30s, single life, relationships, adult dating, dating advice, red flags, boundaries, thriving in your 30s, unapologetic dating, messy dating, spttog, she’s probably talking to other guys, the banannie diaries, annie rockhill, dating clarity, selective dating, intentional dating, video podcast, watching videos on spotify

    26 min

  5. MAR 11

    she’s probably 30, thriving, and still ignoring your texts | she’s probably talking to other guys (spttog) | the banannie diaries by annie

    dating in your 30s is chaotic, hilarious, and unapologetically selective. in this episode of she’s probably talking to other guys (spttog), we dive deep into the reality of adult dating…moving from the chaos of red flags and uncertainty to knowing exactly what we want in a relationship. we explore: why knowing what you want changes everything, and why settling for “potential” is no longer an option how patterns, consistency, and communication matter more than chemistry alone the power of boundaries and the freedom that comes from saying “not my thing” without guilt understanding yourself, what you’re willing to compromise on, and what parts of your life are non-negotiable how dating in your 30s isn’t about lowering standards, it’s about being unapologetic about what matters and letting go of what doesn’t this episode is for anyone navigating the pressures, expectations, and realities of dating after 30. it’s messy, empowering, and full of insights that will help you approach love and relationships on your own terms. 🎧 listen here on spotify, as well as on, apple podcasts, iheartradio, or amazon music 🎥 watch the video episode on spotify and youtube 📱 follow @spttogpodcast for behind-the-scenes clips, updates, and extra insights dating in your 30s, single life, relationships, adult dating, dating advice, red flags, boundaries, thriving in your 30s, unapologetic dating, messy dating, spttog, she’s probably talking to other guys, the banannie diaries, annie rockhill, dating clarity, selective dating, intentional dating

    26 min

  6. MAR 4 ·  BONUS

    she’s probably too confident | she’s probably talking to other guys (spttog) | the banannie diaries by Annie | video version

    have you ever noticed that the moment someone walks into a room confident…people get uncomfortable? in this episode of the banannie diaries, we’re breaking down why being “too confident” isn’t a flaw, it’s a mirror. a mirror for insecurity. a mirror for comparison. a mirror for people who were taught to shrink instead of shine. society labels confident women as “too much.” confident men as “arrogant.” and anyone who refuses to tone it down as “intimidating.” but what if the discomfort isn’t about you at all? in today’s episode, annie dives into: • why confidence exposes insecurity in dating, friendships, and work • the double standards around male vs female confidence • why being “intimidating” is often a projection • how to stop shrinking yourself to make others comfortable • using discomfort as a filter for who belongs in your life if you’ve ever been told to “tone it down,” “be humble,” or “not be so much”, this episode is your permission slip to stop apologizing. because confidence isn’t the problem. insecurity is. 🎙 tag someone who needs to hear this. 💬 share your take: is confidence empowering…or uncomfortable? #spttog #shesprobablytooconfident #thebananniediaries #datingtruths #confidenceispower

    30 min

  7. MAR 4

    she’s probably too confident | she’s probably talking to other guys (spttog) | the banannie diaries by annie

    have you ever noticed that the moment someone walks into a room confident…people get uncomfortable? in this episode of the banannie diaries, we’re breaking down why being “too confident” isn’t a flaw, it’s a mirror. a mirror for insecurity. a mirror for comparison. a mirror for people who were taught to shrink instead of shine. society labels confident women as “too much.” confident men as “arrogant.” and anyone who refuses to tone it down as “intimidating.” but what if the discomfort isn’t about you at all? in today’s episode, annie dives into: • why confidence exposes insecurity in dating, friendships, and work • the double standards around male vs female confidence • why being “intimidating” is often a projection • how to stop shrinking yourself to make others comfortable • using discomfort as a filter for who belongs in your life if you’ve ever been told to “tone it down,” “be humble,” or “not be so much”, this episode is your permission slip to stop apologizing. because confidence isn’t the problem. insecurity is. 🎙 tag someone who needs to hear this. 💬 share your take: is confidence empowering…or uncomfortable? follow she's probably talking to other guys so you don’t miss next week’s episode! #spttog #shesprobablytooconfident #thebananniediaries #datingtruths #confidenceispower

    30 min

  8. FEB 25 ·  BONUS

    she’s probably pausing the movie…for an outfit shot | video version | she’s probably talking to other guys (spttog) | the banannie diaries by annie | video version

    pop culture assumptions, rom-coms, disney obsessions, and marvel debates. rachel lives at the intersection of fashion and film, and she’s here to break it all down. from rewatching notting hill for style inspo, recreating bridget jones moments on instagram, to ranking adam sandler classics like a pro, we’re diving into what people really think about fans of movies and why most of it is wrong. we’re talking fashion lessons from rom-coms and rom-dramas, adult disney fandoms and superhero style, iconic actors and actresses who inspire wardrobes (yes, jennifer aniston is still a vibe), crime shows, double lives, and why your favorite genres don’t define you. this episode is rapid fire, slightly dramatic, and 100 percent main character energy. tune in to laugh, relate, and maybe pause your next movie…for an outfit shot. Ig: @spttogpodcast |  @rachel.corridean

    1h 48m
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welcome to she’s probably talking to other guys, the podcast where assumptions, overthinking, and brutal honesty collide. hosted by annie of the banannie diaries, each episode dives into the messy, ridiculous, and all too relatable thoughts we have about life, friendships, dating, and mental health. hit follow to hear what everyone is secretly thinking…sometimes messy, always honest. for behind the scenes chaos and extras, follow @spttogpodcast and remember, your assumptions make an a** out of you, not me.

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