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The go-to bi-weekly podcast for customer marketers, customer advocacy professionals, and B2B marketers who are done being the best-kept secret in their company. Hosted by Aparna Sharon Isa Dass, The Loyal-Tea Talks covers customer advocacy programs, loyalty programs, reference programs, community-led growth, career development, and proving customer marketing ROI to leadership. Whether you're new to customer marketing or already leading the function, there's a seat for you here. No fluff. Just the tools to take customer marketing from supporting act to main stage. 🌐 aparnasharonisadass.com

  1. Sep 1

    Ep. 23: Every Customer Has Proof. Most Companies Never Find It.

    For years, customer marketers have been measured by what we produce: case studies, testimonials, videos, reviews, references, webinars. More assets meant more activity, and activity became the easiest way to tell the story of our impact. But what if we've been measuring the wrong thing? In this episode of The Loyal-Tea Talks Podcast, host Aparna Sharon Isa Dass sits down with Chris Dalton, Principal, Customer Marketing at Gainsight, to unpack the evolution from customer content to customer evidence and why this shift could fundamentally change how we think about the role of customer marketing. Customer evidence isn't just a polished case study sitting quietly on your website. It's the quote shared during a sales call. The outcome mentioned in a reference conversation. The review on G2. The insight buried in a customer call. The community post. The metric that proves a customer achieved something meaningful. It's happening everywhere. The question is whether we're listening for it. Chris shares why the traditional long-form case study is no longer the finish line, it's the starting point. They dig into the "content waterfall": one deep customer conversation becomes LinkedIn posts, sales slides, website proof points, customer quotes, and multiple pieces of evidence designed for different buyers at different moments. Then: AI has changed the problem entirely. Historically, customer marketers were limited by bandwidth; you could only interview so many customers. Now, AI can surface customer evidence from conversations happening across the business, identify potential advocates, and reveal where evidence gaps actually are. Chris shares how he thinks about this through tools including Peerbound, conversational intelligence, Salesforce, Gainsight, and Claude, including an AI workflow that looks at both the supply of potential customer evidence and the demand coming from sales and prospects. And that creates a fascinating pivot. The question is no longer simply: "How many customer stories can we create?" It becomes: "Do we have the right proof, for the right buyer, at the right moment?" They also tackle incentives: when does a thank-you gift reinforce genuine advocacy, and when does it turn participation into a transaction? The answer depends heavily on the type of evidence you're trying to collect — from high-volume reviews to deeper advocacy like speaking engagements and advisory boards. And on measurement: instead of relying solely on "influenced pipeline," they explore a more defensible model — looking at whether deals using customer proof close faster or win at higher rates than those that don't. Finally, they look ahead. As AI moves from assisting individual tasks to orchestrating entire workflows, Chris sees the future customer marketer less as the person producing every asset and more as the conductor of an orchestra — directing technology, agents, data, customer relationships, and internal teams toward meaningful business outcomes. But there's one thing AI doesn't replace. The customer. The relationship. The human judgment required to understand what matters, what resonates, and what should never be automated. Less content for content's sake. More proof. Less production. More orchestration. Less asking "What should we create?" More asking "What are our customers already telling us — and are we paying attention?" Grab your tea. This one is about to make you rethink your customer marketing content calendar. Topics: customer evidence, customer content strategy, customer marketing ROI, customer proof B2B, content waterfall customer marketing, AI in customer marketing, customer evidence gap analysis, Gainsight customer marketing, Peerbound, customer marketing attribution, customer advocacy evidence, customer marketing AI workflow, customer case studies, right proof right buyer right moment, future of customer marketing, customer marketing conductor, Chris Dalton, customer marketing podcast

  2. Jul 22

    Come Fix It: Welcome to Customer Review Theatre with Aparna Sharon Isa Dass

    Have you ever noticed how customer reviews suddenly become everyone's top priority — right around the end of the quarter? For eleven months, they're quietly minding their own business. Then one day, someone opens a dashboard. A number looks smaller than expected. And suddenly the entire organisation remembers that customers exist. "Can we get a few reviews this week?" Not because anyone has bad intentions. But because panic has an interesting way of making ordinary things sound urgent. Welcome to Day 3 of Come Fix It — a seven-day series about the wonderfully normal habits we've somehow made unnecessarily complicated in Customer Marketing. We've already visited the Favor Farm, where advocacy quietly becomes a collection of favours. Yesterday, we found ourselves in a Hostage Negotiation, where references inherit the urgency of sales deadlines. Today, we're stepping onto a stage. Because today's episode is about something called Review Theatre. Think back to your school days. Annual Day. Weeks before the performance, rehearsals suddenly became the most important thing in the world. Teachers who had barely noticed your dance practice all year suddenly knew everyone's position on stage. Parents were invited. Costumes appeared. Hair was combed with unusual enthusiasm. Everyone wanted the final performance to look effortless. Then the curtain opened. The audience clapped. Photos were taken. The lights went off. Life returned to normal. Sometimes Customer Marketing accidentally does the same thing. Not with dances. With reviews. The closer we get to a campaign deadline, the more rehearsed everything becomes. Customers who haven't heard from us in months suddenly receive beautifully crafted emails. Slack channels become unusually active. Progress trackers are updated every few hours. Everyone wants the final performance — the review, the applause, the screenshot, the dashboard. And somewhere along the way, the experience that should have naturally created the review quietly becomes secondary to collecting it. That's what Review Theatre is. Not fake reviews. Not dishonest reviews. Just an environment where the performance of gathering reviews becomes more visible than the customer experience that inspired them. Because reviews were never meant to be marketing assets first. They were meant to be proof. Proof that somebody trusted you. Proof that somebody succeeded. Proof that the relationship mattered enough for them to tell someone else about it. Proof doesn't need rehearsals. Proof simply needs something worth proving. Reviews are outcomes. Not objectives. When we reverse that order, something subtle changes. The review becomes the destination — instead of the customer's success. Once you can name a habit, you begin seeing it everywhere. You'll hear someone say "We need twenty reviews before the end of the month" — and instead of immediately opening a spreadsheet, you might pause. Not because reviews don't matter. But because you'll remember the question beneath the request: "What have we done that customers genuinely want to review?" That's a very different conversation. And perhaps a much healthier one. Each episode in this series has a companion chapter in the Come Fix It ebook — available to download at the end of Day 7. The podcast tells the stories. The ebook gives those stories a place to linger. Here's the one thought I'd love to leave you with. Customers don't leave reviews because we asked brilliantly. They leave reviews because we served brilliantly. Everything else is just theatre. Now let's raise the curtain on Review Theatre. Topics: Come Fix It series, Review Theatre, customer review strategy, quarterly review campaigns, customer marketing habits, review generation B2B, customer reviews customer marketing, review campaign timing, customer experience and reviews, G2 reviews B2B, customer advocacy habits, review outcomes vs objectives, customer marketing podcast series, Come Fix It ebook, Aparna Sharon Isa Dass

  3. Jul 21

    Come Fix It: Customer Marketing Hostage Negotiation with Aparna Sharon Isa Dass

    If you've worked in Customer Marketing long enough, you've probably heard some version of this sentence. "Hey... quick question." If you've been in the corporate world for a while, you already know those two words deserve their own warning label. Today's version sounds something like this: "We need three customer references by Friday." It's Wednesday evening. Everyone nods. Someone says, "Shouldn't be too difficult." And somewhere, a Customer Marketing Manager quietly stares into the distance, wondering if it's too late to become a wildlife photographer. This episode explores one of the most familiar situations in Customer Marketing: the last-minute reference request. Not because references are bad — they're incredibly valuable. Customer conversations are often the most credible way for prospects to understand what working with a company is really like. The problem isn't asking. The problem is assuming the relationship can begin the moment the request arrives. That's a little like deciding to bake a birthday cake after your guests have already rung the doorbell. Technically possible. Emotionally stressful. And almost guaranteed to involve someone apologising. The best customer references don't happen because someone wrote the perfect email. They happen because months earlier, someone invested time. Someone listened. Someone followed up when they didn't need anything. Someone celebrated success before asking for support. That's the difference between building a relationship — and borrowing one. Today we're introducing a new name for a familiar behaviour: the Hostage Negotiation. No, your sales colleagues aren't villains — they're under real pressure too. Revenue targets are real. Deadlines are real. But sometimes the conversation around references unintentionally sounds less like "Would you be willing to help?" and a little more like "We really need this by Thursday." One invites participation. The other quietly transfers urgency. And urgency is contagious. One person's delayed planning becomes another person's emergency. Customer Marketing feels it. Customer Success feels it. The customer definitely feels it. A relationship that took months to build is now carrying the emotional weight of a sales deadline it never signed up for. Here's the thing worth sitting with. When a customer agrees to speak with your prospect, they aren't simply giving up thirty minutes on their calendar. They're attaching their own credibility to your organisation. They're saying: "I trust this company enough that I'm willing to let my experience influence someone else's decision." That's an extraordinary gift. And gifts rarely respond well to pressure. If you listened to Day 1, you've already met the Favor Farm. Today: the Hostage Negotiation. Each episode in this series builds on the previous one — and each has a companion chapter in the Come Fix It ebook, available to download at the end of Day 7. The podcast tells the stories. The ebook lets you sit with the ideas. So before someone inevitably asks for three references by Thursday — let's spend a few minutes talking about why that request feels less like a process... and a little more like a hostage negotiation. Topics: Come Fix It series Day 2, customer reference requests, last-minute reference management, hostage negotiation customer marketing, building vs borrowing customer relationships, customer reference program, customer advocacy habits, trust in customer marketing, urgency in customer marketing, reference program planning, B2B customer references, customer marketing podcast series, customer marketing habits, Aparna Sharon Isa Dass About this series: Come Fix It is a seven-day special series from The Loyal-Tea Talks Podcast — a light-hearted, honest look at seven habits that have quietly become normal in Customer Marketing. Each episode is under ten minutes. The companion ebook drops at the end of Day 7.

  4. Jul 20

    Come Fix It: Customer Marketing Favor Farming with Aparna Sharon Isa Dass

    Welcome to Come Fix It: Day 01 A seven-day podcast series that's less about teaching Customer Marketing — and more about gently questioning the wonderfully creative ways we've managed to complicate it. This series began with a simple observation. The longer I spent in Customer Marketing, the more I realised we don't actually have a knowledge problem. We know how to build advocacy programs. We know how to collect reviews, ask for references, write case studies, launch communities. We've attended the webinars, read the blogs, bookmarked the templates. Some of us have probably even created the templates. And yet. Somewhere between the strategy decks, quarterly targets, campaign calendars, and that Slack message that begins with "Hey... quick favor?" something quietly changed. Not our skills. Our intention. Relationships slowly became campaigns. Customers quietly became assets. Conversations became opportunities. And advocacy started sounding suspiciously like a to-do list. That's what Come Fix It is about. Not fixing Customer Marketing because it's broken, the people in this profession are some of the most thoughtful, relationship-driven people I've had the privilege of meeting. But even the best intentions get buried under deadlines. Even the strongest relationships can begin to feel transactional if we're not careful. Every now and then, it's worth pausing long enough to ask: "Why did we start doing this in the first place?" Each episode is under ten minutes — short enough for your commute, long enough to leave you thinking. Over seven days, we'll explore seven habits that have quietly become normal in Customer Marketing. Not because anyone deliberately designed them that way. But because sometimes the things we repeat the most are the things we question the least. We'll talk about why asking for advocacy sometimes feels less like building relationships and more like collecting favors. Why reviews become urgent every quarter-end. Why referrals aren't discount coupons. Why case studies should be the result of customer success — not the reason we chase it. Why Customer Success Managers become the unofficial relationship department for everyone else. And why the biggest challenge facing Customer Marketing today isn't a lack of strategy. It's an identity crisis. Along the way you'll encounter a few phrases. Favor Farm. Review Theatre. Story Harvesting. CSM Tax. These aren't industry terminology — they're simply names for behaviours many of us have experienced but never quite described. Because once you can name a habit, you can notice it. And once you notice it, you can decide whether it's still serving you. I'll be honest: most of these observations started because I recognised myself in them. I've sent the awkward advocacy emails. I've chased the last-minute reference. I've celebrated a case study while quietly forgetting the months of customer success that should have preceded it. I've been part of the problem. Which is precisely why I wanted to have this conversation — not as someone standing outside this profession, but as someone sitting right in the middle of it. This series also has a companion. By the end of Day 7, you'll be able to download my very first ebook, Come Fix It — the podcast gives you the conversation, the ebook gives you the reflection. Together, they tell the same story from two different angles. So let's begin with a question. What if your advocacy program isn't actually an advocacy program? What if without even realising it, it's become a Favor Farm? Let's fix it. One cup of tea at a time. Topics: Come Fix It series, customer marketing habits, Favor Farm, Review Theatre, Story Harvesting, CSM Tax, customer advocacy podcast series, 7-day podcast series, customer marketing identity, customer marketing ebook, customer advocacy strategy, B2B customer marketing, customer marketing podcast, Aparna Sharon Isa Dass, ebook author

  5. Jul 6

    Ep. 22: Protecting Your References From Overuse with Natasha Owen

    Customer references have a strange problem. In some companies, they're treated like emergency supplies — kept somewhere safe, occasionally remembered, and pulled out when a deal desperately needs saving. In others, the same three customers are asked to join every call, support every deal, answer every urgent request, and somehow remain enthusiastic about doing it all over again next week. Underused or overused. Gathering dust or heading straight for burnout. Surely there has to be a better way. In this episode of The Loyal-Tea Talks Podcast, host Aparna Sharon Isa Dass sits down with Natasha Owen from Referential Inc. to unpack what it actually takes to build a modern customer reference program that sales trusts, customers enjoy being part of, and leadership can see real value in. They go right back to the beginning. What does an end-to-end reference program actually look like? When should you start formalising it? How do you stop bad habits forming before sales gets used to having unlimited access to your happiest customers? Natasha and Aparna get into the realities of governance, advocate rotation, tiering, gap analysis, response windows, and why protecting your references sometimes means becoming the person willing to say: "Not this customer. Not again. Not right now." Because your happiest advocate is not an unlimited resource. They also explore the relationship between customer marketing and sales — and why a great reference program shouldn't become the department that slows deals down. Done well, it should help sales move faster, make better matches, and access a healthier, more diverse pool of customer voices. Then: technology and AI. When can you manage a reference program with a spreadsheet? At what point does manual management become a genuine risk? What should you automate? What should always remain human? Natasha shares where AI can genuinely save customer marketers hours, from reference matching and database searches to insights and call preparation, while making a strong case for protecting the one thing technology cannot manufacture: a genuine human relationship. And because no customer marketing conversation is complete without someone asking "but what's the ROI?", they talk about proving the value of references beyond activity metrics. Deal influence, velocity, advocate overuse rates, and telling a compelling enough story that leadership stops seeing references as just another activity. They also explore one of the most underrated forces in customer marketing: word of mouth. The conversations happening between customers and prospects that you may never see, track, or neatly attribute to a dashboard but that continue influencing buying decisions every single day. No reference program should be a free-for-all.No advocate should feel like unpaid sales support.And no customer marketer should have to run the entire thing from a spreadsheet held together by hope and conditional formatting. It's time to build reference programs with more structure, smarter technology, stronger measurement, and a lot more respect for the humans making them valuable in the first place. Grab your tea. We're talking references, revenue, relationships, and why your best customers deserve better than another "quick 30-minute call." Topics: customer reference program, reference program management, protecting customer references, reference overuse prevention, advocate rotation, customer reference governance, reference program tiering, reference burnout, reference program ROI, reference matching, AI in customer reference programs, word of mouth B2B, customer marketing and sales alignment, reference program automation, end-to-end reference program, customer reference strategy, Natasha Owen, Referential Inc., B2B customer references, customer marketing podcast

    Ep. 22: Protecting Your References From Overuse with Natasha Owen

  6. May 20

    Ep. 21: The Reference Request Lifecycle: From Ask to Close with Timothy Newborn

    What looks like a simple reference call is actually one of the most complex, human, and revenue-impacting systems in customer marketing. In this episode of The Loyal-Tea Talks Podcast, host Aparna Sharon Isa Dass sits down with customer advocacy expert Timothy Newborn to unpack the entire lifecycle of a customer reference — from that urgent "we need one now" ask to the invisible moments that either build trust or quietly break it. Because let's be honest. References are not transactions. They are experiences. And most teams are still treating them like a checkbox. What makes this conversation hit differently is how aligned the thinking is. From intentionality to empathy, from matchmaking to closing the loop, both Aparna and Timothy lean into one shared belief: advocacy is not a tactic. It is infrastructure. And if you love a good analogy, you are in for a treat. From comparing customer reference matching to an arranged first date gone wrong, to thinking of advocacy managers as chaos coordinators mid-flight, this episode brings clarity with a side of wit. In this episode: Why customer references are more than deal accelerators and what happens when you treat them like oneThe invisible work behind great customer reference programs that never makes it into a reportHow poor reference experiences quietly damage credibility, relationships, and future pipelineThe art and science of matchmaking customers to prospects and why getting it wrong costs more than the dealWhy closing the loop is the most underrated step in the entire reference lifecycleHow to turn one-time references into long-term customer advocacy relationshipsIf you have ever been asked for "any customer, urgently," or struggled to balance empathy with revenue pressure, this episode will feel very real. Because the best customer advocacy programs do not just help close deals. They help customers grow, show up, and shine. And that is a much harder thing to ignore. Topics: customer reference program, customer reference lifecycle, customer advocacy references, reference matchmaking, reference call management, customer references B2B, advocacy as infrastructure, closing the loop in advocacy, customer reference management, deal acceleration references, reference program strategy, customer advocacy strategy, reference burnout prevention, B2B customer references, Timothy Newborn, customer marketing podcast

    Ep. 21: The Reference Request Lifecycle: From Ask to Close with Timothy Newborn

  7. Apr 29

    Ep. 20: Proving the Power: The Customer Advocacy KPIs That Make Your Program Impossible to Ignore | Panel

    For the first time on The Loyal-Tea Talks Podcast, host Aparna Sharon Isa Dass is joined not by one, not two, but four powerhouse voices in customer marketing and advocacy. More perspectives, more lived experience, and just enough delightful chaos to keep things honest. Because if advocacy has ever felt like that charming guest who brings energy to every party but somehow disappears when the bill arrives — this episode is about finally asking the uncomfortable question: What does advocacy actually pay for? And more importantly, how do you prove it? This episode features: Thao Littler — Senior Customer Marketing Manager at CrunchtimeAnoop Virmani — Senior Manager, Performance Marketing at Wood MackenzieAlison Bukowski — Chief Customer Officer at Point of ReferenceChristina Garnett — Fractional Chief Customer & Communications Officer at Neu Motion, and celebrated authorThese are practitioners who don't just talk about customer advocacy. They have built it, defended it, scaled it, and in many cases fought for its existence in rooms where "nice to have" is still a dangerous label. Customer marketing is under a microscope. Budgets are tighter. Expectations are sharper. And the tolerance for "this feels valuable" has quietly disappeared. Advocacy, for all its emotional resonance and brand magic, is being asked to answer one very simple, very difficult question: Can you prove it? Not in sentiment. Not in stories alone. But in numbers that hold up in a boardroom. One of the most honest threads in this conversation is how none of them set out to do this. No one grew up saying they wanted to measure advocacy and pipeline velocity. They stumbled into it, grew into it, were pulled into it. And every path led to the same realisation: caring about customers is not enough. At some point, you have to prove that care creates value. If one idea anchors this entire episode, it is this: Advocacy is a lagging indicator of trustYou cannot build it in isolationYou cannot fix it with incentivesAnd you definitely cannot fake itThe most practical takeaway: document your work. Because if it is not visible, it does not exist. Advocacy professionals do an enormous amount of behind-the-scenes work — internal alignment, relationship building, cross-functional collaboration — that disappears without a clear record of what was done, what changed, and why it matters. And perhaps the most profound insight of all: customer marketers are, at their core, humanists. We study behaviour. We build trust. We navigate relationships. This role sits closer to sociology than traditional marketing. Which is why it is so hard to measure. And also why it is so powerful when you get it right. Christina references a tiny template that deserves a quick look to organize your career story. I’ve included a link to that asset HERE so you can utilize it and see how it can shape your own approach to goal setting/achieving. This episode is equal parts strategy, therapy, and reality check — for anyone who has ever defended customer marketing in a room full of skeptics, tried to connect relationships to revenue, or believes that trust, when measured well, is one of the most powerful growth levers we have. Pull up a chair. Or four. Topics: customer advocacy KPIs, proving customer advocacy ROI, customer marketing measurement, customer advocacy metrics, advocacy pipeline influence, customer marketing ROI, defending customer marketing budget, advocacy as a lagging indicator, customer marketing value, customer advocacy strategy, customer marketing panel, documenting customer marketing work, customer marketing career, customer marketers as humanists, Thao Littler, Anoop Virmani, Alison Bukowski, Christina Garnett, Point of Reference, Neu Motion, Crunchtime, Wood Mackenzie, customer marketing podcast

  8. Apr 21

    Ep. 19: Small Budget, Big Impact: Building a Customer Advocacy Engine on $50K or Less with Christina Garnett

    You don't need a six-figure budget to build a six-figure advocacy engine. In this episode of The Loyal-Tea Talks Podcast, host Aparna Sharon Isa Dass sits down with Christina Garnett to get real about what it actually takes to build a customer advocacy program from scratch — especially when you don't have endless resources or a fancy tech stack to lean on. They talk about starting small — sometimes as small as 50 advocates — and why that's not a limitation but a strength. They unpack why customer advocacy doesn't scale the way we think it should, but compounds over time, and how the real differentiator isn't tools or dashboards. It's how deeply you understand and genuinely care about your customers. What makes this conversation stand out is its groundedness. They get into the messy realities: the pressure to show quick ROI, the temptation to over-automate, and the constant pull between doing what's right for the customer versus what looks good in a leadership deck. Christina shares why access beats swag, why emotional intelligence is your biggest unfair advantage in customer marketing, and why treating your customers like influencers might be the simplest and most powerful shift you can make. In this episode:→ How to build a customer advocacy program from scratch with limited budget and no complex tech stack→ Why starting with 50 advocates is a strength, not a limitation — and how to grow from there→ How customer advocacy compounds over time rather than scaling in a straight line→ The pressure of proving customer advocacy ROI quickly — and how to manage it honestly→ Why access beats swag: rethinking how you reward and recognise customer advocates→ Why emotional intelligence is the unfair advantage most customer marketers overlook→ How treating your customers like influencers changes the way you build advocacy programs If you are building an advocacy program, fixing one, or quietly questioning whether you are doing it right — this episode will feel like both a reality check and a reassurance. Because at the end of the day, advocacy is not built on budget. It is built on meaning, intention, and people who care enough to do the hard, human work. Topics: customer advocacy on a small budget, building customer advocacy from scratch, low budget customer advocacy program, customer advocacy ROI, customers as influencers, emotional intelligence in customer marketing, access over swag, customer advocacy compounding, customer marketing without big budget, customer marketing for small teams, advocacy program design, customer marketing ROI, over-automation in marketing, B2B customer marketing, Christina Garnett, customer marketing strategy, customer marketing podcast

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The go-to bi-weekly podcast for customer marketers, customer advocacy professionals, and B2B marketers who are done being the best-kept secret in their company. Hosted by Aparna Sharon Isa Dass, The Loyal-Tea Talks covers customer advocacy programs, loyalty programs, reference programs, community-led growth, career development, and proving customer marketing ROI to leadership. Whether you're new to customer marketing or already leading the function, there's a seat for you here. No fluff. Just the tools to take customer marketing from supporting act to main stage. 🌐 aparnasharonisadass.com

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