If You Don't Mind Me Asking hosted by TravTheRealist

TravTheRealist

"If You Don't Mind Me Asking" follows TravTheRealist as he has personal conversations about the ups and downs of life with his closest family and friends.

  1. Has Drinking Become Obsolete? + The End of MTV, Obtainable goals in 2026 Ep. 23

    Jan 6

    Has Drinking Become Obsolete? + The End of MTV, Obtainable goals in 2026 Ep. 23

    ✅ You can access all media here: https://linktr.ee/bearviewmedia ✅ Become a member to access Exclusive content not shown on YouTube: https://www.patreon.com/BearviewMedia ✅ Help the Channel Grow through tip$ and Donations at https://cash.app/$BearviewMedia 📧 Business Inquiries: Bearviewbiz@gmail.com Episode 23 is all about reflection, growth, and moving forward. We recap the highs and lows of 2025, talk about what needs to be left behind, and set real, honest 2026 goals—from finances and health to travel, freedom, and self-improvement. The conversation also dives into whether drinking culture is fading, how priorities change in your 30s, and the symbolic end of MTV as we knew it. This episode is for anyone resetting their mindset, chasing balance, and trying to build something meaningful in the next chapter. 👉 What are you leaving in 2025? 👉 What’s one goal you’re serious about in 2026? #2025Recap #2026Goals #NewYearReset #AdultingLife #LifeInYour30s #SelfReflection #MentalGrowth #WorkLifeBalance #PersonalDevelopment #RealLifeTalk #MillennialConversations #PodcastLife #NewYearMindset Episode 23 Timestamp 0:00 - Intro 0:15 - 2025 Recap ⏮️ 3:55 - Things To Leave Behind In 2025 🚮 4:55 - 2026 New Year Resolutions 🎆 10:15 - Has Alcohol/Drinking Become Obsolete? 🍻🥂 13:10 - The End Of MTV 💀🪦 19:25 - Network Promo 20:12 - End Of Show 🎬 🔗 Watch Full Episodes: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLoETk4xkO7BYe99dBV9FciAZKrIKnhuqF&si=UJmFmXPIOhYMOBws 🔗 Watch Shorts: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLoETk4xkO7Bb3OWiS6ows5IxPE7tznyXR&si=UxosZya_MeoFOX2Q 🎧 Listen to Audio on: 🍎 Apple - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/if-you-dont-mind-me-asking-hosted-by-travtherealist/id1826844122 🎵Spotify - https://open.spotify.com/show/5XTh9kKgXdSY6LjMvjK9ul?si=a16bfd2558d9405b

    21 min
  2. The Rough Patch | “Netflix Buying Warner Bros?! + Passport Ready, Camera Upgrade & Summer Walker Drama" | If You Don’t Mind Me Asking EP21

    12/09/2025

    The Rough Patch | “Netflix Buying Warner Bros?! + Passport Ready, Camera Upgrade & Summer Walker Drama" | If You Don’t Mind Me Asking EP21

    ✅ You can access all media here: https://linktr.ee/bearviewmedia ✅ Become a member to access Exclusive content not shown on YouTube: / bearviewmedia ✅ Help the Channel Grow through tip$ and Donations at https://cash.app/$BearviewMedia 📧 Business Inquiries: Bearviewbiz@gmail.com Episode 21 brings a full breakdown of life updates, trending news, and a real creator journey. TravTheRealist opens up with a Thanksgiving recap, family moments, and the mindset shift that comes with watching your parents age. Then we talk podcast changes, balancing life + work, finally getting the passport, upgrading to a new camera, and how that improves content quality moving forward. We also dive deep into the biggest headline of the week — Netflix acquiring Warner Bros — and what that means for streaming, creators, and entertainment in 2026. And to top it off, we unpack the Summer Walker & Rich The Kid situation, how it affects the culture, and the conversation around self-worth and celebrity transparency. ⏱️ Episode 21 Timestamps 0:08 – Thanksgiving Recap 🦃 4:35 – Podcast Changes 5:45 – Passport Ready 📍🗺️ 7:00 – New Camera 🎥📸 7:42 – Netflix Acquires Warner Bros 🎦💰 9:40 – Summer Walker & Rich Da Kid 📲 12:20 – End of Show 🎬 #NetflixNews #WarnerBros #SummerWalker #PodcastLife #CreatorJourney #PassportReady #CameraUpgrade #TrendingTopics2025 #IfYouDontMindMeAsking #TravTheRealist #BearViewMedia #ThanksgivingRecap #DFWCreators #PodcastEpisode21 🔗 Watch Full Episodes: • If you don't mind me asking - segments 🔗 Watch Shorts: • If You Don't Mind Me Asking - Shorts 🎧 Listen to Audio on: 🍎 Apple - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast... 🎵Spotify - https://open.spotify.com/show/5XTh9kK...

    15 min
  3. GOALS! FT. AFO_10 | If You Don't Mind Me Asking EP.20

    11/24/2025

    GOALS! FT. AFO_10 | If You Don't Mind Me Asking EP.20

    ✅ You can access all media here: https://linktr.ee/bearviewmedia ✅ Become a member to access Exclusive content not shown on YouTube: https://www.patreon.com/BearviewMedia ✅ Help the Channel Grow through tip$ and Donations at https://cash.app/$BearviewMedia 📧 Business Inquiries: Bearviewbiz@gmail.com Episode 20 of “If You Don’t Mind Me Asking?” features a powerful and inspiring conversation with former professional soccer player Ansger Otto, as he shares his journey from Ghana to America. This conversation discusses becoming a standout high-school athlete, competing professionally overseas, battling injuries, dealing with depression, and now passing on his passion to his kids as a coach and father. This episode is PACKED with gems on discipline, mental toughness, parenting, sports culture, and how today’s technology shapes young athletes. If you’re a parent, athlete, coach, or just someone who loves motivational stories — this one’s for you. EPISODE 20 TIMESTAMPS: 0:00 – Introduction 0:45 – Coming to America 🇺🇸 & adapting 2:00 – Making soccer “cool” in school 3:40 – School soccer vs. professional level 4:45 – Battling injuries & adversity 6:00 – Depression, identity & sports 6:35 – Passing on tradition to your kids 10:00 – Are kids maximizing today’s technology? 15:50 – The REAL debate: Brains vs Athleticism 17:05 – Coaching vs Playing: Which is more rewarding? 18:50 – Who pushed Otto to become great 19:30 – Friends or foes in sports 22:00 – Biggest accomplishments 22:50 – Lowest moments 27:10 – Parenting: When your child doesn’t listen 30:40 – Knowing when to give your child advice 32:50 – Closing thoughts 🎬 #athleteinterview #soccerlife #formerproathlete #ghananews #immigrantstory #sportsmotivation #blackpodcasts #sportspodcast #fathersandsons #parentingtips #youthsports #mentalhealthinsports #sportsinjuries #disciplinequotes #coachinglife #sportsdevelopment #podcastclips #ifyoudontmindmeasking #travtherealist #bearviewmedia 🔗 Watch Full Episodes: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLoETk4xkO7BYe99dBV9FciAZKrIKnhuqF&si=UJmFmXPIOhYMOBws 🔗 Watch Shorts: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLoETk4xkO7Bb3OWiS6ows5IxPE7tznyXR&si=UxosZya_MeoFOX2Q 🎧 Listen to Audio on: 🍎 Apple - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/if-you-dont-mind-me-asking-hosted-by-travtherealist/id1826844122 🎵Spotify - https://open.spotify.com/show/5XTh9kKgXdSY6LjMvjK9ul?si=a16bfd2558d9405b

    36 min
  4. The Butterfly Effect Feat. _Trainwith24 | If You Don't Mind Me Asking EP.19

    11/17/2025

    The Butterfly Effect Feat. _Trainwith24 | If You Don't Mind Me Asking EP.19

    Episode 19 of “If You Don’t Mind Me Asking?” hosted by TravTherealist dives deep into faith, fitness, emotional discipline, and personal growth with the inspiring _Trainwith24. From navigating engagement life to strengthening your walk with God, from managing emotions to changing your environment for success—this episode delivers REAL conversations that challenge you to elevate mentally, spiritually, and physically. We touch on how the economy impacts mental health, how music shapes your emotions, what HYROX really is, and whether your kids truly need to be athletes. If you're working on becoming the best version of yourself, this episode is for you. 💬 Drop your thoughts below — which topic hit you the hardest? ⏱️ TIMESTAMPS 0:00 – Start Of The Show 🎬 0:15 – Going From a One-Man Army to Joining a Well-Oiled Machine ⚙️ 2:25 – Life After Getting Engaged 💍 3:20 – Premarital Counseling 4:25 – The Importance Of Controlling Your Emotions 6:25 – How the Economy Is Affecting Our Psyche 🧠 12:08 – Ryan’s Faith Journey ⛪️🙏🏿 16:30 – How Music Affects Your Emotions 🎶🧠 17:50 – How To Get Involved In The Church ⛪️🤔 20:00 – Changing Your Environment To Help You Pursue Your Goals 22:20 – The Truth About Getting Closer To God 25:00 – What Is HYROX? 27:20 – The Power of Competition 28:50 – Do Your Kids Have To Be Athletes? 31:00 – Sympathy vs. Empathy 33:35 – End Of Show 🎬 #IfYouDontMindMeAsking #TravTheRealist #Trainwith24 #FaithJourney #EmotionalControl #PremaritalCounseling #ChristianPodcast #SelfImprovementPodcast #MensMentalHealth #MusicAndEmotions #HowToGetCloserToGod #HYROXTraining #CompetitionMindset #ParentingIn2025 #AthleteKids #MotivationPodcast #PersonalGrowthJourney #EconomyAndMentalHealth #ChurchInvolvement #LifeAfterEngagement #PodcastEpisodes2025 #GrowthMindsetTalks #FaithAndFitness #ChristianMotivation

    35 min
  5. The Good Ol Days | If You Don't Mind Me Asking? Ep. 18

    11/10/2025

    The Good Ol Days | If You Don't Mind Me Asking? Ep. 18

    ✅ You can access all media here: https://linktr.ee/bearviewmedia ✅ Become a member to access Exclusive content not shown on YouTube: https://www.patreon.com/BearviewMedia ✅ Help the Channel Grow through tip$ and Donations at https://cash.app/$BearviewMedia 📧 Business Inquiries: Bearviewbiz@gmail.com Dive into this candid and unfiltered conversation between two lifelong friends — @TravTheRealist and @K_inhd — as they talk about their humble beginnings in sports, transitioning into college football, and the highs and lows that came with chasing greatness. They open up about fatherhood, whether sons get treated differently than daughters, and ask the tough question — are men still providers or part of the problem in 2025? The conversation also touches on dating today — is it better to meet people online or in person — and ends with funny high-school memories and lessons learned along the way. 🎧 Timestamps: 0:00 - Hook 🪝 2:03 - Show Introduction 🎬 4:30 - Athletic Background 🏀⚾🏈 7:00 - How We Got Into Football 🏈 11:20 - College Football Experience 🏫 28:20 - Do Kids Have to Play Sports? ⚽🏀🏈 30:45 - The Hidden Side Effects of Football 🩻 32:10 - Raising Sons vs Daughters 👦🏾👧🏽 39:30 - Are Men Still Providers in 2025? 💰 42:10 - Do Men Expect Their Women to Be Like Their Moms? 🧠 43:40 - Are Your Dating Preferences Really Right for You? ❤️ 45:00 - Online Dating vs Real Life 🔥 53:20 - High School Memories 🏫 59:30 - End of Show 🎬 👉 Watch the full conversation only on YouTube: 🎙️ @ifyoudontmindpod_ — Hosted by @TravTheRealist #AthleteStories #Parenting2025 #FootballInjuries #DatingDilemmas #GenderRoles #MensTalk #RealDebate #ExAthlete #ViralPodcast #LifeAfterSports 🔗 Watch Full Episodes: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLoETk4xkO7BYe99dBV9FciAZKrIKnhuqF&si=UJmFmXPIOhYMOBws 🔗 Watch Shorts: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLoETk4xkO7Bb3OWiS6ows5IxPE7tznyXR&si=UxosZya_MeoFOX2Q 🎧 Listen to Audio on: 🍎 Apple - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/if-you-dont-mind-me-asking-hosted-by-travtherealist/id1826844122 🎵Spotify - https://open.spotify.com/show/5XTh9kKgXdSY6LjMvjK9ul?si=a16bfd2558d9405b

    58 min
  6. SHE GOT GAME Ft. Coachtamm_78 | IF YOU DON'T MIND ME ASKING? EP.16

    10/27/2025

    SHE GOT GAME Ft. Coachtamm_78 | IF YOU DON'T MIND ME ASKING? EP.16

    Join host TravTheRealist in Episode 16 of "If You Don't Mind Me Asking" as he sits down with 7X time WNFC national champion, 2022 USA gold medalist, and trailblazing coach Tammie Moore. From her gritty St. Louis roots and overcoming "crab in the barrel" mentality to dominating in women's tackle football with the Texas Elite Spartans, Tammy shares her inspirational journey of building confidence, switching positions, and becoming the first female high school football coach in Lewisville. We dive deep into WNFC exposure, legacy vs. creating your own path, misconceptions about women's professional football, unlearning survival mode, book recommendations like "The Power of Who" and "Awaken the Giant Within," family aspirations, and advice for young female athletes. Plus, discussions on colorism in boxing and Claressa Shields. 🎙️ Episode 16 0:00 - Hook 🪝 0:08 - hometown origins🏡/ adjusting to new environments 6:23 - start of the show 🎥 7:14 - Texas Elite Women’s Football 🏈 wake up call ☎️ 9:19 - building confidence while changing your position in the WNFC 11:58 - How Tammie Moore got into the Women National Football Conference/ Joining The Texas Elite Spartans 23:28 - How can the WNFC gain more exposure globally? 25:46 - would you rather join a legacy or create your own ? 28:48 - What was a greater accomplishment The WNFC championships 💍 or the USA Gold Medal 🥇 30:40 - How many more years do you want to play in the WNFC? 31:43 - would you let your kids play football 🏈 33:43 - becoming the first women’s football coach at Lewisville High School 37:28 - what’s more rewarding coaching or playing football ? 38:08 - Common misconceptions about women’s professional football 🏈 40:33 - unlearning St. Louis survivor mode mentality 41:43 - “The Power of Who” by Bob Beaudine 47:48 - “Awaken The Giant Within” - Tony Robbin’s 48:23 - Do you want a family of your own? 50:43 - How can people support the WNFC ? 53:48 - The best advice to young women who want to play football 🙋🏾‍♀️🏈 55:47 - colorism in boxing and Claressa shield hate 🥊 1:00:08 - End of Show 🎥 If you're passionate about women's tackle football, female athletes breaking barriers, or inspirational sports stories, hit LIKE, SUBSCRIBE, and turn on notifications for more episodes! Comment below: What's your favorite part of Tammy's story? #WomensTackleFootball #WNFC #FemaleAthletes Follow us for more: [Your Channel Links/Socials] Support women's football: Visit wnfcfootball.com #WomensTackleFootball #WNFC #WomensFootball #TexasEliteSpartans #TammyMoore #NationalChampion #USAGoldMedalist #FemaleFootballCoach #WomensProFootball #InspirationalAthlete #FootballJourney #BreakingBarriers #WomenInSports #FootballPodcast #StLouisToTexas

    1h 1m

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"If You Don't Mind Me Asking" follows TravTheRealist as he has personal conversations about the ups and downs of life with his closest family and friends.