NeuroDADverse

Danny Eycott - Ben Wisdom-Quieros
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The NeuroDADverse is more than just a podcast, it’s a weekly therapy session between two long-time friends reconnecting through the shared highs and lows of neurodivergent parenthood. Danny is raising a six-year-old, while Ben is navigating life with two teenagers. Between them, their lived experiences span early years and adolescence, offering valuable perspective for any parent on the neurodivergent journey. Their conversations blend lived wisdom, raw honesty, and light-hearted reflection, often with Danny just entering stages that Ben has already faced. This dynamic brings warmth, curiosity, and relatable storytelling that resonates across all ages and stages of parenting. At its heart, The NeuroDADverse exists because parenting neurodivergent children can feel incredibly isolating. Many of society’s norms simply don’t apply and it’s rare to find someone who truly hears you. This podcast was born from the need to find and grow that tribe. A space where parents can feel seen, heard, and appreciated. Whether you’re in the thick of meltdowns, laughing uncontrollably with them or even just wondering about diagnoses you’re not alone. Here, we speak with love, lead though our understanding and share with honesty. This is a space for ideas, laughter, and connection. Please remember: You are doing better than you think. You are enough. You are not alone. Welcome to the NeuroDADverse.“ Real talk from two dads raising neurodivergent kids with love, laughter, and plenty of chaos. Connect with us on Instagram, TikTok and watch us on Youtube @NeuroDadversepodcast Theme music by Hands Up! https://www.instagram.com/handsuppunk/?hl=en Show produced by Squid Shack Studios https://www.instagram.com/squidshackstudios/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

  1. 5d ago

    Autism Family Life in Summer Holidays: Every Day Was a Win... and a Challenge |NeuroDADverse Ep.60

    When you're raising a neurodivergent child, even the happiest family days are built on countless unseen adaptations and every little win feels enormous. Some families come home from holiday feeling rested. Others come home proud they made it through. This week, Dan is joined by Amy while Ben is still away, and together they reflect on an entire week of summer holiday adventures with Frankie. Instead of focusing on one big win or challenge, they take you through each day, sharing the highs, the setbacks, the unexpected moments and the tiny victories that made the week so memorable. From holiday club successes and SEND playdates to a beach trip, swimming lessons, Godstone Farm and preparing Frankie for his first independent outing without Mum or Dad, it's an honest look at what family holidays really look like when autism, ADHD and sensory needs are part of everyday life. Along the way they discuss: Why small wins deserve celebratingSensory overload in busy environmentsSleep challenges during the summer holidaysSupporting regulation through unfamiliar situationsSwimming breakthroughs and growing confidenceThe emotional planning that happens behind every family day out If you're raising an autistic child, navigating ADHD, or parenting within the SEND community, we hope this episode reminds you that progress isn't measured by perfect days; it's measured by the courage to keep showing up. 💛 We'd love to hear about your own summer holiday wins and challenges. Come and join the conversation in the comments or over on our social channels. 🎙️ NeuroDADverse Podcast Real conversations about raising neurodivergent children in a neurotypical world. Hosted by two UK dads, NeuroDADverse explores autism, ADHD, SEND parenting, mental load, masking, school systems, identity, and the everyday wins and struggles of neurodivergent family life. If you’re a parent of an autistic child, an ADHD dad, part of a SEND family, or simply looking for honest, relatable parenting conversations — you’re not alone here. 🔔 New episodes weekly 📢 Share, rate, or comment to help more families discover the show 📧 neurodadverse@gmail.com 🌐 All links & platforms: 👉 linktr.ee/NeuroDADverse 🎧 Listen on: Apple Podcasts • Spotify • Amazon Music • Audible 📺 Watch full episodes & short clips on YouTube 📲 Follow on TikTok, Instagram, Facebook & LinkedIn #NeurodivergentParenting #SENDLife #AutismParenting #ADHDDads #ParentingPodcast #NeuroDadverse #DifferentNotLess #NeurodiversityUK Timestamps: 00:00 Welcome to The NeuroDADverse 00:43 Amy joins the podcast again 02:05 Holiday Club: A huge drop-off win 04:28 When another child bites Frankie 08:02 SEND playdate successes 09:13 Family visit & learning to regulate 12:10 Beach day: A huge family win 15:11 When plans don't go as expected 19:50 Holiday Club & summer sleep struggles 20:42 Swimming lesson breakthrough 25:35 Dad gets a day off! 29:35 Godstone Farm adventure 33:13 The great ice cream negotiation! 36:00 Horses, animals & sensory wins 39:34 Looking ahead: Frankie's first solo outing 41:04 Final reflections on the holiday week 41:27 You're definitely not alone Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

  2. Aug 5 ·  Bonus

    One Year Later... Here's What Raising Neurodivergent Kids Has Taught Us | NeuroDADverse Q&A Special

    Sometimes the biggest parenting victories aren't the perfect days, they're the moments your child finally feels safe enough to thrive. One year ago, we hit record hoping a handful of parents might feel a little less alone. Today, after nearly 60 episodes, we're sitting down together in person to answer your questions, reflect on everything we've learned, and celebrate the incredible NeuroDADverse community that's grown around this podcast. We would like to thank Creator Spots UK, a location hire marketplace for photographers, filmmakers & small production teams for providing our wonderful venue for this episode, The Albion Rooms in Margate. This Show would not be possible without their support. So thank you. Also, we would like to thank both James and Will for being our crew for this conversation; we could not be here without you. Thank you all. Follow Creator Spots UK in our links below From autism diagnoses and ADHD assessments to making friends, navigating school, parenting regrets, funny family moments, and how creating this podcast has changed both of us as dads, this episode is an honest conversation about what the last year has really been like. It's a little funnier, a little more personal, and probably our most reflective episode yet. Whether you've been with us since Episode 1 or you've only just found the podcast, thank you for being part of this community. If you're raising an autistic child, parenting a child with ADHD, navigating SEND life, or simply trying your best every day, we hope this conversation reminds you that progress isn't about perfection—it's about showing up. Thank you for spending this first year with us. Here's to whatever comes next. As always... You're doing great. You are enough. And you're definitely not alone. 💛 If one answer in this episode resonates with you, we'd love to hear from you in the comments or over on our social channels. Your stories are what keep this community growing. 🎙️ NeuroDADverse Podcast Real conversations about raising neurodivergent children in a neurotypical world. Hosted by two UK dads, NeuroDADverse explores autism, ADHD, SEND parenting, mental load, masking, school systems, identity, and the everyday wins and struggles of neurodivergent family life. If you’re a parent of an autistic child, an ADHD dad, part of a SEND family, or simply looking for honest, relatable parenting conversations — you’re not alone here. 🔔 New episodes weekly 📢 Share, rate, or comment to help more families discover the show 📧 neurodadverse@gmail.com 🌐 All links & platforms: 👉 linktr.ee/NeuroDADverse 🎧 Listen on: Apple Podcasts • Spotify • Amazon Music • Audible 📺 Watch full episodes & short clips on YouTube 📲 Follow on TikTok, Instagram, Facebook & LinkedIn Follow Creator Spots UK: https://creatorspots.co.uk/find-a-spot/?utm_source=ig&utm_medium=social&utm_content=link_in_bio&fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAc3J0YwZhcHBfaWQPOTM2NjE5NzQzMzkyNDU5AAGn7aC37drJOahAej4hHEedPFskP5DYUW2MrtE6s8b9dhn8ZMPV97ZSVSP2PSI_aem_3FE64qTuRAqqnmCWkBr4lw #NeurodivergentParenting #SENDLife #AutismParenting #ADHDDads #ParentingPodcast #NeuroDadverse #DifferentNotLess #NeurodiversityUK Timestmaps: 00:00 Welcome to our One-Year Special! 01:24 Did we think we'd still be here? 05:03 Has the podcast changed our friendship? 10:57 Has podcasting changed our parenting? 14:08 Have listeners recognised us? 15:56 What has surprised us most? 23:35 Your parenting questions begin 24:30 How do you get an autism diagnosis? 34:32 Play dates & neurodivergent children 40:26 Biggest misconceptions about our families 48:03 Quick-fire Q&A 55:39 One year of NeuroDADverse 56:00 You're not alone Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

  3. Jul 31

    The First Week of Summer Holidays Was Harder Than We Expected

    Sometimes the biggest parenting victories aren't the perfect days—they're the moments your child finally feels safe enough to thrive. Some days you're running on empty... then your child does something that reminds you why you never give up. Summer holidays have arrived, routines have disappeared, sleep has become even more unpredictable, and like many SEND families, we're trying to find our feet all over again. This week Dan is joined by Amy while Ben records from holiday, as we share the honest reality of the first week of the summer break. We talk about Frankie's ongoing sleep struggles, sensory overload, and why evenings can become the hardest part of the day for autistic children with ADHD. We also celebrate some huge family wins, from private swimming lessons finally clicking, to growing independence at home, and the little moments that remind us progress isn't always loud. Meanwhile, Ben shares the challenges and victories of taking his family abroad, navigating anxiety, new experiences and proving just how far they've all come over the last few years. If you're raising an autistic child, parenting a child with ADHD, or navigating life as a SEND family, we hope this episode reminds you that progress often looks different—and that's okay. You're not failing. You're adapting. And you're definitely not alone. If this episode feels familiar, we'd love to hear about your own wins and challenges from the summer holidays. Join the conversation in the comments or over on our social channels. 🎙️ NeuroDADverse Podcast Real conversations about raising neurodivergent children in a neurotypical world. Hosted by two UK dads, NeuroDADverse explores autism, ADHD, SEND parenting, mental load, masking, school systems, identity, and the everyday wins and struggles of neurodivergent family life. If you’re a parent of an autistic child, an ADHD dad, part of a SEND family, or simply looking for honest, relatable parenting conversations — you’re not alone here. 🔔 New episodes weekly 📢 Share, rate, or comment to help more families discover the show 📧 neurodadverse@gmail.com 🌐 All links & platforms: 👉 linktr.ee/NeuroDADverse 🎧 Listen on: Apple Podcasts • Spotify • Amazon Music • Audible 📺 Watch full episodes & short clips on YouTube 📲 Follow on TikTok, Instagram, Facebook & LinkedIn #NeurodivergentParenting #SENDLife #AutismParenting #ADHDDads #ParentingPodcast #NeuroDadverse #DifferentNotLess #NeurodiversityUK Chapters: 00:00 Welcome to The NeuroDADverse 01:28 Summer holidays begin 02:08 When sleep becomes the biggest challenge 08:48 Heat, sensory overload & bedtime struggles 14:32 Ben joins from Turkey 18:18 Frankie's biggest win: swimming lessons 25:15 Small steps towards independence 28:08 Holiday wins & family breakthroughs 32:09 Looking ahead to Week Two 36:53 Your summer wins & challenges 38:03 Final thoughts Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    The First Week of Summer Holidays Was Harder Than We Expected

  4. Episode 58

    A Quick Update... Our One Year Q&A Is Almost Here!

    After a year of never missing a Friday release, we'd rather be honest about a delay than rush something our community deserves to enjoy. Sometimes the best decision is to wait just a little longer. This isn't our usual NeuroDADverse episode. Instead, Dan shares a quick update explaining why our special one-year anniversary Q&A isn't quite ready yet and why we think it'll be worth the wait. First of all, thank you. Thank you to everyone who sent in questions, supported the podcast over the last year and helped build such an incredible community around NeuroDADverse. Recording our first ever in-person Q&A has been a huge milestone for us, but with summer holidays beginning and the realities of producing an independent podcast around family life, we've simply run out of time to finish the edit to the standard we'd like. Rather than rush it, we'd rather take a few extra days and give you the episode it deserves. Over the next few weeks you'll also hear Dan joined by guest hosts while Ben enjoys a well-earned family holiday, as they continue sharing the wins and challenges of raising neurodivergent children through the summer holidays. Thank you for your patience, your kindness and for being part of this community. 💛 You're doing great. You are enough. You are definitely not alone. 🎙️ NeuroDADverse Podcast Real conversations about raising neurodivergent children in a neurotypical world. Hosted by two UK dads, NeuroDADverse explores autism, ADHD, SEND parenting, mental load, masking, school systems, identity, and the everyday wins and struggles of neurodivergent family life. If you’re a parent of an autistic child, an ADHD dad, part of a SEND family, or simply looking for honest, relatable parenting conversations — you’re not alone here. 🔔 New episodes weekly 📢 Share, rate, or comment to help more families discover the show 📧 neurodadverse@gmail.com 🌐 All links & platforms: 👉 linktr.ee/NeuroDADverse 🎧 Listen on: Apple Podcasts • Spotify • Amazon Music • Audible 📺 Watch full episodes & short clips on YouTube 📲 Follow on TikTok, Instagram, Facebook & LinkedIn #NeurodivergentParenting #SENDLife #AutismParenting #ADHDDads #ParentingPodcast #NeuroDadverse #DifferentNotLess #NeurodiversityUK Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    A Quick Update... Our One Year Q&A Is Almost Here!

  5. Jul 17

    Read Last Year's School Report... Trust Me NeuroDADverse Ep. 57

    It's easy to believe nothing is changing… until one moment reminds you just how far your child has come. In Episode 57 of The NeuroDADverse Podcast, Ben and Dan reflect on school reports, creative confidence, emotional regulation, summer challenges and why looking back is sometimes the only way to truly appreciate your child's progress. This week, the dads explore the reality of parenting neurodivergent children through another hot summer week, discussing sensory overload, emotional regulation, school reports and celebrating achievements that would have once seemed impossible. We also discuss: Heat, sensory processing and emotional regulationSchool reports and recognising long-term progressAutism, ADHD and celebrating individual strengthsEncouraging creativity and confidenceLive music, performance and self-beliefSupporting teenagers through growing independenceSocial stories and preparing for new experiencesWhy comparing your child to last year is more powerful than comparing them to anyone else Plus, Dan shares a heartwarming school report that perfectly reflects Frankie's incredible progress, while Ben celebrates Oscar's artistic confidence and Mabel's courage performing live at an open mic night. Together, they reflect on one year of NeuroDADverse and invite listeners to be part of their special anniversary Q&A episode. If you've ever wondered whether your child is really making progress, this conversation is a reminder to pause, look back, and celebrate the journey you've already travelled. 💛 You're doing great. You are enough. You are definitely not alone. 🎙️ NeuroDADverse Podcast Real conversations about raising neurodivergent children in a neurotypical world. Hosted by two UK dads, NeuroDADverse explores autism, ADHD, SEND parenting, mental load, masking, school systems, identity, and the everyday wins and struggles of neurodivergent family life. If you’re a parent of an autistic child, an ADHD dad, part of a SEND family, or simply looking for honest, relatable parenting conversations — you’re not alone here. 🔔 New episodes weekly 📢 Share, rate, or comment to help more families discover the show 📧 neurodadverse@gmail.com 🌐 All links & platforms: 👉 linktr.ee/NeuroDADverse 🎧 Listen on: Apple Podcasts • Spotify • Amazon Music • Audible 📺 Watch full episodes & short clips on YouTube 📲 Follow on TikTok, Instagram, Facebook & LinkedIn #NeurodivergentParenting #SENDLife #AutismParenting #ADHDDads #ParentingPodcast #NeuroDadverse #DifferentNotLess #NeurodiversityUK Timestamps: 00:00 – Welcome to The NeuroDADverse 00:43 – Episode 57 Begins 01:22 – Our One-Year Anniversary Q&A 03:02 – Week In Three Words 04:08 – Why We Chose Those Words 05:12 – Challenges Begin 07:18 – Running Away & Road Safety 09:53 – Has Progress Reduced The Panic? 13:03 – Emotional Regulation After Running Off 15:39 – Heat, Exhaustion & Sensory Overload 17:33 – Helping Children Through Hot Weather 19:34 – Break 20:13 – Wins Begin 20:27 – Oscar's Growth Spurt 22:06 – Football, Family & Dan Burn 22:53 – Oscar's Amazing Artwork 24:07 – Mabel Performs At An Open Mic 🎤 25:31 – Dan's Biggest Win 27:14 – Frankie's School Report ❤️ 28:50 – Compare It With Last Year's 29:49 – The Emotional Power Of Looking Back 30:47 – Look Ahead To The Week Ahead 31:55 – Swimming Preparations 34:10 – Work Experience Week 35:11 – Independent Train Journey 🚆 36:56 – One Year Of NeuroDADverse 37:47 – Ask Us Anything! 38:47 – Why Chronicling Our Weeks Matters 39:47 – You're Doing Great 💛 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    Read Last Year's School Report... Trust Me NeuroDADverse Ep. 57

  6. Jul 10

    He Asked To Leave Before The Meltdown… | NeuroDADverse Ep. 56

    Sometimes the biggest breakthrough isn’t a milestone… it’s realising just how far your child has quietly come. In this special solo episode of The NeuroDADverse Podcast, Dan shares the wins and challenges from the past week while Ben takes a well-earned break. From navigating sensory overload during the summer heat to celebrating a successful school fête, this episode is a reminder that progress is often found in the moments we nearly overlook.  This week we discuss: Autism, ADHD and summer sensory challengesSleep deprivation and emotional regulationSafety, climbing and managing risk at homeSchool fêtes and community inclusionSupporting communication through shared interestsFootball, family connection and joyful routinesFriendships, play and social confidenceLooking back to appreciate just how far your child has comeDan reflects on Frankie finding new ways to regulate, joining in with his school fête, laughing through an England match, and confidently inviting friends into his world. It’s an honest conversation about adapting expectations, celebrating everyday progress, and recognising that the little wins really are the big wins.  Whether you’re at the beginning of your neurodivergent parenting journey or many years into it, we hope this episode reminds you to pause, look back, and celebrate the progress that’s already happened. 🎧 If this week’s stories feel familiar, we’d love to hear about your biggest win of the week. 💛 You’re doing great. You are enough. You are definitely not alone. 🎙️ NeuroDADverse Podcast Real conversations about raising neurodivergent children in a neurotypical world. Hosted by two UK dads, NeuroDADverse explores autism, ADHD, SEND parenting, mental load, masking, school systems, identity, and the everyday wins and struggles of neurodivergent family life. If you’re a parent of an autistic child, an ADHD dad, part of a SEND family, or simply looking for honest, relatable parenting conversations — you’re not alone here. 🔔 New episodes weekly 📢 Share, rate, or comment to help more families discover the show 📧 neurodadverse@gmail.com 🌐 All links & platforms: 👉 linktr.ee/NeuroDADverse 🎧 Listen on: Apple Podcasts • Spotify • Amazon Music • Audible 📺 Watch full episodes & short clips on YouTube 📲 Follow on TikTok, Instagram, Facebook & LinkedIn #NeurodivergentParenting #SENDLife #AutismParenting #ADHDDads #ParentingPodcast #NeuroDadverse #DifferentNotLess #NeurodiversityUK Timestamps 00:00 – Welcome to The NeuroDADverse 00:43 – A Different Kind of Episode 01:21 – Why We Started This Podcast 02:02 – Week in Three Words 02:50 – Challenges Begin 03:16 – Heat, Sleep & Sensory Regulation 04:23 – Parenting in a Heatwave 05:04 – Frankie's New Garden Obsession 06:03 – Climbing the Fence 😅 07:01 – Balancing Safety & Independence 08:08 – Adapting the Garden Environment 09:31 – Why Repetitive Behaviours Can Be Exhausting 10:08 – Break 10:20 – Wins Section Begins 10:46 – School Fête Success 🎉 11:38 – Seeing Teachers Differently 12:19 – Police Van Adventures 🚓 13:04 – Leaving Before It Became Too Much 13:50 – Watching England Together ⚽ 14:36 – Laughing Through the Match 15:03 – Friends Come to Visit 15:52 – Playing Together on the Trampoline 16:15 – New Social Confidence 16:56 – A Huge Step Forward 17:24 – Looking Back at the Progress 17:42 – One Year of NeuroDADverse 18:07 – Anniversary Q&A Invitation 18:30 – Thank You for Listening 18:44 – Win the Week 💛 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    He Asked To Leave Before The Meltdown… | NeuroDADverse Ep. 56

  7. Jul 3

    The Little Wins You Nearly Miss | NeuroDADverse Ep. 55

    Some of the most meaningful breakthroughs don’t arrive with fanfare, they’re hidden inside ordinary moments you almost overlook. It’s easy to focus on what’s still difficult. It’s much harder to notice just how far your child has already come. In Episode 55 of The NeuroDADverse Podcast, Ben and Dan reflect on a week shaped by extreme heat, sensory overload, school challenges, growing independence, and the quiet moments that remind you progress is happening even when it doesn’t feel like it. From managing sensory needs during one of the hottest weeks of the year, to supporting teenagers through mock exams, emotional regulation and disrupted sleep, this episode explores the everyday realities of raising neurodivergent children with autism, ADHD and other SEND needs. We also discuss: * Heat, sensory processing and emotional regulation * Sleep challenges and school attendance * Supporting teenagers through mock exams * Natural consequences and growing independence * Celebrating communication and confidence * Why food technology unexpectedly became a parenting highlight * Sports Day reflections and changing expectations * Looking ahead to The NeuroDADverse’s first live anniversary episode Plus, Ben shares one of his favourite parenting moments yet, as Oscar proudly teaches the family how to bake a cake they made at school, turning an everyday homework task into a beautiful moment of confidence, communication and connection. Dan reflects on how far Frankie has come, with transitions and new experiences that once felt impossible now becoming exciting opportunities. This episode is warm, funny, reassuring and full of the small victories that remind neurodivergent parents they’re making more progress than they sometimes realise. 🎧 If you’ve ever wondered whether your child is really moving forward, this conversation is for you. 💛 You’re doing great. You are enough. You are definitely not alone. 🎙️ NeuroDADverse Podcast Real conversations about raising neurodivergent children in a neurotypical world. Hosted by two UK dads, NeuroDADverse explores autism, ADHD, SEND parenting, mental load, masking, school systems, identity, and the everyday wins and struggles of neurodivergent family life. If you’re a parent of an autistic child, an ADHD dad, part of a SEND family, or simply looking for honest, relatable parenting conversations — you’re not alone here. 🔔 New episodes weekly 📢 Share, rate, or comment to help more families discover the show 📧 neurodadverse@gmail.com 🌐 All links & platforms: 👉 linktr.ee/NeuroDADverse 🎧 Listen on: Apple Podcasts • Spotify • Amazon Music • Audible 📺 Watch full episodes & short clips on YouTube 📲 Follow on TikTok, Instagram, Facebook & LinkedIn #NeurodivergentParenting #SENDLife #AutismParenting #ADHDDads #ParentingPodcast #NeuroDadverse #DifferentNotLess #NeurodiversityUK Timecodes: 00:00 – Welcome to The NeuroDADverse 00:43 – Episode 55 Begins 01:15 – Week In Three Words 02:12 – The Wizard of Oz & Heatwave Parenting 03:10 – Challenges Begin 04:23 – Heat, Sensory Overload & Family Life 06:58 – Managing Different Sensory Needs 07:55 – Mabel's Emotional Overwhelm 09:26 – Oscar's Different Experience Of Heat 10:23 – Creating Safe Environments 11:10 – Sleep, School & Mock Exams 11:58 – Learning Through Consequences 13:13 – A Win Frankie Will Love... 13:44 – Break 14:09 – Wins Section Begins 14:48 – Oscar Bakes A Cake 🍐 16:31 – Behaviour Is Communication 17:34 – Teaching Dad How To Bake 18:17 – Sharing Success With Family 18:53 – Why This Meant So Much 20:27 – Dan's Wins Of The Week 21:42 – Transition Progress 22:26 – Looking Back At Last Year 23:05 – Look Ahead To The Week Ahead 24:05 – Airshow Excitement ✈️ 26:13 – Mock Exams Continue 27:03 – Football, Friends & Teen Anxiety 28:15 – One Year Of NeuroDADverse 29:11 – Anniversary Q&A Announcement 30:24 – Thank You For Supporting Us 31:03 – You're Doing Great 31:36 – Good Energy Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    The Little Wins You Nearly Miss | NeuroDADverse Ep. 55

  8. Jun 26

    When Small Wins Mean Everything | NeuroDADverse Ep. 54

    The biggest breakthroughs in neurodivergent parenting often happen in moments that other people would never notice. Some weeks feel heavy until you stop and look back. In Episode 54 of The NeuroDADverse Podcast, Ben and Dan reflect on Father’s Day, sleep deprivation, school struggles, sports day anxiety, growing independence, and the small moments that remind you how far your children have come.  This week’s conversation explores the reality of parenting neurodivergent children during hot weather, disrupted sleep, emotional regulation challenges, and end-of-school-year milestones. From sensory struggles and school anxiety to football fandom and family celebrations, it’s a week packed with the ordinary moments that become extraordinary when viewed through a neurodivergent lens.  We also discuss: Sleep challenges and sensory regulationSports Day anxiety and neurodivergent teensEmotional Based School Avoidance (EBSA)Growing independence and life skillsADHD medication and responsibilityCelebrating Father’s Day as a neurodivergent familyBuilding confidence through interests and passionsWhy chronicling wins can change your perspective Plus, Ben shares seven separate wins from the week, including GCSE choices, football bonding, growing independence, and some powerful reminders that progress doesn’t always arrive in giant milestones. Dan reflects on communication growth, successful transitions, and seeing Frankie continue to develop confidence in new situations.  🎧 If you’ve ever finished a difficult week and wondered whether any progress was being made, this episode is for you. 💛 You’re doing great. You are enough. You are definitely not alone. 🎙️ NeuroDADverse Podcast Real conversations about raising neurodivergent children in a neurotypical world. Hosted by two UK dads, NeuroDADverse explores autism, ADHD, SEND parenting, mental load, masking, school systems, identity, and the everyday wins and struggles of neurodivergent family life. If you’re a parent of an autistic child, an ADHD dad, part of a SEND family, or simply looking for honest, relatable parenting conversations, you’re not alone here. 🔔 New episodes weekly 📢 Share, rate, or comment to help more families discover the show 📧 neurodadverse@gmail.com 🌐 All links & platforms: 👉 linktr.ee/NeuroDADverse 🎧 Listen on: Apple Podcasts • Spotify • Amazon Music • Audible 📺 Watch full episodes & short clips on YouTube 📲 Follow on TikTok, Instagram, Facebook & LinkedIn #NeurodivergentParenting #SENDLife #AutismParenting #ADHDDads #ParentingPodcast #NeuroDadverse #DifferentNotLess #NeurodiversityUK Chapters: 00:00 – Welcome to The NeuroDADverse 01:19 – Happy Father's Day! 02:27 – Week In Three Words 05:59 – Challenges 06:19 – Sleep Deprivation & Hot Weather 08:04 – Sensory Regulation In Summer 10:16 – Heat, Regulation & Neurodiversity 11:47 – School Attendance Improves 12:10 – Sports Day Anxiety Begins 13:02 – Too Hot, Too Much, Too Overwhelming 14:01 – The Reality Of Neurodivergent Sports Days 15:12 – Processing Milestones Differently 16:18 – Letting Go Of Expectations 17:21 – Looking For The Positives 17:49 – Break 18:18 – Ben's Wins 18:45 – Why We Chronicle The Wins 19:18 – Oscar Makes The Bed Alone 19:58 – Learning To Save For A Goal 21:29 – Father's Day Family Meal 22:04 – Remembering ADHD Medication 22:26 – Football, Family & Shared Passions 22:50 – Friends Or Football? 24:17 – Watching England Together 24:57 – Live Music & Confidence 25:16 – Why These Moments Matter 26:05 – Dan's Wins Of The Week 27:27 – Communication Progress 28:06 – Successful Transitions 29:11 – Looking Back At Last Year 29:58 – Look Ahead To The Week Ahead 30:18 – Summer Plans & Family Life 32:19 – Independent Train Travel 33:03 – Why Creative Subjects Matter 33:53 – Listener Correspondence 34:52 – ADHD, Autism & Public Debate 36:11 – Judging Through A Neurotypical Lens 37:23 – Why The Conversation Feels So Loud 38:57 – Media Narratives & SEND 39:52 – Thank You For Listening 40:21 – One Year Of Reflection 41:09 – You're Doing Great Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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The NeuroDADverse is more than just a podcast, it’s a weekly therapy session between two long-time friends reconnecting through the shared highs and lows of neurodivergent parenthood. Danny is raising a six-year-old, while Ben is navigating life with two teenagers. Between them, their lived experiences span early years and adolescence, offering valuable perspective for any parent on the neurodivergent journey. Their conversations blend lived wisdom, raw honesty, and light-hearted reflection, often with Danny just entering stages that Ben has already faced. This dynamic brings warmth, curiosity, and relatable storytelling that resonates across all ages and stages of parenting. At its heart, The NeuroDADverse exists because parenting neurodivergent children can feel incredibly isolating. Many of society’s norms simply don’t apply and it’s rare to find someone who truly hears you. This podcast was born from the need to find and grow that tribe. A space where parents can feel seen, heard, and appreciated. Whether you’re in the thick of meltdowns, laughing uncontrollably with them or even just wondering about diagnoses you’re not alone. Here, we speak with love, lead though our understanding and share with honesty. This is a space for ideas, laughter, and connection. Please remember: You are doing better than you think. You are enough. You are not alone. Welcome to the NeuroDADverse.“ Real talk from two dads raising neurodivergent kids with love, laughter, and plenty of chaos. Connect with us on Instagram, TikTok and watch us on Youtube @NeuroDadversepodcast Theme music by Hands Up! https://www.instagram.com/handsuppunk/?hl=en Show produced by Squid Shack Studios https://www.instagram.com/squidshackstudios/ Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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  • Creator
    Danny Eycott - Ben Wisdom-Quieros
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    62
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Danny Eycott - Ben Wisdom-Quieros
  • Show Website
    NeuroDADverse