In Her Element : Unfiltered Stories of Women Finding Their Voice — and Their Power

Swati Upadhyay
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Real Stories. Bold Women. Shared Power. Welcome to In Her Element — a podcast that celebrates women showing up fully in their careers, creativity, and everyday lives. Hosted by Swati Upadhyay, each episode provides a space for honest conversations, personal growth, and powerful moments. From scientists to artists, coders to caregivers, you'll hear raw, inspiring stories of women stepping into their purpose — in their own time, and on their own terms. No filters. No fluff. Just real talk, deep reflections, and the kind of support we all deserve. Tune in weekly

  1. May 8

    Does Your Life Actually Fit? A Reflection on Living Authentically

    Swati Upadhyay explores the profound question of whether your life truly fits you, challenging listeners to reflect on living on their own terms. This episode delves into the emotional and physiological impacts of living inauthentically and offers practical steps to align your life with your true self. Keywords: self-discovery, living on your own terms, authenticity, women’s empowerment, life satisfaction, mental health, personal growth Key topics The concept of life fitting or not fittingThe impact of achievement without fulfillmentThe role of intrinsic motivation in well-beingPhysiological effects of incongruence between life and selfPractical steps to live on your own termsTakeawaysMany women experience a gap between their achievements and their true desires.Living inauthentically can cause physiological stress and health issues.Asking yourself what you genuinely want is a powerful step towards fulfillment.Living on your own terms is a quiet, ongoing process, not a one-time event.The body registers incongruence between life and self, affecting health. Sound Bites "How many of your goals are genuinely yours?""Your body registers the incongruence between life and self.""The gap grows louder and costs you more."

    20 min

  2. Apr 16

    The Friendships That Survive (and the Ones That Don't)

    Nobody teaches you how to grieve a friendship. But so many of us have been quietly doing it for years. Some friendships fade without a fight, without a reason, without a goodbye that felt like a goodbye. Others can go a year without a real conversation and pick up like no time passed the moment you're back together. Some friendships, over time, quietly become family. And some never happen at all — because at some point, most of us just quietly stop trying to make new ones. This episode is an honest conversation about all of it. The losses that don't come with flowers or check-ins. The friendships that survive everything. The people who chose to stay when staying was optional. And the reminder that some of the best friendships you'll ever have are still ahead of you.

    23 min

  3. Apr 2

    When Doing Everything Right Still Feels Wrong

    Nobody warns you that following the plan can be its own kind of trap. You work hard, you hit the milestones, you become the thing you set out to become — and then, quietly, without announcing itself, something starts to feel off. Not wrong, exactly. Just off. Like a song playing slightly out of tune. In this episode, we sit with the question most of us have had but few of us have said out loud: what happens when the path you're on was built for someone you used to be — and you've been changing ever since?

    29 min

  4. Mar 27

    Running on Empty: What Chronic Stress Is Actually Doing to Your Body

    Swati Upadhyay explores the vital importance of listening to your body, understanding stress and hormonal health, and advocating for yourself in healthcare. This episode offers science-backed insights and practical steps to help women recognize signs of burnout and hormonal imbalance, emphasizing self-care and partnering with medical professionals.

    44 min

  5. Mar 10

    Code-Switching Through Life: The Hidden Cost of Living Between Two Worlds

    Have you ever achieved exactly what you were supposed to achieve—and still felt like you were living in translation? In this episode, we dive deep into the immigrant paradox: the experience of straddling two worlds, two value systems, two definitions of success, and feeling like you belong fully to neither. Whether you're an immigrant, a first-generation professional, or anyone navigating between cultures, this conversation is for you. We explore: • What bicultural identity integration really means (and why it's exhausting) • Cultural taxation: the invisible labor of explaining, translating, and proving yourself • The weight of being the "return on investment" for your family's sacrifices • Why imposter syndrome isn't personal—it's structural • The hidden costs of code-switching (spoiler: 60% more cognitive resources) • How environmental justice connects to questions of belonging • What integration looks like (versus assimilation) Grounded in research from psychology, public health, and environmental justice, this episode validates what you already know in your bones: what you're experiencing is real, documented, and not in your head. If you've ever felt caught between who you were and who you're becoming, this episode will help you understand that you're not lost—you're navigating complexity that most people never have to face.

    34 min

  6. Mar 2

    High Functioning, Low Alignment: The Cost of Being the Capable One

    In this conversation, Swati Upadhyay explores the complexities of high-functioning individuals, particularly women of color, and the emotional and physical toll of burnout. She discusses the societal pressures that lead to constant overachievement, the impact of identity on mental health, and the importance of self-honesty and alignment in achieving true well-being. Through personal anecdotes and research insights, she highlights the need for individuals to recognize their struggles and embrace change for a healthier, more authentic life. Takeaways High-functioning individuals often experience burnout due to constant self-overriding.Women of color face unique challenges in professional spaces, including cultural taxation.Emotional labor is a significant but often invisible burden in the workplace.Values mismatch can lead to feelings of exhaustion and misalignment.Identity fusion can make it difficult to separate self-worth from professional roles.Chronic stress can manifest in both emotional and physical symptoms.Elder daughter syndrome can lead to equating love with responsibility.Self-honesty is crucial for recognizing and addressing misalignment.Taking breaks may not alleviate exhaustion if underlying issues are not addressed.Embracing change is a sign of evolution, not weakness.

    18 min

  7. Feb 26

    A Journey of Recalibration

    In this episode, Swati Upadhyay reflects on her journey through various seasons of change, particularly focusing on the quiet seasons of uncertainty and recalibration. She shares her personal experiences of transitioning from a medical career to public health, exploring themes of identity, grief, and the importance of acknowledging one's evolving self. The conversation emphasizes that the in-between spaces of life are not signs of failure but opportunities for growth and integration. takeaways The quiet seasons of life can be periods of recalibration.Transitioning between identities can evoke feelings of grief.Grief is a natural part of leaving behind an old identity.Public health provided a new lens to view systemic issues.The middle space of transition is experimental and requires action.High achievers often struggle with the concept of experimentation.Nothing is wasted in your journey; skills and compassion travel with you.Acknowledging grief can lead to integration and growth.Recalibration is a process of adjustment, not panic.You are not lost; you are expanding your identity.

    13 min

  8. Feb 10

    The Transformational Power of Women Leaders

    Keywords women's leadership, transformational leadership, collective action, empathy, mentorship, women empowerment, leadership styles, gender equality, women in leadership, support systems Summary In this episode, Swati Upadhyay discusses the importance of women's leadership, emphasizing that it is often framed as instinct rather than skill. She highlights the transformational leadership style that women tend to practice, which is rooted in empathy, mentorship, and collaboration. The conversation explores the collective nature of women's leadership, the challenges they face in isolated environments, and the need for supportive systems that allow women to rise together. Upadhyay advocates for a future of leadership that values care alongside competence and encourages women to lead in circles rather than ladders. Takeaways Women's leadership is often framed as instinct rather than skill.Transformational leadership is rooted in motivation and mentorship.Women lead collectively, fostering shared leadership and collaboration.Empathy in leadership improves motivation, creativity, and retention.Women leaders face scrutiny and competition in isolated environments.Supporting women leaders means moving beyond symbolism.Collaboration should be rewarded as a measure of success.Peer support strengthens the leadership pipeline.Engaging all genders is essential in dismantling scarcity.The future of leadership is about shared success, not isolation. Sound bites "Empathy works best when it's amongst peers." "Collaboration should count as success." "Women are builders of trust."

    11 min
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Real Stories. Bold Women. Shared Power. Welcome to In Her Element — a podcast that celebrates women showing up fully in their careers, creativity, and everyday lives. Hosted by Swati Upadhyay, each episode provides a space for honest conversations, personal growth, and powerful moments. From scientists to artists, coders to caregivers, you'll hear raw, inspiring stories of women stepping into their purpose — in their own time, and on their own terms. No filters. No fluff. Just real talk, deep reflections, and the kind of support we all deserve. Tune in weekly

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