Sabi Cruise

Bisola WhizQueen

Sabi Cruise is where real talk meets real life. Hosted by Bisola WhizQueen, a Nigerian-Canadian creative and Finance educator, this show is for honest yet insightful conversations on money matters, societal issues, and navigating adulthood—with humour, and just enough spice. Think brunch chats with your smartest friend who gets it. Whether you're folding laundry or sipping something sweet, tap in to feel seen, laugh a little, and learn how to live well without losing yourself. Follow now and join the cruise. New episode drops biweekly 🎙️ Available on YouTube and other podcast platforms!

  1. 12h ago

    Your Inner Circle May Be Secretly Against You (Friendship & Business)

    Ever felt like you hit rock bottom while everyone else is flashing their perfect life on social media? In this episode of the Sabi Cruise Podcast, we are opening up the "Failure Diaries." I’m joined by Priya Purin and Tanisha Noel, the brilliant co-founders of Duo Vita, to have a raw, unfiltered conversation about why rejection is often just redirection in disguise. We dive deep into the unspoken realities of hitting rock bottom, from failing high school and surviving multiple law school rejections, to the sharp sting of friends who refuse to support your new business (but will happily repost major celebrities). If you’ve ever had to handle unprofessional contractors, face high societal expectations, or wonder how to stay resilient during a professional setback, this episode is your blueprint to pulling through. Timestamps:0:00 - The 67% Problem (Subscribe!)0:26 - Meet Priya & Tanisha (Co-founders of Duo Vita)1:36 - Balancing Hustle Culture with the "Soft Life"3:05 - Growing Up with Strict Parents & Boxed Personalities9:05 - The Failure Diaries: Hitting Rock Bottom11:43 - Getting Cheated Out of Scholarships & Fighting Back13:11 - Failing the LSAT Multiple Times (And Getting In Anyway)16:28 - Suffering in Silence vs. Posting Your Wins on Social Media18:05 - Drive vs. Talent: How to Make Things Shake21:14 - Fake Friends & The $30 Ticket Drama30:06 - Dreamers vs. Executors (How to Spot a Time Waster)34:50 - Nightmare Contractor Stories: Photographers & Flooded Airbnb53:44 - "Embarrassment is the Price of Entry"1:02:20 - Reddit Dilemma 1: Did a LinkedIn Photo Cost Her a $92k Job?1:06:51 - Reddit Dilemma 2: Unemployed for 2 Years Post-Grad 🔗 LINKS & RESOURCES‣ Find Host’s IG → https://www.instagram.com/whiz_queen‣ Explore Sabi Enjoy → https://sabienjoy.com🎧 Listen on Your Favourite Platform → https://pod.link/1829335834 Want to get featured? Share your story, dilemma, or hot take → https://forms.gle/1nbJfzo6r1b5wWL68#SabiCruise #FailureDiaries #BusinessRealities #MindsetShift #SoftLife #WomenInBusiness

    1h 22m
  2. May 6

    God Stripped Me of Everything: My 12-Month Battle with Unemployment

    Last year, everything changed. Sophia Okeke thought she had it all figured out, the tech transition, the project management certifications, and the facade of a perfect life. Then, God stripped it all away.In this episode of Sabi Cruise, we’re getting messy. We discuss the reality of being a LinkedIn babe with thousands of followers but zero income, the crushing weight of the Canadian job market, and the pruning season that forced a total identity shift. Sophia shares the exact email strategy she used to pitch a CEO directly and why she believes standard job applications are officially dead in 2026. If you feel like you’re doing everything right but every door is slamming shut, this conversation is your sign to keep the faith and pivot your strategy. What we cover:The emotional toll of long-term unemployment.Moving to Canada: Expectation vs. Reality.Networking secrets: How to lead with value, not desperation.Navigating "friendship breakups" during hard seasons.Why entrepreneurship is a spiritual journey. 🔗 LINKS & RESOURCES ‣ Find Host’s IG → https://www.instagram.com/whiz_queen ‣ Find Guest’s IG → https://www.instagram.com/thesophiaokeke ‣ Explore Sabi Enjoy → https://sabienjoy.com 🎧 Listen on Your Favourite Platform → https://pod.link/1829335834 Want to get featured? Share your story, dilemma, or hot take → https://forms.gle/1nbJfzo6r1b5wWL68 Podcast Starter Kit → https://a.co/d/01i8GKY6 Timestamps 0:00 – "God really tested me": The stripping season1:21 – Meet Sophia: Media Host & Creative Strategist3:19 – Why I started interviewing people at events (The Escape)7:12 – The "Tech Girly" facade and the reality of unemployment9:25 – "You have followers but no job?": The LinkedIn pressure11:44 – The Pitch: How I emailed the MD and got hired13:11 – Why job applications don't work in 202618:11 – Identifying your "Pruning Season"24:40 – How to have 5 "Coffee Chats" a day31:47 – Failing at business: The Crochet era41:43 – Friendship breakups: When you disappear to survive48:49 – Listener Dilemma: Should I stay at a toxic job for $10k?1:00:30 – Final Words: Reconnecting with God for direction

    1h 3m
  3. Apr 29

    I Almost Became Homeless at the Cost of Betting on Myself

    Everyone shows their highlights on social media, but what happens when you quit a $115,000 career to bet on yourself and only make $500 in half a year?In this episode of the Sabi Cruise Podcast, we’re joined by Strive Auntie (Dolapo), a tech sales expert who is pulling back the curtain on her Failure Diary. We dive deep into the messy middle of entrepreneurship, the crushing shame of not performing, and why she ultimately doesn't regret taking the leap.If you’ve ever felt stuck in a safe 9-to-5 or wondered how to break into the tech ecosystem with zero experience, this conversation is for you. We also discuss why life is sales, from convincing your parents to let you travel at 14 to pitching for a promotion in just three months. 🔗 LINKS & RESOURCES‣ Find Host’s IG → https://www.instagram.com/whiz_queen/‣ Find Guest's IG → https://www.instagram.com/striveopp/‣ Explore Sabi Enjoy → https://sabienjoy.com🎧 Listen on Your Favourite Platform → https://pod.link/1829335834 Want to get featured? Share your story, dilemma, or hot take → https://forms.gle/1nbJfzo6r1b5wWL68Podcast Starter Kit → https://a.co/d/01i8GKY6 Timestamps00:00 – Why 67% of you aren’t subscribed yet!01:20 – Introducing the "Failure Diaries": Why life isn't perfect03:30 – "Life is Sales": Why you’re always selling05:10 – Raising $5,000 at age 14: My first sales lesson07:00 – 3 Tips to break into Tech Sales today08:50 – The $115k mistake? Quitting my job in 202310:40 – The reality check: Making only $500 in 6 months11:50 – Dealing with the "Shame" of failure in our community13:20 – From $80k to a $200k earning potential in 4 months14:40 – We are stewards of money, not owners16:20 – How to survive a "broke" season: Cutting costs18:50 – Sabbaticals and Medical Leave: Protecting your mental health

    54 min
  4. Apr 16

    My Failed Chef Career Pivoted me into Building a Successful Tech Business

    In this episode of Sabi Cruise, Bisola and Barbara dive into the psychology of risk. Barbara explains why she believes in "Design Thinking," the art of failing fast and learning on the go, and why she refuses to let perfectionism keep her from starting new ventures.But it’s not just about business. The conversation takes a vulnerable turn as they discuss why high-achieving women often have a high tolerance for financial risk but a low tolerance for romantic risk. We explore how to build "resistance to pain," why your choice of partner is your most important business decision, and how to deal with the social pressure of African "prestige" careers while navigating a pivot.Whether you're struggling with "the hustle," feeling guilty about taking breaks, or trying to protect your energy from external opinions, this episode is a masterclass in resilience and self-trust. Timestamps:24:08 – The Freedom of Risk: Why I couldn't stay an accountant24:34 – Design Thinking: Why you must fail fast to learn fast25:21 – Perfectionism is a "disguise" for not being a doer26:44 – The Irony: High risk in business, playing it safe in love28:32 – Why your partner will either "make or break" your career30:43 – Learning to Trust: "Trust but verify" vs. "Trust blindly"32:19 – Building an immunity to failure (Thanks to Dad)34:36 – "Feel the emotion, but don't unpack your suitcase"38:05 – Dealing with Society: Hiding my career pivot for a year41:44 – Protecting your energy from "What if?" people43:20 – Listener Dilemma: Feeling guilty about taking breaks from the hustle45:14 – Sabi or No Sabi: Fake vacation photos & ghosting clients47:03 – One final tip: "It all works out"Which risk do you find harder to take: a financial/career risk or a romantic risk? Let's have a real talk in the comments! 👇 Don't forget to check out Sabi Enjoy for your next stress-free luxury escape: https://sabienjoy.com 🔗 LINKS & RESOURCES‣ Find Host’s IG → https://www.instagram.com/whiz_queen/‣ Follow Barb's Journey → https://www.instagram.com/lady_barbss/ ‣ Explore Sabi Enjoy → https://sabienjoy.com‣ Simafin → https://www.simainc.ca/ 🎧 Listen on Your Favourite Platform → https://pod.link/1829335834Want to get featured? Share your story, dilemma, or hot take → https://forms.gle/1nbJfzo6r1b5wWL68

    48 min
  5. Apr 8

    I grew up "Below the Poverty Line" and now I'm a Millionaire

    How do you go from living in “Face Me, I Slap You" houses to building a $1 Million portfolio?In this episode of Sabi Cruise, I sit down with Joy David from @wealthfromscratch to discuss the raw, unfiltered reality of building wealth when you truly start from zero. Joy shares her journey from growing up below the poverty line in Nigeria to becoming a Senior Product Manager in London and a financial literacy powerhouse. We dive into:‣ The mindset shift required to move from survival mode to wealth building.‣ How she handled a devastating scholarship rejection that almost crushed her dreams.‣ Why she spends the most money on food but refuses to buy new sneakers.‣ Practical steps for immigrants and anyone from low-income backgrounds to start investing today.If you’ve ever felt like you’re the one who has to "change the story" for your family, this conversation is for you. This is the Soft Life with sense.🔗 LINKS & RESOURCES‣ Follow Joy's journey → https://www.instagram.com/wealthfromscratch‣ Explore Sabi Enjoy → https://sabienjoy.com‣ Start a Ride → https://forms.gle/CnrEg6QjMsKzgpUk6 🎧 Listen on Your Favourite Platform → https://pod.link/1829335834 Want to get featured? Share your story, dilemma, or hot take → https://forms.gle/1nbJfzo6r1b5wWL68CHAPTERS0:00 - Growing up in "Face Me, I Slap You" houses1:41 - Meet Joy: From Nigeria to London Tech2:45 - What it really means to be "Below the Poverty Line"4:05 - Why I’m obsessed with the $1 Million goal5:30 - Being "The One" to change your family's story6:50 - The Survival Mindset: Why I spend so much on food8:30 - Earning £43k and still feeling broke10:45 - Why I don't care about "Luxury Aesthetics"12:10 - My first active step toward building wealth13:10 - Sharing financial numbers as an African woman17:40 - The Failure Diary: My Chevening Rejection story21:30 - Getting into London School of Economics with money for Tuition

    1 hr
  6. 12/24/2025

    Don't Allow Anyone Shame You for Asking 'What Are We?' | Relationships & Money Talks

    In this episode, I'm joined by Demola, a co-founder of Lagos in Toronto, owner of A+ Cocktails, and a full-time IT manager juggling multiple businesses. We talk about building community as an immigrant, finding the right business partners, and why chasing excellence matters more than chasing money. Then we get into two wild dilemmas: a guy who refused to split a $1,000 bottle service bill he barely touched, and a man struggling with trust issues while his girlfriend festivals without him. We dive deep into situationships, the "What are we?" conversation, and why you should never feel ashamed for asking for clarity. 🕐 TIMESTAMPS [00:00] Intro [02:00] Meet Deola: Founder, IT Manager & Serial Entrepreneur [03:50] How Lagos in Toronto Started [06:44] "If You Follow Excellence, Success Will Chase You" [09:30] Why Immigrants Need Community [11:04] Running A Business from Abroad [12:27] How to Find the Right Business Partner [33:15] DILEMMA: Should He Split the $1,000 Bill? [39:51] DILEMMA: Girlfriend Goes to Festivals Without Him [44:26] The "What Are We?" Conversation [47:46] Don't Let Anyone Shame You for Asking [54:50] Sabi or No Sabi: Travel, Lounges & Sunglasses Indoors 👏 CONNECT ‣ Demola on IG → https://www.instagram.com/mister_demola/ ‣ Plan your next trip → https://sabienjoy.com ‣ Build your wealth → https://smartmoneymastery.co **Got a dilemma or hot take?** Submit it here → https://forms.gle/1nbJfzo6r1b5wWL68

    1h 1m
  7. 12/17/2025

    The Real Cost of Choosing Authenticity Over Virality (Lost 90% of income after pivoting)

    What happens when you walk away from viral fame at your peak? Mariam (Mory Coco) found out the hard way. She was crushing it with viral skits; brand deals rolling in, engagement through the roof, recognition everywhere. Then she made a decision that tanked her income by 90% overnight. For six brutal months, the phone stopped ringing. Brands ghosted. Views plummeted. But she never looked back. In this conversation, we dig into: - Why viral success can become a creative prison - The 6-month income drought nobody warns you about - How she survived (and eventually thrived) after the pivot - Moving to Canada and rebuilding from scratch - Setting firm boundaries in dating and life - The importance of hygiene in relationships (yes, really) PLUS: We solve listener dilemmas including: - Should you split bills 50/50 when he earns way more? - How to leave a relationship when someone disrespects your birthday This isn't a highlight reel. It's the messy, honest truth about choosing fulfillment over fame, and what it actually costs. Perfect for: Content creators, entrepreneurs, anyone feeling trapped by "success," and people who love real talk about relationships, money, and life. --- 🔗 LINKS & RESOURCES ‣ Find Guest's IG → https://www.instagram.com/mory_coco/ ‣ Explore Sabi Enjoy → https://sabienjoy.com ‣ Multiply Your Money → https://smartmoneymastery.co 📮 Submit Your Story or Dilemma: https://forms.gle/1nbJfzo6r1b5wWL68 🎥 Watch Full Video Episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/NRf2jtwBBS0 Follow Sabi Cruise: - Instagram: @sabicruisepod - YouTube: @sabicruisepod - TikTok: @sabicruisepod ⏱️ EPISODE TIMELINE: (00:00) Introduction: The Creator Who Quit at Her Peak (01:00) How Mariam Got the Name "Mory Coco" (06:23) From Viral Skits to Authentic Content (08:04) When Success Becomes a Trap (10:03) The Downside of Being Known for Comedy (18:34) The 90% Income Drop & 6-Month Drought (22:44) Making More Money With Less Engagement (28:11) Moving to Canada & Rebuilding (35:05) Why You Need to Detox From Hustle Culture (40:43) Listener Dilemma: 50/50 Bill Splitting Debate (1:00:03) Dating Red Flags & Setting Boundaries (1:06:40) Rapid Fire Questions (1:13:03) Final Thoughts & Takeaways New episodes weekly. Hit follow so you never miss a cruise! #SabiCruise #ContentCreator #CreatorEconomy #CreatorBurnout

    1h 15m

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Sabi Cruise is where real talk meets real life. Hosted by Bisola WhizQueen, a Nigerian-Canadian creative and Finance educator, this show is for honest yet insightful conversations on money matters, societal issues, and navigating adulthood—with humour, and just enough spice. Think brunch chats with your smartest friend who gets it. Whether you're folding laundry or sipping something sweet, tap in to feel seen, laugh a little, and learn how to live well without losing yourself. Follow now and join the cruise. New episode drops biweekly 🎙️ Available on YouTube and other podcast platforms!