Unwind Your Mind

Natalie Milosevic
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Unwind Your Mind is the podcast for overthinkers, perfectionists, and high-achievers who want to stop second-guessing themselves and start realigning with their version of success. Hosted by Career + Leadership Coach Natalie Milosevic, founder of Realign Your Life, each week you'll get practical tools, nervous system insights, and self-leadership strategies to help you release internal blocks, reclaim your power and build a career that feels like you. If you're ready to unlearn old patterns and step into more clarity, confidence, and ease - this is your space. Let's unwind your mind… and step into your fulfilment.

  1. 2d ago

    Skills We Were Never Taught: Emotional Intelligence at Work

    Have you ever wondered why some people seem to navigate difficult conversations, stakeholder challenges and workplace pressure more effectively than others? It's easy to assume they're naturally better with people. But what if they've just developed skills that most of us were never taught?   In this episode of Unwind Your Mind, we wrap up the emotional intelligence series by exploring four of the most important emotional intelligence skills we can develop: self-awareness, emotional regulation, social awareness and empathy.   I share why these skills influence our careers far more than most of us realise, how they affect our relationships, leadership and decision-making, and why emotional intelligence is not a personality trait you're either born with or you're not.   If you've ever wondered why some people remain effective under pressure, navigate difficult conversations well, or build strong relationships with seemingly little effort, this episode will help you understand how you can too.   HERE ARE 3 KEY TAKEAWAYS FROM THIS EPISODE: 1️⃣ Emotional intelligence isn't a personality trait, it's a collection of skills that can be developed. 2️⃣ Self-awareness creates choice. You can't manage what you haven't recognised. 3️⃣ Curiosity creates better conversations than assumptions ever will.   MORE FROM ME: 📰 Get my Weekly Newsletter 🔗 Connect on LinkedIn 📸 Follow on Instagram or Facebook   SUBSCRIBE & REVIEW: If you loved this episode, please take a moment to subscribe and leave a review. Your support helps us reach more people who need these insights.   Thanks for tuning in to Unwind Your Mind. See you next week! 🤍

    18 min

  2. Jun 16

    The Hidden Cost of Poor Emotional Intelligence

    What if some of the most expensive problems in your organisation aren't the ones you're measuring?   A conversation gets postponed, a concern goes unspoken, a stakeholder leaves a meeting feeling slightly less confident than they did when they walked in. None of these moments seem particularly significant at the time, and yet when enough of them accumulate, the consequences can become very real.   In this episode of Unwind Your Mind, we continue the emotional intelligence series by exploring the hidden cost of poor emotional intelligence in the workplace.   We unpack how rework, disengagement, turnover, burnout, stakeholder frustration and project delays often begin long before the cost becomes visible, and why many of the most expensive organisational problems start as ordinary human interactions that seem insignificant in the moment.   If you've ever wondered what poor emotional intelligence is actually costing your team, your projects, or your organisation, this episode will help you connect the dots.   HERE ARE 3 KEY TAKEAWAYS FROM THIS EPISODE: 1️⃣ The visible problem and the original problem are not always the same thing. 2️⃣ Small moments accumulate. Trust, engagement and confidence rarely disappear overnight. 3️⃣ Emotional intelligence influences innovation and resilience more than most organisations realise.   MORE FROM ME: 📰 Get my Weekly Newsletter 🔗 Connect on LinkedIn 📸 Follow on Instagram or Facebook   SUBSCRIBE & REVIEW: If you loved this episode, please take a moment to subscribe and leave a review. Your support helps us reach more people who need these insights.   Thanks for tuning in to Unwind Your Mind. See you next week! 🤍

    21 min

  3. Jun 9

    Why Do Smart Teams Still Struggle?

    Have you ever worked with a team full of intelligent, capable people and wondered why things still weren't running smoothly?   In this episode of Unwind Your Mind, we explore a question that many professionals encounter throughout their careers: Why do smart teams still struggle?   Drawing on a real project from my engineering and project management career, I unpack how many workplace challenges that appear to be communication, stakeholder, or project management problems are often grounded in something deeper: the human dynamics sitting underneath the work.   If you've ever been part of a team where everyone was technically capable, but things still weren't clicking, this episode will help you understand why.   HERE ARE 3 KEY TAKEAWAYS FROM THIS EPISODE: 1️⃣ Smart teams don't struggle because they're not smart enough. 2️⃣ People react to what they believe is happening, not what's actually happening. 3️⃣ Technical intelligence solves problems. Emotional intelligence helps people work together to solve them.   MORE FROM ME: 📰 Get my Weekly Newsletter 🔗 Connect on LinkedIn 📸 Follow on Instagram or Facebook   SUBSCRIBE & REVIEW: If you loved this episode, please take a moment to subscribe and leave a review. Your support helps us reach more people who need these insights.   Thanks for tuning in to Unwind Your Mind. See you next week! 🤍

    18 min

  4. Jun 1

    Why Career Paths Aren't Meant to Be Straight with Maree Giannetti

    Many of us grow up believing that success follows a predictable path. Choose a career, gain experience, climb the ladder.   But what if career paths aren't meant to be straight? What happens when your interests evolve? What if the path you're on no longer feels aligned? And how do you know whether you're moving away from something… or moving towards something that's a better fit?   In this episode of Unwind Your Mind, I sit down with my long-time friend Maree Giannetti, founder of Shareify, to explore her fascinating career journey through teaching, acting, entrepreneurship and motherhood.   From performing on stage as a teenager, to teaching in remote Indigenous communities, studying acting in Sydney, and building multiple businesses of her own, Maree's story shows us how every chapter of our career contributes something valuable, often preparing us for opportunities we couldn't have anticipated at the time.   Together, we explore what it looks like to follow your curiosity, recognise when you've outgrown a chapter, and allow your definition of success and fulfilment to evolve as your life does.   HERE ARE 3 KEY TAKEAWAYS FROM THIS EPISODE: 1️⃣ Career paths rarely make sense looking forward, but often make perfect sense looking back. 2️⃣ The skills you develop along the way are never wasted. What appears to be a detour often becomes part of your foundation. 3️⃣ Fulfilment comes from alignment, not achievement alone. Success feels very different when it reflects who you are and what matters most to you.   MORE FROM MAREE: 🌐 Shareify www.shareify.com.au/ 📸 Follow Maree on Instagram shareify_au 🔗 Connect with Maree on LinkedIn MORE FROM ME: 📰 Get my Weekly Newsletter 🔗 Connect on LinkedIn 📸 Follow on Instagram or Facebook   SUBSCRIBE & REVIEW: If you loved this episode, please take a moment to subscribe and leave a review. Your support helps us reach more people who need these insights.   Thanks for tuning in to Unwind Your Mind. See you next week! 🤍

    55 min

  5. May 18

    The Hidden Conditions Behind Feeling "Enough"

    Have you ever noticed how your mind keeps attaching conditions to feeling okay? "Once this project is over, then I can relax." "Once I've proved myself in this role, then I'll feel secure." "Once I feel more confident, then I'll speak up."   On the surface, these thoughts can sound ambitious and responsible. But underneath them is often a much deeper emotional pattern, the belief that your worth, peace, confidence, or sense of safety must be earned.   In this episode of Unwind Your Mind, we unpack the hidden "worthiness prerequisites" that drive so much of our behaviour, from perfectionism and overthinking to burnout, people-pleasing and fear of visibility.   I explore the difference between healthy ambition and conditional self-worth, why high-achievers often fear that self-acceptance will make them complacent, and how pursuing goals from a grounded sense of worthiness creates a completely different experience.   If you've ever felt like the goalposts keep moving, or like no achievement ever quite gives you the relief you thought it would, this episode will help you understand why.   HERE ARE 3 KEY TAKEAWAYS FROM THIS EPISODE: 1️⃣ There's a difference between "I want this" and "I need this in order to feel enough." 2️⃣ Worthiness doesn't remove your drive, it removes the emotional punishment attached to the drive. 3️⃣ Many of the patterns we struggle are related to conditional self-worth: perfectionism, over-preparing, procrastination, people-pleasing and fear of failure make a lot more sense when you realise your nervous system believes your worth is on the line.   MORE FROM ME: 📰 Get my Weekly Newsletter 🔗 Connect on LinkedIn 📸 Follow on Instagram or Facebook   SUBSCRIBE & REVIEW: If you loved this episode, please take a moment to subscribe and leave a review. Your support helps us reach more people who need these insights.   Thanks for tuning in to Unwind Your Mind. See you next week! 🤍

    18 min

  6. May 11

    Clarity Is Kind: The Missing Piece in Team Performance Part 2

    If you've ever received feedback that felt more personal than helpful… or found yourself holding back from saying what's actually needed because you didn't want to come across the wrong way, this episode is for you.   In part two of this conversation on role clarity, we move from understanding the problem to exploring how it plays out in real workplace dynamics.   We unpack how expectations are often communicated in ways that feel like personal criticism, why that creates defensiveness or self-doubt, and how to shift those conversations so they're grounded in the role, not the individual.   We also explore the resentment that builds when expectations go unspoken, and how both leaders and individuals can take responsibility for creating clarity, even if it wasn't there to begin with.   If you want to feel more confident in your role, have more constructive conversations at work, and move away from second-guessing or frustration, this episode will help you see those situations differently.   HERE ARE 3 KEY TAKEAWAYS FROM THIS EPISODE: 1️⃣ Expectations land better when they're depersonalised. Framing feedback around the role, not the individual, creates clarity without defensiveness. 2️⃣ Resentment is often a sign of unspoken expectations. If something feels frustrating, it may be something that hasn't been clearly articulated. 3️⃣ Clarity is a shared responsibility, leaders need to articulate expectations, and individuals should seek them to create alignment and confidence.   MORE FROM ME: 📰 Get my Weekly Newsletter 🔗 Connect on LinkedIn 📸 Follow on Instagram or Facebook   SUBSCRIBE & REVIEW: If you loved this episode, please take a moment to subscribe and leave a review. Your support helps us reach more people who need these insights.   Thanks for tuning in to Unwind Your Mind. See you next week! 🤍

    18 min

  7. May 4

    Clarity Is Kind: The Missing Piece in Team Performance Part 1

    Have you ever been doing exactly what was asked of you… but still felt like you somehow missed the mark?   Or been on the other side, where someone is doing work for you, and it's fine but the way they are showing up is frustrating you?   In many cases, this isn't a performance issue. It's a clarity issue.   In part one of this two-part episode of Unwind Your Mind, I unpack one of the most overlooked drivers of frustration in the workplace: unclear role expectations.   We explore how assumptions, unspoken standards, and undefined ownership create misalignment between team members and leaders, often without either side realising it.   We also look at why so many leaders avoid setting clear expectations in the first place, and how the fear of being perceived as "too harsh" can actually lead to more frustration, more rework and less effective teams.   If you've ever found yourself second-guessing your work, redoing someone else's, or feeling frustrated without being able to pinpoint why, this episode will help you see what might really be going on underneath.   HERE ARE 3 KEY TAKEAWAYS FROM THIS EPISODE: 1️⃣ What often looks like a performance issue is actually a clarity gap. When expectations aren't clearly defined, misalignment is almost inevitable. 2️⃣ Being "nice" and being clear are not the same thing. Avoiding expectations in the name of kindness often creates more frustration over time. 3️⃣ Role clarity is about more than tasks. It's about ownership, responsibility, and understanding what high performance actually looks like.   MORE FROM ME: 📰 Get my Weekly Newsletter 🔗 Connect on LinkedIn 📸 Follow on Instagram or Facebook   SUBSCRIBE & REVIEW: If you loved this episode, please take a moment to subscribe and leave a review. Your support helps us reach more people who need these insights.   Thanks for tuning in to Unwind Your Mind. See you next week! 🤍

    24 min

  8. Apr 27

    The All-or-Nothing Trap: When 99% Still Feels Like Failure

    Have you ever completed something you knew you did well… and still found yourself fixating on the one small thing that wasn't perfect?   Maybe it was a test, a presentation, a project, or even a conversation. Everything went well overall, but your mind keeps coming back to that one moment that "should have been better."   And somehow, despite everything you did do well… it doesn't quite feel like enough.   In this episode of Unwind Your Mind, I unpack a subtle but powerful layer of perfectionism that often goes unnoticed, the shift from needing to exceed expectations… to believing that anything less than 100% isn't acceptable.   Through a real moment from a recent training workshop, I explore how these patterns can still be sitting underneath the surface, even after we've done a lot of work on ourselves, and how emotional reactions can reveal the beliefs we didn't realise we were still holding onto.   If you've ever felt frustrated with yourself over something minor, or found it hard to fully acknowledge your progress because your focus keeps returning to what wasn't perfect, this episode will help you see those moments differently.   HERE ARE 3 KEY TAKEAWAYS FROM THIS EPISODE: 1️⃣ High standards can turn into rigid expectations. When "doing well" becomes "it has to be perfect," even small gaps can feel disproportionately big. 2️⃣ Your emotional reactions are not random, they are clues. Moments of frustration or disappointment can point to underlying beliefs that are ready to be understood and shifted. 3️⃣ There is a difference between what happened and what you make it mean. When you separate the situation from the story you attach to it, you create space to learn, rather than judge.   MORE FROM ME: 📰 Get my Weekly Newsletter 🔗 Connect on LinkedIn 📸 Follow on Instagram or Facebook   SUBSCRIBE & REVIEW: If you loved this episode, please take a moment to subscribe and leave a review. Your support helps us reach more people who need these insights.   Thanks for tuning in to Unwind Your Mind. See you next week! 🤍

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Unwind Your Mind is the podcast for overthinkers, perfectionists, and high-achievers who want to stop second-guessing themselves and start realigning with their version of success. Hosted by Career + Leadership Coach Natalie Milosevic, founder of Realign Your Life, each week you'll get practical tools, nervous system insights, and self-leadership strategies to help you release internal blocks, reclaim your power and build a career that feels like you. If you're ready to unlearn old patterns and step into more clarity, confidence, and ease - this is your space. Let's unwind your mind… and step into your fulfilment.

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  • Creator
    Natalie Milosevic
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    39
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © 2025
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    Unwind Your Mind