Deadlines and Detours — The Human Stories Behind Digital Business.

Matthew Barrington-Packer

No fluff. No filter. Just real conversations with the people behind digital business. Host Matthew Barrington-Packer talks to marketers, recruiters, mindset coaches, tech leaders and entrepreneurs about what actually happens when you're trying to build, grow and transform in a world that won't slow down. From burnout to breakthroughs. From CVs to AI. From flow states to fuel bills. Real stories. Real people. Real talk.

Episodes

  1. 11/25/2025

    “Is This It?” Mid-Life, Burnout & the Truth About How Your Mind Really Works

    When Matt launched Deadlines & Detours, he thought it was a podcast about digital transformation and tech. It turns out, it’s about people – especially the ones who quietly rewrite how you see the world.In this episode, Matt sits down with Piers Thurston, founder of Quality of Mind, who’s spent 25 years in personal and professional development – from big enterprise to scrappy startups.What makes Piers’ work different? He’s moved past mindset hacks, productivity tricks and “high performance routines” and gone upstream to something much more fundamental: how the mind actually works.They get into: Why life can feel like a constant grind – even when, on paper, you’ve “made it”What flow state really is (and why you don’t need rituals to get there)Aperture – how your state of mind colours reality in real timeWhy trying to constantly manage your mind is like trying to get dry while standing under a showerHow your default setting is already ease, and what changes when you stop trying to “fix” yourselfWhy this matters for leaders in fast-changing, ambiguous worlds (tech, digital, transformation, etc.) If you’re in your mid-forties, successful on the outside but quietly asking “is this it?”, this one’s for you.This isn’t about becoming a Zen robot who never feels anything. It’s about seeing that there’s something deeper than your thoughts, feelings and stories – and how life, work and relationships shift when you start operating from there. Real conversations with the people who’ve shaped how Matt thinks, works and lives – from digital transformation and leadership to the inner game that sits underneath all of it. 🔗 Resources & links– Piers’ Quality of Mind resources: https://qualityofmind.biz/podcast-resources/– Deadlines & Detours podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/deadlines-and-detours-the-human-stories-behind/id1829937272– Connect with Matt on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/matthewbp/

    55 min
  2. 10/09/2025

    Apps, AI & Apple Obsessions | Andy Farmer (MyOxygen) on Building Beautiful Tech & Staying Curious | Deadlines & Detours

    Welcome back to Deadlines & Detours, the podcast where we talk to the humans behind digital transformation — the thinkers, tinkerers, and tech obsessives shaping the products we all use. In this episode, Matt Barrington-Packer sits down with Andy Farmer, Co-Founder of MyOxygen — a Bristol-based digital product studio that’s been building apps since the dawn of the iPhone. Andy’s team has created mobile solutions for the NHS, Ministry of Defence, and the energy sector, helping organisations design, build, and scale products that genuinely make a difference. Together they dive into: 🧩 The evolution of mobile apps — from PalmPilots to iPhones ⚙️ Why “beautiful code” matters as much as beautiful design 💡 How AI is the ultimate “yes person”… and why that’s risky 🧘‍♂️ The spirituality of motorbikes and why detours matter 🔐 How to innovate inside regulated industries (NHS, MOD, Energy) ☕️ Why every project still needs people, process, and a good cup of coffee Andy shares the story behind MyOxygen’s early NHS projects, the SAM App that supported student mental health, and the hard-won lessons from decades of building software the right way — focusing on purpose, process, and human connection. This is one for designers, developers, founders, and digital leaders who believe tech should have heart. 🎧 Listen. Think. Detour.

    1h 25m
  3. 09/11/2025

    Sarah Chilcott on Digital Planning, Leadership and the Most Overused Word “AI” | Deadlines & Detours

    In this episode of Deadlines & Detours, I sit down with Sarah Chilcott, former Managing Director of the UK’s national Planning Portal — the service that helped standardise applications across England and Wales and scaled to around 50,000 submissions a month. Sarah talks candidly about the multi-year transition from a government unit to a commercial joint venture, moving from central funding to commercial revenue, and why pace, people and values mattered more than any single piece of technology. We also cover housing and sustainability work, biodiversity net gain, and practical ways leaders can drive change without excluding users. What we discuss: The inside story of the Planning Portal and the shift to a JV What worked (and didn’t) in digital planning Pace in government vs. private sector and how to manage it Data, payments and service design lessons Housing, sustainability and biodiversity net gain in practice Change management (Kotter), culture and leadership habits Why “AI” is often the most overused word in tech The “five frogs on a log” test for moving from intent to action Links: hgkc — Sarah’s leadership and growth advisory work: https://hgkc.co.uk UK Business Council for Sustainable Development: https://ukbcsd.co.uk Bristol Housing Festival: https://bristolhousingfestival.org.uk Follow Deadlines & Detours: Spotify: [add link] Apple Podcasts: [add link] LinkedIn (host): https://www.linkedin.com/in/matthewbp/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@DeadlinesandDetours If you found this useful, please like, comment and subscribe. It helps the show reach more people working on real transformation.

    55 min

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No fluff. No filter. Just real conversations with the people behind digital business. Host Matthew Barrington-Packer talks to marketers, recruiters, mindset coaches, tech leaders and entrepreneurs about what actually happens when you're trying to build, grow and transform in a world that won't slow down. From burnout to breakthroughs. From CVs to AI. From flow states to fuel bills. Real stories. Real people. Real talk.