Episode 8: Gig, The Golden Lion, and Dancing Your Tit Out What happens when you build a life, a business, and a community in your second+ language? In this episode of Speaking of Stories, I sit down with Matthanee Nilavongse (Gig), owner of the iconic Golden Lion, a legendary pub, music venue, and community hub in the heart of Todmorden. The Golden Lion has become known for its live music, Thai food, community spirit, and unforgettable atmosphere. Gig shares the story of growing up in Thailand, moving across the world, navigating life and business in English, and learning to accept herself after years of hiding behind layers of protection. We talk about: • Growing up feeling like an outsider • Bullying, identity, and self-acceptance • Moving from Thailand to Australia, Italy, and eventually the UK • Running a successful business in a second language • Racism, resilience, and why Gig thinks we need a workshop called "How To Talk To Racists" • The difference between speaking correctly and connecting authentically • Why she deliberately leaves mistakes in her Facebook posts • Dreaming in English (Gig's unexpected advice for language learners) • The stories behind some of the Golden Lion's most famous phrases, including "Dance Your Tit Out" Along the way, Gig challenges many of the assumptions we hold about language, fluency, and belonging. One of my favourite moments: "It's not the words that are interesting. It's your idea. Is it interesting?" About Speaking of Stories Speaking of Stories explores real-life stories about how language weaves in and out of identity, belonging, communication, and lived experience. Through conversations with people from different backgrounds, we explore what happens when language becomes more than words and when it becomes part of who we are. About Sukhi I'm Sukhi, a communication coach working with 2nd+ English speakers move from overthinking and self-consciousness towards more fluid, emotive, and authentic communication - from the inside out. My work combines communication coaching with mindfulness, expressive & meaningful conversation, grounding, breathing techniques, and tools for presence for a full-bodied communication experience, championing your unique voice. Instagram Links The Golden Lion: The Golden Lion Todmorden Follow Gig and the Golden Lion for events, music, food, and community happenings. If you enjoyed this episode, please follow the podcast, leave a review, and share it with someone who might find a piece of their own story in the stories they hear.
