In this episode, Steph is joined by D, Joy, and Juli, members of the We Deserve Better Project Mutual Aid Group. Together, they explore what mutual aid really means, how it differs from charity, and why building relationships rooted in trust, reciprocity, and collective care is essential for sustaining anti-violence work. From personal experiences to practical lessons, they reflect on how mutual aid can help reimagine support, strengthen community, and create more liberatory ways of caring for one another. Links * July 28 at 4:30 pm ET: Mind Over Money: Financial Literacy for Advocates— Register to join Joy and the WDBP team for a free workshop! * Dean Spade—Mutual Aid: Building Solidarity During This Crisis and The Next— Learn more about mutual aid with this book and/or podcast suggested by D. * Harvard Implicit Association Test— As Juli mentioned, unpacking and unlearning biases can be some of the most important work in community care and mutual aid. Many times we’re unaware of the places where we hold bias. This implicit association test can help you identify any hidden biases impacting how you show up. Guest Bios D is an advocate for survivors of gender-based violence and has spent the last ten years in the movement to end GBV. She got her start at her local domestic and sexual violence program providing support to victims and survivors in her community. D holds a Bachelor’s degree in Global Studies (with a focus on Latin American History and Culture) from Penn State University. A descendant of the Caribbean diaspora, D spent her youth in Brooklyn, NY and is a proud daughter of immigrant parents from the Dominican Republic. D has two cats, loves to cross stitch in her spare time, and makes a mean tres leches. Joy Ingram is a Community Empowerment Facilitator striving to promote healing and wholeness for those who have been beat up by life, especially black women. A staunch advocate of self-awareness and love, she is constantly crusading to help people plant love and grow joy in all aspects of their lives. When not working she's probably on the beach somewhere sipping coffee or wine and reading a good book. Contact Joy at joydingram@gmail.com. Juli (she/her) is a radical social worker with 15 years of experience working in the anti-violence field, with a focus on human trafficking. She started her career working in fundraising and development at a small nonprofit. Upon finishing her master’s degree in social work at Fordham University Graduate School of Social Service, she worked in direct services with survivors of human trafficking in New York City. Before leaving the anti-violence field, Juli worked in curriculum development, training and education on trauma and resilience, and supporting crisis workers in workplace wellness and secondary trauma. Juli is fueled by community care and liberation. More from the We Deserve Better Project * We Deserve Better Project website * Get Involved with the WDBP If you’re interested in being a guest on the podcast to share your experiences in the anti-violence field and/or your visions for a better future, email wedeservebetterproject@gmail.com with the subject line, “Podcast Guest” Did this episode inspire you to donate to continue the work of the We Deserve Better Project? When you give to the We Deserve Better Project, you’re fueling a movement for worker rights and survivor justice. Your support keeps our website alive, helps us share our vision through outreach materials, and provides the tools we need to connect with more anti-violence workers. Show Credits Host: Steph Klotz Guests: D, Joy Ingram, and Juli Producers: We Deserve Better Project team Editors: Steph Klotz Graphic Designers: Merlin Paton-Usry & Jackie Strohm Social Media Manager: Jackie Strohm Music: Breathe In by Sappheiros This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit wedeservebetterproject.substack.com