The Thing Is..

Tatayanna Spry
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The Thing Is… is your unfiltered group chat in podcast form. No scripts, no sugarcoating just real talk about love, friendship, hot takes, and the stuff everyone’s thinking but not always saying. Every episode starts with a “the thing is…” moment and we go there. Join us for honest convos, laughs, and a little chaos. New episodes weekly. Come for the opinions, stay for the side-eyes.

  1. The Thing Is.. People Love Access, Not Accountability

    10/22/2025

    The Thing Is.. People Love Access, Not Accountability

    This week on The Thing Is…, we’re getting real about a truth many of us avoid , some people don’t actually love you; they love their access to you. They love your energy, your peace, your effort… but not the boundaries that protect them. In this episode, Tatayanna dives into the difference between connection and convenience ..how to recognize when people show up only when it benefits them, and how to stop confusing availability with loyalty. We’re talking boundaries, emotional maturity, and what accountability really looks like in relationships, friendships, and even family dynamics. Because protecting your peace isn’t punishment ..it’s self-respect. Tune in to The Thing Is… on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and Amazon Music for your weekly dose of reflection, healing, and soft girl honesty.

    11 min
  2. The Thing Is... People Don't Love You, They love the Idea of You

    10/15/2025

    The Thing Is... People Don't Love You, They love the Idea of You

    This week on The Thing Is… we’re unpacking a truth most of us have felt but rarely admit ..sometimes, people don’t fall in love with you. They fall for the version of you that serves them, the calm you, the healed you, the one who fits their fantasy but not your reality. We discuss what it’s like to be loved for your potential, not your presence, and how to recognize when connection turns into projection. From romantic relationships to friendships and even family dynamics, this episode. It’s time to stop performing for love and start standing in your truth because the real you deserve to be chosen, not curated.

    13 min
  3. Boundaries Are Love Too

    10/08/2025

    Boundaries Are Love Too

    Boundaries are often misunderstood as rejection, distance, or punishment but the truth is, boundaries are love too. In this episode, we unpack how boundaries are actually an act of self-respect, a reflection of self-love, and a gift to the people around us. From relationships to friendships to work, saying “no” isn’t selfish—it’s clarity. Boundaries protect our peace, preserve our energy, and prevent resentment from building. They show us where love can thrive without turning into obligation. Listen in as we talk through: Why boundaries are necessary for healthy relationships How to see boundaries as self-love in action The difference between rejection and clarity'18Real-life examples of boundaries that protect both you and others If you’ve ever struggled with guilt around saying no or worried that boundaries would push people away, this conversation will remind you: the right people will respect your limits and those limits will make space for deeper connection.

    12 min
  4. The Truth About Putting Yourself First

    10/01/2025

    The Truth About Putting Yourself First

    This week on The Thing About Love, we’re unpacking the real cost and reward of putting yourself first. It doesn’t always look pretty. Choosing yourself can feel selfish, lonely, or even wrong at first. You may lose people, face guilt, or be misunderstood. But here’s the truth: protecting your peace and setting boundaries is the only way to stop abandoning yourself. In this episode, I share the hard truths, the emotional challenges, and the freedom that comes with choosing peace over approval. Because the glow-up isn’t just external, it begins when you finally prioritize yourself.

    17 min
  5. The Thing About Love: What If It's Not Supposed to Last Forever

    09/24/2025

    The Thing About Love: What If It's Not Supposed to Last Forever

    We grow up believing that real love is supposed to last forever — but what if it’s not? In this raw and reflective episode of The Thing Is…, Tatayanna unpacks the myth of “forever love” and explores what it means when love ends. From the unshakable bond of family to the fleeting beauty of romantic and platonic relationships, this conversation dives into the idea that love doesn’t have to be endless to be real. Some love stays for a lifetime. Some love teaches us in a season. All love leaves a mark. ✨ Tune in as we ask: Does love have to last forever to matter?

    18 min
  6. The Thing About Hope

    09/18/2025

    The Thing About Hope

    Hope is tricky... it’s the thing that keeps us going when everything feels heavy, but it can also feel fragile, almost out of reach, when life gets too real. In this episode, I’m unpacking what hope actually means in our everyday lives, why we cling to it even when the odds are stacked against us, and how small sparks of hope can grow into something that changes everything. If you’ve been feeling like you’re running on empty, this one’s a reminder: hope doesn’t have to be big, loud, or flashy. Sometimes, it’s just the quiet belief that tomorrow might feel a little lighter than today.

    3 min
  7. The Thing About Hope **Minisode Monday**

    09/15/2025

    The Thing About Hope **Minisode Monday**

    Hope doesn’t always come in big, bright bursts sometimes it’s just a tiny flicker. In this mini Monday episode, I share how even the smallest spark can carry us through the hardest moments. Tune in for encouragement, perspective, and a reminder that you are enough.

    1 min
  8. The Thing about Carrying What We Don't See

    09/10/2025

    The Thing about Carrying What We Don't See

    We carry so much in silence ,the pain we don’t admit, the struggles we hide, the feelings we stuff down just to get through the day. But silence gets heavy. In this episode, I’m talking about the cost of holding it all in, why we’re so quick to say “I’m fine” when we’re not, and how finding the courage to speak up can literally save our lives. If you’ve been carrying too much on your own, this one’s for you. You’re not a burden, and you don’t have to do it alone.

    3 min
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The Thing Is… is your unfiltered group chat in podcast form. No scripts, no sugarcoating just real talk about love, friendship, hot takes, and the stuff everyone’s thinking but not always saying. Every episode starts with a “the thing is…” moment and we go there. Join us for honest convos, laughs, and a little chaos. New episodes weekly. Come for the opinions, stay for the side-eyes.

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  • Creator
    Tatayanna Spry
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  • Episodes
    15
  • Rating
    Explicit
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    © Tatayanna Spry
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