Now That I'm Here

Mandy Wecksten
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Now That I’m Here is a podcast about figuring life out in your late 20s — especially when you’re building that life far from home. Hosted by Mandy Wecksten, a Texan living in Finland, this show explores the messy in-between of growing up: shifting timelines, identity, relationships, mental health, and the big question of where (and how) you actually want to live. It’s not about having the answers — it’s about learning to build a life that actually feels like yours. INSTAGRAM: @mandywecksten YOUTUBE: @mandywecksten

  1. 12/11/2025

    Maybe This Is What Your 20s Are Actually For

    This week I’m talking about something I keep bumping into in my late 20s: the difference between doing things because you should… and doing things that actually fit the season you’re in. Somewhere along the way I realized that growing up isn’t just about trying new things — it’s about noticing what works for you right now, what doesn’t, and letting yourself shift without feeling like a failure. So that’s what today’s episode explores: honoring your energy, listening to yourself, and giving things permission to be “for now” instead of forever. And yes, I’m taking a little break from the podcast while I’m in Texas — we’ll see what happens next. But for now, here’s a end-of-season reflection on the weird, fun, figuring-it-out stage of your 20s. (Music Prod. credit to Matt Monroe)IG/TikTok: @mandywecksten YouTube: @mandywecksten

    20 min

  2. 12/04/2025

    Holidays hit different when you live abroad

    This year, we hosted our first real Thanksgiving in Finland — and it made me realize how holidays hit completely differently when you live abroad. In today’s episode, I’m talking about what it feels like to rebuild traditions from scratch, the emotional whiplash of being far from home during the holidays, and how adulthood shows up in the smallest moments… like trying to buy canned pumpkin in a country that doesn’t even celebrate Thanksgiving. If you’re navigating holidays in your late 20s, figuring out who you are while building a life far away from where you started — this one’s for you. (Music Prod. credit to Matt Monroe)INSTAGRAM/TIKTOK: @mandywecksten YOUTUBE: @mandywecksten

    19 min

  3. 11/20/2025

    The Places I Swear I’ll Go (But Somehow Don’t)

    This episode is about the funny little pattern we all fall into: saying “we should do that sometime” and then never actually doing it. My Something New challenge has been forcing me out of my usual routines, and it’s made me realize how many things I’ve been putting off for no real reason. I talk about a few places I finally checked off my list, why it’s so easy to get stuck in autopilot, and what this month of trying new things is showing me about how I actually spend my time. (Music Prod. credit to Matt Monroe)INSTAGRAM/TIKTOK: @mandywecksten YOUTUBE: @mandywecksten

    20 min

  4. 11/06/2025

    Planning Instead of Doing (& the pressure to be sure)

    I spent most of October doing what I do best: planning. Planning my content, my systems, my routines... basically everything except actually doing the things. In this quick episode, I’m talking about that habit of planning instead of doing — and how it’s really just another way of trying to feel sure before you start. Because let’s be honest, half of your 20s is just pretending to have a plan while you figure it out in real time. (Music Prod. credit to Matt Monroe)INSTAGRAM/TIKTOK: @mandywecksten YOUTUBE: @mandywecksten

    10 min

  5. 10/30/2025

    When the Darkness Hits

    The clocks changed this week, and suddenly it’s dark before dinner. My body feels off, my energy’s weird, and I caught myself not leaving the apartment till 6 p.m. — classic start-of-winter behavior.😅 In this episode, I’m talking about what it’s like when the darkness hits — growing up somewhere where the sun sticks around, moving to places where it doesn’t, and realizing you can’t just out-fight the season. This episode is a lot of real talk about learning to live with slower seasons (both the weather kind and the emotional kind). (Music Prod. credit to Matt Monroe)INSTAGRAM/TIKTOK: @mandywecksten YOUTUBE: @mandywecksten

    20 min

  6. 10/23/2025

    A little reset

    Ten episodes in — and I wanted to take a step back. In this episode, I’m talking about the creative side of “figuring it out.” How career uncertainty, content overwhelm, and constant comparison can make you want to quit — and what happens when you don’t. It’s a look behind the scenes of my own creative process, how I’ve been rethinking this podcast, and what’s next for Now That I’m Here. If you’ve ever hit a point where you love what you’re doing but don’t know how to keep doing it — this one’s for you. (Music Prod. credit to Matt Monroe) INSTAGRAM/TIKTOK: @mandyweckstenYOUTUBE: @mandywecksten

    16 min

  7. 10/16/2025

    When Home Is in Two Places (and Learning Not to Spiral About It)

    When you love two places but can’t live in both — cue the overthinking. In this short episode, I’m talking about that expat in-between: missing one home while trying to be present in the other, figuring out who you are in both, and learning to just be where you are for now. For anyone living between countries, identities, or versions of themselves — this one’s for you. (Music Prod. credit to Matt Monroe)INSTAGRAM/TIKTOK: @mandyweckstenYOUTUBE: @mandywecksten

    15 min

  8. 10/09/2025

    Am I Supposed to Have a Career by Now?

    So… I just got laid off. Which means I suddenly have a lot more time to think about what I actually want to do with my life. And honestly? It’s kind of.. exciting. In this episode, I’m talking about careers (or whatever that means in your late 20s), what it’s like to lose the structure you had, and how I’m trying to see this new season as a reset instead of a setback. If you’ve ever questioned your career path, wondered what’s next, or just realized you’re not where you thought you’d be — this one’s for you. (Music Prod. credit to Matt Monroe) INSTAGRAM/TIKTOK: @mandywecksten YOUTUBE: @mandywecksten

    32 min
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Now That I’m Here is a podcast about figuring life out in your late 20s — especially when you’re building that life far from home. Hosted by Mandy Wecksten, a Texan living in Finland, this show explores the messy in-between of growing up: shifting timelines, identity, relationships, mental health, and the big question of where (and how) you actually want to live. It’s not about having the answers — it’s about learning to build a life that actually feels like yours. INSTAGRAM: @mandywecksten YOUTUBE: @mandywecksten

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  • Creator
    Mandy Wecksten
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  • Episodes
    15
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