The Men's Roundtable Series

Yusef Marshall (Mista Yu)
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Every Thursday at 7pm EST, “The Men’s Roundtable Series” is a global conversation space where men come together to address real issues—identity, pressure, relationships, purpose, and personal struggles—in an environment built on honesty and growth. Through open dialogue and shared experience, the goal is RESTORATION—mentally, emotionally, and spiritually. NEW Every Thursday!!!!! Alongside the roundtable, “The Men’s Interview Spotlight” features one-on-one conversations with men who have overcome the father wound, broken through the need for validation, and redefined how they see themselves and the world. These aren’t just stories—they’re blueprints for healing and growth.Here's where you can book that one-on-one interview or if you'd like to be considered as a future panelist on the show: 🔗 Men’s Roundtable Series: https://calendly.com/yusefmichaelmarshall/themrts 

  1. 5h ago

    The MRTS: The Man With Nothing To Prove / Breaking Free From The Invisible Report Card

    Welcome back to the Men’s Roundtable Series Podcast - I’m your host Mista Yu. Normally, we’ve got a panel of voices here hashing things out all things men. But today, it’s just you and I. we need to talk about something heavy that doesn't get spoken about enough in men's spaces and of course, I’ll be fielding your questions and comments tonight:  We’re talking The exhaustion of carrying an invisible report card. You spend your whole life stacking wins, building status, and proving to the world that you're dependable, intelligent, and strong. But what happens when the dust settles and the noise stops? Are you living out your true values, or are you just addicted to the applause? If your entire worth is tied to your output, you aren't leading your life—you're hostage to it. Today’s conversation isn't about killing your drive; it's about building an internal armor that stays rock-solid even in the seasons where you have nothing to show for your efforts. What happens when a man no longer needs to prove that he is somebody? In this episode of the Men’s Roundtable Series, we examine the difference between ambition and validation, achievement and identity, and confidence and the constant need for recognition. We will explore how the pursuit of approval can quietly shape our decisions, strain our relationships, and cause us to neglect the very things that make life meaningful. This is a conversation about becoming secure enough to grow, humble enough to learn, and intentional enough to live by conviction rather than applause. Follow us on FB, Youtube, and wherever you get your podcasts! Support the show

  2. 9h ago

    The MRTS Spotlight - Stop Fixing, Start Listening: The Marriage Problem Men Don't See

    Many men bring solutions to a conversation where their wife wanted presence. Understanding is a form of leadership. Scripture anchor: James 1:19; Proverbs 18:13; 1 Peter 3:7 Listener takeaway: Listening well is not passive. It is one of the strongest things a husband can do. Episode description Sometimes the most helpful thing a man can do is stop being helpful. In this solo episode, Mista Yu tackles a marriage problem most men don't see: jumping to solutions when someone just wants to be heard. Fixing feels like love, but it can quietly tell the people closest to us that their experience is a task to close. Drawing on Proverbs 18:13, James 1:19, and 1 Peter 3:7, this episode looks at what it costs your wife, your closeness, and your children when listening gets skipped, and gives four practical habits for becoming a husband who understands. Whether you're married, dating, or leading others, this skill changes your relationships. IN THIS EPISODE Why problem-solvers struggle to listen at homeThe quiet cost of fixing: to her, to you, and to your kidsWhat Scripture says about hearing before answeringFour habits: ask what she needs, reflect, ask one more question, and give full attentionHear first. Answer second. Support the show

  3. 11h ago

    MRTS Spotlight - Under Pressure: The Four Moves That Keep Men From Breaking | Scott Sadler

    Pressure doesn’t ask permission. It shows up in marriage. Fatherhood. Leadership. Business. Caregiving. Betrayal. Loss. Responsibility. And when it does, the question isn’t simply whether you’re strong enough to handle it. The question is: Who takes control when the pressure hits? Scott Sadler is a Leadership Performance Architect, executive coach, keynote speaker, and author of Elevate Under Pressure: The Pressure Performance System for Leaders Who Refuse to Break. Drawing from his experiences as a business owner, Chief People Officer, ultramarathon runner, mountaineer, husband, caregiver, and leader, Scott has developed the Pressure Performance System™: Regulate. Reframe. Decide. Execute. In this MRTS Spotlight conversation, we’re going beyond leadership theory and talking about the pressure men actually experience—and what happens when that pressure begins affecting the way we think, lead, communicate, and show up for the people who depend on us. We’ll explore: Why pressure can hijack our decision-makingThe difference between regulating and simply pushing throughThe Controller, Avoider, Reactor, and DisconnectorWhy capable men can still fracture under pressureThe “execution gap” between knowing and doingMaking difficult decisions when identity is involvedWhat betrayal can teach us about trust and resilienceHow caregiving changes our understanding of strengthStaying present when people are counting on you The Bigger Question When pressure strips away the image we have of ourselves, who are we actually becoming—and how do we choose our response when everything around us is demanding one? Pressure will eventually find every man. The question isn’t whether we’ll face it. It’s whether we’ll allow pressure to dictate our decisions—or learn how to become more grounded, intentional, and disciplined in the middle of it. If this episode resonates with you….. Share it with a man who is carrying more than people realize. Take Scott’s free Pressure Performance Snapshot™ to discover where you stand under pressure: https://www.elevateunderpressure.com/pressure-profile And make sure you subscribe to The MRTS on YouTube and wherever you listen to podcasts. If you have a topic you’d like to see us explore, send me a message. And remember… The difference between who you are and who you could be is found in what you do every single day. Support the show

    MRTS Spotlight - Under Pressure: The Four Moves That Keep Men From Breaking | Scott Sadler

  4. Oct 30

    The Men's Roundtable Series Podcast - "After the Applause — Who Are You When the Moment Is Over?"

    MEN’S ROUNDTABLE SERIES After the Applause — Who Are You When the Moment Is Over? What happens when the applause fades, the recognition stops, and the moment that once defined you is over? Who are you when nobody is watching? In this episode of the Men’s Roundtable Series, we explore the relationship between achievement, identity, fulfillment, and purpose. We’ll examine why men sometimes attach their worth to what they accomplish, the recognition they receive, or the roles they occupy—and what happens when those things no longer provide the satisfaction they expected. This is a conversation about looking beyond the spotlight and asking deeper questions about who we are, what truly fulfills us, and whether the lives we are building reflect what matters most. Because success and significance are not always the same thing. And sometimes, the most important measure of a man isn't what happens when everyone is watching, but who he is when the moment is over. The question is simple: When the applause stops, what remains? Support the show

  5. Oct 29

    The MRTS Spotlight: The Burden of the Crown: What Men Carry in Silence

    Gentlemen, welcome to The Men's Spotlight. I'm Mista Yu, and this one is just you and me. No panel, no performance. We're going to put a light on something real, something a lot of men carry quietly. I'll tell you what the problem is, who it affects, why it matters, and then we'll talk about what to do. If you're a man, this is for you. If you love one, listen in. Let's get into it. “What happens when the man everybody depends on doesn’t know where he’s supposed to put his own weight?” Core Premise Men are often taught how to carry responsibility, but not necessarily how to process what responsibility does to them. Provider. Protector. Husband. Father. Leader. Problem solver. Strong one. Reliable one. But who is he allowed to be when he doesn’t have the answer? Support the show

    The MRTS Spotlight: The Burden of the Crown: What Men Carry in Silence

  6. Oct 23

    The Men's Roundtable Series: The Man at the Crossroads — When Life Forces a Decision

    THE MEN'S ROUNDTABLE SERIES — OCTOBER Topic 4: The Man at the Crossroads — When Life Forces a Decision Staying costs you. Leaving carries a heavy price. And the hardest part isn't knowing change is necessary—it's moving forward when you don't yet know what comes next. Tonight, we’re stepping into the crossroads. Core discussion question: How do you find the courage to make a decision without knowing how it will turn out? CORE IDEA There are moments when a man's life cannot continue as it has. Not burnout. Not habits. Decision. Sometimes the life you've built, the goals you've pursued, or the identity you've carried no longer aligns with the man you're becoming. You may know something has to change without knowing what should come next. You may recognize that staying is costing you, while leaving comes with its own consequences. This conversation creates space for men to share the personal crossroads that challenged their identity, tested their faith, disrupted their plans, and forced them to decide what came next. The challenge isn't always recognizing that change is necessary. Sometimes it's finding the courage to act when certainty is unavailable, the outcome is unclear, and the decision belongs to you. Core discussion question: What do you do when you know something in your life has to change, but you don't know what comes next—and how do you find the courage to make a decision without knowing how it will turn out? CLOSING THOUGHT A crossroads doesn't always mean you've lost your way. Sometimes it means you're being asked to choose a new direction. Not every change is progress, and not every decision to stay is fear. Sometimes the right choice requires patience, repair, and renewed commitment. Other times, it requires honesty, courage, and the willingness to leave behind what no longer fits. The challenge is learning to recognize the difference. A man cannot always control the circumstances that bring him to a crossroads. But he must take responsibility for how he responds to them. He cannot always guarantee the outcome, eliminate the risk, or satisfy everyone affected by his decision. Sometimes the next chapter of a man's life begins when he stops asking how to preserve the life he built and starts asking what the man he is becoming needs to do next. Support the show

  7. Oct 22

    ****BLAST FROM THE PAST****The MRTS: "Love vs. Respect - What Men Really Crave From Relationships"

    Caption: The hardest battle a man fights isn't out in the world—it’s letting his guard down at home. 🛡️💔 In this authentic Roundtable throwback, our panel digs deep into why men struggle with emotional connection, building deep male friendships, and opening up in relationships. When past hurts lead to thick armor, vulnerability starts to feel like handing someone a weapon to use against you. But real strength requires tearing down those walls. 💡 Fresh Insights: Respect vs. Love: Men often process connection through the lens of respect rather than love. Misunderstanding this dynamic creates massive friction in relationships—learning to listen without defensiveness is where true healing begins.Slaying the Core Lie: "I am not enough." This single hidden belief fuels inadequacy, drives performance obsession, and sabotages intimacy. Replacing this lie with truth changes everything.Overcoming Father Wounds: Abandonment or absent father figures leave deep scars, but past wounds do not have to dictate your future capacity as a leader, husband, or friend.Intentional Brotherhood: Deep friendships don't just happen by accident after 30. They require deliberate effort, clear boundaries, and shared values.🤝 Take action today: Don't let this podcast just be noise in your headphones. Reach out to a brother, start a monthly group, or reach out to someone you haven't checked on in a while. Local brotherhood changes lives. 💬 What’s one area where you’re working on letting your guard down? Let us know in the comments below! Support the show

  8. Oct 22

    The MRTS Spotlight - When Providing Becomes Hiding/Provision Ain't Presence!

    “Some men aren’t hiding behind silence. They’re hiding behind responsibility.” A man can genuinely provide for his family while using provision to avoid other responsibilities: Emotional presence Communication Vulnerability Intimacy Parenting Spiritual leadership Accountability Opening Thought: “I’m going to say something that may make some of us uncomfortable: paying the bills isn’t the same thing as showing up.” Then immediately clarify: Providing matters. But: Provision isn’t the entire assignment. Support the show

    The MRTS Spotlight - When Providing Becomes Hiding/Provision Ain't Presence!
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Every Thursday at 7pm EST, “The Men’s Roundtable Series” is a global conversation space where men come together to address real issues—identity, pressure, relationships, purpose, and personal struggles—in an environment built on honesty and growth. Through open dialogue and shared experience, the goal is RESTORATION—mentally, emotionally, and spiritually. NEW Every Thursday!!!!! Alongside the roundtable, “The Men’s Interview Spotlight” features one-on-one conversations with men who have overcome the father wound, broken through the need for validation, and redefined how they see themselves and the world. These aren’t just stories—they’re blueprints for healing and growth.Here's where you can book that one-on-one interview or if you'd like to be considered as a future panelist on the show: 🔗 Men’s Roundtable Series: https://calendly.com/yusefmichaelmarshall/themrts 

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  • Creator
    Yusef Marshall (Mista Yu)
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    90
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © 2026 The Men's Roundtable Series
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