WAIT, HEAR ME OUT...

Tobenna

"Wait, Hear Me Out" is that space where wild-sounding thoughts actually make sense—once you let me finish 😅. From personal stories to real-life moments we often overlook, especially as young Nigerians, this podcast dives into the little things that quietly shape our lives. It's honest, relatable, and sometimes a bit off-track—but always worth the listen.

Episodes

  1. 08/22/2025

    Can we beat dress stereotyping in Nigeria?

    They say you’re addressed the way you dress. In Nigeria, agbada might earn you instant respect while ripped jeans get you side-eyes 😂. Clothes don’t just cover us, they introduce us, sometimes even telling your whole story before you speak. Is that fair, or just reality? Join me as we unpack Nigeria’s dress stereotypes.

    15 min

  2. 08/13/2025 ·  Bonus

    The Love Doctor

    This episode uses a simple conversation between siblings to send an important message on Nigeria's misconceptions about the word LOVE. Hope you get the message and also enjoy it. Happy listening.

    5 min

  3. 08/08/2025

    We need to be more Selfish.

    What if being selfish is actually the key to living better, loving deeper, and giving more? In this mind-bending episode, we flip the script on everything you thought you knew about selfishness. From redefining "self" to exposing the hidden motives behind so-called selfless acts. This one will challenge your perspective in the best way possible. Tap in and get ready to think different.

    11 min

  4. 07/04/2025

    Growing Up, Growing Apart: The Friends You Outgrow.

    Some friendships age like wine. Others? Like milk. Let’s talk about the ones that went sour. I’m diving into why we outgrow friendships, how to spot it, and why it’s not a crisis; instead, it's growth. This episode is honest, funny, and way too relatable.

    9 min

  5. 06/20/2025

    Why Are We So Scared of Boredom?

    Ever feel uneasy the moment things go quiet? You’re not alone. In this episode, we dig into why boredom makes us so uncomfortable. From the endless scroll to our fear of stillness and how that fear is shaping the way we think, feel, and live. What if boredom isn’t the enemy, but a hidden doorway to creativity, clarity, and even self-discovery? Let’s talk about what happens when we stop running from the silence.

    7 min

  6. 06/13/2025

    Are We Losing Ourselves in the Talking Stage?

    Picture this: you’ve been texting and “liking” each other’s stories for months, and it finally feels like you’re an official couple. Then reality hits – it’s more like an Owambe buffet of confusion. As one social commentator put it, the road from “we exchanged numbers” to “we’re officially an item” in these days is like “a Lagos inner-city road, riddled with potholes of unspoken rules, speed bumps of subtle hints…” Join me on this episode as we try to unravel the hidden truths of this current day "talking stage".

    13 min

  7. 06/06/2025

    Does Childhood Trauma Shape Our Adult Selves? | Part 2

    Choosing our real self is the first step to dealing with childhood trauma. This episode tells more jaw dropping stories on childhood trauma but also tries to sensitize us on how to heal from it, if only you can wait and hear me out 😊.

    13 min

  8. Trailer

    Podcast Intro

    Why is this podcast named "WAIT, HERE ME OUT"? What made me start this podcast? And what should you expect?

    2 min

  9. 06/02/2025

    Does Childhood Trauma Shape Our Adult Selves?

    A greater percentage of Nigerian adults suffer from the aftermaths of thier childhood trauma and an even greater percentage does nothing about it. Hear Me Out on today's episode as I will be sharing real-life stories, including mine, on childhood trauma and using them to share my thoughts about it.

    18 min

Trailer

About

"Wait, Hear Me Out" is that space where wild-sounding thoughts actually make sense—once you let me finish 😅. From personal stories to real-life moments we often overlook, especially as young Nigerians, this podcast dives into the little things that quietly shape our lives. It's honest, relatable, and sometimes a bit off-track—but always worth the listen.

Information

  • Creator
    Tobenna
  • Years Active
    2K
  • Episodes
    9
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © Tobenna
  • Show Website
    WAIT, HEAR ME OUT...