Chat By The Pitch

Ian Babcock

Welcome to Chat By The Pitch — the soccer podcast that goes beyond the game. Hosted by Ian Babcock, Chat By The Pitch is built around real conversations with the people shaping soccer from every angle — coaches, players, parents, club leaders, educators, entrepreneurs, analysts, and innovators. This isn’t a highlight show and it isn’t built around hot takes. It’s about the stories, lessons, challenges, and experiences that actually define the modern game. Whether you’re a parent trying to better understand youth soccer, a coach looking to grow, a player chasing the next level, or simply someone passionate about the sport, Chat By The Pitch gives you honest, long-form conversations that dig deeper than surface-level opinions. Every episode explores what really happens behind the scenes: • The realities of youth soccer culture • Coaching philosophy and player development • Leadership and communication • Parenting athletes in today’s environment • The mental side of competition • Building healthy club culture • Technology changing the game • The pathway from grassroots to elite levels • Mistakes, lessons, and success stories from people living the game every day Guests range from grassroots coaches and academy directors to former professional players, educators, authors, performance specialists, and creators working to improve soccer at every level. Some episodes focus on tactics and development. Others focus on leadership, culture, parenting, business, and the human side of sports. What makes Chat By The Pitch different is the conversation style. These are not rushed interviews with canned answers. Ian approaches each episode as a passionate soccer parent, coach, and student of the game, creating open discussions that feel authentic, relatable, and educational. The goal is to ask the questions many people in soccer are already thinking about — but rarely hear discussed honestly. Listeners come to Chat By The Pitch for: • Real conversations instead of scripted interviews • Practical insights coaches and parents can actually use • Different perspectives from across the soccer world • Stories that inspire growth on and off the field • Honest discussions about the challenges in youth sports • A deeper understanding of player development and leadership If you care about soccer beyond the scoreboard — the people, the process, the culture, and the future of the game — this podcast is for you. New episodes released regularly. Connect with Chat By The Pitch on social media and join the conversation happening around the game we all love.

  1. 14h ago

    From Houston to Denmark: The Cappis Family on Christian Cappis’ Path to Pro

    Turning down MLS. Walking away from an SMU scholarship. A trial at Bayern. Jay and Carey Cappis share how Christian Cappis bet on development — and won. In Part 2 of this conversation, the Cappis family walks Ian Babcock through Christian’s player pathway from club soccer in Houston to the professional game in Europe: captaining a national-champion FC Dallas Academy side, youth national team call-ups, an MLS rights battle between Houston and Dallas, and the decision to start at the bottom of the Danish Superliga instead — because development beats badges, free boots, and even bigger money. Jay and Carey get honest about the hard parenting moments too: letting go when Christian moved to Dallas his senior year, the summer he came home with no prospects while his friends left for college, and the day he was deported from Denmark over a paperwork mistake. It ends with the advice every soccer parent needs to hear: it’s their journey, professional soccer is a business, and your job is to support with eyes wide open. Key Talking Points Why Christian turned down bigger clubs — he scouted their recruiting versus their developing and knew where he wouldn’t growFree boots, kits, and warmups are enticements, not development — how the family saw through the sales pitch“In charge from day one”: making his own decisions from a YMCA rejection at age two and a half through every club choice afterPlaying up with older kids, scoring the winning goal against the Texans, and how one bold team choice opened the next doorLetting go: the senior-year move to FC Dallas Academy — and living like a pro (groceries, laundry, driving to work) before ever signingYouth national team life: “Hey Dad, I’m going to Spain today”The MLS rights battle between Houston and Dallas — and why Christian took his chances in Denmark insteadWalking away from the SMU scholarship, the Bayern trial that almost happened, and the quiet summer where Christian never doubtedDeported from Denmark with 24 hours to leave — the life education no classroom offersPlayer identity beyond soccer: marriage, cooking with a Michelin chef, and advice for parents — it’s their journey, and pro soccer is a business Quotes from the Guests “He’s been in charge from day one.” — Jay Cappis“Everybody wants you until they see you.” — Jay Cappis“Your choice, your responsibility, your consequences — all the way across the board.” — Jay Cappis“He could basically tell you, ‘I will not develop there. They’re great at recruiting the top players, but they’re not great at developing them.’” — Jay Cappis“He very calmly just kinda looks at me, and he’s like, ‘It’s okay. Don’t worry. We got this.’ He never doubted.” — Carey Cappis“You have a finite shelf life as an athlete... You can go back to college anytime.” — Jay Cappis“You’re on a journey with that child. It is not your journey. That is theirs to live.” — Jay Cappis“Professional athletics is a business... They will do what’s best for the club, and if that means it’s not good for you, that is not their problem.” — Jay Cappis“We never really set out with the goal of getting a college scholarship or even the goal of him being pro... it was more of just, well, what’s next?” — Carey Cappis“I’m not so much proud as I am pleased. He had a vision of what he wanted to do, and he pursued it.” — Jay Cappis Connect with the Cappis Family 📸 Instagram: cappis_property_group 📸 Instagram: jcappis Follow Chat By The Pitch 🌐 Website: chatbythepitch.com 🎥 YouTube: Chat By The Pitch 📸 Instagram: @ChatByThePitch 🎵 TikTok: Chat.By.The.Pitch ✖️ X / Twitter: @ChatByThePitch 📘 Facebook: Chat By The Pitch 🎧 Spotify: Chat By The Pitch 🍎 Apple Podcasts: Chat By The Pitch 🎧 Subscribe & Review: Your support helps us keep bringing conversations with players, coaches, and leaders that matter. #ChatByThePitch #YouthSoccer #SoccerParenting #PlayerDevelopment #ChristianCappis #CappisFamily #SoccerParents #DevelopmentOverWinning #ProPathway #USMNT #ClubSoccer #SoccerPodcast #YouthSports #GrassrootsSoccer #NorthTexasSoccer #PlayingAbroad

    From Houston to Denmark: The Cappis Family on Christian Cappis’ Path to Pro
  2. Aug 6

    The Cappis Family: How Soccer Parents Raise a Pro Without Pushing

    What does it actually take to raise a professional soccer player — without pushing? Jay and Carey Cappis, parents of U.S. pro Christian Cappis, open up the family playbook. In Part 1 of this two-part conversation, Ian Babcock sits down with the Cappis family to talk soccer parenting and youth soccer player development from the very beginning: a toddler with a ball glued to his foot, a kid so competitive he challenged the neighborhood to a foot race in his sleep, and parents who made one rule non-negotiable — it’s his journey, not theirs. Jay and Carey share how they evaluated clubs and coaches (including interviewing a club director before joining Texans Soccer Club), why development beats winning at every age, and how a family of six divided and conquered life in Houston — from parenting in the front seat of the car to a university model school that gave them their family time back. If you’re a soccer parent wondering how to support your player without being that parent, this one’s for you. Key Talking Points Raising four very different kids — and letting each one find their own sport and pathChristian the early bloomer: walking at nine months, kicking a ball at his first birthday, and sleepwalking down the street at 6:00 AM looking for a foot raceHow Jay made sure soccer stayed Christian’s passion — including forcing breaks to prove he played because he wanted to, not because Dad was aroundLetting the child drive the journey instead of pushing it — and the school decision Christian made himself to chase the youth national team“Development is your A number one job” — the family standard at every level of playHow to vet a youth soccer coach: watch multiple games, look for week-to-week improvement, and check who actually gets on the fieldWhy the Texans Soccer Club culture of development over early-season results produced pros like Christian Cappis and Chris RichardsDivide and conquer: managing four kids’ activities across a huge city, one activity per child, and parenting from the front seat of the carTurning long drives to training into relationship-building conversations — and knowing when your player just needs the radioThe trust that paid off: why Christian’s first call was to his dad when Danish immigration showed up at the club Quotes from the Guests “He was so competitive, even when he was sleepwalking, he was going down the street going, ‘Hey, you wanna have a foot race?’” — Jay Cappis“I really honestly believe he probably could have been a professional at whatever sport he chose.” — Carey Cappis“It was his passion, and he couldn’t go three days without getting his foot on a ball.” — Jay Cappis“Development is your A number one job, no matter what level you’re at.” — Jay Cappis“It’s incredibly difficult to know what you’re getting with any particular coach until you get some hands-on experience with them.” — Jay Cappis“I don’t really care as a parent whether or not they are the best team in the league. What I care about is every week, do I see the team improving?” — Jay Cappis“I felt like I was parenting from the front seat of the car.” — Carey Cappis“It suddenly occurred to me that if we didn’t have that long drive, we would have never had this particular conversation.” — Jay Cappis“We didn’t get it right all the time... there’s lots of learning to go around for everybody in the family.” — Jay Cappis“We did our best to make sure every child had a parent.” — Carey Cappis Connect with the Cappis Family 📸 Instagram: cappis_property_group 📸 Instagram: jcappis Follow Chat By The Pitch 🌐 Website: chatbythepitch.com 🎥 YouTube: Chat By The Pitch 📸 Instagram: @ChatByThePitch 🎵 TikTok: Chat.By.The.Pitch ✖️ X / Twitter: @ChatByThePitch 📘 Facebook: Chat By The Pitch 🎧 Spotify: Chat By The Pitch 🍎 Apple Podcasts: Chat By The Pitch 🎧 Subscribe & Review: Your support helps us keep bringing conversations with players, coaches, and leaders that matter. #ChatByThePitch #YouthSoccer #SoccerParenting #PlayerDevelopment #ChristianCappis #CappisFamily #SoccerParents #DevelopmentOverWinning #ClubSoccer #YouthSports #SoccerPodcast #GrassrootsSoccer #NorthTexasSoccer #SoccerFamily #ParentEducation #YouthCoaching

    The Cappis Family: How Soccer Parents Raise a Pro Without Pushing
  3. Jul 30

    Why Pay-to-Play Youth Soccer Is Failing American Players with Alex Lubyansky

    Is pay-to-play youth soccer actually developing players — or just monetizing false hope? Alex Lubyansky says it's the latter, and he's building the proof. Alex is the General Manager and Head Coach of Detroit Metro FC, a completely free, senior-level football club run on the European model — on American soil. He's also an M&A attorney, an A-licensed coach, a former sporting director in Europe, a soccer parent, and an immigrant from Kyiv whose first ball came out of a trash can. In this conversation with host Ian Babcock, Alex breaks down why there's no real pyramid in American soccer, why 99.9% of kids belong in rec, and why free play — not expensive coaching — is what actually develops players. If you're a soccer parent wondering whether club soccer is worth it, a coach frustrated with the system, or anyone asking how to fix US soccer, this episode gives you a clear-eyed map of how the machine works — and a working model for what comes next. Rooted in North Texas, heard around the world. Key Talking PointsDetroit Metro FC's mission: a completely free, senior-level European model on American soil, built to reform US soccer from outside the systemWhy Alex says there is no real pyramid in American soccer — just a "circle" of pre-professional leagues, MLS included, that avoid playing each otherThe one honest test for any youth program: is a child being charged a subscription fee to participate? If yes, it's pay-to-play — no matter the badgeThe case that 99.9% of kids belong in recreational soccer, and why free play develops players faster than structured, expensive coachingHow the pay-to-play machine monetizes false hope — and why frustrated parents and coaches misunderstand what the system is actually built to doThe ID camp myth: why college rosters are filling with international players and what that means for American families chasing scholarshipsAlex's anti-nepotism rule: no owner, coach, or staff member's child is ever allowed to try out for Detroit Metro FCHow the club is funded: capital plus belief, an ROI model over a vanity play — and lessons from the Wrexham storyWhat real senior-level football looks like: open trials, honest cuts, and a merit-based roster spanning a 16-year-old to a 40-year-oldAlex's fix for the youth game: give the game back to the kids — pickup, free play, safe spaces, mixed ages, and parents over private trainers Quotes from Alex Lubyansky"If you can afford a used car, you can start Detroit Metro FC in DFW, and I'll tell you how.""A pyramid implies that there's a way to go up and go down. That's not possible in the US. It's a circle.""What we are doing as a country is the best monetization of false hope in the history of the planet.""Coaching does not develop players.""I think 99.9% of kids in this country belong in recreational soccer.""Parents are way more important than coaches. Way more. It's not close.""Not making it is not a failure. Not trying is the failure.""You wanna fix youth soccer? Give the game back to the kids. Let them play pickup. Let them have fun.""I'm not selling you a franchise. I'm not asking you to invest in my league.""He never charged me. He wouldn't let me pay him if I offered for 900 days, and he turned me into a monster." Connect with Alex Lubyansky⚽ Club: Detroit Metro FC — free, senior-level football in Detroit, Michigan 🎥 YouTube: Alex mentions his YouTube channel in the episode — link to be confirmed before publishing Follow Chat By The Pitch🌐 Website: chatbythepitch.com 🎥 YouTube: Chat By The Pitch 📸 Instagram: @ChatByThePitch 🎵 TikTok: Chat.By.The.Pitch ✖️ X / Twitter: @ChatByThePitch 📘 Facebook: Chat By The Pitch 🎧 Spotify: Chat By The Pitch 🍎 Apple Podcasts: Chat By The Pitch 🎧 Subscribe & Review: Your support helps us keep bringing conversations with players, coaches, and leaders that matter. #ChatByThePitch #YouthSoccer #PlayerDevelopment #PayToPlay #FreePlay #SoccerParents #YouthSports #USSoccer #DetroitMetroFC #GrassrootsSoccer #SoccerCoaching #NorthTexasSoccer #SoccerPodcast #DevelopmentOverWinning #RecSoccer #EuropeanModel #SoccerCommunity #ClubSoccer #SoccerFamily #ProtectTheJoy

    Why Pay-to-Play Youth Soccer Is Failing American Players with Alex Lubyansky
  4. Jul 23

    From Small Club to D1: Jada Davis on Betting on Yourself in Youth Soccer

    She didn't commit to soccer until the summer before her junior year — and still earned a Division I scholarship from a small club no college coach was watching. Former NCAA Division I player Jada Davis joins Chat By The Pitch to break down youth soccer player development from both sides of the touchline. A multi-sport kid from the DFW Metroplex who bounced from karate to dance to basketball before soccer ever stuck, Jada shares how a competitive streak, ID camps, and pure hustle carried her from a small private club to Prairie View A&M — where she collected an offer from every other school in the conference first, just to prove a point. Now a youth coach in Dallas with a background in personal training and sports nutrition, Jada opens up about the injuries that cut her college career short, the unexpected path into coaching, and how she builds a player-led culture where even her eight-year-olds run their own warmups and hold each other accountable. She also digs into the psychology of coaching girls through the Girls Academy Credential of Coaching Excellence — why words land differently than we intend, and why culture has to be player-driven. If you're a soccer parent heading into tryout season, a young player wondering if your club is “big enough” for college, or a coach trying to balance development over winning, this conversation is for you. Jada's advice is simple: find a coach who cares about the person first — and never let the size of your club decide the size of your dream. Key Talking PointsA multi-sport childhood — karate, dance, basketball, volleyball, track, and cross-country — and how cross-training made her stronger and always in shape when she committed to soccerFalling in love with competing before falling in love with the sport, and why she didn't choose soccer until the summer before her junior year of high schoolPlaying for a small private club instead of a big-name academy — and how ID camps, game film, and self-advocacy got her in front of college coaches anywayChoosing Prairie View A&M: putting an HBCU at the top of her list, having no plan B, and earning an offer from every other school in the conference firstTwo season-ending foot fractures, the decision to play through the pain, and what she'd tell players facing the same choice todayThe unexpected call from TOCA that turned a personal trainer into a youth soccer coach — and why she almost said noBuilding a player-led culture with eight-year-olds: player-run warmups, accountability between teammates, and zero tolerance for negative talkThe Girls Academy Credential of Coaching Excellence: the psychology of coaching girls and why it doesn't matter what a coach means — it matters how players interpret itParent buy-in, over-communication, and the ongoing conversation about development versus winning at the youth levelHer tryout-season advice for families: find a coach who values the person before the athlete, and a club with real standards, culture, and a pathway Quotes from Jada Davis“I just like to compete. You could put Uno in front of me, and I'm probably gonna win nine out of 10 games.”“I don't think it matters what club you play on if you wanna play in college. You just have to make the effort yourself.”“She offered me the least, and I truly believed all I need is one season, and I was absolutely correct.”“I wanted to stick with something where I could just create my own path.”“I kinda steered away from coaching 'cause I was like, 'I don't wanna turn into the coaches that I hated.'”“It doesn't matter what we mean when we say it, it matters how they interpret it.”“It's their team. It's not my team. They're playing. I'm not playing.”“I don't care if you make mistakes as long as you fix them.”“You don't have respect for people when they don't care to get to know you.”“Sydney looked at me and she said, 'We got this.' It's something I live by. I think about it every day.” Connect with Jada Davis📸 Instagram: @CoachJadaDavis 📘 Facebook: CoachJadaDavis Follow Chat By The Pitch🌐 Website: chatbythepitch.com 🎥 YouTube: Chat By The Pitch 📸 Instagram: @ChatByThePitch 🎵 TikTok: Chat.By.The.Pitch ✖️ X / Twitter: @ChatByThePitch 📘 Facebook: Chat By The Pitch 🎧 Spotify: Chat By The Pitch 🍎 Apple Podcasts: Chat By The Pitch 🎧 Subscribe & Review: Your support helps us keep bringing conversations with players, coaches, and leaders that matter. #ChatByThePitch #YouthSoccer #PlayerDevelopment #SoccerParents #GirlsSoccer #YouthSports #SoccerCoach #CollegeSoccer #HBCU #PrairieViewAM #NorthTexasSoccer #DFWSoccer #ClubSoccer #DevelopmentOverWinning #MultiSportAthlete #CoachingGirls #SoccerCulture #TryoutSeason #SoccerJourney

    From Small Club to D1: Jada Davis on Betting on Yourself in Youth Soccer
  5. Jul 16

    Be Present, Not Behind the Phone: AI Sports Cameras XbotGo

    What if you could capture every second of your kid's game — and actually be present to watch it? That's the promise Gabriel Roxas brings to Chat By The Pitch. Gabriel, PR manager for AI sports camera company XbotGo, joins Ian Babcock to talk about making game-day videography accessible to every soccer family — not just the ones who can afford a videographer. They dig into how autonomous, ball-tracking cameras let parents put the phone down and stay in the moment, why owning your footage with no subscription matters, and how tools like the Falcon and Chameleon are lowering the cost of capturing youth sports. Ian shares his honest, hands-on experience running the Falcon at his own kids' matches — live streaming to family who couldn't make it, marking highlights on the fly, and learning the quirks along the way. Gabriel unpacks the company's mission to democratize videography, the new TeamSnap partnership, and why watching your child's game with your own eyes beats watching it through a screen. Whether you're a soccer parent, coach, or club leader trying to share the game with more people, this conversation is about protecting the joy of youth sports — and making sure no moment goes unrecorded. Key Talking PointsMaking game-day videography accessible and affordable for every soccer family — not just the ones who can hire a videographer.Why being present at your child's game matters more than capturing it through a phone screen.The difference between the all-in-one Falcon ($699) and the phone-cradling Chameleon ($329), and who each one is for.How autonomous, ball-tracking cameras free parents from full-time filming duty on the sideline.Owning your footage outright with no subscription fee — a deciding factor for a lot of families.Live streaming games so out-of-town relatives and busy parents never miss a match.Marking highlights on the fly and auto-generating clips right after the final whistle.The 'follow me' mode that keeps an individual player as the star of the coverage.The new XbotGo–TeamSnap partnership bringing streaming, scheduling, and communication into one ecosystem.Gabriel's path from TV journalism to PR — and why storytelling is really about clearing a path for families to tell their own game-day stories. Quotes from Gabriel Roxas“We were all about democratizing the experience of videography for sports.”“It's really about allowing the people on the sidelines to actually be present in the game.”“For a sports parent, it's actually letting them be present in their child's moment.”“If you're experiencing something through the lens, you're not experiencing it with your naked eye.”“What we're doing is we're making people's lives better through technology.”“You have to learn how to play before you can learn how to win.”“At the very youngest level, you have to let children find their own joy and their own love for the game.”“This is something where the parent gets to own the camera themselves — a hundred percent control over it.”“It's finding that sweet spot: quality, usability, accessibility, and a reasonable price point for everybody.”“You can just set it and forget it — and you get to watch the game.” Connect with Gabriel Rojas & XbotGo🌐 Website: xbotgo.com 🎥 YouTube: @XbotGo 📸 Instagram: xbotgo_official 🎵 TikTok: xbotgoofficial 📘 Facebook: xbotgo Follow Chat By The Pitch🌐 Website: chatbythepitch.com 🎥 YouTube: Chat By The Pitch 📸 Instagram: @ChatByThePitch 🎵 TikTok: Chat.By.The.Pitch ✖️ X / Twitter: @ChatByThePitch 📘 Facebook: Chat By The Pitch 🎧 Spotify: Chat By The Pitch 🍎 Apple Podcasts: Chat By The Pitch 🎧 Subscribe & Review: Your support helps us keep bringing conversations with players, coaches, and leaders that matter. #ChatByThePitch #YouthSoccer #SoccerParents #YouthSports #AISportsCamera #XbotGo #SportsTech #GameDay #SoccerDad #SoccerMom #PlayerDevelopment #GrassrootsSoccer #SoccerFamily #YouthDevelopment #SportsParenting #LiveStreamSports #TeamSnap #NorthTexasSoccer #BeInTheMoment #ProtectTheJoy

    Be Present, Not Behind the Phone: AI Sports Cameras XbotGo
  6. Jul 9

    Hanna Barker: Texas to Serie A The Long Way

    Hanna Barker turned a recovering ACL into a college career that ended with Freshman of the Year — then chased the pro game across four countries. In Part 2, Hanna and Ian trace the player pathway from college to the pros and the long road of playing abroad. She breaks down roles over positions and the playmaker’s mindset, why soccer IQ comes from being allowed to make mistakes, and how a safe environment lets players “fail forward.” It’s a clear-eyed look at what the student-athlete years really teach: time management, accountability, and leadership. Then the journey goes global. A mentor, Megan Dunnigan, opens the door to Iceland — the American route to the pros when the NWSL draft was only 30 names deep. From there it’s Hungary, a Champions League run in Budapest, two hard-earned seasons in Istanbul, and finally Serie A with underdog Napoli Women. For players, parents, and coaches mapping the road from youth soccer to the professional game, this one is about patience, mentorship, and building an identity beyond the sport. Don’t give up — something always comes around. Rooted in North Texas, heard around the world. Key Talking PointsRoles over positions and embracing the playmaker mindset — don’t put yourself in a boxSoccer IQ: reading the game, overlapping runs, and learning by being allowed to make mistakesWhy a safe environment where players can “fail forward” produces real growthStarting college on a recovering ACL and rising to Freshman of the YearWhat student-athlete life teaches: time management, accountability, and leadershipThe mentor, Megan Dunnigan, who showed her the American pathway to the pros through IcelandThe reality of the NWSL draft — only 30 names — and finding an alternative route overseasA career across Iceland, Hungary, a Champions League run in Budapest, and two seasons in IstanbulTurning resentment into her biggest growth, then landing in Serie A with NapoliBuilding an identity beyond soccer — a sports & performance psychology master’s and mentoring the next generation Quotes from Hanna Barker“If you don’t give up, you can’t lose, because something will always come around to what you want.” “The bad days will not last forever. The good days are not gonna last forever either — but at least enjoy them.” “Don’t put yourself in a box.” “The most important thing as a player is being on the field.” “You tell me what position you want me to play.” “It is okay to make mistakes, and you’re gonna fail, and that’s just part of the growth.” “If they can do it, I can do it.” “Stay patient in the process and don’t give up.” “I’m just a completely different person from college to now.” “I wouldn’t have been able to do any of this without playing soccer.” Connect with Hanna Barker📸 Instagram: @hannabarkerr Follow Chat By The Pitch🌐 Website: chatbythepitch.com 🎥 YouTube: Chat By The Pitch 📸 Instagram: @ChatByThePitch 🎵 TikTok: Chat.By.The.Pitch ✖️ X / Twitter: @ChatByThePitch 📘 Facebook: Chat By The Pitch 🎧 Spotify: Chat By The Pitch 🍎 Apple Podcasts: Chat By The Pitch 🎧 Subscribe & Review: Your support helps us keep bringing conversations with players, coaches, and leaders that matter. #ChatByThePitch #PlayingAbroad #WomensSoccer #SerieA #NapoliWomen #PlayerPathway #PlayerDevelopment #SoccerIQ #RolesOverPositions #ProSoccer #StudentAthlete #ACLComeback #SoccerJourney #WomenInSport #SoccerOverseas #DFWSoccer #TexasSoccer #Mentorship #DontGiveUp #FemaleAthlete

    Hanna Barker: Texas to Serie A The Long Way
  7. Jul 2

    Hanna Barker: The Kid Who Couldn't Be Stopped

    Before she was a winger for Napoli Women in Serie A, Hanna Barker was just a kid in Farmers Branch, Texas, kicking a ball around at her dad’s games. In Part 1, Hanna and Ian go back to the beginning — the youth soccer years that built everything that came later. She shares why she stayed at one club, Defeaters, for her entire youth career, how community and friendship kept her in love with the game, and why free play and multiple sports mattered more than private lessons and a packed schedule. It’s a real look at long-term player development over short-term winning. Then comes the hard part: two ACL tears as a teenager, and the mindset that brought her back in roughly eight months each time. Hanna’s advice on recovery — focus on what you can do, not what you can’t — is gold for any player or parent facing a setback. For soccer parents, youth coaches, and players chasing the game, this one is about protecting joy, growing together, and choosing the program that truly wants you. Rooted in North Texas, heard around the world. Key Talking PointsFinding soccer early in Farmers Branch through her dad’s games and the younger-sibling advantageJoining Defeaters around age 10 and staying with the same group of girls for her entire youth careerWhy community and friendship — not private lessons — kept her in love with the gameThe value of multi-sport play and free time over early specialization and over-schedulingParents who protected her from the political side of soccer and let her be a kid“Love the game so you survive the sport” — fostering joy that lasts a lifetimeCoach Hugh’s style: discipline paired with the freedom to make mistakes and grow togetherTearing her ACL twice as a teen — freshman and junior year — and the mental reset each timeReframing injury recovery: focus on what you can do, not on what you can’tEarning a full ride to Stephen F. Austin from a program that wanted her, and the support that carried her through her second comeback Quotes from Hanna Barker“I would not be the player who I am today without my ACL tears — it taught me a crazy level of resilience and perspective at such a young age.” “If you focus on what you’re able to do rather than what you can’t, it’ll take you a lot further.” “Focus on something else that you love if you can’t have that right now.” “There will always be injuries. It’s a part of the game, but it’s really how we bounce back from them.” “I always describe a team like a puzzle, and everyone has a little piece.” “It doesn’t matter your age. If you show up and you’re good, that’s who’s gonna play, and that’s how it should be.” “Someone always wishes they were where you’re at.” “They let me be a kid, and that’s something I’m always gonna be grateful for.” “You’re just a person who knows how to kick a ball.” “If you focus on what you have versus what you don’t have, it can really form a new perspective for you.” Connect with Hanna Barker📸 Instagram: @hannabarkerr Follow Chat By The Pitch🌐 Website: chatbythepitch.com 🎥 YouTube: Chat By The Pitch 📸 Instagram: @ChatByThePitch 🎵 TikTok: Chat.By.The.Pitch ✖️ X / Twitter: @ChatByThePitch 📘 Facebook: Chat By The Pitch 🎧 Spotify: Chat By The Pitch 🍎 Apple Podcasts: Chat By The Pitch 🎧 Subscribe & Review: Your support helps us keep bringing conversations with players, coaches, and leaders that matter. #ChatByThePitch #YouthSoccer #PlayerDevelopment #SoccerParents #WomensSoccer #ProtectTheJoy #DevelopmentOverWinning #ACLRecovery #FreePlay #YouthSoccerDevelopment #SoccerIQ #DFWSoccer #TexasSoccer #GrassrootsSoccer #SoccerJourney #FemaleAthlete #SoccerCoaching #LongTermDevelopment #SoccerMom #PlayUp

    Hanna Barker: The Kid Who Couldn't Be Stopped
  8. Jun 25

    It's Hard Being Good: John Keagan on Mindset, Development, and Reaching Your Potential

    What separates good players from great players? In Part 2 of this conversation, Everton FC's John Keagan dives into the mindset, work ethic, and personal responsibility required to reach your full potential in soccer and in life. From early college commitments and the transfer portal to player development, recruiting, and parenting in youth sports, John shares lessons learned from his playing and coaching career. The conversation explores why mentality often matters more than talent, how players earn opportunities, what coaches really look for when evaluating players, and why parents should focus on helping their children enjoy the game rather than trying to control every step of the journey. Whether you're a player chasing your goals, a coach developing young athletes, or a parent navigating the youth soccer landscape, this episode is packed with practical advice and timeless lessons. Key Talking Points Why early college commitments can be risky for players.How player development changes between ages 16 and 18.The realities of playing time and earning opportunities.Why coaches value mentality as much as talent.The difference between talented players and successful players.What Everton FC looks for when evaluating players.The role parents play in long-term player development.Why players should focus on effort and consistency.Lessons John learned from his father and former coaches.Why enjoying the game remains the most important goal. Quotes from John Keagan "A lot can change in two years." "If you're not playing, work harder." "Nobody has a God-given right to play." "Great desire and attitude aren't an ask—they're a given." "The mentality is everything." "If you dedicate yourself and do things correctly, you'll reach your level." "It's hard being good." "Give everything you've got every day, every session, every game." "Players will always reach the level they're supposed to." "Just let them enjoy playing the game." Connect with John Keagan 🌐 Website: evertonfc.ac.uk 📸 Instagram: @evertonfootballcollege 📧 Email: john.keegan@evertonfc.ac.uk Follow Chat By The Pitch 🌐 Website: chatbythepitch.com 🎥 YouTube: Chat By The Pitch YouTube 📸 Instagram: @ChatByThePitch 🎵 TikTok: Chat.By.The.Pitch ✖️ X / Twitter: @ChatByThePitch 📘 Facebook: Chat By The Pitch Facebook 🎧 Spotify: Chat By The Pitch on Spotify 🍎 Apple Podcasts: Chat By The Pitch on Apple Podcasts 🔗 Linktree: Chat By The Pitch Links 🎧 Subscribe & Review: Your support helps us keep bringing conversations with players, coaches, and leaders that matter. #ChatByThePitch #JohnKeagan #EvertonFC #YouthSoccer #PlayerDevelopment #SoccerParenting #SoccerCoaching #FootballDevelopment #MindsetMatters #WorkEthic #PlayerPathway #SoccerCulture #CollegeSoccer #YouthSports #Mentality #FootballEducation #SoccerPodcast #PlayerGrowth #ReachYourPotential #EvertonFootballCollege

    It's Hard Being Good: John Keagan on Mindset, Development, and Reaching Your Potential

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Welcome to Chat By The Pitch — the soccer podcast that goes beyond the game. Hosted by Ian Babcock, Chat By The Pitch is built around real conversations with the people shaping soccer from every angle — coaches, players, parents, club leaders, educators, entrepreneurs, analysts, and innovators. This isn’t a highlight show and it isn’t built around hot takes. It’s about the stories, lessons, challenges, and experiences that actually define the modern game. Whether you’re a parent trying to better understand youth soccer, a coach looking to grow, a player chasing the next level, or simply someone passionate about the sport, Chat By The Pitch gives you honest, long-form conversations that dig deeper than surface-level opinions. Every episode explores what really happens behind the scenes: • The realities of youth soccer culture • Coaching philosophy and player development • Leadership and communication • Parenting athletes in today’s environment • The mental side of competition • Building healthy club culture • Technology changing the game • The pathway from grassroots to elite levels • Mistakes, lessons, and success stories from people living the game every day Guests range from grassroots coaches and academy directors to former professional players, educators, authors, performance specialists, and creators working to improve soccer at every level. Some episodes focus on tactics and development. Others focus on leadership, culture, parenting, business, and the human side of sports. What makes Chat By The Pitch different is the conversation style. These are not rushed interviews with canned answers. Ian approaches each episode as a passionate soccer parent, coach, and student of the game, creating open discussions that feel authentic, relatable, and educational. The goal is to ask the questions many people in soccer are already thinking about — but rarely hear discussed honestly. Listeners come to Chat By The Pitch for: • Real conversations instead of scripted interviews • Practical insights coaches and parents can actually use • Different perspectives from across the soccer world • Stories that inspire growth on and off the field • Honest discussions about the challenges in youth sports • A deeper understanding of player development and leadership If you care about soccer beyond the scoreboard — the people, the process, the culture, and the future of the game — this podcast is for you. New episodes released regularly. Connect with Chat By The Pitch on social media and join the conversation happening around the game we all love.