Nanny Employer Wellness Diary

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I have employed nannies for the past 11 years in different stages of my life. In 2019 I went through 3 nannies in 9 months as I was reflecting I realized that I am part of the problem and that is when I started Probity domestic solutions an educational platform dedicated to teach nanny employers how to cultivate a healthy working environment for their nannies. My hope for this podcast is that it will serve as a safe space for us to share our stories and share ideas on how we can cultivate a healthy working relationship with our nannies.

  1. Jul 23

    Why Your Experienced Nanny Keeps Quiet... And What That Silence Is Costing You

    What happens when you hire an experienced nanny but unintentionally create an environment where she no longer feels comfortable sharing what she knows? In this episode of The Nanny Employer Perspective, Relebogile explores the subtle difference between maintaining high standards and exercising control. She unpacks why experienced nannies sometimes stop offering suggestions, how parental insecurity can quietly influence leadership at home, and what it costs both your family and your nanny when expertise goes unheard. If you've ever wondered whether you're leading from confidence or from the fear of getting it wrong, this conversation will challenge you to reflect on the kind of environment you're creating in your home. Today's Diary Reflection: Think about the last time your nanny suggested doing something differently. Did you dismiss the idea because it conflicted with your family's values or your child's wellbeing, or because accepting it would have meant acknowledging that her experience had something to teach you?

  2. Jul 21

    My Nanny Isn't the Same Anymore... Has She Become Complacent

    Has your nanny changed over time, or has the working relationship simply entered a new season? Many parents notice that after a year or two, the nanny who was once proactive, organised and full of initiative no longer shows the same level of enthusiasm. But is it complacency, burnout, changing expectations, or something else? In this episode of The Village Perspective, we explore why long-term working relationships naturally evolve, how to identify the difference between complacency and a cry for support, and why regular feedback is essential for maintaining a healthy partnership. We also discuss how to have honest conversations before frustration builds and why great leadership addresses small issues before they become big ones. If you've ever wondered how to restore the relationship with a nanny who just isn't the same as she used to be, this episode will give you a fresh perspective and practical steps to move forward.

  3. Jul 16

    You Don't Have to Get This Right the First Time

    No parent gets every childcare decision right the first time, and that's okay. In this episode of The Nanny Employer Perspective, Relebogile explores one of the biggest pressures parents place on themselves: the belief that they have to make the perfect childcare decision from day one. She unpacks the fear of leaving your child with a nanny, the courage it takes to build trust, and why adjusting your childcare plan isn't a sign of failure but part of the journey. Drawing from her own family's experience and years of employing nannies, Relebogile shares why asking for help is a strength, how trust is built over time, and how the leadership skills you develop at home can positively influence every other area of your life. Today's Diary Reflection: Have you been putting pressure on yourself to make the perfect childcare decision, or have you given yourself permission to learn along the way? Remember, getting it wrong doesn't make you a bad parent. It makes you a parent who's growing.

  4. Jul 14

    My Nanny Has More Experience Than Me... So Why Do I Feel Like I've Lost My Voice

    What happens when you hire an experienced nanny, but slowly begin to feel like you've lost your voice as a parent? Many first time parents find themselves in this position. They appreciate their nanny's knowledge and experience, yet they struggle with feeling unheard, second guessing their instincts, or wondering whether they're simply being insecure. In this episode of The Village Perspective, we explore the difference between advice and authority, how to recognise when experience has crossed into disrespect, and why mutual respect is the foundation of a healthy parent nanny relationship. We also discuss how to have difficult conversations, set clear boundaries, and rebuild confidence without dismissing the value an experienced nanny brings. If you've ever wondered how to balance trusting your nanny while trusting yourself as a parent, this episode is for you.

  5. Jul 9

    Leaving Your Baby With a Nanny for the First Time What the Fear Is Really About

    Leaving your baby with a nanny for the first time can be one of the most emotional transitions of parenthood. The anxiety, the guilt, the constant urge to check your phone and wonder if you've made the right decision are all part of an experience many parents quietly carry. In this episode of The Nanny Employer Perspective, Relebogile explores what that fear is really about, why trust takes time to build, and why you don't have to have everything figured out before returning to work. She also shares a personal story about how her own family built trust through childcare succession planning and offers practical encouragement for parents who are starting from zero. If you're preparing to leave your baby with a nanny for the first time, or you're in the middle of that transition, this episode is a reminder that you're not failing because it feels hard. You're doing something deeply important. Today's Diary Reflection: What did you need most when you first left your child in someone else's care: certainty, or reassurance that you didn't have to navigate it alone?

  6. Jul 7

    My Nanny Is Always Late. How Long Should I Keep Giving Chances

    What do you do when your nanny is consistently late, you've had multiple conversations, and nothing changes? Many parents find themselves caught between compassion and accountability. They don't want to lose a nanny who is wonderful with their children, but they also can't ignore the impact that repeated lateness has on their work, their family, and their peace of mind. In this episode of The Village Perspective, we unpack this common childcare dilemma from both the parent's and the nanny's perspective. We explore how to have better conversations, why reliability matters, and how to know when it's time to keep working on the relationship or make a difficult decision. This episode isn't about judging either side. It's about helping parents lead with both empathy and wisdom while creating healthy, sustainable working relationships with their nannies.

  7. Jul 2

    Your Nanny Camera Isn't the Problem. Your Fear Might Be.

    Do you find yourself checking your nanny camera several times a day? Is it really about your nanny, or could it be about something deeper? In this episode of The Nanny Employer Perspective, we explore the difference between using a nanny camera for reassurance and using it to manage unresolved fear. Relebogile shares why cameras aren't the problem, how past experiences can quietly shape the way we lead our nannies, and why trust is something that should grow over time. Through a personal story and practical reflection, this episode invites you to think about what your watching is really serving and how honest conversations often build more security than constant surveillance ever can. Today's Diary Reflection:Has the amount you check your nanny camera reduced as your nanny has earned your trust, or has it stayed the same regardless of her behaviour?

  8. Jun 30

    Let's Talk About Nannies, Childcare and the Village It Takes

    Welcome to the very first episode of The Village Perspective, a new weekly conversation about nannies, childcare, and the real challenges families face behind the scenes. If you've ever questioned whether you're expecting too much from your nanny, struggled to make childcare decisions, or wished you could see your situation from a different perspective, you're in the right place. In this introductory episode, I share why I created The Village Perspective, what you can expect every Tuesday, and why I believe childcare was never meant to be navigated alone. Each week, we'll unpack real childcare challenges, explore different perspectives, challenge common assumptions, and help parents build healthier relationships with the people who help care for their children. This isn't about having all the answers. It's about asking better questions, learning together, and remembering that it truly takes a village. Welcome to the village. I'm so glad you're here.

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I have employed nannies for the past 11 years in different stages of my life. In 2019 I went through 3 nannies in 9 months as I was reflecting I realized that I am part of the problem and that is when I started Probity domestic solutions an educational platform dedicated to teach nanny employers how to cultivate a healthy working environment for their nannies. My hope for this podcast is that it will serve as a safe space for us to share our stories and share ideas on how we can cultivate a healthy working relationship with our nannies.

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  • Creator
    Probity Domestic Solutions
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    23
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © Probity Domestic Solutions
  • Show Website
    Nanny Employer Wellness Diary