Wounded Leadership: Stories from the Wounded

Dr. Matthew Tanner
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The Wounded Leadership Podcast, hosted by Dr. Matthew Tanner, aims to provide a platform for pastors and church leaders who have experienced trauma in their ministry. Through storytelling, the podcast seeks to foster healing and community among those who have faced church hurt. Each episode features authentic narratives from various leaders, emphasizing the importance of sharing experiences to combat isolation and promote recovery. The podcast promises authenticity and vulnerability, offering listeners a sense of connection and hope as they navigate their own leadership challenges.

  1. 19h ago

    Overcoming Church Conflict: Michael Brown

    Thank you for listening to this important story! Find more stories like this one at www.woundedleadership.com Michael Brown shares his journey through woundedness and healing within church leadership, highlighting the challenges of cultural differences, church conflicts, and the importance of forgiveness. This episode offers authentic insights into overcoming adversity and trusting God's guidance. In this heartfelt interview, Pastor Michael Brown shares his journey through church hurt, healing, and calling. Discover how embracing vulnerability, forgiveness, and God's sovereignty transformed his ministry and life. keywords #church leadership, #woundedness, #healing, #forgiveness, #church conflict, #cultural differences, #pastoral journey #church hurt, #healing, #forgiveness, #pastoral journey, #leadership, #ministry, #wounded leaders, #spiritual growth, #community, #resilience key topics Church conflict and transparency issuesCultural and demographic challenges in ministryThe importance of forgiveness and healing Church hurt and healingThe importance of forgivenessGod's sovereignty in suffering Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Wounded Leadership 02:54 Michael Brown's Journey to Ministry 06:11 Transitioning to a New Church 08:54 Cultural Adjustments and Challenges 11:49 Early Successes in Ministry 14:54 Family Dynamics and Church Culture 17:52 Navigating Church Politics 20:40 Concerns About Transparency and Control 23:32 Escalating Tensions and Rumors 26:32 Ethical Concerns in Church Leadership 27:53 Impact of Leadership Decisions on Congregation 29:55 Conflict and Departure from the Church 30:35 Processing Hurt and Seeking Forgiveness 37:05 The Journey of Healing and Support 42:50 Rediscovering Purpose in Ministry 52:34 Building Trust and Overcoming Doubt 54:29 Reactivating Ministries and Church Growth 55:55 Healing Through Hurt and Compassion 58:15 Recognizing God's Plan in Woundedness 01:04:18 Sharing Your Story and Motivations 01:08:45 The Importance of Healing Before Leadership resources Wounded Leadership Resources - https://woundedleadership.com

    1h 4m

  2. Jun 1

    The Power of the Story: Chris Harper

    For more information about Chris Harper and Betterman Ministry click here: Better Man Ministry- https://betterman.com In this candid interview, Chris Harper shares his journey through ministry, woundedness, healing, and the importance of authentic leadership. Discover insights on navigating church conflicts, understanding true pastoral calling, and the power of humility and forgiveness in leadership. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Wounded Leadership 01:50 Chris Harper's Journey in Ministry 05:20 Navigating Hurt and Woundedness 10:19 Understanding the Role of a Pastor 12:31 The Impact of Wounded Leadership 13:48 The Cycle of Disappointment in Ministry 23:29 Non-Negotiables in Serving the Church 26:47 Navigating Relationships in Ministry 27:36 The Call to Ministry: Understanding True Calling 30:23 The Importance of Long-Suffering in Leadership 32:01 Healing Wounded Leaders: A Path Back to Ministry 33:46 Woundedness as a Strength: Biblical Leaders' Stories 35:20 Identity Beyond Wounds: Embracing Imperfection 38:00 The Shepherd's Role: Being Present with the Flock 38:50 Redefining Success in Ministry 41:40 Navigating Relationships: The Four Types of People 45:46 Encouragement for the Wounded: Forgiveness and Humility 47:15 Empowering Men in Ministry: The Better Man Initiative Key topics Ministry wounds and healing Discerning true pastoral calling Church conflict and leadership pitfalls keywords #ministry, #wounded leaders, #healing, 3pastoral leadership, #church conflict, #humility, #forgiveness, #calling, #church growth, #leadership lessons

    45 min

  3. May 11

    Healing through Vulnerability - Lisa Wells

    Find out more about Lisa Wells Coaching at - https://lisawellscoaching.com Discover the power of vulnerability in leadership with Lisa Wells, a coach and former church planter. In this episode, Lisa shares her journey through personal and professional crises, revealing how embracing her failures led to profound growth and healing. Learn how imaginative prayer and holistic discipleship helped her reconnect with her identity beyond performance.Lisa offers insights on creating safe spaces for vulnerability within church communities and challenges the traditional “pedestal” leadership model. This episode is a roadmap for ministry leaders feeling overwhelmed, showing that sharing your story is a strength, not a weakness.Join us for a hope-filled conversation that redefines leadership through authenticity and resilience. Perfect for pastors and faith-driven entrepreneurs committed to leading with grace. Key Topics Ministry challenges during COVID-19 The role of vulnerability in leadership Imaginative prayer and spiritual practices Healing from church leadership crisis The importance of community and support Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Lisa Wells 03:26 Journey of Church Planting and Family Dynamics 07:07 Crisis in Ministry and Family Life 12:42 The Struggles of Ministry Leadership 17:53 Healing Through Spiritual Practices and Coaching 21:53 Navigating Vulnerability in Leadership 26:32 The Importance of Community and Peer Relationships 30:54 Finding Comfort in Sharing Our Stories 36:59 The Role of Jesus in Our Healing Journey 41:03 Embracing Our Stories for Healing and Growth 42:27 riverside_podcast_close with bed... mar 19, 2026 001matthew_tanner's st.mp4 keywords #ministry, #spiritual renewal, #vulnerability, #emotional health, #leadership, #prayer, #coaching, #personal growth

    44 min

  4. Apr 27

    Healing and Leadership: Jeff VanderGiessen

    Healing and Leadership: Jeff VanderGiessen Resources & Links: Stillwater ReserveCamp Harvest In this heartfelt episode, Jeff VanderGiessen shares his journey of ministry, wounds, healing, and his current mission to support pastors and church leaders. His story highlights the power of owning one’s narrative and finding purpose amidst pain Main Topics: Jeff's early life and calling to ministryThe growth and challenges of Mars Hill ChurchThe impact of leadership changes and organizational culture shiftsPersonal wounds from ministry and paths toward healingTransition to entrepreneurial ventures serving churchesThe importance of community and safe spaces for pastorsPractical ways to process anger and forgivenessGod's ongoing work in Jeff’s life and ministry Timestamps: 00:00 - Introduction: Jeff VanderGiessen’s ministry story and wounds 02:00 - Jeff’s childhood and calling to ministry at youth group 04:00 - Transition from CRC to Assemblies of God and college journey 06:30 - Early involvement with Mars Hill Church and volunteer work 08:15 - Growth of Mars Hill and Jeff’s role in building the church 11:00 - The relational community of Mars Hill amidst organizational growth 15:00 - Leadership transitions and cultural shifts at Mars Hill 20:00 - The impact of leadership change on Jeff and the church 24:00 - The rapid end of Jeff’s ministry at Mars Hill and transition to Chicago 27:00 - Processing grief and wounds from organizational betrayal 31:00 - Forgiveness, reconciliation, and processing anger in ministry failure 36:00 - How Jeff manages bitterness and the importance of forgiveness 41:00 - The ongoing impact of ministry wounds and God's faithfulness 49:00 - Jeff’s current ministry supporting pastors through retreats and relationships 54:00 - Building safe spaces for ministry leaders and the importance of community 56:00 - How vulnerability and owning one’s story facilitate healing

    51 min

  5. Apr 13

    Building Relational Bravery: A Journey from Loneliness to Connection

    In this episode of "Wounded Leadership Stories," Dr. Matthew Tanner welcomes Brian James McMahon, founder of Church WellCo. They explore the importance of storytelling in healing and community building. Brian shares his personal journey of longing for deep friendships, starting from his childhood experiences as a missionary in China. He discusses the challenges of forming genuine connections and how his struggles led him to create Church WellCo, which focuses on reimagining community and storytelling within the church. The conversation highlights the need for vulnerability, bravery, and the cultivation of relational skills to foster meaningful relationships and support within faith communities. Find out more about BrianJames McMahon and his ministry at Church Well Co Chapters 00:00 The Power of Storytelling 03:24 Longing for Friendship 06:27 The Pain of Loneliness 09:44 The Search for Connection 12:49 The Role of Mentorship 15:29 Becoming a Youth Pastor 18:23 Facing the Dark Night of the Soul 20:29 Finding True Connection 24:26 The 10-Year Journey of Friendship 27:57 Cultivating Safety in Relationships 31:06 Exploring Honest Relationships 33:52 Bridging Isolation in Ministry 37:14 The Power of Storytelling in Healing 39:51 Creating Healing Communities 49:32 Reactivating Relational Skills 52:07 Building a Culture of Storytelling resources Church WellCo - https://churchwell.co/ Slow Journal - https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CGLV7X7Q Tom Hughes' Curious Book - https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00F4X0V4Q keywords #relationship building, #storytelling, #vulnerability, #church community, #relational bravery, #healing, #loneliness, #atrophied relationships, #community of praxis, #leadership

    1 hr

  6. Mar 30

    The Power of Vulnerability: Daniel Whitehead

    Find out more about Daniel and his ministry at: Sanctuary Mental Health Ministries More stories like this one at: Wounded Leadership Ministries. Summary: In this episode of Wounded Leadership Stories, Dr. Matthew Tanner interviews Daniel Whitehead, who shares his journey from a young pastor facing trauma and challenges to leading Sanctuary Mental Health. Daniel discusses the importance of vulnerability, emotional intelligence, and the need for supportive communities in leadership. He emphasizes that healing is a continuous journey and that the church should be a safe space for mental health support. Through personal anecdotes and insights, Daniel highlights the significance of understanding one's own trauma to avoid hurting others and the transformative power of empathy and authenticity in leadership. Daniel Whitehead shares his journey from a youth pastor to leading a church at a young age.The trauma of losing a mentor shaped Daniel's early leadership experiences.Vulnerability is essential for authentic leadership and connection with others.Shame dehumanizes, while guilt can lead to growth and awareness of wrongdoing.Daniel emphasizes the importance of understanding one's own trauma to avoid hurting others.The need for a supportive community is crucial for leaders facing challenges.Daniel's experience in Vancouver helped him reconnect with his emotions and purpose.Sanctuary Mental Health aims to equip churches to support mental health effectively.Real-life stories of support can change lives and foster community.Healing is a continuous journey, not a destination. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Wounded Leadership 02:12 Daniel's Early Leadership Journey 05:06 Navigating Early Trauma in Leadership 09:18 Understanding Personal and Collective Trauma 15:08 The Turning Point: A Year of Reflection 18:00 Rediscovering Purpose and Entrepreneurial Spirit 21:58 The Importance of Vulnerability in Leadership 29:55 Navigating New Challenges 32:19 The Power of Vulnerability 34:40 Understanding Shame vs. Guilt 38:52 The Importance of Authenticity in Leadership 45:56 Healing Journeys and Mental Health Advocacy 50:40 Sanctuary Mental Health: A Mission for Change #leadership, #vulnerability, #mental health, 3trauma, #church, #healing, #authenticity, #emotional intelligence, #shame, #guilt takeaways

    52 min

  7. Mar 19

    Finding Strength through Suffering: Shaun Dean

    Contact Shaun Dean at Kingdom Collective by emailing "shaun m. Dean" In this heartfelt interview, Shaun shares his personal journey through woundedness and healing within ministry, emphasizing the importance of community, forgiveness, and trusting God's purpose in suffering. Discover practical insights on overcoming ministry wounds, embracing suffering as a divine tool for growth, and how to foster healing in leadership and life. keywords #wounded leadership, #healing, #ministry wounds, #forgiveness, #community, #spiritual growth, #suffering, #resilience, #faith, #leadership development key topics Personal journey of woundedness and healingThe role of community and safe spaces in recoveryForgiveness and reconciliation in ministryUnderstanding suffering as a divine tool for growthPractical steps for healing from ministry wounds Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Wounded Leadership 03:19 Shaun's Journey of Woundedness and Healing 09:48 The Impact of Reconciliation 12:28 The Process of Healing and Forgiveness 18:06 Understanding Suffering and God's Purpose 23:27 The Importance of Community in Healing 24:55 The Importance of Vulnerability in Healing 26:05 Navigating Ministry Challenges and Burnout 29:54 Facing Accusations and Misunderstandings 33:26 Finding Redemption and New Opportunities 37:55 The Refining Process of Suffering 41:49 Transforming Pain into Purpose 44:57 Introducing Kingdom Collective and Its Mission

    50 min

  8. Feb 23

    A Journey through Burnout: Don Easton

    For more information on Don Easton and his ministry please visit: Verve Lead Don Easton has written two great resources for pastor's: Find them here: Burnout and Beyond Creating a Vision for Health Find more information about Wounded Leadership Ministries: In this episode, Dr. Don Easton shares his journey through emotional depletion and burnout as a leader in ministry. He discusses the signs that led to his burnout, the importance of recognizing mental health issues, and the need for rest and recovery. Dr. Easton emphasizes the role of mentorship and the stigma surrounding mental health in the church. He advocates for a culture of openness and support for leaders facing similar challenges, highlighting the transformative power of healing in leadership. Keywords #emotional depletion, #burnout, #mental health, #leadership, #healing, #pastors, #rest, #mentorship, #recovery, #clergy health Takeaways Emotional depletion is a widespread issue among leaders.Recognizing the signs of burnout is crucial for recovery.Rest is essential for mental and emotional health.The stigma around mental health in ministry needs to be addressed.Mentorship plays a vital role in the healing process.It's okay to admit when you need help.Leaders often feel pressure to perform, leading to burnout.Healing is a journey, not a destination.Creating a supportive environment can help leaders thrive.The church must prioritize the well-being of its leaders. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Wounded Leadership 02:31 The Journey of Emotional Depletion 06:54 Recognizing the Signs of Burnout 12:42 The Importance of Rest and Recovery 18:01 Facing the Stigma of Mental Health 22:01 The Role of Mentorship in Healing 24:16 The Healing Process and Returning to Ministry 25:58 Creating a Supportive Environment for Leaders 28:08 Verve Lead: A Mission to Restore Leaders

    53 min
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The Wounded Leadership Podcast, hosted by Dr. Matthew Tanner, aims to provide a platform for pastors and church leaders who have experienced trauma in their ministry. Through storytelling, the podcast seeks to foster healing and community among those who have faced church hurt. Each episode features authentic narratives from various leaders, emphasizing the importance of sharing experiences to combat isolation and promote recovery. The podcast promises authenticity and vulnerability, offering listeners a sense of connection and hope as they navigate their own leadership challenges.

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  • Creator
    Dr. Matthew Tanner
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    21
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © 2025 Dr. Matthew Tanner