Now She Builds With Sharon Kelly

Sharon Kelly

Now She Builds is hosted by Sharon Kelly. Sharon is a content creator, entrepreneur, coach, consultant, and mother. The goal of every podcast is to have honest conversations about starting over, building unapologetic income, or creating a future that feels aligned with who you are now. Each episode is packed with real stories, strategies, and mindset shifts to help you break through fear, rediscover your purpose and strengths to help you to build a legacy you’re proud of - one bold step at a time.

Episodes

  1. Sep 17

    5 Reasons Starting Over Feels So Hard in Midlife - and What Helps

    Send us Fan Mail Starting over in midlife can mean changing jobs, changing career direction, or building a business of your own - and none of those decisions are as simple as “just take the leap.” In this video, I draw on more than 20 years’ experience leading behavioural and organisational change across global and national organisations, alongside my own experience of career change, business and midlife transition; I share 5 uncomfortable truths about starting over in your 40s, 50s and beyond - and what you can do about them. TIME STAMP  00:00    ‘Starting over’ 02:29    Your financial position 04:04    How technology and AI are reshaping work and business  05:48    Why your past success can sometimes keep you stuck  07:08    How the people around you might react 08:21    Why your health and energy levels matter. If you know something needs to change but you’re not yet clear what comes next, Now She Knows helps you work out what fits you now and identify a practical next step. You can find this intervention at https://nowshebuilds.com/products/now-she-knows-self-paced If this episode struck a chord, I'd love it if you left a review -  it helps other women find the show. 🌿 If this episode resonated with you, I'd also love to invite you to Now She Breathes — my free course designed for midlife women who feel overwhelmed, stuck or disconnected from themselves. Inside, you'll begin resetting your internal compass, creating space to think clearly, and taking your first intentional steps towards building your next chapter. 🎁 Join the free course here: https://now-she-builds.kit.com/17a96e3c69 ✨ Ready to go deeper and find clearer direction?  Now She Knows is a self-paced programme for midlife women who know something needs to change but aren't yet clear about what comes next. Through seven structured sessions and a practical workbook, you'll identify what's keeping you stuck, clarify what matters now, and define a practical next step. Find out more: https://nowshebuilds.com/products/now-she-knows-self-paced About Now She Builds Now She Builds helps midlife women stop surviving and start building lives, work and futures that reflect who they are today. Drawing on psychology, organisational behaviour and more than 20 years leading business transformation, I create practical frameworks that help women move from uncertai...

  2. Sep 10

    Why You Feel Stuck in Midlife: When Your Life No Longer Fits Who You Are

    Send us Fan Mail Have you reached a point where your life still looks fine on the outside, but somehow it just doesn’t feel quite right anymore? In this podcast, I talk about why that feeling of being stuck can show up in midlife, especially when the person you’ve been no longer quite fits who you’re becoming. We’ll look at what may be keeping you stuck in that in-between stage, why it feels so unsettling, and what can help you start making sense of what comes next. Topics I discuss: 00:00 Why Your Life No Longer Feels Right  06:03 Change vs Transition  06:28 The In-Between Stage  06:58 Why We Stay Stuck  10:05 The Sunk Cost Trap  13:06 Fear of What Comes Next  16:46 You Don’t Need One Big Decision   Which section resonated with where you are right now? Share your thoughts in the comments below - I'd love to hear from you! If this episode struck a chord, I'd love it if you left a review -  it helps other women find the show. 🌿 If this episode resonated with you, I'd also love to invite you to Now She Breathes — my free course designed for midlife women who feel overwhelmed, stuck or disconnected from themselves. Inside, you'll begin resetting your internal compass, creating space to think clearly, and taking your first intentional steps towards building your next chapter. 🎁 Join the free course here: https://now-she-builds.kit.com/17a96e3c69 ✨ Ready to go deeper and find clearer direction?  Now She Knows is a self-paced programme for midlife women who know something needs to change but aren't yet clear about what comes next. Through seven structured sessions and a practical workbook, you'll identify what's keeping you stuck, clarify what matters now, and define a practical next step. Find out more: https://nowshebuilds.com/products/now-she-knows-self-paced About Now She Builds Now She Builds helps midlife women stop surviving and start building lives, work and futures that reflect who they are today. Drawing on psychology, organisational behaviour and more than 20 years leading business transformation, I create practical frameworks that help women move from uncertai...

  3. Sep 2

    Not Sure What’s Next? Here's A Simple Filter for Midlife Decisions

    Send us Fan Mail Struggling to decide what’s next at midlife? Maybe you know something needs to change - your career, your business, your lifestyle, or simply the life you’ve built - but you can’t work out what the right next move actually is? In this podcast, I’ll take you through a simple process for getting clearer on what you want next, followed by four practical filters to help you decide whether a potential next move is right for your life as it is now. Because midlife decisions rarely happen in isolation. Income, health, ageing parents, children’s changing needs, energy, responsibilities and other people’s expectations can all influence what is realistically possible. We’ll start by looking at what’s no longer working, what you value, what you want more of, and what you don’t want to carry into your next chapter. Then we’ll assess what you want through four filters: Fit, Capacity, Resilience and Direction. 📌 In this session, we’ll explore: 00:00  Why Midlife Decisions Feel So Much Harder  02:53  What Actually Needs to Change?  05:33  FIT: Does This Still Fit Who You Are Now?  07:31  CAPACITY: Can Your Life Hold This Change?  13:55  RESILIENCE: Will It Still Work When Life Changes?  14:20  DIRECTION: Is This Taking You Where You Want to Go?  15:31  Stop Waiting for the Perfect Decision  17:07  Your Next Move Doesn’t Have to Be Forever  17:44  What If You Still Don’t Know What’s Next?  19:40  Make the Move From Here  🔗 Related podcasts  mentioned in this session: 10 Shifts Every Midlife Woman Should Know — https://www.buzzsprout.com/2532745/episodes/19591905Perfectionism Isn't About High Standards - It's a Trap!  https://www.buzzsprout.com/2532745/episodes/19597807 ✨ Ready to go deeper? Now She Knows is the intervention I created to help you work out what you want, what matters to you now, and which direction is right for you. Find out more here: https://nowshebuilds.com/pages/now-she-knows If this helped you think differently about your next move, subscribe and join me for the next session. #MidlifeWomen #MidlifeReinvention #MidlifeDecisions #MidlifeClarity #NowSheBuilds   If this episode struck a chord, I'd love it if you left a review -  it helps other women find the show. 🌿 If this episode resonated with you, I'd also love to invite you to Now She Breathes — my free course designed for midlife women who feel overwhelmed, stuck or disconnected from themselves. Inside, you'll begin resetting your internal compass, creating space to think clearly, and taking your first intentional steps towards building your next chapter. 🎁 Join the free course here: https://now-she-builds.kit.com/17a96e3c69 ✨ Ready to go deeper and find clearer direction?  Now She Knows is a self-paced programme for midlife women who know something needs to change but aren't yet clear about what comes next. Through seven structured sessions and a practical workbook, you'll identify what's keeping you stuck, clarify what matters now, and define a practical next step. Find out more: https://nowshebuilds.com/products/now-she-knows-self-paced About Now She Builds Now She Builds helps midlife women stop surviving and start building lives, work and futures that reflect who they are today. Drawing on psychology, organisational behaviour and more than 20 years leading business transformation, I create practical frameworks that help women move from uncertai...

  4. Aug 27

    How to Build Financial Security at 40 and beyond

    Send us Fan Mail Are you in your 40s or 50s and worried you’ve left it too late to improve your financial security? There may still be more you can do than you think. In this video, I look at why so many women reach midlife with less retirement security than they expected - and the practical steps you can take now to move from financial anxiety to a clearer plan. We cover pensions, financial avoidance, automating important payments such as your mortgage or rent, utilities and other bills that could affect your credit rating, and increasing your earning power in midlife. #RetirementPlanning #WomenAndMoney #FinancialSecurity #MidlifeMoney   RESOURCES MENTIONED Dave Ramsey / Ramsey Solutions - Debt Snowball & Baby Steps Why Older Entrepreneurs Succeed: https://youtu.be/D1nB5KuJNnI Now She Builds Intervention: https://nowshebuilds.com/pages/now-she-builds    TIMESTAMPS 0:00    Why Women End Up Here - and How to Move Forward 01:46   Why the system wasn’t built for women 02:44   The reality of the pension gap 06 00  Why we stay in Survival Mode 11:48    Step 1: Do a Full Financial Audit 12.51    Step 2: Automate payments for essential bills and protect your credit    15:03   Step 3: Increase your earning power 17:08   Protect your future Just a quick note: I’m not a financial adviser, so this episode is for general information and ideas rather than personal financial advice. JOIN THE CONVERSATION If you could change just one thing about your financial situation right now, what would it be? Let me know in the comments. And if you know another woman who is worried that she has left it too late to build financial security, please share this video with her. If this episode struck a chord, I'd love it if you left a review -  it helps other women find the show. 🌿 If this episode resonated with you, I'd also love to invite you to Now She Breathes — my free course designed for midlife women who feel overwhelmed, stuck or disconnected from themselves. Inside, you'll begin resetting your internal compass, creating space to think clearly, and taking your first intentional steps towards building your next chapter. 🎁 Join the free course here: https://now-she-builds.kit.com/17a96e3c69 ✨ Ready to go deeper and find clearer direction?  Now She Knows is a self-paced programme for midlife women who know something needs to change but aren't yet clear about what comes next. Through seven structured sessions and a practical workbook, you'll identify what's keeping you stuck, clarify what matters now, and define a practical next step. Find out more: https://nowshebuilds.com/products/now-she-knows-self-paced About Now She Builds Now She Builds helps midlife women stop surviving and start building lives, work and futures that reflect who they are today. Drawing on psychology, organisational behaviour and more than 20 years leading business transformation, I create practical frameworks that help women move from uncertai...

  5. Aug 24

    Is It Too Late? These 5 Women Say 'No'.

    Send us Fan Mail The older the founder, the higher the success rate - and these five women prove it, from a slime empire to a $680M bank. Drawing on a 2.7-million-founder study, I break down how each built something remarkable in their 40s, 50s,z and beyond - not despite their age, but because of it. If you've ever wondered whether it's too late to start, this is your answer. Chapters:  00:00           Why age is your biggest advantage 01:45           The 2.7M-founder study 02:08           The evidence: older founders, higher success 02:34           Sarah Schiller & Karen Rabinovitch: The Sloomoo Institute 03:47           Anne Boden: Starling Bank 04:34           Lisa Skeete Tatum: Landit 06:01           Gail Jennings-O'Byrne: Wocstar Fund 06:56           Patti LaBelle: Patti's Good Life 07:50           What these five have in common 08:35           What are you waiting for?   📎 Source: NBER study on founder age and startup success https://www.nber.org/papers/w24489  Which of these five stories hit closest to home for you? And more importantly - what's the one idea you've been sitting on that deserves its shot? Drop it below. 👇 If this episode struck a chord, I'd love it if you left a review -  it helps other women find the show. 🌿 If this episode resonated with you, I'd also love to invite you to Now She Breathes — my free course designed for midlife women who feel overwhelmed, stuck or disconnected from themselves. Inside, you'll begin resetting your internal compass, creating space to think clearly, and taking your first intentional steps towards building your next chapter. 🎁 Join the free course here: https://now-she-builds.kit.com/17a96e3c69 ✨ Ready to go deeper and find clearer direction?  Now She Knows is a self-paced programme for midlife women who know something needs to change but aren't yet clear about what comes next. Through seven structured sessions and a practical workbook, you'll identify what's keeping you stuck, clarify what matters now, and define a practical next step. Find out more: https://nowshebuilds.com/products/now-she-knows-self-paced About Now She Builds Now She Builds helps midlife women stop surviving and start building lives, work and futures that reflect who they are today. Drawing on psychology, organisational behaviour and more than 20 years leading business transformation, I create practical frameworks that help women move from uncertai...

  6. Aug 20

    5 Books To Read When You Feel Stuck At 45

    Send us Fan Mail In this episode I talk about five books that have shaped how I see life, money and success at midlife.  If you’re in your 40s or 50s and feeling stuck, these are the 5 books that helped me pivot my mindset and start building my next chapter.  It's been many years since I first read them, but I reread each one periodically. In this video, I'm not summarising them - I'm breaking down the belief each one challenged and how my thinking shifted as a result: Think and Grow Rich, Simple Abundance, Rich Dad Poor Dad, Prince Charming Isn't Coming, and The Millionaire Next Door. Three of these were written by men, but the principles apply just as much to women. The shift comes from thinking differently from societal norms. If you're a midlife woman ready to question what you've been taught about life, money and success, this one's for you. If this episode struck a chord, I'd love it if you left a review -  it helps other women find the show. 🌿 If this episode resonated with you, I'd also love to invite you to Now She Breathes — my free course designed for midlife women who feel overwhelmed, stuck or disconnected from themselves. Inside, you'll begin resetting your internal compass, creating space to think clearly, and taking your first intentional steps towards building your next chapter. 🎁 Join the free course here: https://now-she-builds.kit.com/17a96e3c69 ✨ Ready to go deeper and find clearer direction?  Now She Knows is a self-paced programme for midlife women who know something needs to change but aren't yet clear about what comes next. Through seven structured sessions and a practical workbook, you'll identify what's keeping you stuck, clarify what matters now, and define a practical next step. Find out more: https://nowshebuilds.com/products/now-she-knows-self-paced About Now She Builds Now She Builds helps midlife women stop surviving and start building lives, work and futures that reflect who they are today. Drawing on psychology, organisational behaviour and more than 20 years leading business transformation, I create practical frameworks that help women move from uncertai...

  7. Aug 6

    Perfectionism Isn't About High Standards - It's a Trap

    Send us Fan Mail Perfectionism isn't about having high standards - it's a survival strategy for staying safe from criticism. In this episode, I unpack where perfectionism really comes from, why it hits women harder, and the one mindset shift that makes imperfect action possible. Chapters 00:00 What perfectionism actually is 00:42 My story: the missing full stop 01:57 Why it's not a character flaw 03:05 The survival strategy behind it 03:54 Why women feel it more 04:41 How to actually let go of it 06:27 Done is better than perfect If this episode struck a chord, I'd love it if you left a review -  it helps other women find the show. 🌿 If this episode resonated with you, I'd also love to invite you to Now She Breathes — my free course designed for midlife women who feel overwhelmed, stuck or disconnected from themselves. Inside, you'll begin resetting your internal compass, creating space to think clearly, and taking your first intentional steps towards building your next chapter. 🎁 Join the free course here: https://now-she-builds.kit.com/17a96e3c69 ✨ Ready to go deeper and find clearer direction?  Now She Knows is a self-paced programme for midlife women who know something needs to change but aren't yet clear about what comes next. Through seven structured sessions and a practical workbook, you'll identify what's keeping you stuck, clarify what matters now, and define a practical next step. Find out more: https://nowshebuilds.com/products/now-she-knows-self-paced About Now She Builds Now She Builds helps midlife women stop surviving and start building lives, work and futures that reflect who they are today. Drawing on psychology, organisational behaviour and more than 20 years leading business transformation, I create practical frameworks that help women move from uncertai...

  8. Aug 3

    Midlife Reinvention: How To Know What You Really Want

    Send us Fan Mail Many women reach a point in midlife where they're ready for reinvention but don't know where to begin - careers, children, and responsibilities take priority until you realise you've stopped believing change is possible. In this video, I show why hope isn't just a feeling - it's a skill, and how to stop waiting for the perfect time and start building your next chapter. In this video, you'll learn: ✔ Why hope is a skill - not just an emotion ✔ What's really keeping you stuck ✔ How to reconnect with the life you imagined ✔ The power of "possible selves" and why it matters in midlife ✔ How to find the intersection between what you want and what's possible ✔ Why starting small creates lasting change ✔ How habit stacking turns dreams into action ✔ The hidden cost of putting your life on hold If this episode struck a chord, I'd love it if you left a review -  it helps other women find the show. 🌿 If this episode resonated with you, I'd also love to invite you to Now She Breathes — my free course designed for midlife women who feel overwhelmed, stuck or disconnected from themselves. Inside, you'll begin resetting your internal compass, creating space to think clearly, and taking your first intentional steps towards building your next chapter. 🎁 Join the free course here: https://now-she-builds.kit.com/17a96e3c69 ✨ Ready to go deeper and find clearer direction?  Now She Knows is a self-paced programme for midlife women who know something needs to change but aren't yet clear about what comes next. Through seven structured sessions and a practical workbook, you'll identify what's keeping you stuck, clarify what matters now, and define a practical next step. Find out more: https://nowshebuilds.com/products/now-she-knows-self-paced About Now She Builds Now She Builds helps midlife women stop surviving and start building lives, work and futures that reflect who they are today. Drawing on psychology, organisational behaviour and more than 20 years leading business transformation, I create practical frameworks that help women move from uncertai...

  9. Aug 3

    10 Shifts Every Woman Over 40 Should Make

    Send us Fan Mail Most women don't plan their arrival at midlife - it happens after decades of building careers, raising families, and putting themselves last. This video shares 10 evidence-informed shifts to strengthen your mind, body, and sense of self - so you can stop living on autopilot and start building a life that reflects who you are today. You'll discover how to: ✔ Improve your physical and mental wellbeing ✔ Build greater resilience and confidence ✔ Strengthen your financial future ✔ Reconnect with what matters most ✔ Create a more intentional next chapter Here is your free Action Guide Chapters 00:00 Introduction 00:43 Shift #1 – Walk Daily 01:32 Shift #2 – Strength Train 02:03 Shift #3 – Improve Your Sleep 02:53 Shift #4 – Build Strong Social Connections 03:45 Shift #5 – Reduce Chronic Stress 04:25.Shift #6 – Keep Learning 04:45.Shift #7 – Plan Intentionally 06:28 Shift #8 – Become Financially Literate 07;21.Shift #9 – Know Yourself Again 08:40.Shift #10 – Feel the Fear and Do It Anyway 09:30.Final Thoughts Let's continue the conversation. Which of these 10 shifts are you committing to first? If this episode struck a chord, I'd love it if you left a review -  it helps other women find the show. 🌿 If this episode resonated with you, I'd also love to invite you to Now She Breathes — my free course designed for midlife women who feel overwhelmed, stuck or disconnected from themselves. Inside, you'll begin resetting your internal compass, creating space to think clearly, and taking your first intentional steps towards building your next chapter. 🎁 Join the free course here: https://now-she-builds.kit.com/17a96e3c69 ✨ Ready to go deeper and find clearer direction?  Now She Knows is a self-paced programme for midlife women who know something needs to change but aren't yet clear about what comes next. Through seven structured sessions and a practical workbook, you'll identify what's keeping you stuck, clarify what matters now, and define a practical next step. Find out more: https://nowshebuilds.com/products/now-she-knows-self-paced About Now She Builds Now She Builds helps midlife women stop surviving and start building lives, work and futures that reflect who they are today. Drawing on psychology, organisational behaviour and more than 20 years leading business transformation, I create practical frameworks that help women move from uncertai...

  10. Aug 3

    Stuck in Midlife? Here's Why Change Feels Impossible

    Send us Fan Mail Most of us already know when something in our lives needs to change. But knowing that change is needed and being able to move forward are two very different things. In this video, I explore five reasons women can feel stuck in midlife, even when they are capable, motivated and genuinely ready for something different. From survival mode making it difficult to think beyond the immediate future, to the identity conflict that can arise when the person you are becoming no longer fits the life you have built, these barriers are often deeper than a lack of confidence or willpower. Drawing on my experience as a business change consultant, as well as my own experience of midlife change, I explain why: 00:00 Intro 01:36 Survival mode makes long-term thinking difficult 03:16 Trying to change everything at once can leave you overwhelmed 04:53 Identity conflict can create resistance to change 06:24 Fear often appears as procrastination or avoidance 07:36 The difficult middle stage can make you question whether change is working Which of these five barriers do you recognise most in yourself right now? Let me know in the comments. If this episode struck a chord, I'd love it if you left a review -  it helps other women find the show. 🌿 If this episode resonated with you, I'd also love to invite you to Now She Breathes — my free course designed for midlife women who feel overwhelmed, stuck or disconnected from themselves. Inside, you'll begin resetting your internal compass, creating space to think clearly, and taking your first intentional steps towards building your next chapter. 🎁 Join the free course here: https://now-she-builds.kit.com/17a96e3c69 ✨ Ready to go deeper and find clearer direction?  Now She Knows is a self-paced programme for midlife women who know something needs to change but aren't yet clear about what comes next. Through seven structured sessions and a practical workbook, you'll identify what's keeping you stuck, clarify what matters now, and define a practical next step. Find out more: https://nowshebuilds.com/products/now-she-knows-self-paced About Now She Builds Now She Builds helps midlife women stop surviving and start building lives, work and futures that reflect who they are today. Drawing on psychology, organisational behaviour and more than 20 years leading business transformation, I create practical frameworks that help women move from uncertai...

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Now She Builds is hosted by Sharon Kelly. Sharon is a content creator, entrepreneur, coach, consultant, and mother. The goal of every podcast is to have honest conversations about starting over, building unapologetic income, or creating a future that feels aligned with who you are now. Each episode is packed with real stories, strategies, and mindset shifts to help you break through fear, rediscover your purpose and strengths to help you to build a legacy you’re proud of - one bold step at a time.