What's the difference between taking care of yourself and quietly sabotaging your health? When you live with chronic pain, limited energy, or an invisible illness, that line can get blurry fast. In this episode of Intent on Purpose, host Laura Hansen Breksa talks with Heather Perron, wellness coach, podcaster, author, and speaker. Heather is a congenital heart defect warrior, breast cancer survivor, and lives with fibromyalgia. She shares honest, practical insight on how to use your limited energy where it matters most. In this conversation: What a hidden (invisible) disability is, and why resilience matters when no one can see you strugglingWhy it takes so many people 5-7 years to get diagnosed, and why women are often not believedThe fine line between self-care and self-sabotageWhy gentle daily movement helps, even on painful daysUsing the spoon theory as an energy "budget"The 80/20 approach to eating, and small swaps that make it easierWhy "I deserve it" can become a trap, and what to say insteadHow to find community and support when you feel aloneHow loved ones can help (hint: skip the pep talk)Key takeaway: You are not alone, you are stronger than you feel, and there is always hope. Connect with Heather Perron: 🌐 walkingwithheather.com 📘 Facebook: Walking with Heather 📸 Instagram: Walking with Heather 🎧 Podcast: Living Beyond the Invisible, A Walk with Heather (Spotify, YouTube, Apple, Amazon, and more) About Intent on Purpose: You have a one-of-a-kind combination of time, energy, and talents. This podcast helps you invest them where they matter most to you, so you can avoid regret. 👍 Like, subscribe, and share this with someone who needs the reminder that they're not alone. #HiddenDisability #InvisibleIllness #ChronicIllness #Fibromyalgia #SpoonTheory #SelfCare #Resilience #IntentOnPurpose #WellnessCoach