Messy But Motivated

Melinda
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Messy But Motivated is where real life gets real talk. No sugar-coating, no filters—just honest conversations about the chaos, struggles, and lessons we all face. From everyday messes to deeper moments, I mix in humor and motivation, because life is way too messy to take too seriously. My motto? It’s okay to be messy as long as you stay motivated. If you’re looking for something relatable, raw, and a little funny—you’re in the right place. ✨ Real. Raw. Relatable. ✨

  1. 2d ago

    Ep 61 - You Believe in Jesus… But Are You Actually Following Him?

    Send us Fan Mail You Believe in Jesus… But Are You Actually Following Him? There is a BIG difference between believing Jesus existed and actually surrendering your life to Him. And this week, Mike and I are having a conversation that I think a lot of Christians need to hear. ❤️ Because here’s the thing… you can go to church every Sunday, own five Bibles, listen to Christian podcasts, and STILL not be living a life that follows Jesus. So what does it actually mean to deny yourself, pick up your cross daily, and follow Him? In this episode, we’re talking about: ✝️ Believing vs. following: Why acknowledging Jesus isn’t the same as surrendering your life to Him. 📖 Denying your flesh: What it really looks like to choose God’s will over your own desires, habits, and comforts. ❤️ Forgiveness and consequences: Looking at King David’s story and how our decisions can affect our children and families for generations. 🏡 Raising children who know Jesus: Why taking your kids to church isn’t enough if they’re not seeing you live out your faith at home. 💊 Faith, healing, and medication: Can you trust God and still take medication? We’re sharing our personal perspectives and wrestling with some difficult questions. 👽 Aliens, the unknown, and God’s creation: Yes, we went there! What should Christians do when the world is talking about things we don’t fully understand? 🌱 The fruit of the Spirit: If you went an entire week without mentioning Jesus, would people still know you’re a Christian by the way you live? We also get personal about our own transformation, the things we’ve had to surrender, and how God continues to work on both of us. Here’s what I want you to remember: Following Jesus isn’t about being perfect. It’s about being willing to let Him change you. We’re all a work in progress, and thankfully, God isn’t finished with us yet. Because life is messy, but we can still be motivated to live for Him. ❤️ 📖 JOIN OUR FREE MONDAY NIGHT BIBLE STUDIES! 🕡 6:30 PM Eastern — DEFEND YOUR FAITH Join Mike as we dive into Scripture and learn how to confidently explain and defend what we believe. 🕗 8:00 PM Eastern — REAL LIFE, REAL FAITH Join Melinda as we study God’s Word and navigate real-life struggles, including stress, anxiety, and depression. Find us LIVE on Facebook and TikTok, with YouTube live streams being added! ☕ WANT TO SUPPORT THE PODCAST? Your support helps us continue sharing the Gospel, growing our Bible study community, and building Motivated Ministries! You can support us through the Buy Me a Coffee link below. Every contribution is appreciated! 😉 buymeacoffee.com/Mrsmotivated2025 📺 WATCH US ON YOUTUBE! We’re working toward monetizing our YouTube channel to help support our ministry. Watching, subscribing, commenting, and sharing our episodes means so much to us! 📩 SPONSORSHIPS & COLLABORATIONS Interested in partnering with Messy But Motivated? Email: melinda@mrsmotivated.com 🙏 MOTIVATED MINISTRIES We’re preparing for our full ministry launch in January! Follow our Facebook page for Bible studies, encouragement, Scripture, and community. Thank you for being here. Remember, we’re all walking through this messy life together. Keep your eyes on Jesus, keep growing, and don’t give up. Love you guys! ❤️ — Melinda & Mike #MessyButMotivated #ChristianPodcast #FollowingJesus #ChristianLiving #FaithOverFear #ChristianParenting #BibleStudy #Discipleship #JesusChrist #MotivatedMinistries Thanks for being a listener, stay blessed friends.  Don’t forget to follow me on social media: TikTok @mrsmotivated2025 Facebook @mrsmotivated2025 Instagram @mrsmotivated2025

  2. Oct 5

    EP 60 - What If God Said, “Not Yet”?

    Send us Fan Mail EPISODE 60: What If God Said, “Not Yet”? 😳 What happens when an execution doesn’t go as planned? And could there be a bigger purpose behind someone surviving something they weren’t expected to survive? This week on Messy But Motivated,  Mike and I are talking about the woman who survived an execution attempt and it leads us into a conversation about God’s sovereignty, the death penalty, justice, mercy, and what WE actually think about execution. And somehow… it gets funny. 😂 But because this is Messy But Motivated, we obviously don’t stay on one subject. We also talk about Mike’s love for Facebook Marketplace because apparently this man cannot resist a deal. 😂 We get into spiritual warfare, why we believe it is very real, and how some of the conversations Shawn Ryan has been having are opening people’s eyes to the spiritual side of what’s happening around us. And then there’s me. I’m messy. Like… actually messy. 😂 I am completely Type B, I have accepted it, and at this point I’m not even pretending I’m going to become the perfectly organized woman with labeled containers in every cabinet. That’s kind of the whole point of this podcast anyway. Life is messy. Faith can get messy. Marriage is messy. Following Jesus doesn’t suddenly make you perfect. We’re just Messy But Motivated. Come hang out with us for faith, laughs, uncomfortable conversations, spiritual warfare, Facebook Marketplace finds, and whatever rabbit trail ❤️ Mike and I end up going down this week. ❤️ WANT TO SUPPORT MESSY BUT MOTIVATED? If this podcast makes you laugh, encourages your faith, or gives you something to think about, you can help support the podcast with a donation. Every little bit helps us continue doing what we’re doing. ☕ Support the podcast here: buymeacoffee.com/Mrsmotivated2025 📖 COME STUDY THE BIBLE WITH US — EVERY MONDAY! We have TWO live Bible studies every Monday on TikTok Live & Facebook Live, and everyone is welcome! 🛡️ 6:30 PM Eastern — DEFEND YOUR FAITH How do we know what we believe is true? How do we answer the hard questions? We’re learning how to understand what we believe, WHY we believe it, and how to defend our faith biblically. 🌿 8:00 PM Eastern — REAL LIFE, REAL FAITH We’re talking about stress, anxiety, and depression and what Scripture teaches us about walking through the things we face in real life. Bring your Bible, bring your questions, and come hang out with us. ❤️ 📚 THE BIBLES WE’RE READING Want to study along with us? These are two of our favorite Bibles right now: 📖 Charles F. Stanley Life Principles Bible This one is incredible for taking Scripture and understanding how we can actually APPLY it to our everyday lives. 📖https://link.amazon/B09huDUK2 ⚔️ The Evidence Bible If you want to get better at sharing and defending your faith, this is one we keep coming back to. It includes apologetics and evangelism resources that help you dig deeper into WHY you believe what you believe and how to talk about your faith with others. 👉 https://link.amazon/B00Vvjir1 Thank you for listening, supporting, praying for us, and being part of this community. ❤️ Stay messy. Stay motivated. And keep chasing Jesus. Thanks for being a listener, stay blessed friends.  Don’t forget to follow me on social media: TikTok @mrsmotivated2025 Facebook @mrsmotivated2025 Instagram @mrsmotivated2025

  3. Sep 28

    Ep 59 - Islamaphobia Is NOT a Thing

    Send us Fan Mail In this episode of Messy But Motivated, Mike and I have an important conversation about Islam, Christianity, and why Christians need to know what they believe and why they believe it. We talk about the importance of going back to Scripture, being willing to have difficult conversations, and learning how to stand firm in our faith while still loving the people around us. We also talk about the choices we’re making right now—in our homes, our families, our faith, and the way we’re raising the next generation. The future isn’t something we simply wait for. What we do today matters. This episode isn’t about hating or fearing people who believe differently than we do. It’s about taking our own faith seriously, knowing the Bible for ourselves, and being willing to live out what we say we believe. Grab your coffee and join us. It’s messy, it’s honest, and as always—we’re staying motivated. 🤍 ☕ Want to support Messy But Motivated? You can support the podcast through Buy Me a Coffee here: buymeacoffee.com/Mrsmotivated2025 Your support helps us continue creating faith-centered conversations and content. Thank you for listening, sharing, and being part of this community. Scripture. Truth. Faith. Family. Let’s keep showing up today for the tomorrow we’re praying for. Thanks for being a listener, stay blessed friends.  Don’t forget to follow me on social media: TikTok @mrsmotivated2025 Facebook @mrsmotivated2025 Instagram @mrsmotivated2025

  4. Sep 22

    Ep 58 - Life Is Hard... And the Bible Told Us It Would Be

    Send us Fan Mail Life is hard. Parenting is hard. Marriage is hard. And sometimes, just trying to keep up with everything God has called us to do feels like a lot. In this episode of Messy but Motivated, my husband joins me as we get real about the struggles we’re facing, the realities of parenting, and what it looks like to keep moving forward when life feels heavy. The Bible never promised us an easy life. In fact, it tells us that we WILL face trouble—but it also reminds us that we don’t have to walk through it alone. We also talk about my upcoming online Bible study, why I’m excited about diving into Scripture together, and how God can meet us right in the middle of our everyday mess. No perfect answers. No pretending. Just two people trying to follow Jesus, raise a family, love each other, and keep going. ☕ Support the Podcast / Buy Me a Coffee: buymeacoffee.com/Mrsmotivated2025 📖 The Evidence Bible I Referenced: https://a.co/d/0iIYw0Fn If this episode resonates with you, share it with someone who needs the reminder that struggling doesn't mean you're failing—and you don't have to have it all together to keep moving forward. Thanks for being a listener, stay blessed friends.  Don’t forget to follow me on social media: TikTok @mrsmotivated2025 Facebook @mrsmotivated2025 Instagram @mrsmotivated2025

  5. Sep 14

    Ep 57 - Discipling our Children, Mental Health Meds & Getting in the Word

    Send us Fan Mail This week on Messy, But Motivated, I’m joined by my sister, Londi! ❤️ We’re talking about the things that really matter — discipling our children, making time to get in God’s Word every single day, and what it looks like to actually live out our faith in the middle of busy, messy, everyday life. But because we’re sisters… there are plenty of laughs along the way. 😂 We believe following Jesus is serious, but that doesn’t mean we have to take ourselves too seriously. We’re having the real conversations about raising kids who know and love the Lord, building spiritual habits in our own lives, and remembering that we don’t have to have it all together to pursue God faithfully. If you’re a parent, a sister, a believer, or honestly just someone trying to figure out how to keep showing up for God in the middle of the mess — this episode is for you. Grab your coffee, press play, and come hang out with us. 🤍 Messy life. Real faith. Lots of laughs. Still motivated to become who God called us to be. Want to donate to the podcast?  buymeacoffee.com/Mrsmotivated2025 Follow Myles cancer journey: https://www.facebook.com/share/1CMFDoECZM/?mibextid=wwXIfr Donate to Myles family: https://gofund.me/eda6876a8 Thanks for being a listener, stay blessed friends.  Don’t forget to follow me on social media: TikTok @mrsmotivated2025 Facebook @mrsmotivated2025 Instagram @mrsmotivated2025

  6. Aug 31

    Ep 56 - Faith, Friendship & Building a Stronger Soul

    Send us Fan Mail This episode is extra special because I’m sitting down with my pastor, mentor, coach, and friend, Jason Miller, lead pastor at Zion in Clear Lake, Iowa. Jason and his wife have become a huge part of Mike and my journey since we found the Lord, and I’m so grateful for the friendship, guidance, and wisdom they’ve brought into our lives. We cover A LOT in this conversation — from Islam and what Christians need to understand, to faith, leadership, burnout, and why if you feel like you need to give something up because you’re overwhelmed, the church shouldn’t be the first thing you walk away from. We also talk about a new project we’re working on called “Soul Gym.” The idea is simple: just like we train our bodies, we need to intentionally train our souls. We’re creating practical, daily practices that you can work into your everyday life to help strengthen you spiritually, mentally, and personally — with the hope of building a healthier future generation along the way. And yes… there’s a funny story behind this episode. 😂 This is actually our SECOND recording. The first time around, Jason’s microphone wasn’t on. 🤦‍♀️😂 But honestly, that conversation had SO much good information that we’re going to release it as a bonus episode, so you’ll get even more from our conversation. This episode is full of faith, laughs, hard conversations, encouragement, and a whole lot of real life. I hope you’ll listen, share it with someone who needs it, and follow along as we continue building Soul Gym together. Find Jason: Instagram:  SoulGym.daily & Jd_miller07 TikTok: J.dmiller07 Facebook: Jason Miller  Email: jdmiller.coaching@gmail.com Podcast: Pocket Theology     Thanks for being a listener, stay blessed friends.  Don’t forget to follow me on social media: TikTok @mrsmotivated2025 Facebook @mrsmotivated2025 Instagram @mrsmotivated2025

  7. Aug 24

    Ep 55 - I Hid Behind Drugs & Alcohol

    Send us Fan Mail Today on Messy but Motivated, I’m sharing my testimony again. I know I’ve shared my story before, but I believe there are people who need to hear it again—and maybe there are people who need to hear it for the very first time. I was the girl who used drugs and alcohol to numb pain and cover up what was really going on inside. From the outside, nobody knew. I could hide it well. But God saw everything. And God didn’t leave me there. He broke chains I never thought I could escape, changed my life, and showed me what it really means to be free. My prayer is that sharing my story reminds you that your past does not disqualify you from being used by God. Your testimony could be the very thing God uses to reach someone else. If God has brought you through something, don’t be afraid to tell your story. Support the podcast here: buymeacoffee.com/Mrsmotivated2025 My favorite study Bible . My favorite 5 week prayer guide . My favorite Bible. Thanks for being a listener, stay blessed friends.  Don’t forget to follow me on social media: TikTok @mrsmotivated2025 Facebook @mrsmotivated2025 Instagram @mrsmotivated2025

  8. Aug 17

    Ep 54 - Wisdom Isn’t Just Knowing the Word—It’s Living It

    Send us Fan Mail What does it actually mean to have wisdom? Wisdom isn’t simply about reading the Bible, memorizing Scripture, or knowing what God’s Word says. True biblical wisdom happens when we meditate on the Word, learn to see life through God’s perspective, and actually live out what He has taught us. In this episode of Messy But Motivated, we’re talking about what it looks like to pursue wisdom in everyday life—how we think, how we respond, how we make decisions, and how we navigate the messy situations life throws at us. Because knowing Scripture is one thing. Allowing Scripture to transform the way you live is another. Let’s talk about how we can stop simply reading the Word and start living with the wisdom of God. If this message challenges you, maybe that’s exactly what it was supposed to do. ❤️‍🔥 Support the podcast here:  buymeacoffee.com/Mrsmotivated2025 Email me: Melinda@mrsmotivated.com Thanks for being a listener, stay blessed friends.  Don’t forget to follow me on social media: TikTok/facebook/instagram: @mrsmotivated2025 Thanks for being a listener, stay blessed friends.  Don’t forget to follow me on social media: TikTok @mrsmotivated2025 Facebook @mrsmotivated2025 Instagram @mrsmotivated2025

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Messy But Motivated is where real life gets real talk. No sugar-coating, no filters—just honest conversations about the chaos, struggles, and lessons we all face. From everyday messes to deeper moments, I mix in humor and motivation, because life is way too messy to take too seriously. My motto? It’s okay to be messy as long as you stay motivated. If you’re looking for something relatable, raw, and a little funny—you’re in the right place. ✨ Real. Raw. Relatable. ✨

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  • Creator
    Melinda
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    60
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © 2026 Messy But Motivated
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