Three is a Crowd Podcast

Emem and Fikayo
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Three Is a Crowd is your creative safe space in podcast form. We’re Emem & Fikayo, two best friends figuring out life as twenty-something creatives in Nigeria. From chasing ideas and getting stuck, to laughing at our own journey, to unpacking what it really feels like to build a life around your craft — nothing’s off-limits. Think of us as your creative besties, tracking the wins, losses, and delusions that make this journey what it is. New episodes every week, come chill, laugh, and maybe feel a little less alone.

  1. Cancel Culture vs. Growth: Do We Allow Creatives to Change? | Ep 17

    Apr 23

    Cancel Culture vs. Growth: Do We Allow Creatives to Change? | Ep 17

    Does the internet allow for growth? This week, we tackle the heavy weight of Cancel Culture. From Noah Schnapp’s recent headlines to Simi’s past tweets, we’re breaking down whether the public is punishing people for what they don’t know, rather than what they’ve done. We’re asking the ultimate question: When is a creator truly beyond redemption? Join the conversation.

    27 min
  2. Why Content Creation Might NOT Be For You - Ep 16

    Apr 2

    Why Content Creation Might NOT Be For You - Ep 16

    Is content creation really the "dream job" everyone says it is? In Episode 16, Emem and Fikayo sit down for a reality check on the creator economy. We’re breaking down the hard truths: the inconsistent income, the "waiting game" to go viral, and why it might not be the right fit for your personality or goals. If you're feeling the pressure to be a "creator" but hate the grind, this one is for you.

    22 min
  3. Good Service vs. Creative Exploitation: Where's the Line? - EP 15

    Mar 26

    Good Service vs. Creative Exploitation: Where's the Line? - EP 15

    Is your "extra mile" actually self-sabotage? In Episode 15, Fikayo and I kick things off with a quick vent about why April Fools' Day feels like it’s lost its spark in 2026. But once the air is cleared, we dive straight into a heated debate: Do creatives overdeliver because they genuinely care, or because they don’t believe their work is enough? From the pressure of Nigerian bargaining culture to the "freebie" trap that ruins your brand value, we’re breaking down why "just one more edit" may cost you more than just time.

    19 min
  4. Is Creative Licensing A Myth In Nigeria? - EP 14

    Mar 14

    Is Creative Licensing A Myth In Nigeria? - EP 14

    In this episode of Three Is A Crowd, Emem and Fikayo tackle a topic that every creative in Nigeria has experienced at some point, creative licensing and idea theft. But before getting into the serious conversation, the episode kicks off with some light banter about the chaotic reality of Lagos traffic. Emem shares her complicated relationship with it, how she absolutely hates being stuck in traffic but somehow also finds it weirdly comforting and part of the Lagos experience. From there, the conversation dives into a bigger issue in the Nigerian creative space: Is creative licensing even real in Nigeria, or is it just a myth?

    44 min
  5. Creative Block Is A Lie… We’re Just Scared To Post - EP 13

    Mar 5

    Creative Block Is A Lie… We’re Just Scared To Post - EP 13

    This week on Three Is A Crowd, Emem and Fikayo talk about something almost every creative experiences but rarely admits: the fear of posting your work. Is creative block actually real, or are we just afraid of criticism? From social media pile-ons to the way one bad comment can start a wave of negativity online, we unpack why so many creatives hesitate to share their ideas with the world. We also discuss internet culture, public “crash outs,” and why people react the way they do when the internet turns against them. Plus, we start the episode with our thoughts on the newest Bridgerton episodes. If you’ve ever delayed posting because you’re worried about what people will say, this conversation will feel very familiar.

    29 min
  6. Architecture, Modeling & The Power of Audacity – Sorire’s Story | EP 12

    Feb 26

    Architecture, Modeling & The Power of Audacity – Sorire’s Story | EP 12

    This episode is a big one for us — our first guest on the show. We sat down with Sorire to talk about her experience as an architect and a face model, and what those industries actually look like from the inside. We started with her 10KM race on February 14th, what pushed her to run it and what that experience taught her about discipline and mindset. Then we got into the viral video she posted about women on construction sites. The backlash. The conversations it sparked. And how that moment unexpectedly helped her build a community of women navigating male-dominated spaces. If you’re interested in architecture, modeling, content creation, or building confidence in unconventional spaces, this conversation is for you. Subscribe, share, and join the community.

    47 min
  7. Why Most Creatives are Broke (And How to Fix It) | Three is a Crowd Pod - Ep. 11

    Feb 19

    Why Most Creatives are Broke (And How to Fix It) | Three is a Crowd Pod - Ep. 11

    In this episode, we aren’t holding back. We’re diving deep into the uncomfortable truth: most creatives are underpaid not because they lack talent, but because they lack business structure. We kick things off with some life updates, discussing the buzz around Vekee James’ pregnancy and whether we would love a destination wedding or not. But then, we get down to business. If you’ve ever struggled to set your prices, felt guilty for charging your worth, or felt like your "creative spark" is being dampened by a messy workflow, this episode is for you.

    27 min
  8. Is Being Multi-Talented Overrated? Why Creatives Need to Niche Down | Three Is A Crowd Pod - Ep 10

    Feb 12

    Is Being Multi-Talented Overrated? Why Creatives Need to Niche Down | Three Is A Crowd Pod - Ep 10

    Is being multi-talented actually a flex… or is it overrated? In this episode of Three Is A Crowd, Emem and Fikayo start with pure chaos from our first Out Of Office experience to the prank Emem pulled on Fikayo (yes, we’re still recovering). But then we get serious. Today’s unpopular opinion: Being multi-talented is overrated. Stop spreading yourself thin. It might be time to specialize. Three Is A Crowd is a Nigerian podcast hosted by Emem and Fikayo where we unpack creative life, friendships, culture, and the uncomfortable truths nobody wants to say out loud. Subscribe for honest conversations on the creative industry, navigating growth, and building a brand in Nigeria.

    17 min
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Three Is a Crowd is your creative safe space in podcast form. We’re Emem & Fikayo, two best friends figuring out life as twenty-something creatives in Nigeria. From chasing ideas and getting stuck, to laughing at our own journey, to unpacking what it really feels like to build a life around your craft — nothing’s off-limits. Think of us as your creative besties, tracking the wins, losses, and delusions that make this journey what it is. New episodes every week, come chill, laugh, and maybe feel a little less alone.

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  • Creator
    Emem and Fikayo
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    20
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © Emem and Fikayo
  • Show Website
    Three is a Crowd Podcast