Relating with Jen Funk: Getting Honest About the Relationships that Matter Most

Jen Funk
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Welcome to Relating with Jen Funk! I’m Jen - a wife of 24 years, mom of three, and Certified Life & Relationship Coach who believes we need love AND skills to create better relationships. Each week we’ll get real about the ups and downs of marriage, family, and all the relationships that matter most. I’ll share simple strategies, tools, and encouragement to help you feel more connected, supported, and confident in building the relationships you truly want.

  1. 2d ago

    Ep 54 7 Marriage Myths I No Longer Believe After 25 Years

    After 25 years of marriage, there are a lot of things I believed about relationships that I absolutely don’t believe anymore. Like - if you’re with the right person, it shouldn’t be this hard. If you need counseling, something must be really wrong. Solid couples don’t question their relationship. And after you’ve been together long enough, people don’t really change. Yeah… no. I don't agree. In this episode, I’m sharing seven marriage myths I’ve learned to let go of through 25 years with my husband, KC - including some really happy years, some really hard ones, three kids, plenty of counseling, and a whole lot of learning along the way. We’ll talk about why hard doesn’t necessarily mean wrong, why recurring problems don’t automatically mean you’re incompatible, why willingness matters so much more than perfection, and why “this is just how we are” doesn’t have to be the end of the story. Whether your relationship is thriving, struggling, or somewhere in between, I hope this episode gives you a different way to look at the season you’re in - and a few practical things to think about moving forward. For more relationship support and free resources, visit jenfunkcoaching.com. Download Jen’s free guide, 5 Simple Habits to Improve Your Relationship Today, at https://www.jenfunkcoaching.com/5simplehabits Or sign up to receive Jen's weekly newsletter filled with relationship tips and tools at https://www.jenfunkcoaching.com/newsletter You can also check out Jen on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@jenfunkcoaching

  2. Sep 10

    Ep 53 Feeling Lonely in Your Relationship? 5 Signs of Emotional Neglect

    What if nothing is really wrong in your relationship… but something still feels missing? You’re not constantly fighting. There hasn’t been some huge betrayal. You may genuinely love each other and have a life that looks completely fine from the outside. But somewhere along the way, the connection has started to fade. In this episode, I’m sharing five signs of emotional neglect that can be incredibly easy to miss because they often look like normal life - fewer real conversations, less curiosity about each other, feeling disconnected even when you’re together, and slowly losing that sense of closeness. We’ll also talk about why this happens in good relationships and, most importantly, what you can actually do about it. I’ll give you three simple things to try this week to start rebuilding some of what may have gone missing - without blaming your partner or turning it into one giant relationship conversation. For more relationship support and free resources, visit jenfunkcoaching.com. Download Jen’s free guide, 5 Simple Habits to Improve Your Relationship Today, at https://www.jenfunkcoaching.com/5simplehabits Or sign up to receive Jen's weekly newsletter filled with relationship tips and tools at https://www.jenfunkcoaching.com/newsletter You can also check out Jen on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@jenfunkcoaching

  3. Sep 3

    Ep. 52 Why People Stop Being Honest With You

    We all like to believe the people closest to us can tell us anything. But what happens when they actually tell us something we don’t want to hear? In this episode, I’m talking about how our reactions can unintentionally teach our spouse, kids, friends, and other people we love what feels safe to bring to us - and what they’re better off keeping to themselves. We’ll talk about why people stop bringing up the “little things,” how defensiveness can shut down honesty, and why creating a safe space for the truth doesn’t mean there are no boundaries, consequences, or disagreements. I’ll also share a few simple ways to respond differently when someone tells you something difficult - including how to watch your first reaction, stop arguing someone out of their feelings, and separate honesty from approval. Because the question isn’t just, “Are the people in my life honest with me?” The better question may be: What happens when they are? For more relationship support and free resources, visit jenfunkcoaching.com. Download Jen’s free guide, 5 Simple Habits to Improve Your Relationship Today, at https://www.jenfunkcoaching.com/5simplehabits Or sign up to receive Jen's weekly newsletter filled with relationship tips and tools at https://www.jenfunkcoaching.com/newsletter You can also check out Jen on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@jenfunkcoaching

  4. Aug 27

    Ep. 51 When You're the Only One Trying in Your Relationship

    What do you do when it feels like you’re the only one trying to hold your relationship together? You’re the one initiating the conversations, suggesting date nights, bringing up counseling, trying to communicate differently - and your partner seems uninterested, checked out, or perfectly fine with the way things are. In this episode, we’re talking about the difference between doing your part and taking responsibility for the entire relationship. I’ll share what you actually can change, what you can’t, how to stop managing the relationship for both of you, and how to look for something that matters even more than perfection: willingness. Because yes, one person can absolutely change the dynamic of a relationship. But one person cannot create a partnership alone. In this episode: How “trying harder” can turn into carrying too muchHow to ask more clearly for what you needWhy changing your approach can sometimes improve the relationshipWhat it means when your partner still doesn’t engage3 practical things to try this week If you’ve been feeling exhausted, resentful, or alone in your marriage, this one is for you. For more relationship support and free resources, visit jenfunkcoaching.com. Download Jen’s free guide, 5 Simple Habits to Improve Your Relationship Today, at https://www.jenfunkcoaching.com/5simplehabits Or sign up to receive Jen's weekly newsletter filled with relationship tips and tools at https://www.jenfunkcoaching.com/newsletter You can also check out Jen on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@jenfunkcoaching

  5. Aug 20

    Ep. 50 Why Your Partner Can Still Feel Unloved - Even When You're Loving Them

    You can love your partner deeply, do a million things for them, and still have them say they don’t really feel loved. So what gives? In this episode, I’m talking about the difference between how we think we’re showing love and what actually makes our partner feel cared for. Sometimes it’s not about doing more - it’s about understanding what matters most to the person you’re with. I’ll walk you through three simple questions and action steps you can try this week: Ask: “When do you feel most loved by me?”Ask the opposite: “What do I do that I think is loving, but actually doesn’t feel that way to you?”Pick just one thing your partner tells you and do more of that.Because sometimes your partner doesn’t need more effort from you. They just need more of the things that make them feel loved. Listen in and see how well you really know what makes your partner feel closest to you For more relationship support and free resources, visit jenfunkcoaching.com. Download Jen’s free guide, 5 Simple Habits to Improve Your Relationship Today, at https://www.jenfunkcoaching.com/5simplehabits Or sign up to receive Jen's weekly newsletter filled with relationship tips and tools at https://www.jenfunkcoaching.com/newsletter You can also check out Jen on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@jenfunkcoaching

  6. Aug 13

    Ep. 49 Feeling Unappreciated in Your Marriage? Let's Change That Today

    Do you ever feel like you’re doing a hundred little things for your family and no one really notices? In this episode, we’re talking about what it actually means when you start feeling unappreciated in your relationship - and why sometimes what you’re really craving isn’t more help, but simply to feel seen. We’ll talk about why appreciation can fade over time, how silent scorekeeping can quietly turn into resentment, and what to do instead of waiting for your partner to magically figure out what you need. I’ll also share a very real example from my own marriage during the chaos of college move-in and bringing home a new puppy - because sometimes one tiny comment can hit very differently when you’re already carrying a lot. 😂 You’ll walk away with a few simple ways to: Get clear on what “feeling appreciated” actually looks like for youAsk for what you need without starting a fightStop resentment from building in the backgroundBring more appreciation back into your relationshipGive yourself credit for what you’re carrying, tooBecause most relationships don’t need some huge dramatic overhaul. Sometimes we just need to start noticing each other again. For more relationship support and free resources, visit jenfunkcoaching.com. Download Jen’s free guide, 5 Simple Habits to Improve Your Relationship Today, at https://www.jenfunkcoaching.com/5simplehabits Or sign up to receive Jen's weekly newsletter filled with relationship tips and tools at https://www.jenfunkcoaching.com/newsletter You can also check out Jen on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@jenfunkcoaching

  7. Aug 6

    Ep. 48 8 Rules for Fighting (Without Damaging Your Relationship)

    Conflict is part of every relationship - but the way you handle it can either move you toward resolution or create damage that lasts far beyond the original disagreement. In this episode, Jen shares eight practical rules for handling conflict more effectively with your partner, parents, in-laws, kids, or anyone else you care about. You’ll learn why you shouldn’t start - or stay in - a conversation when you’re too angry, how to keep one disagreement from turning into five, why alcohol and important conversations don’t mix, and what to do instead of yelling, saying cruel things, or threatening the relationship. Jen also shares a simple action step: creating your own conflict agreement so you can decide in advance how you want to treat each other when emotions are high. Because you cannot control how someone else fights - but you can decide who you are going to be in the fight. Download Jen’s free guide, 5 Simple Habits to Improve Your Relationship Today, at https://www.jenfunkcoaching.com/5simplehabits Or sign up to receive Jen's weekly newsletter filled with relationship tips and tools at https://www.jenfunkcoaching.com/newsletter You can also check out Jen on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@jenfunkcoaching

  8. Jul 30

    Ep. 47 How to Stop Missing the Moments That Matter Most

    In this episode, relationship coach Jen Funk shares a simple exercise to help you become more present with your spouse, your children, your family, and even yourself. You'll learn why stronger relationships aren't built through bigger vacations or elaborate plans - they're built in ordinary moments like family dinners, evening walks, coffee on the porch, and even a random Tuesday night. If you've been feeling busy, distracted, or like life is moving too fast, this conversation will help you slow down, reconnect with what matters most, and create memories you'll be grateful for later. • Why we miss the moments that matter most • How to become more present in your everyday life • A simple exercise to help you prioritize what matters most • Why small moments create stronger relationships • How to intentionally make time for your spouse, your family, and yourself If this episode encouraged you, please follow the podcast and share it with someone who needs this reminder today. Connect with Jen: 🎁 FREE DOWNLOAD 5 Simple Habits to Improve Your Relationship Today https://www.jenfunkcoaching.com/5simplehabits 🌐 Website: https://www.jenfunkcoaching.com/ 💌 Join my newsletter: https://www.jenfunkcoaching.com/newsletter 🎙 Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/3Qx7jzyfGsI?si=FEi5w_euDP6reiaE 📱 Follow me: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jenfunkcoaching/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/JenFunkCoachingFollow along for weekly conversations about marriage, relationships, communication, connection, and becoming the healthiest version of yourself.

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Welcome to Relating with Jen Funk! I’m Jen - a wife of 24 years, mom of three, and Certified Life & Relationship Coach who believes we need love AND skills to create better relationships. Each week we’ll get real about the ups and downs of marriage, family, and all the relationships that matter most. I’ll share simple strategies, tools, and encouragement to help you feel more connected, supported, and confident in building the relationships you truly want.

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