The Freewoman

Cat & Jayenna
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Creating community for women seeking to live an abuse-free life.

  1. Apr 8

    Financial Abuse & Narcissism

    Send us Fan Mail Financial abuse is a common tactic used by Narcissists. Limiting funds, preventing you from working, hiding money or nitpicking your spending are all ways that abusers use money to control you. Financial independence is empowering and therefore something the Narcissist fears you having. Narcissists  will seek to control you through money and they will also use money to make you feel worthless. Healing comes from realizing your worth is inherent. The Abuser and the size of your bank account do not define your worth. #abuseawareness #divorce #narcissisticabuse #emotionalabuse  https://www.thefreewomanpodcast.com/

    1 hr

  2. Apr 1

    Dissociation & Narcissistic Abuse

    Send us Fan Mail Dissociation is a protective and involuntary disconnection from reality. Victims of narcissistic abuse dissociate as a survival mechanism. It helps the mind survive what would otherwise break it. But like any other coping mechanism dissociation can become prohibitive. We must learn to face reality so that we can create true safety. In this episode Jayenna and Cat share their personal experiences with dissociation and the tools that have helped them heal and come into reality. As always, be patient with yourself. Healing is a journey, not a destination. #dissociation #emotionalabuse #divorce #freewoman #narcisist https://www.thefreewomanpodcast.com/

    52 min

  3. Mar 18

    Love is Blind ... NOT

    Send us Fan Mail Love is NOT blind. It goes in with eyes open, fully in reality. Going into a serious relationship blindly is a recipe for ABUSE. Taking the blind leap of faith might seem romantic from afar but up close leads to pain, trauma and drama when reality finally shows up. The show, "Love is Blind," is a great example of all of the things not to do when seeking love. SPOILER WARNING #freewoman #loveisblind #love #healingjourney #divorce https://www.thefreewomanpodcast.com/

    55 min

  4. Mar 11

    Narcissistic Family Dynamics

    Send us Fan Mail Growing up in a narcissistic family puts you at a disadvantage when entering the world. Low self worth, self sabatoge, poor boundaries and codependent patterns are a few of the many struggles survivors face. Cat and Jayenna share some of their stories in navigating and overcoming narcissistic family patterns. As well as the silver lining at the end of it all, watching the cycle end with your children. #freewoman #podcast #singlemom #divorce #traumahealing #narcissist #boundaries  https://www.thefreewomanpodcast.com/

    1h 9m

  5. Mar 4

    "Coparenting" with a Narcissist

    Send us Fan Mail Coparenting with a Narcissistic personality is a nightmare. Nothing is sacred to the Narcissist when it comes to exacting their revenge, including your children. Unfortunately, family court and even CPS are woefully inept at handling these high conflict situations and children, more often than not, end up being the collateral. Cat and Jayenna are both survivors of abuse and the high conflict custody battles that follow. They share tips that helped them get through it, parts of their stories and hope, because even in these awful situations there is hope for an abuse-free future. #divorce #narcissism #coparentingwithanarcissist #highconflictdivorce #familycourt https://www.thefreewomanpodcast.com/

    1h 6m

  6. Feb 25

    The Many Layers of Trauma

    Send us Fan Mail Trauma happens when we experience events that feel difficult to cope with or out of our control. It could be one incident, or an ongoing event that happens over a long period of time. When trauma occurs big emotions like rage, grief and hopelessness also occur. Addressing our trauma means facing and moving these big emotions. But because we live in a society that represses emotions, many people struggle to find the capacity or even the space to process their trauma. Cat and Jayenna share their journeys with trauma, moving the emotions and reclaiming their light. #traumahealing #emotionalhealing #freewoman #healingjourney #abusesurvivors  https://www.thefreewomanpodcast.com/

    1 hr

  7. Feb 18

    The Web of Abuse

    Send us Fan Mail As a society, cliches form our picture of abuse. Run-down trailers and alcoholic fathers are the face put on domestic violence. But the truth is far more complicated. Abuse is everywhere. It's in the well-kept suburban home, the upscale gated community, the quiet farmhouse. It's in our schools, our workplaces and our churches. Techniques of psychological manipulation like DARVO, gaslighting and coercive control make abusive patterns difficult to spot and even more difficult to escape. It takes a lot of courage to look honestly at ourselves, our patterns and the escapist stories we participate in. Abusive individuals are very skilled at targeting our vulnerabilities and playing upon our triggers. The only way to break free is to deep dive into those exact trigger points. Learning to love yourself, especially the traumatized pieces, is how you escape the web of abuse. Cat and Jayenna share parts of their personal stories of surviving abuse, how they escaped its web and the reward of living as a Freewoman. #narcissisticabuse #freewoman #dv #gaslighting #narcissist  #divorce #healingjourney  https://www.thefreewomanpodcast.com/

    57 min

  8. Feb 11

    Rituals are the Answer

    Send us Fan Mail Ritual is a powerful tool that indigenous societies were well acquainted with. A tool that has become obsolete in our modern world. Ritual allows us to connect with our tribe, our ancestors, ourselves and our purpose. Engaging in ritual makes us aware of the stories we are acting out. It brings in self awareness so we can be more intentional in building our lives. And it helps us see the connectedness of everything we do. We are not alone. We are part of an ecosystem, an ancestral line and a human family. Engaging with ritual does not have to be difficult. You do not have to spend any money or invest much time. It's simply creating awareness and meaning in your daily life. It's dancing in the kitchen, reciting a mantra or putting on a special piece of jewelry.  Because we live in a capitalistic society our rituals have lost their depth. We focus on acquiring "things" and displaying those "things" rather than the meaning, the sacred and the simple. We have lost our way and returning to ritual is like finding our northern star. #freewoman #sacredrituals #selfhealingcommunity #healing #podcast  https://www.thefreewomanpodcast.com/

    38 min
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Creating community for women seeking to live an abuse-free life.

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  • Creator
    Cat & Jayenna
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    27
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © 2026 The Freewoman
  • Show Website
    The Freewoman