Dr. Tom LaHue, Marriage Help

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This podcast draws from the writings, posts, and work of Dr. Tom LaHue to help your marriage. www.tomlahue.com Dr. Tom LaHue is a graduate of Florida Christian College, Liberty University and Grace Theological Seminary. He has served in local church ministry for over 30 years. He and his wife Traci have been happily married since 1991. They have 5 kids and 6 grandkids.

  1. 10/09/2025

    Strong Together: Marriage Through Life Shifts

    The provided text is an article excerpt titled "Strong Together: Marriage Through Life Shifts" written by relationship coach and pastor Dr. Tom LaHue, whose work focuses partly on the Enneagram. The central purpose of the article is to offer guidance on how couples can strengthen their marriage when external circumstances, such as new jobs, moving, or fading friendships, create pressure.  www.tomlahue.com

    16 min

  2. 09/22/2025

    Little Getaways, Big Marital Impact

    The article, penned by marriage and Enneagram coach Dr. Tom LaHue, promotes the concept of "little getaways" as a vital necessity for strengthening marital bonds. LaHue argues that short trips away from routine, whether for a night or a weekend, are essential for injecting new life and love into relationships often stuck on autopilot due to responsibilities like work and bills. He emphasizes that the anticipation of a trip alone creates happiness, and shared experiences build deeper connections than material possessions ever could.  www.tomlahue.com

    12 min

  3. 09/17/2025

    Five Steps to a Stronger Marriage

    This article, written by Dr. Tom LaHue, a marriage coach and Enneagram YouTube personality, offers five actionable steps to strengthen a marriage. The author emphasizes that a strong marriage requires intentionality and effort, not passive waiting. Key recommendations include shifting from competition to collaboration, prioritizing curiosity over criticism, and scheduling regular affection to maintain closeness.  www.tomlahue.com

    13 min

  4. 09/16/2025

    The Art of Marital Listening

    Dr. Tom LaHue, a relationship expert and Enneagram specialist, emphasizes that effective listening is a crucial skill for a successful marriage, even more so than charm or intelligence. It distinguishes between passive hearing and active listening, highlighting that the latter involves understanding a spouse's perspective rather than preparing a rebuttal. www.tomlahue.com

    11 min

  5. 09/15/2025

    Navigating Marriage Conflict with Positivity

    Dr. Tom LaHue, a marriage coach, emphasizes that conflict is an inevitable part of marriage that should neither be sought nor completely avoided. Instead, couples are encouraged to approach disagreements with calmness, clarity, and a positive mindset to foster deeper connection rather than division. www.tomlahue.com

    12 min

  6. 09/12/2025

    Becoming Your Spouse's Best Friend

    Dr. Tom LaHue, a life and marriage coach, focuses on the importance of cultivating friendship within a marriage. LaHue, married since 1991 with a large family, asserts that marriage should mirror the deep bond of a best friendship, a connection often overlooked by couples. He clarifies that being best friends doesn't eliminate disagreements but means enjoying each other's company, offering patience and grace, and prioritizing one another. www.tomlahue.com

    13 min

  7. 09/11/2025

    Loving Without a Mask

    Real love, the author emphasizes, necessitates the difficult but rewarding act of being fully seen and known by one's partner, even with imperfections. The article outlines practical steps for practicing vulnerability, such as honesty and admitting flaws, while also stressing the importance of maintaining healthy boundaries.

    5 min

  8. 09/10/2025

    Unmasking Love: The Path to True Intimacy

    Dr. Tom LaHue, explores the crucial role of vulnerability in achieving true intimacy within relationships, particularly marriage. LaHue argues that people commonly wear "masks" of busyness, humor, or perfectionism to protect themselves from potential rejection, but these defenses ultimately prevent genuine connection. Real love, the author emphasizes, necessitates the difficult but rewarding act of being fully seen and known by one's partner, even with imperfections. www.tomlahue.com

    13 min
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This podcast draws from the writings, posts, and work of Dr. Tom LaHue to help your marriage. www.tomlahue.com Dr. Tom LaHue is a graduate of Florida Christian College, Liberty University and Grace Theological Seminary. He has served in local church ministry for over 30 years. He and his wife Traci have been happily married since 1991. They have 5 kids and 6 grandkids.

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