What if telling someone to f**k off is sometimes the most spiritual thing you can do? There comes a point where compassion becomes self-abandonment. Where understanding someone’s wounds, conditioning, projections and fear no longer means you need to keep volunteering yourself as the place they get to put them. Sometimes, f**k off cuts through the noise. It cuts the cord. And it returns you to yourself. In this solo episode of The Rich Revolutionaries Podcast, Chenisse gets into the spirituality of telling someone to f**k off, an evolution of her previous teachings on Staying Power, the grief required to truly release what you have outgrown, and the wildly synchronistic new chapter unfolding as she prepares to leave for a regenerative permaculture farm. This is an episode about staying… but not staying in relationships, identities and dynamics that require you to abandon yourself. It’s about staying with YOU. In this episode, Chenisse explores: Why a grounded, direct “f**k off” can be one of the most spiritual things you can do when someone continually meets your expansion with criticism, judgment, shame, blame, anger, fear-based control or attempts to make you smaller. The integration of the “good girl” with the villain, and what becomes possible when compassion no longer means placating, overexplaining or abandoning your own truth. An important update to her Staying Power teachings: don’t stay if staying means leaving yourself. The relationship between standards, boundaries, communication, conflict, repair and intimacy, and the difference between someone being challenged by your power and someone consistently requiring you to diminish it. Why fear of your own power can keep you far too long in relationships, places and identities you have already outgrown. The necessity of grief and not intellectualizing loss, but allowing yourself to fully feel the heartbreak, rage and ending so the energy of grief can actually set you free. And the beginning of a completely new chapter: Chenisse’s decision to answer a five-year calling and spend time living and working on a regenerative permaculture farm. When you free fall with intention, cut the energetic cords and root your staying power back into yourself, an entirely new chapter gets the space to open. Chenisse also shares an invitation into Spotlight, her intimate membership for visionary women ready to move with rage, grief, fear and shame to become unfuckwithable, unshameable and rooted in your audacious, feral, primordial power. Claim your spot here https://sites.google.com/evolvingconsciousness.ca/evolvingconsciousness/spotlight If you want to begin exploring this work for free, download The Emotional Alchemist’s Guide to Evolving Consciousness. https://sites.google.com/evolvingconsciousness.ca/evolvingconsciousness/emotional-inventory Apply for 1:1 Rebirth Mentorship https://sites.google.com/evolvingconsciousness.ca/evolvingconsciousness/rebirth If this episode activated something in you, leave a comment or DM Chenisse. Connect with Chenisse on IG: https://www.instagram.com/evolvewithchenisse/ Also Mentioned in this episode: The Power of Us London - Sept 26 2026 an evening designed around voice, music, connection and human possibility. Get your ticket here: https://go.nataliefarrell.co/checkout-917901-3046?am_id=chenisse9932