Just Call Me Viv

Vivian B.
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Hi, I’m Viv, mom, storyteller, lawyer, therapist, sometimes blogger, and always a work-in-progress. Just Call Me Viv is where we get real about life, love, work, aging, and everything in between. This channel is for anyone navigating midlife, dating again, healing, rediscovering joy, or starting over (again). From perimenopause to confidence, heartbreak to reinvention, these are the conversations we don’t always get to have, but deeply need. Whether you’re folding laundry, sipping wine, or walking the dog, I hope this feels like sitting on my couch with a friend, no judgment, just truth, laughter, and reminders that you’re not stuck... you’re becoming

  1. Apr 15

    Boricua Women Who Built a Community FromScratch

    They turned cafecito and conversation into a sold-out community — and they're doing it for us. In this episode of Just Call Me Viv, I sit down with Elizabeth Colon and Marisel Melendez, the co-founders of Boricua Talks, a speaker series celebrating Puerto Rican women and their stories. We talk about building community in the diaspora, what it really takes to start something from nothing, and what it means to finally have a space where you belong — no apologies, no explanations. If you've ever felt like you're not Puerto Rican enough, not Latina enough, or just not enough, this one is for you. Topics we cover: - How Boricua Talks started over coffee and grew into a sold-out movement - Building real friendship as an adult woman - What the diaspora is missing and how these two women are filling the gap - Entrepreneurship, grit, and getting out of your own way - Raising daughters who are proud of their culture Why community is the cheat code nobody talks about

    49 min

  2. Mar 25

    Collaboration over Competition

    Vivian shares her encounter with a supportive and collaborative woman, Andy Lyons, who embodies the spirit of making space for others. She reflects on the importance of recognizing those who support and uplift, and encourages listeners to embrace collaboration over competition. Takeaways Collaboration over competitionRecognizing those who support and make space for you

    8 min

  3. Mar 16

    The Quiet Power of Feeling like an Outsider

    The conversation explores the experience of feeling like an outsider in social settings and the value of depth in connections. It delves into the concept of being an 'otrovert' and the process of outgrowing spaces and relationships as part of personal growth and reinvention. Takeaways The value of depth in connections over social breadthThe process of outgrowing spaces and relationships as part of personal growth and reinvention Chapters 00:00 The Prom Dance Floor06:14 The Otrovert Concept

    11 min

  4. Mar 2

    How to Reinvent Yoursel as a Mom + Entrepreneur

    The conversation with Lizbeth Perdomo covers her journey from Berklee to building a community, navigating challenges, and building resilience. It explores the lessons learned from running a studio, balancing business and parenting, recognizing the need for change, and the birth of Que Mami through manifestation and belief in self. The discussion also highlights the process of starting Que Mami and the pivotal moments that led to its creation. The conversation covers the themes of supporting local businesses, building trust and authenticity, purpose-driven business, inner work and alignment, and spiritual growth and courage. It emphasizes the power of community and the importance of being authentic in business endeavors. Takeaways Grit and tenacityBuilding community Supporting local businessesThe power of community and authenticity Chapters 00:00 Starting Que Mami and Pivoting32:12 Building Trust and Authenticity38:01 Purpose-Driven Business43:15 Spiritual Growth and Courage

    42 min

  5. Feb 25

    If You're Still Scared

    Vivian addresses the fear of taking the next step and emphasizes the importance of embracing fear as part of the change process. She encourages consistency, honesty, and compassion as key elements in navigating change and starting something new. Takeaways Embrace fear as part of the change processConsistency, honesty, and compassion are essential for navigating change

    3 min

  6. Feb 23

    It's not too late to reinvent yourself

    The conversation delves into the themes of reinventing identity, navigating responsibility and rebellion, and pursuing passion and entrepreneurship. It explores the experiences of two women who were once 'cool nerdy girls' and how they have evolved over time. The influence of upbringing, the impact of responsibility, and the pursuit of passion are central to their stories. The conversation covers the journey of Francesca, an artist, and her vision for the Tropical Home Fine Art Gallery. It delves into the themes of resilience, embracing change, empowerment, and recognition through art. Francesca's evolution, transition, and the permission to evolve and inspire are also highlighted. Takeaways Reinventing identityNavigating responsibility and rebellionPursuing passion and entrepreneurship Resilience through ArtEmbracing Change Chapters 00:00 Choosing Oneself and Pursuing Passion29:57 Art as Activism and Social Justice35:02 Art as Reflection and Recognition42:16 Living a Fulfilling Life

    46 min

  7. Feb 22

    If You've Lost Your Motivation

    The episode discusses the unreliability of motivation and the importance of structure and consistency. It emphasizes the role of identity-based habits, normalizing the dip in long-term effort, and reconnecting to the reason for starting as key strategies for maintaining motivation. Takeaways Motivation is unreliable and spikes with noveltyAnchor effort to identity, not emotion

    2 min

  8. Feb 18

    Why Progress Feels Slow

    The episode discusses the normalcy of slow progress and the importance of consistency. It explores the competence curve, zone of proximal development, process-based thinking, and earning ease through repetition. Takeaways Slow progress is normalConsistency is key

    4 min
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Hi, I’m Viv, mom, storyteller, lawyer, therapist, sometimes blogger, and always a work-in-progress. Just Call Me Viv is where we get real about life, love, work, aging, and everything in between. This channel is for anyone navigating midlife, dating again, healing, rediscovering joy, or starting over (again). From perimenopause to confidence, heartbreak to reinvention, these are the conversations we don’t always get to have, but deeply need. Whether you’re folding laundry, sipping wine, or walking the dog, I hope this feels like sitting on my couch with a friend, no judgment, just truth, laughter, and reminders that you’re not stuck... you’re becoming

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  • Creator
    Vivian B.
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    41
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © 2025 Vivian B.